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Abeg make una free this op, her husband or friend's husband needs help, why not post yr suggestions and let her transmit to her husband or friend. Nairalanders should realise that threads on this site dont only speak to the op but there is someone else the thread would help that year or 50 years to come. Serubawon's thread of adjusting to life as a widower was started before I got married and I discovered it after the nairaland tsunami. This thread has helped me put in perspective issues in my marriage by making me focus on the positives and letting the negatives go as life is short. Everyday I ask myself, if today was your last day on earth, what would you do differently? Then I try to accomplish some of them.

nnekaogo, can yr friend get two single beds and place them beside each other in the room? They each have one to themselves and still do the needful when they want to. So when he wets the bed, it is only his bed that would get socked, also use the mackintosh suggested on his. Depending on the size of the room, you can either get two student foams or two 6ft by 4ft foams. If they arent so financially bouyant, they can try out govt hosipals first, its cheaper but u might spend the whole day at any visit. They should ensure that they are seeking solutions now and not waiting for that big break to travel abroad for treatment. And tell yr friend if this is the ONLY issue she has in her marriage, she should go and do thanksgiving and come to nairaland to hear the hell some are passing thru.

The side comments are sometimes annoying, silly or funny. Zizman, I love this your write up, you just captured what we ignore.

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Has anyone used this phone? How long can I browse with it on only nairaland website? Also, what is its durability in terms of falling to the floor several times? Will it survive being socked in a bucket of water by leaving it out to dry? Sorry for all these edede(old woman) questions, I cant afford anything more expensive now and also have to take my kids into consideration. Thanks.

Waiting to hear that a handful is now more expensive than a bag of rice.

makazona: haba.do you pay per month or per term?

They collect on the first week of the month, but I can ask for refund or they owe me.

SMALLPENIS: am sure this one is one 15 year old virgin.please we dont need your type on NLand before you spoil and start blaming Nland.
It would be better for you to go and sit down in your mother's shop and do 2go with your friends.Thank you.

hahahaha, pls do u have mystical powers, how do u know I have a shop and a 15 yr old son who is on 2go? That means he is still a virgin. Thank God. Sorry, i dont do e-hate but I just want you to do something for me, just smile. Thanks.

See connection, one politician must open his sch by sept to collect millions ohh, GEJ being undecisive till 2099.
Chai, and I don go pay for sept daycare fees ohh, which kain tin be dis.

Oga, you need to go for spanking training.

Abeg make una leave pastor chris and anita for me ohh, even if I no dey go their church that guy teaching na authentic, the way e live him life na btw him and him God.

She shd taste the food first, becos if I say we shd eat together, she might have made up her mind that we are both dieing together for love. I rather kill myself than commit suicide, rather comes to mind.

He shd try to be friends with him and in his sober time, talk to him how this attitude affects him and his mum. Ask someone he respects to talk to him too, sometimes, that dirty linen just has to be washed in public. Most importantly, he shd always console his mum when she needs it and try to make her happy in his own little way, she might just still be in the marriage just becos of him and his siblings.

This man has a conscience now, he could still have married her and made away with the money but becos of his love for his family he took this course. When I reach heaven, I will personally tell God to let me deal with the spirit of poverty on judgement day, the guy too wicked.

Her prayers have already been answered in you.

Next thread, what to do when you catch your husband cheating.

Some questions on this nl are really suspicious, nlanders, answer at your own peril ohh.

MizMyColi:

Xcapist: correct!!

Indirect applicant

Backyard farm work

Domwiz4all: I'll patiently wait for dem to call it off Cux I know no strike last for ever. Lol

Guy, that was not a trick question, answer it. Anyway, for yr persistence I will talk to yr mom, sis, aunt, gf/wife not to join d strike.

gistmelove: ok i will lock it... Infact am planing to ban the guy sef.. Becos e don disvirgin ur ears

gistmelove, a whole you be mod? S,e,u,n no go fit pay you oh, but if you insist oya attach you nl employment letter.

MADAM DO YOU WANT TO DIE THERE? ALL THESE HEALTH ISSUES WITHOUT PREVIOUS SYMTHOMS BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED AND YOU ARE STILL STICKING AROUND. FYI, YOUR HOME IS ALREADY BROKEN, YOU ARE NOW LIVING WITH A TOTAL STRANGER. PLEASE PACK YOUR LOAD AND GO TO YOUR PARENTS BECAUSE I DO NOT WANT TO READ ANY OBITUARY HERE. *pls note that the capital letters mean I am shouting at the top of my voice at you* walahi, if you were my sister, I will personally come and evacuate you from that home, scratch that, house. And those of you saying one sided this one sided that, would you beat up yr dog and kick it around the house till it couldnt breathe, abeg make una still dey try sometimes.

Domwiz4all: Hahahaha you people should go on strike na, wen you call it off we d men will also embark on our strike too and let see who will have d last laugh. Lolzz

Guy, I laugh u in pidgin. Call off which strike, pls this is not doctors and fg issue ohh. Okay, if they refuse to call it off, who would u employ to take over? Better reason am well.

Mods abeg lock this thread when this guy marries, it can be opened for him to answer his question himself. Op, by the way, attach yr birth certificate to the opening post.

Kanwulia: What is wrong with the comments?
I find them VERY REASONABLE!
The problem with JOBLESS posters!
Instead of making their own comments, they spend time reading and analyzing those of others!

In all honesty . . . . How many BINI men do you know that work LEGITIMATELY?

If no be armed-robber na P.I.M.P. ke!

Generally-Speaking. . . . . THIS IS A FACT!

See? I talk am.

Which kain thing be all this one er? Man go just com life dey experience so so one problem after the other, yesterday na man with upside down head, today complete man eaten to half by bug, tmrr ebola, abeg papa God have mercy on yr children ohh.

Start to value your achievements and life more even when it doesnt measure up to that of others.

Unionised: As soon as you RENT your own apartment...

U are too much.
Op, when they stop being teenagers and can feed, house and cloth themselves.

Kai, nairalanders mouth even sharp pass these ones. I dey even suspect say na kanwulia make that BINI MAN comment.

If you play from morning till night, manna will not fall from heaven and the chores wouldnt do themselves.

Women don suffer sha, see qwestion. Op, you yrself what makes you happier, u people shd stop making everything about women jor, its getting too much, if only all women and girls can go on strike, make we see whether una go survive for one week and mind u I aint talking about no sex. Even u men prefer money to attention, make una still dey talk true sometimes.

Op, pele, I know say e dey pain but take heart ehe, your future wife dey future, no too tink am becos of yr BP, dooh, sorry, pls forgive am make u move on with yr life.

By the way, why are all the guys shouting that she has an option B she would dump herself on? YOU ALL ARE ONE GIRL'S OPTION B. Make una no dey deceive una self.

1. You and your wife be like brother and sister.
2. Why you allow them carry gun near you, you no dey fear stray bullet?
3. Hope say you dey south oh, I no wan hear say na from north you post these pics?
4. I jealous your wife smooth fine face sha.