₦airaland Forum

Sure...shove all the thrashy threads to FP.Mast*rbating congolese ministers are VERY important to Nigerians...

Blossom023:
They say these people are born naturally with it just like a child is born with a disorder that deviates from the norm.. Don't they try to fix it? Do you just leave it like that? Y'all just possessed with some kind of demon. Cos you know that shit ain't right.

Dear,Your comment contrasts sharply with your siggy.

eyah. Poor girl. A parent sharing their' child's spouse is heartbreaking. But then again, i just cant't wipe this chesire cat grin off of my face...

naijareferee:
my experience...
the pressure to be gay comes as a force...
When i was younger... I was a game freak...always indoors(like u) jamming on my controls... There was this day i had my friend over to play with...a guy... While on it...i felt an urge surge through me to hold the guys diick and handle but i restrained myself.... That was my saving grace....
For those video game freaks can relate with what am typing...when u play games....u feel aroused magically...and can davour anything that has hole...

So... From your description of yourself...probably when u started u must have felt or still feel this surge of emotions... Probably as a result of one activity u do indoors or another...
Try going out more and mix up without bias...

This convo is cos u sound intelligent and secured...
Some gay indulge in theirs cos of hunger(thats when u here them say am bisexual this or that) but your background looks just ok...

Your choice is personal...i have no right to object... But will want u to still give the other part of life a benefit of doubt.... Get used to a somebody and see if some feelings will come up.

And yes am a guy and married....

LOL. I am a also game freak and sure gaming activates some sort of "god mode" and adrenaline rush, but i certainly do not feel like...devouring anything with holes! .Staying indoors /indoor activities did not make me gay or antisocial either.Afterall, no man is an island. I mix up as much as i can. I've got friends...and foes.It's just that a lot of social activity and drama drains me and i need to be left alone to "recharge".
Well, ur "experience" was normal as far as i'm concerned.It is a natural thing for a person to be curious about the workings of a p*nis. Really. As u said, u suddenly felt like handling ur friends junk.That does'nt automatically make u gay. You just wanted to see how another guy's D worked. Yes? But with d way things are ur friend could have screamed : HOMO! And subjected u to a beating or worse. So thank God u controlled ur curiousity.
Btw.It's been awesome talking to u.Hardly met any married guys up here. U got kids?

calliope:
Lmao.... One had to be toughen up to face those ruthless vague bastards, like the fool above me
*Takes Dat as compliment*

IT IS a compliment! You've not always had the (f) tag, So here's a (insert favourite drink) to your e-coming out.Cheers!
You have no idea how differently i see ur moniker now.

naijareferee:
cant judge your sexual preference cos av not walked ur path to feel waht u feit. But what i ask is would have being if your parents were gay.
From your dairy...u always describe others but never your self... Is your sexuality based on complex issue or just plain desire.

I have had a personal experience... But i escaped...

I never describe myself? Really? Hmm...Force of habit i guess. There's usually nothing intresting about me. I'm just a random quiet,geeky,indoorsy HUMAN girl that happens to fall in love with girls which apparently, other humans find overly intresting.Weird.
Oh,My sexuality is not based on any complexities and i'm not hormonally imbalanced.Also there's more than just desire,lust or sex in gay relationships too okay. Oh on my parents. Well they are not gay and i exist right now.So why dwell on non existent possibilities?
HaHa. Personnal experience? Pls do tell . Ur a guy, yes?

calliope:
Like duh? I am...... *sprinkles water on her*

Seriously speaking. I am in shock! I always thought you were a freaking dude! It NEVER even crossed my mind for a second that u were a true-to-goodness rebel chick ! You got cajones bigger than my fist! :p

OMG! Calliope You're female!!! *faints*

naijareferee:
just went through your dairy... You have done well for yourself....... But you love children...how can that be...
Pls dont get this wrong...i respect your choice... But i just sometimes want to imagine being in the mind of a gay....how does it feel to be one

Er...You make it sound as if being gay is equivalent to being a psychopath.There is no specific feeling/emotion that is particular to gay persons alone. I am just like ANYOTHER person.My sexuality does not define the WHOLE of me. BTW.How would being gay ever prevent me from loving kids?

ButteredBiscuit:
[color=#8ab2e2]Nah,what's it about [/color]

Clones! .

ButteredBiscuit:
[color=#8ab2e2]no
Not "someone like you" that necessitates quotations
(We're all the same)
.....someone who walks through life like you
Shares yer experience.
Someone who gets exactly how it is.
BUT I'm not sayin' you can't commune with other folks just thought ya'll might be good support.
But I think I overstepped
....apologies.
No clones!!
...there only 1 me
But some minds can be educated. [/color]

Oh no no no. You did not overstep any boundries.All ur suggestions/opinion are welcome. "We are all the same". Awesome!. It's nice that you see me as anyother person and not as "that-online- LESBIAN- girl- that- probably- want's-to -flirt-with-me" type of person. Thank you. On a totally unrelated topic(not really) , Have you seen Orphan Black?8-)

ButteredBiscuit:
[color=#8ab2e3]Haha!
.....I knew this was comin'.

I know that society disapproves of ya'll an it's members can be hateful.
.....I thought it might be good to have someone to share experiences with
Someone who's living it to
Someone who knows exactly what yer going through.
The woman boldly declared herself an didn't shy away, she does that alot
I seen you do that when spoke out
Ya'll should talk,I think.[/color]

Aw. Tha's nice. It's nice that you think i need support from "someone like me".But It's cool. You know, If i could , I would clone you and replace homophobes with your replicates .

ButteredBiscuit:
[color=#8ab2e2]No.
I seriously mean friendship.
I think ya'll could be good listing ear fer each other an support.
I think ya'll could be cool
once Greene stops wavin' that dang #team foreign flag
.....Put it doooown Greene[/color]

You sound like Madea now... Okay. SO! Why do you think Greene and i could get along? Have you had any sensible conversation with her? Are YOU friends with her? Is she someone YOU get along with? Or...wait She's gay and i'am gay=We should totally be friends?

oh wow! A gay thread!...Let the hating games BEGIN! YAY!

ButteredBiscuit:
[color=#8ab2e2]°• I'm tryin' ta facilitate a meeting /possible friendship.
I think Greene66 would like yer supergirl fiction.
So just smile an be nice [/color]

Wow Cheezy! Look at you being all "matchma-key"! So cute!. Well i got tired of the fic and took a hiatus....Sort of. Anyways,Did i not spot a #teamforeigngirls# tag on a previous post of her's Cos, Me not foreign 8-) .

ButteredBiscuit:
[color=#8ab2e2]°A small while. ....Have you meet Audray ...You an her may get on[/color]

um...What's happening here?

garfield16:
Only Ibo people will use police to settle personal/family matters. Obviously a family is unhappy their daughter is a bisexual, the other day the got the police at dolphin to arrest their ADULT child for getting married without their permission


Fu**ing backward villagers!!

Really? You had to go tribal?. Now THAT'S rather backward.

chriskosherbal:
hello lady, I read you stuff, you are going feminist, there is no gain say about it, it is the females that enjoy sex more, more and more than males, sex is mainly an emotional thing, and women are classified emotional beings, can you beat that partnership(emotions + emotions), men are logical being, even during sex we are still thinking how to pay bills and other major necessities.
The basic truth is that, to a man, sex is just another round of exercise, men don't attach too much importance to sex as women does, that is why they always say "he used me and dump me", Because of the attachment she attached to it, but a man feels less or may not feel used at all, to him it is one of those things.

My dear I have studied the male joystick and everything that follows it as well as the female vagina, as well as the female anatomy. Take it or leave it.

Hello gentleman.I read your stuff. You're going chauvinist.There isn't any arguement about it. It's guys that mostly enjoy sex more.Sex is'nt always emotional.Most times it's more about the pleasure gained than the bond it creates between the two people involved. How can you say women are emotional, Men are logical. What are you now? A robot?. Women also have a lot on minds too that are equally serious. Even during sex. We are not dumb bimbos you know. Is'nt it strange that you think that men don't attach any importance to sex,that it is "just another round of exercise"like you are some aliens only trying to interbreed with human women and nothing more. Men have feelings too,you hear.Considerate men would be patient enough to stimulate their partner to orgasm. Some even go as far to draw out their ejac as long as possible until their partners also reach climax,then they realease... .My point is... Men are emotional beings too. Just read any paperback romance novel.Preferably anything by Harlequinn (ahem) .

Of course... All "legit" threeesomes,fictitious or not MUST involve a guy... Lubbish!

Lord...How did i even get here?

pinceprinz:
Haba!
ppl don't joke with ya? I'm that type of person that gets convenient around ppl easily. Since yo maybe not, maybe bye!

Ok o. I knew it was a joke. This was a misunderstanding. Bye!

pinceprinz:
You 'hipocright' !

eh. abeg why the name calling?

pinceprinz:
lool. I know u kwim. You must really enjoy teasing Aud!

who knows...

iamdurent:
Lalasti,clala banned me oh

chai .too bad. Missed seeing you around here. welcome back! hope u had an awesome Bday .

Marlvin:
how about 'straight like a dīldo '

ok then. your name is Marlvin and you're as straight as a Dilldo...awesome.

iamdurent:
kid? Really? Suck my pink butthole.
#Amout.
Kingcheezypuff see ya around

whoa...! hey guy...where you been?

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#8A2BE2]°•°Yes Daddy [/color]

LOL

pinceprinz:
Babe, If you had really read me to understand me, you'd have seen I wasn't trying a be judgemental . I was curious and decided to go on a fact finding spree to see things for myself, so feck google!

And FYI, I know of folks, girl friends actually who have because of being thoroughly dealt with emotionally by men resolved to block every avenue that could connect em emotionally. They be like id rather go lesbo than fukc any dog guy. That tells you there are some people who have actually decided to go gay not minding whatever stigma, and where I come from, nobody is gonna kill ya cos u gay. So let that slide too.

Oh yeah, I agree her sexuality pose no harm to me but I had ta be absolutely sure she ain't what she is cos of some unfavorable circumstance. And I don't mind taking talanol for her migraine so far its gon make her feel better. I'm humane like that . And of course, I can see she don't deserve the dikc now

Audray, I'm sorry for sounding insulting the other time, wasn't intentional. You wouldn't have found it to be insulting if this were some real life conversation. I'm sure af that and good luck too, hoping you find a mate that's gonna be there for ya through thick n thin when u finally decide to settle down

soooo....this is not a "real life convo"then? have i been wasting my time speaking with you this whole time?

pinceprinz:
So, whats yo preference, okay let me guess... IVF?

naw. Long process. Artsem seems pliable.

This "straight as an arrow" thing is getting boring. So here's a fun list of things that hetero's can compare themselves to that are not arrows.: 8-)
Rulers
poles
pencils
javelin
spear
long sword
index,middle finger
scaffolds
Bayonnet
Rebar
ladder rungs
Bo staff
matchsticks
Water pipes
Rods
Sky scrapers
Guillotine
Zeus
Ghengis khan
2face...
8-)

Op. Did you open the thread just to insult everyone that comments?