₦airaland Forum

Wick3:
This is completely false. In these days of internet and social media people tend to relate better online than in person, this is why everyone is claiming "introvert". Plus we are in an era where someone will prefer to text you that she's at your gate instead of just calling. It's like saying due to the pandemic then and the whole lock down that most people are now introverts.

Most people here are just extroverts with smart phones, people with social anxiety disorder... You know, people who can't talk to you in reality but are bold to express themselves here just cos they can hide behind a keyboard. Bro, that's not introversion .

Chatting on the Internet and social media doesn't make you extrovert, it doesn't take away your introversion. You're still who you are in real life, an introvert.
Social media is just like an escape route. Being extrovert means ability to communicate with people around you. Infact, Internet and social media have made things worse for introverts

fortune1968:
wey capital?
It isn't that I don't have ideas but lack of capital and compulsory spendings are the problems . Thanks .

Trust you mentioned, I care more than you realise. Stop asking such question: wey capital?
You're eating everyday and doing compulsory spending too. Stop looking at the obstacles and start looking at the possibilities.
I'm not a motivational speaker but my condition was similar to yours few years ago.
Strife to get terminal first. For about kiosk or shop. Look for small money by all means.

specialmati:
PDP=APC.PDP planing to finish the building APC increase the cement price.they left it and run away

Lol.

Favfables1:
Lastly...
Never expect that guy to choose you over his family ...you're just his girlfriend or fiancee and thus you're easily replaceable, but his family are not so... Like them elders go talk, "blood thick pass water"

Is this issue so serious that the bf need to choose between his fiancee and his family? Are they fighting or quarrelling? If she doesn't relate with them like they wanted, why couldn't they themselves relate to her like they wanted? If she doesn't relate with them like they wanted, then does that mean that her bf need to choose?

SolomonGrundy:
Damn! That's not a cool utterance from his sister at all. You don't have to be close to his family. My younger sister is getting married next month and I've only spoken to the man just once through the phone. We've never met in person. Moreover, everyone is very busy these days.

Please don't change who you're for anyone or anything.

Like super 'busy". Lol. But the truth is that everyone is struggling with their lives and no time to be looking for attention from some families or in laws.

Chrisx1x:
You can only try and improve on your personality but you can't change who you really are. I know this because I am also an introvert. Its not easily flowing with people you aren't that familiar with.

He should try and understand you, try and talk to him, let him see you for who you are. If he can't defend you now before his family members, I don't know when he is going to do that. And right now, it seems he decided to chose family over you.

Davash222:
You expected him to choose a GIRLFRIEND over his family?
[s] Girlfriend he might be sharing with Dem Boys [/s]

The truth is that he didn't have to choose, he should respect his wife for who she is. I can only see problem if the siblings come around and she doesn't want to see them near her home or husband. Are they going to be living with the siblings after marriage? No be to dey visit one another once in a while?
If the kidman is not interested in the relationship anymore, he should man up enough to say it.

BTW: most of the people on this forum are introverts, like 98% of us. That's why we are here most of the time because this is where we do our own talking.
Copy: Havilaah1

Ryda:
You can't just wake up and ordered a hit on someone, especially a loved one. The report is incomplete!
We need to know the other side of the story

You can do better by finishing it with what you think is the other side of the story. Mtcheeew

Lexv:
They both received 30k each for 24 months two years, which amounts to 720k. Many of them at the end of that two years cannot boast of having saved 100k. Give them one million naira as exit package and nothing go still come out.

molas02:
A and b dey mad, if they expect anything from government....if they can't live on what they have earned ...they can't also leave on anything call exit package. Bunch of làzy youth

You guys should have known that someone who received a lumpsum of 300k will fare better than someone who received 30k per month for 4 years. If you guys had economic sense 101, you should have known that already. 1k per day for 2 years is like receiving a living allowance but 250k at once is like an empowerment

Iseoluwani:
But wait ooo

Are the batches actually expecting govt help.

E mean say them no get sense

Lazy yoot

Not minding your insult and abuse, you did have a point that they shouldn't expect the promise. The smart ones among batch A and B are already receiving their exit package through batch C. Lol.

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ab1x:
It is not an enough reason to beat her up. You just succeeded in ruining your life and career that is if you have one in the first place.

If you are referring to a court case over the physical assault on the lecturer, you have a point because he may be sentenced. But if you're talking about the possible expulsion, then you have no point at all because education is like a waste of time in Nigeria of today. One can have education just for the sake of having it but definitely not to get job or make a comfortable living.

SpecialAdviser:
All these Igbo business men investing their wealth outside Igbo land should start being reasonable for goodness sake.

Don't allow your sweat for unnecessary target shooting.

So much neglect on home investement

No right thinking igbo man would think of investing in South east right now.

specialmati:
APC have finished this country imagine PDP is owning rent too.all the money they looted have been re-looted through high cost of things.country don enter -50%

You are really blaming APC for PDP woes? Will you still blame APC for PDP woes after looking at the attached picture below?

Sonoyom:
Assault, shooting, killing and denial of one's citizen can only happen in a cursed country .

Many of you are simply insane, deriving joy in calling your country a cursed country. What many lunatics like you don't know is that there is no cursed country but cursed people like you who make up a nation. The next time you refer to Nigeria as a cursed country, remember that you are also referring to your parents as cursed people

Gentleman001:
What is the price in osun presently?

They are buying at the rate of 19k for good quality oil.

fortune1968:
Bad . When someone like this commit suicide ,wetin e wan someone like me do ? No job since January with 3 children and school fees to pay with an uncooperative wife that is not ready to help . Wetin me I go come do poo ?

Try by all means to start POS business, by all means.

Fahdiga:
Stop spreading lies on nairaland. Everything I wrote up there is true about your satanic party from the pit of hell. APC came to kill and destroy and Nigerians must get rid of them in 2023

Lies my ass.
PDP is a waste of time and resources, they could never get it right

CYBERSOLDIERSre:
Yoruba's who support this lifeless government thinks they're doing igbos

You hate this government doesn't mean all Yorubas should hate it too. Look at what your hatred for this lifeless government is making you do to your own people at the moment!
You hated the party right from its formation, any sense in that?

OBALOLA55:
SHE’S NOT FROM THE NORTH BRUH, EVEN BIN HARI GOT SAUDI GOVERNMENT TO RELEASE A CHRONIC FEMALE FULANI DRUG KINGPIN BECAUSE SHE’S A BORORO.
I REALLY DON’T UNDERSTAND WHY SOME ILLITERATE YORUBA MUSLIMS BELIEVE THAT MOHOMODU BIN HARI IS FIGHTING FOR ISLAM.
BUHARI IS AN ETHNIC JINGOIST, AN UNREPENTANT TRIBAL BIGOT THAT PROMISED TO SURPRISE NIGERIANS IF ELECTED.
BIN HARI IS FIGHTING FOR HIS WEST AFRICAN FULANI BRETHREN TO OCCUPY THE WHOLE OF AFRICA AND SOME USEFUL IJIOTS ARE BUSY WAITING FOR HIM TO IMPLEMENT HIS PROPOSED SHARIA LAW ACROSS THE COUNTRY
WE WERE TOLD THAT HE WAS VOTED IN DUE TO JONATHAN’S INCOMPETENCE, WAS IT JONATHAN INCOMPETENCE THAT MADE THEM TO VOTE FOR HIM THE SECOND TIME

OBVIOUSLY NOT, HE WAS VOTED IN FOR THE SECOND TENURE SO THAT HE CAN DECLARE HIS PROPOSED SHARIA LAW, UNFORTUNATELY MOST OF HIS SAI BABARIANS ARE ALREADY 6FT UNDER THE GROUND.

ONCE BITTEN, TWICE SHY NOR DEY FOR YORUBA MUSLIMS DICTIONARY

WHAT KINDA SURPRISE ARE WE WAITING FOR AGAIN
SEUNMSG THATFAIRGUY1 THATFAIRGUY HELINUES AKA MONOGAMY NGENEUKWUENU AKA NONPARTISAN YOU GUYS SHOULD BURY YOUR HEADA IN SHAME.
HONESTLY SPEAKING WHAT WE CALL SOPHISTICATION IN WESTERN NIGERIA IS WHAT I CALL OLODO RABATA EDUCATED ILLITERATES
TRUE KNOWLEDGE EXISTS IN KNOWING THAT YOU KNOW NOTHING- SOCRATES [/s]

Rambling of a mad man

tollyboy5:
The government don't give a damn about Nigerians .

I blame the People electing this these sect of people RIP to the deceased

You sounded like you are not a voter yourself which could even be worse. You should have known better that Nigerians are electing fellow Nigerians, you can't give what you don't have unless you are planning to import politicians from Canada and UK

Malory:
Anything to reposition the people's party is welcome by all and sundry. The worst of the PDP is the best of the satanic APC

You meant to say that it was better when your parents were sleeping at the filling stations for five days just to get a litre of petrol at N600?

DOTian:
[s] Agitations come with a cost. And the people of Eastern Nigeria are aware of this. We're not going to accept the status quo just for the sake of peace. [/s] That's the peace of a graveyard! There were gully erosions in our roads before IPOB. There were policemen every pole before IPOB. There were corruption and lack of infastructure before IPOB. Actually IPOB became a phenomenon as a result of her desire to correct these. So when most of you none Igbos start to point to the negative effects of IPOB agitations, it is important to also note the Evil realities that led to the emergence of IPOB..

You are forcing and imposing hardship on them, you didn't seek their opinions before unleashing terror and hardships on them. And anyone among them who tried to defy the devilish ESN would have his life cut short

Davash222:
You wan dey use Gridlock' dey threaten a Lagosian

[s] Anything happening in Anambra is happening everywhere in the country presently. Insecurity is on the rise. Anambra is not the only State with bad roads. Bad road is a national identity.
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WhatCanIsay:
As in IPOB caused the dilapidation of roads in the Southeast?

Who caused the ones in Southwest? Southsouth? Northeast? Etc

Abi is something important lacking in the OP's brain?

You didn't comprehend a word in his post. Shocking! The guy was talking about the blockage of few good roads by security agents against unknown gunmen leaving bad roads for commuters. Learn to read and comprehend

ajog1:
The bolded is very heavy oh. Are you sure?

Even my sister that I registered for under non graduate who didn't go for physical verification is having her profile displaying Payment Processing. Who knows if she has been paid because many who have been paid still having their profiles displaying Payment Processing

tubolancer:
This Southerners, are they foolish.

guru90:
You are 100% mumu.... While aboki wen the shine shoes de receive alert in his shop without complaining at all...
fool at 40 years is fool forever....

You guys should respect their decisions, you were not raised by the same parents. You can't expect your moral compasses to work in the same manner

Japhet04:
that's if you believe these npower fake agents and their fake news, it takes 10seconds to screenshot and post the alert but they can't because you can't give what you don't have...get it?

I think you need to visit Npower batch C group on Facebook my friend. Better still, visit Npower official page on Facebook.
Check my screenshot below and I didn't even have any intention to go to my PPA.

chigoziri2403:
Twenty years ago, suicide was alien to our culture, now it's rampant
What happened

Twenty years ago, there was either no internet or limited. Twenty years ago, how old were you?

Nebes:
[s] The doctor’s health should be a priority.
With all they are exposed to, their hazard allowance is still N5,000. So sad.
RIP Doc! [/s]

Wasted resources

DSC7:
Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

You owe your brother the truth, it is up to him what he decides to do with the revelation.

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

Don't listen to this advice because your brother will never forgive you if he finds out eventually. He won't trust his wife again, even you.

Karlovych:
Kudos to them, they are way better than owomidas that sell their future for 1000 naira and Tinoubou's cocaine to rig elections and cause mayhem.

And you really think those who are giving money to this woman didn't give money to other electorates that day?

Sewasaunt:
Nigerians are really wonderful people.

You have eye issues, according to you, it is urgent.

Next thing, you are on Nairaland to ask?

It could be an infection, it could be an allergic reaction, the cause determines the treatment [s] and trying random eye drops being suggested here may do more harm than good. [/s]

It is well

izzy4shizzy:
It baffles me when People have serious medical conditions and come to nairaland for consultation.

What you don't know is that asking for help on nairaland is almost the same thing as googling your symptoms, the result no the good

Eyes are very important organs, delay with issues of the eyes don't usually end well, kindly visit the closest hospital.

[s] Please do not use any eye drop these nairalanders are recommending to you, visit a certified doctor please except you want make your eye pop like corn [/s]

Sensationalism! How many people do actually go to hospital just to get conjunctivitis treated? When were the last time both of you went to hospital to treat conjunctivitis? Hypocrites

Malory:
Good for her and she looks so beautiful and adorable. Let her contest for Miss Nigeria and who knows she might win it. This ugly and shapeless Idiot went to beautify herself just to continue hoeing around but she got more than she bargained for. Others who are doing hip enlargement surgery should continue but no one should disturb our peace when kasala burst. Rubbish

No need to write epistle. From the report, it's clear that she had been told what to expect, she was just chasing clout.

Plenty of mosquito nets dey my house, some received years ago, some collected last year but we still don't use it. I dey treat malaria like every month in my home