₦airaland Forum

ThickSharon123:
If you have comma in personality or have anger problems. I'll cheat, period. A real man is perfect.

No human being alive is perfect, not even you. A perfect man (human being) is a dead one.

koyyess:
Fixed. Stop using the word 'love' carelessly.

A selfish and greedy person has no love in him or her.

moneyissweet:
I love my wife so much and I just bought Hyundai sonata 2019 model for her birthday last month,but I still dey groove other beautiful babes with big yansh outside. It is all about fun, I need to enjoy my money now that I am alive. It has nothing to do Love,I will do everything and anything for my love,but I will still groove other babes.

I need to make other women happy too.

Laughing Out Loud

MrBrownJay1:
you [b]CANT cheat on the people you truly love, because if you indeed truly loved someone, you wouldnt knowingly hurt them by cheating. sadly, many people fall out of love or pretend/lie that they love someone, when in reality they dont.

if you dont care about your partner's feeling; if you dont respect your partner/relationship; if you are ready and willing to throw your r/ship into the dustbin then you cant call that love

Lol. You are more than confused about the topic. Decision not to cheat is not because you love your partner, but because it is your personal decision not to cheat. It has nothing to do with who you love.

MufasaLion:
Dude, I'll repeat myself. MOURN YOUR LOVED ONES FOR WHATEVER DURATION THAT SUITS YOU. You're not everyone and everyone's not you.

Why are you even crying more than the bereaved?

Lol. And you are his what? Attorneys?

MufasaLion:
You are spitting trash.

You're mad or something?

Mourn your loved ones for whatever duration you want. That's nobody's problem. Stop forcing your idea on people. Respect people's decision.

What a stupid and insensitive decision!

Still, according to some demented minds on nairaland, deserved it because darling Americans would never be wrong.

lexy2014:
according to u, these politicians recognise Tinubus importance and his contribution in their political careers. if that be d case, why shouldnt their loyalty to Tinubu benefit you, me and other Nigerians?

It should be their positions that should benefit us, not their loyalty to Tinubu which is their personal decision and personal life

Thinktwicemybro:
I forgot it was your father that discovered covid 19, that's why you are so pained

Statement from an ignorant person could never pain me. But we an ignorant person talks, it is our duty to remind him that he's ignorant.
BTW: mentioning father proved that you are pained.

Mangekyo:
Then why is she still trying hard despite being paid huge amount of money by cr7?
She obviously wants justice here.
Except you're trying to tell me these women are more useless and deceptive than I imagined

She could be wanting more money, she could be trying to get back at him, may be she wanted more than a fling at the time.
Many rape allegations had been proven to be false accusations in the past. The police already threw the case out for lack of evidence

MufasaLion:
You wrote bullshit!

How could you expect him not to celebrate his anniversary because his brother died?

Skipping celebration just for a year is not too much of inconvenience now, most especially when it is very close to major tragedy like this?

Posting a picture to celebrate his anniversary doesn't mean he's not mourning his brother. And also, how long must one use to mourn?

How long? That tragedy is still less than a month now! Is one month too much or too long to mourn your brother?

[s] Why don't you just say he shouldn't even eat because his brother died. Grow up!

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Now, you're making mockery of everything.

Jbleenk:
If every Nigerian is like sowore who’s so dedicated about what he believes in we might not be here today. All these corrupt politicians would have been kicked out

Lol. Yet, he couldn't explain how he embezzled N300 million naira raised for him during his presidential campaign/election without hiring a single party agent! Abeg, go sit down for one corner

Kelvin30286063:
I was working as a teacher at a community that's 30 minutes away from where I lived at the time. I had to get free ride to and from everyday and sometimes I took buses.
Salary was 13k per month as a degree holder (2.1) and I got fined 200 from my salary for each time I was late.
I woke up late one day and decided I need to stop this. My girlfriend at the time (now my wife) asked if I had a plan and I said no but I'm done suffering like this.
I won't tell you the rest of the story but today, I have my own tech company, my wife has her own beauty business and the family have a standard school of our own. We are happy.
Never allow yourself to be used by evil bosses. If you don't quit, you won't know what your next move should be.

Sounded like my experience at Dangote company and my decision after departing from the company. Nice one

Dicksonnet:
If you are a woman between 40 and 50 years of age and wish to settle down for marriage, contact me please
Your conscience must be alive and active
You must be educated (not below a first degree)
You must be Gainfully employed(preferably RICH)
You must be a genuine christian
Not a divorcee
Not a widow
Not a single mother
I am very real no gimmicks.
09135775537

Wicked somebody! You want a woman in her 40s to 50s who has never married or had kid before? Selfishness should be your middle name

GeneralPula:
I’ve been with soo many girls..

[s] Is Op trying to say only 4 guys have planted cassava into her ridges?

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Childish

Cokahot:
Well for 5 years I dated myself. All the bastards I dated had ego problems,peer pressure problems. Shyness.
Imagine my ex couldn't carry a poly bag in public cos she had bragged abt her imaginary status. She can't can't go to market. I have only met 1 real gal who did every,but I felt she was disguising. Ubknw hw naija women do it. Disguise ti u marry them and gbam they become a pain I marriage. All the girls I have dated till tmrw have not married. They are lazy,proud,arrogant,wasteful,boastful. It's a miracle I could actually pinch my money these days,unlike when I was dating myself. Naija girls are useless. I had chat with some today and they felt I would request for their number
Na na na not under buhari regime. The poor have no class, the middle class still have no class.its only the wealthy. I'm not poor I'm not rich. So when I see ghetto kids and girls forming class and posh I just laugh cos if u go to their abode,it's a stinky and dirty sight to tolerate.

Sounds like you have own personal demons to face and sort things out. Ask people around you (family and friends) how they did it. All your rants above is just an excuse for failure, the failure that you refused to acknowledge.
BTW: How old are you?

AutoChick4U:
You have a problem. You met a real girl yet you think she's disguising? Nawa

Again? Nice one

Ovamboland:
Is the payment to the legislators meant for eating and buying toys? Are you aware of the purpose to which the allowances is meant for? If the present crop are not using it for that purpose does it mean the purpose is now useless and no longer necessary?

The budget of the national assembly is about 130bn which includes the salary of about 1000 staff working in the assembly complex. This is about 1% of our 13 trillion budget. Even if you reduce it at most by 50% it will be 65bn.

Now we need to triple our budget to meet our growth needs. We need about 26 trillion extra, how can saving 65bn from NASS be the major reason for not having 26 trillion? We are looking in the wrong place

A national assembly member or an aide to one is spotted!
The truth is that nobody knows the actual budget of the national assembly, everything is hidden from the public since the Sanusi outburst years ago.
When was the money used for the purpose it was meant for, not just about the present members? And like your question suggested that if the money is not being used for the purpose it is meant for, then it means that the purpose is useless and needless and no longer necessary.

Mangekyo:
Always knew he was a rapist.
But why this vaginal people no Wan let matter rest?
[s] The guy did it. He paid you £350,000 already. [/s] Why you still dey cast the matter?
All virginal people are useless, all of them!

Why would he be a rapist? Lack of women?
And did what? Had consensual sex with her or raped her? The fact that he agreed to settle her based on his lawyer's advice didn't mean that he did it. He just wanted the matter to be forgotten because of his reputation if it dragged for too long. Things like this are not new practice.

Commentor:
Potentially a big problem he might not be able to wriggle out of.

Read the news, the matter reached a dead end long time ago.

Thinktwicemybro:
Covid 19 is a scam. People dying of other causes are blaming it on covid 19.

Obesity on its own can kill. You spend all your time on tiktok and you are here blaming covid.
If I kick you with this trouser now.

Ignorance is a disease, yours is a proof of that statement

FreeIgboho:
It can actually be a permanent solution. There are two advantages to it: one, he will know his wife will not be attractive to other men (if he is the jealous type), 2) he'll last longer in bed and be more in control of things generally due to reduced sensitivity

It can never be no matter the number of advantages, this approach is called window dressing. He needs to understand why his wife no longer sexually appeal to him anymore and work on that problem.

lexy2014:
Loyalty is a good thing for anyone but based on d topic, how has all this loyalty to Tinubu positiveley impacted d lives of nigerians?

Why would you even want their loyalty to Tinubu to benefit you, me and other Nigerians? I mean, what's the correlation between their loyalty to Tinubu and its positive impact on the lives of Nigerians? These are two scenarios that don't even relate at all! Lol

Fg's

InHeaven:
You don't judge others' family based on yours.

Wicked somebody

saajus:
They are even taking pictures. Why do black leaders get no shame at all? You were a Governor for 8yrs, you've been at the corridor of power for over 30yrs and you are proud being under medical watch in another country.

Honestly, something is fundamentally wrong with black people. We couldn't even be proud of just one black nation that can be classified as advanced nation.

Governor for 8 years; yes.
Being in corridor of power for for over 30 years: sir, you don't know what you are saying.

Grace001:
What is about this pilgrim visit to Tinubu

Because they recognise his importance, his contribution in their life and political careers. It's called "Paying Homage" to their political godfather and benefactor. Something some people like you will never understand!

Luckydubby7:
The truth is that people were killed that night by Nigeria soldiers.

I don't know what this forensic nonsense was trying to achieve, honestly. We did saw soldiers shooting into the air that night with protesters standing behind the barricade. So, the bullets or its casings matching the that of military shouldn't be a news. What we want to know is the evidence of the Lekki audio massacre, simple as ABC

FreeIgboho:
Easy. Find some girl image you find very arousing (maybe through porn - just once) then think that image to get aroused to bleep. No need to go outside

While this may work for a while but it's not going to be a permanent solution. He still needs to address the root cause.

Iyaebe:
This is how some of you drives your wife into cheating, why should your wife beg you for sex? Instead of her to change it for you and go stone cold too she's begging for it.

The man needs help and he's not afraid of speaking up. Your post wasn't in any way of help, just blame blame.

mariahAngel:
That you no longer find your wife attractive doesn’t mean other men don’t find her attractive.
If you keep making her beg for (what is hers) your attention, a time will come when she will stop.
Don’t come complaining when she eventually gets tired of your shakara and starts accepting the attention freely offered to her elsewhere.
By then, she no go send you again!

Our female here don't understand that this is a problem for the man himself. Well, I don't blame us, because we don't understand this kind of issues just like many Nigerians don't understand or believe that depression is real.
It is wrong to guilt trip any man or woman going through this kind of shiiit, doing so means that you understand what they are going through.
It shouldn't be an avenue to heap blame but to be supportive and be a part of help. This is not an issue of "let me take side with my gender" mentality.

We bury it

saintruky:
FMCG like indomie?

Yes.
And spag, biscuits, salt, detergents, tooth pastes. In fact, some people are just into selling of only different types of biscuits to retailers. Products that people use almost everyday.

Dollywood:
You know nothing, when you're a billionaire we'll believe what you say.

That's billionaire rants. Lol

Zuchey91:
Our upbringing is totally different, he comes from a family where women are supposed to be suffering and still be silent...this I found out after marriage...and I come from a family where women have a say.

I know how it would end if I tell him about it and I am not ready to go down that road. I am tired of the constant quarrels.
I can say I have gotten to my elastic limit and I have no strength of fighting for this union anymore in me.

This statement is heavily pregnant, may be you are the cause of problems in your marriage. You sounded like you don't respect him or like you are fond of challenging his authority.

AutoChick4U:
For all we know the op probably nagged him into another woman's arms.

Wow! Like we copied each other.