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Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by ehinorlive: 2:27pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
a boy and a girl who is not married are they supposed to be sleeping with each other? cheating is a language for married people I wonder why singles are trying to defined out of this. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Ikpongiton: 2:27pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
It is cheating when you are caught. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by AyoolaIgwe(m): 2:27pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
I don't know |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Newboss: Nice one. Everyone here just talking trash. Sex has nothing to do with love for a man. A man must Bleep when he needs to whether the partner is available or not. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by blacknoir: 2:28pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Cheating is part of humans whh is why self control is needed https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1kwhiKyMsd8 |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by ofiko123(m): 2:29pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Selfishness..man's sinful nature, lust etc.. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by DMerciful(m): 2:29pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Sometimes to fulfill a desire or fantasy that the one you love cannot fulfill esp for men. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Feellinx(m): 2:30pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
That one nah question 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by knowyaself2(m): 2:31pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Beebah2000: The animal in us influences us, and that's not a bad thing. Love doesn't keep one from cheating - respect does. A lot of people will cheat if they are sure their partners will not find out. Love as erroneously believed doesn't stop one from lusting after others. Those sexy curves, beautiful faces, and seductive eyes are extremely tempting because we are human. The power or strength of love is not enough to keep one from cheating - fucking another man or woman doesn't make you to stop loving your object of love. That's why when you don't indulge in sex escapades, you are practising self-denial on the strength of character and moral convictions, not because of love. Love is just meaningless emotions. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Seunpaul01(m): 2:31pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
You can't cheat on who you love. Stop asking stupid questions |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Naijadaily: 2:32pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Because Taboo love is sweet |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Adakintroy: 2:33pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Depend on the definition you using for all key words or what you want cheating to mean. Some cant formulate a real question so sometimes it's hard to give a real answer. Sleeping with someone aside your wife or husband in the real sense and I mean in the real sense does not translate sometimes to meaning you no longer love them or that you don't want to be with them. Although sometimes I get that's what people ultimately want it to mean.. Some cheating are just to explore alternate pleasure options which being with a fix person may not provide all the time. As humans we get familiar with an options to a point were it no longer provide the desire excitement. Other reason may be one no longer has time to service or cater for the relationship due to other commitments like jobs. Forcing one partner to secretly seek it else. Either way most cheating are not due to hate disloyalty or malice. Note: Most people who sleep with other people sometimes still love and respect their spouses deeply. So technically it's not cheating. This is why if you find out that your lover is slepping around dont just call it quit. Find out if the love is still there. .i.e if it's was a pleasure seeking venture or you have been too long with him and the relationship is now dull and in need of excitement. The only ground or what could be assume as cheating is when a relationship no longer has love or respect. It's just a matter of time.even if there is no physical cheating, that relationship is dead. summarily cheating is telling someone you love them but no longer do anymore. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Adakintroy: 2:33pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Depend on the definition you using for all key words or what you want cheating to mean. Some cant formulate a real question so sometimes it's hard to give a real answer. First as human our life is never petfect. So is anything nested in it. In this case love. Sleeping with someone aside from your wife or husband in the real sense and I mean in the real sense does not translate sometimes to meaning you no longer love them or that you don't want to be with them. Although sometimes I get that's what people ultimately want it to mean.. Some cheating are just to explore alternate pleasure options which being with a fix person may not provide all the time. As humans we get familiar with an options to a point were it no longer provide the desire excitement. Other reason may be one no longer has time to service or Carter for the relationship due to other commitments like jobs... Forcing one partner to secretly seek it elsewhere. Either way, most cheating are not due to hate, disloyalty or malice. Note: Most people who sleep with other people sometimes still love and respect their spouses deeply. So technically it's not cheating. This is why if you find out that your lover is slepping around dont just call it quit. Find out if the love is still there .i.e if it's was a pleasure seeking venture or you have been such with each other for too long you need space or one is not committed enough due to other commitments. The only ground or what could be assume as cheating is when a relationship no longer has love or respect. It's just a matter of time.even if there is no physical cheating, that relationship it is dead. summarily in my view cheating is telling someone you love them but no longer do anymore. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Jdcassano5880(m): 2:40pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Shea you Love God ...why you dey commit sin sometimes? |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Hotzone(m): 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Lack of sex, financial gain, boredom and enticement |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by BigBashiru: 2:43pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Beebah2000: greed. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by rickdaking(m): 2:43pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Beebah2000:you fit dey chop only egusi soup everyday ? |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by fynex(m): 2:44pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Beebah2000: I think it's good to know why someone truly loves you. A person can claim to love you because they're attracted to certain things about you and not you entirely (as a whole). And you on the other hand may feel like they love you...that's why you have to be observant and ask questions to be sure and do not just assume. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by rickdaking(m): 2:45pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Seunpaul01:it's not a stupid question, we humans are not perfect, it's in our nature. Shebi u love God, why do you commit sin sometimes?? |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Dartilo(m): 2:49pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by MostIncredibleDFirst: 2:50pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
A girl may not have toto that is sweet, so the boyfriend or husband will look for alternative toto to fvck. You get the point now? |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Akano55: 2:51pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Man can be cheating and will never have feelings for the lady cheating with but woman can't cheat without having feeling with the person cheating with... that is why you will see a man cheat and still be responsible at home but woman can't cheat and still be responsible at home Sometimes guys cheat to protect their girlfriend from marathon sex but no feeling attached to it... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by 24brains(m): 2:55pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Its because they love those with whom they cheat more than those they claim to love. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by authority2006(m): 3:01pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
koyyess: moneyissweet:Laughing Out Loud 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Solofresh2: 3:04pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
I don't know about women but as a man,men cheat on people they truely love, to satisfy their sexual desires. Know fully well that Loving someone geniunely for a man,has nothing to do with sex. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by agabaI23(m): 3:05pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:Correct MrBrownJay |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by mrdino(m): 3:08pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: This is not a matter of love, old habits are very difficult to break, especially the ones that comes with pleasure. Once a person has cultivated the habit of cheating (especially when he/she has gotten away with it before), it will be very difficult to stop. Cheating itself is addictive. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Solofresh2: 3:09pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:As a man that can't control his sexual orges, you can actually cheat on your partner if she is not around but that doesn't mean you don't love her The problem with people like this is that they can't control their sexual orges Note that Loving someone geniunely has nothing to do with sex Sex is love but lust 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by authority2006(m): 3:11pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
ThickSharon123: No human being alive is perfect, not even you. A perfect man (human being) is a dead one. |
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Solofresh2: 3:12pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
OhMyGodWtf:The problem with a lot of people is that they associate love with sex. Lust will make you cheat on your geniune lover but it doesn't mean you don't love them 1 Like |
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