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Romance › Re: Who Will I Get Married To Ending This Year by Auxtan(m): 8:35am On Jan 08

I was exactly like you growing up, especially while in the university. At some point had a girl for 3+ years till it didn't materialize like yours, I connected with another and it didn't last more than 6 months on the discovery she had unfinished business with her ex. But what makes me different from you is that I approach girls easily and seek recommendations from the people I trust. So keep searching and don't be scared of talking to girls. In fact make it a point of duty to talk to as much girls as possible everyday till you find the one that you will go see her parents.

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Health › What Is The Best Solution For Very Stubborn Fungal Infection? by Auxtan(op): 6:11pm On Jan 03

What is the best cream for very stubborn fungi?

Especially the one that can help treat nails infection.

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Career › Re: Which Digital Skills Are Worth Learning In 2026. by Auxtan(m): 4:32pm On Jan 01

magabounce:
Workflow automation or something around the backend of AI models

Very wise suggestion. AI being the future can only take the jobs of those that it fixes their jobs not those that equips it.

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Romance › Re: My Experience Dating younger girls as a guy of 33yrs old by Auxtan(m): 8:37pm On Dec 27, 2025

Allow us to catch them young. Everything very erect and intact.

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Romance › Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Lady You Are 11years Older Than by Auxtan(m): 5:03pm On Dec 27, 2025

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
How you manage to take the words of an 18 year old seriously, confounds me. She barely knows what she is saying/doing and when she finally does, I hope it will not be too late for you.

An 18 year old girl is an adult and knows what she is doing.

Romance › Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Lady You Are 11years Older Than by Auxtan(m): 4:07pm On Dec 27, 2025

Dey play, na 18 year old girl dey toast me now. I'm 29, but how she just came into my life as a customer and is so desperate to have things flowing with me lol. And the surprising part of all of these is that I have pretended like a salesman of my shop yet she keep telling me money will come that she loves me. What I'm saying is, if she's an adult and loves you irrespective of your age difference then go for it.

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Politics › Re: Akpabio: Senate On Verge Of Losing Opposition As Last Senators Signal APC Move by Auxtan(m): 2:13pm On Dec 20, 2025*

This man talks off point most times I have seen him talk. It's unbelievable that he is a law graduate. Talks without being calculative and makes everything almost a joke.

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Career › Re: We All Started In The Same Place. Same Classrooms. Same Uniforms. by Auxtan(m): 5:18pm On Dec 16, 2025

maasoap:
Yes of course

Such a sweet job. That is one job that I love so much.

Career › Re: We All Started In The Same Place. Same Classrooms. Same Uniforms. by Auxtan(m): 5:01pm On Dec 16, 2025

maasoap:
My younger self would have never imagined adult me as a transport manager and fire fighter, life and fate 😀😀. But I like it better, living a zero stress life

You're a FFS staff?

Politics › Re: President Can Declare Emergency, Suspend Elected Officials - Supreme Court Rules by Auxtan(m): 1:45pm On Dec 15, 2025

Guestmale:
If there is need for it but PBAT is not the first president to declare state of emergency in a state, former president OBJ declared state of emergency in Ekiti and Plateau states when he was on the throne.

Suspending any elected official is unlawful according to Nigeria's constitution.

Politics › Re: President Can Declare Emergency, Suspend Elected Officials - Supreme Court Rules by Auxtan(m): 1:42pm On Dec 15, 2025

Christistruth00:
Obasanjo used it Twice

Who did he suspend?

Politics › Re: President Can Declare Emergency, Suspend Elected Officials - Supreme Court Rules by Auxtan(m): 1:32pm On Dec 15, 2025

vicdom:
Chai! Supreme Court these days has been totally emasculated by the executive power. Supreme Court has never been this controlled by any executive power since Nigerian history. Omo, Tinubu is very strong eeh. As a matter of fact, after Tinubu's exit from the office, he will sustain as a Godfather to the subsequent presidents as much as he wants, or maybe till his death. I comot cap for this man, his fist is very firm to hold anything.

That fist you're referring to is empowered by citizens greed. He is only powerful due to his tendencies to buy anything that will be an obstacle. Remove greed from people he will be reduced to a man that can only hope a due process favour him.

Politics › Re: President Can Declare Emergency, Suspend Elected Officials - Supreme Court Rules by Auxtan(m): 1:29pm On Dec 15, 2025

The Nigerian Constitution has been reduced to mere written words that can be twisted to suit agendas. The lack of respect for the constitution governing an organization is the beginning of the fall of an organization that is bound to collapse.

Romance › Real Talk by Auxtan(op): 12:42pm On Dec 14, 2025

If you're 28 or 29, you're technically in your early 30s.

Life should be on a different mindset at these stages.

Politics › Re: Oyebamiji Emerges APC Osun Governorship Candidate by Auxtan(m): 4:24pm On Dec 13, 2025

With the way APC goes in the country in impunity. I'd literally say congratulations to the next governor of the state obviously will be elected in by INEC's go to court strategy.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Ghana Deports 3 Israelis In Retaliatory Move After ill Treatment Of Its Citizens by Auxtan(m): 7:26am On Dec 11, 2025

God1000:
Kudos to Ghana for this bold move! This sends a clear warning to those who disrespect Africans

Nigeria left the group. This is the case of most African nations whose leaders are mostly criminals that hide stolen assets abroad.

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Politics › Re: Fulani Militia Killed My Father, 4 Relatives In Taraba — NYSC Member Cries Out by Auxtan(m): 3:30pm On Dec 10, 2025

DiamondsAreFore:
Takum Local Government is a predominantly Christian area of Taraba State.

The popular rapper Jude Abaga (M.I. Abaga) is from Takum Local Government of Taraba State.

Anyone who denies genocide is either a liar or a collaborator.

It was shocking to hear a Bishop in the person of Kukah deny it.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Most Attempted And Successful Coups In African Countries (1950-2023) by Auxtan(m): 5:28pm On Dec 09, 2025

Notice how most of the countries involved are those that are mostly multi religious and to an extent multi cultural.

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Politics › Re: Sule: Kidnapping Started In Southern Nigeria, It Didn’t Start In The North by Auxtan(m): 8:34am On Dec 09, 2025

I tell you, the people from this side of the country are mostly dense. So the problem now is blaming where it started from rather than tackling what is bedeviling your region? Very unfortunate!

Food › Re: Zone With The Highest Alcohol Consumers In Nigeria 2024 - STATISENSE by Auxtan(m): 2:07pm On Dec 06, 2025

Richtaiwo:
Something is not clear here.

Is this statistics saying in every 1000 adult, 15 male +25 female = 40 adults take alcohol in the East? A big fat lie because I have never seen any easterner who doesn't drink.

I'm a 29 yo easterner, all my life I haven't taken a drop of alcohol or beer ever, I also don't smoke. The same with my dad that will be 70 yo next year.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Curiousity Made Me Ask� by Auxtan(m): 9:43am On Dec 05, 2025

That can only happen for a girl that knows how to do the thing. If girls wey sabi handle you eh, you go feel am.

Romance › Re: She Slept With All The Fine Boys In Her Street, Now She's Married (photos) by Auxtan(m): 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2025

BAILMONEY:
KOBOJUNKIE OYA RUN SMOKE THING MAKE YOU COME YARN DUST HERE ABEG

Celebrities › Re: Sabinus Confirms Peaceful End Of Marriage (Video) by Auxtan(m): 10:52pm On Dec 03, 2025

Diamond098454:
Why are they divorcing and separating here and there? This marriage of a thing is really scaring me

Would you be any different from what men are getting from women these days in marriage?

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Romance › Re: Thank God She Rejected Me by Auxtan(m): 5:19pm On Dec 01, 2025

No she didn't just become ugly, rather that affection you felt for her have disappeared. When you grow feelings for someone all limitations are mostly ignored.

After 1 year of breaking up with my ex I was supposed to marry (well na she no gree for me again), I felt I lost a lady with beauty, virtuous qualities and brains, but after I bumped on her profile on social media and I saw she's now into vlogging of literally all about her, this includes being half dressed and how she looks now, I felt the same way you feel about this girl now.

Romance › Re: Ever Gone From Grace To Grass And Back To Grace???,share Your Experience by Auxtan(m): 4:35pm On Nov 30, 2025*

2022 December, while my university final year project and exam kept me in school for more than a month. I entrusted my business into the care of my sister and brother. Then my business was worth over 7 million.

Omo, I came back to get the news of how they got dupped of more than 5 million of sold products money through voodoo. After overthinking that evening, I brushed off negativity and kept going.

Truly Buhari's cashless policy the next months, my family and God made the process easier as my customers didn't notice this at all. I kept hustling and today, my businesses alone is worth more than X4 of what I lost, with investments here and there.

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Politics › Re: Enugu Government Nullifies Underage Marriage Between Man (33) And A Girl Of 15 by Auxtan(m): 4:06pm On Nov 28, 2025

WYZAD:
That's s number that can divide the age of both of them without remainder.

There age difference is 18 years apart no matter what formula you initiate and it's too much.

Politics › Re: Enugu Government Nullifies Underage Marriage Between Man (33) And A Girl Of 15 by Auxtan(m): 7:12am On Nov 28, 2025

WYZAD:
Mathematically speaking,
33÷3 =11
15÷3= 5.

11 - 5 =6.
So their age difference is 6years.
Not a bad one.

If anybody quote me I will unleash Abidoshakar after u.

How did you come about the 3 units division?

Romance › Re: Celibate Till Marriage by Auxtan(op): 2:49pm On Nov 19, 2025

I033:
I’ve been celibate for months now, but no full intention of remaining that way for long.

My question for you is; while you stay away from sex, will you be staying away from soapy as well?

As a man, soapy will make you a vegetable. Like you become less effective or totally ineffective in the long run.
Real sex trumps soapy any day any time. I will bear the burden of no sex at all and avoid soapy because of it's adverse effects to my body as a man.

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Romance › Celibate Till Marriage by Auxtan(op): 1:39pm On Nov 19, 2025

If nothing will change my perspective about sex before marriage or careless sex in general, the thread I just read now has successfully changed my mindset.

Sammyoski, thank you so much for sharing you story and believe me God will make a way for you.

Man, having sex with untested partners even with protections is a whole lot of risk all round. Y'all should stay safe out there.

As for me, I don wash my hand comot anything careless sex with an untested partner and this is why my next sex will be with my tested wife or wife to be.

Thread link
https://www.nairaland.com/8547944/how-contracted-herpes-babe-deliberately

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Business › Re: Aliko Dangote Visits Zambia To Expand His Investments In The Country by Auxtan(m): 6:12am On Nov 18, 2025

The name needs no introduction anymore. Saying all he is about will seem like showing off at this stage of his life. Simply saying my name is Aliko Dangote is enough to tell the whole story. Dangote carry dey go, I admire your entrepreneurial gut.

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Romance › Re: My Wife Pregnancy Has Hurt Me by Auxtan(m): 7:59pm On Nov 10, 2025

Auxtan:
I was considering marrying a girl through recommendations and stuffs without true dating and stuffs. But this your story is a testament that it doesn't work out well like that. I believe you brought your wife from another town and most possibly a village because she didn't know any man and is well behaved, the reason why she's a virgin according to you. But here's the thing, she is just discovering you and it turned out you both don't match. The fact she started flings with someone else due to the nature of your job, if that there was any real connection before marriage you would have seen these signs and would have made a better decision concerning her.

One advice you got wrong on this platform is reacting quickly to your discoveries. Sometimes a man sits back and acts stupid till he gets a verified established fact before acting. The moment you saw these signs, especially the day you came back earlier to spoil her plans, you would have stepped back a bit and acted stupid to buy yourself more time to verify your suspicion, remember until established suspicions are not facts.

Reacting quickly to your suspicions damaged your relationship with your wife that was why she went from probably hiding what she feels about you to showing you and telling you to your face.

For her pregnancy you are unsure about, I will advice you to be calm about the situation, I know you're emotionally drained but a man of your age should learn to be emotionally strong as every happenings is all life lessons. Wait for her to put to birth to ascertain with certainty of the baby's paternity through DNA test. Start saving for it because that will be only how you can be certain of that the baby is yours or not.

Be strong.

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