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brain54:
I once had a girlfriend exactly like the one you described...

I broke up with her because I couldn't stomach all that attention. And besides I am the type that like my private space. And mostly like to do things on my own. So It felt really choking.

She loved kids too... With even more vigour and I knew within me the attention would shift from me once she started having hers.

But I wasn't just ready for that kind of attention. Such love can become toxic in my opinion.

Talk to her about it...maybe it will help. In my case it didn't!

I enjoy reading your opinions here

Teeyoo:
Bro, if this is true, pls enjoy it while it lasts. She loves you. Your presence counts alot in her life. Like me for example, I've been married for the past 8 years, my wife never cuddle me for a day after our marriage. She has changed. So, enjoy it while it last bro

Omo, this marriage thing is scary o

obinna58:
Unhealthy relationship hahah
She’s only pretending, at some point you’ll be amazed at what you see, she’ll leave you and get along with her new catch like she have never met you before

You’ll be depressed at their level of pretentious nature

Omo, I can relate.

Fiscus105:
You never choke oo, when you finally get to that level, nobody would tell before you voice out ok.

MEANWHILE,THIS TYPE OF LOVE, PLS HAVE IT AT BACK OF UR MIND THAT, WHEN IT EVENTUALLY FADE, YOU PEOPLE WOULD BE LIKE WORST ENEMY.

Experiences show, this type of Romeo & Juliet, dnt used to pass, the test of time.

I can relate. My relationship with my ex was like this Romeo and Juliet thing but now I know she hates me so much based on how she sounds on phone now. Me sef wants to hate her so much as well.

Zubeezanga:
Lol how will disadvantage yourself that much gettin addicted to fellow human bro, u seem not to like ur mental health incase of any wahala, guy siddon her yarn am whatsup so u both can be comfortable bcus if na her she fit no give a damn bout ur feelings, if u inconvinence her, lastly u seem like a bigboy trust me rich dudes never actually know who get their backs bro, na when sea rough people go show wetting u mean to them, guy no expect much and no live for prison for anybody.

Best advice

SuperOnyi:



I try to make out time to write but my dirty job wouldn't let me, it's like I'm stuck on a moving train with a blade against my neck.

Pains will only be temporary if you are determined to make it temporary. Cry from now till tomorrow without going through the present pains and try to leave the pains even while in the pain, then you might just end up in the pains forever except if a helpers comes your way. For now you're your only helper.

Show off. Normally we like showboating. It's in our blood, especially those from Anambra. We get luck sey we be people God bless wella if not all these showboating will be met with mockery from haters. But if na you, after leaving home with one shirt and trouser and returning as a multi millionaire won't you show off? In fact that showing off encourage the lazy ones amongst our people to go and hustle hard too

You can write really well and it's a talent on it's own. Find a way to monetize that and you will not be hungry ever again.

BigYash:
Ndlea go get..

I know someone who has cure for this thing,but the last boy I connected messed up big time. Wetin Them dey use arrange the thing no pass 2-3k sef. Some times she dey give for free ,if she get for reserve .. I told myself say I go rest from connecting people..

Hmm

DUNDEEmoderatos:
Holier than thou have you checked your own status?

Lol

Lucasinho:
Did it cure your piles?

Still searching for Indian hemp

CJStarz:
Grow up kiddo.
Beauty lies in the eye of the Beholder

Story!

ATEAMS:
U go help them

Na why dem gats hustle their ass out for money. Beautiful women follow money and not love.

For the sake of your future daughters, if you're a man and you know you're not handsome and not at least average, if it means making all the money in this world in order to marry a beautiful girl, please do o.

Because the girl I saw today walking down with her parents, na the papa I blame sha. And the man come get money on top.

Marry a beautiful wife for the sake of your children if you're not handsome abeg.

Frost124:
it was never my mom, my dad already knew he was the on that infected her

You're a good son sha. Against all odds still trying to respect your dad as much as you can. May the Lord strengthen you bro. It all will be fine.

Frost124:
My dad never knew he was HIV positive he just found out few weeks ago

Could it be your mum infected him then? Hmm, so sorry bro.

Righteousness2:
No need to Kill yourself with worries!

Take them to the GOD of CHOSEN!
They dont need to meet or see Pastor.
Just attend Service or Connect from wherever you are.

That is a Moimoi Akamu case for the GOD of CHOSEN.

How about God of Christians?

Harkhin87:
Well prevention they say is better than cure but at the same time the deed has been done but notwithstanding in whatever you do never do anything that affects your sanity. It's fine that they are your parents but at the same time I just pity the poor innocent woman 😪😪😪😪 and your yourself that's still struggling with life yet paying for grave sin that you know absolutely nothing about

I swear, I dey really feel for the guy.

Your dad is a very irresponsible and wicked man if he is the one that infected your mum.

Sonnobax15:

Bro,are you are you're really okay?

E no matter wetin you wan talk, as long as you don't know me

Moments of disappointment sometimes presents opportunities for better options.

2 years ago, more than 3.5million mysteriously got missing from my business when I wasn't fully involved because I stayed weeks in school rounding off writing my degree project that period. This really affected my business for months but I chested it completely. I thought overcoming that would mean I am very mentally/emotionally strong lol.

Fast forward to 2 years later, a 3+ years relationship breakup was hurting me like I lost my life

Thank God for the grace of being able to also chest this one. Omo!

The video is saying something different.

Karleb:
Men can be as fat as women too.

At least is those same men that will ask normal weighed girls out and they either agree or not, unlike ladies that will put up crazy weight and still wait for the man that will contain it lol

Cassandraloius:
Perfect imperfections. Every woman is unique.

Lol

idahme:
A man is telling you it's stressful and you are arguing , you think is just to lie flat in a missionary style that you think you have arrived? Body mass is directly proportional to the stress men go through in sexual activities.

Thank you my bro

Omo, knacking dem chubby show me sey sex can be stressful.

Even to hug go dey like you dey carry load wey pass you

Omoawoke:
Suffocate me keh… I dey go gym at least 3 times a week. Na woman go come suffocate me

No wonder you capable like this

Madups:
One thing i notice that they have in common is big boobs..

It's mainly their big chest because of too much flesh dey make am dey like their boobs too big.

Omoawoke:
Which kind nonsense na… but you fit manage because everything whey God create na for chopping. Do your best and leave the rest

My guy you funny o
Nogo jam wetin go suffocate you for bed o 🤣

zoeymikey:
Nah,,you won't be
I'm very thick

You can't be so sure sha lol

Omoawoke:
My only anger is why you will go four years without chopping enough kpekus of your life. 4 years wasted for nothing. Rubbish

Anyway, to the question. I’ve done Chubby and I’ve done skinny, I’d choose chubby every fivking time.
Chubby get levels, chubby girls with good body dey

Chubby with love handles and petruding stomach nko?

EriMma1:
Then she's on the fat side cos I can't relate to all you stated up there and I'm chubby but not with saggy breasts because I never born so why would my boobs sag

She's weighty and I think laziness come join of her own.


She should try hitting the gym to at least be active and flexible.
If you love her, just encourage her . Don't let that affect what you both share.

I need a machine in bed. One that would become my tool and I become her game.

With that kinda weight, no no.

It's good we did it a couple of times and now I am sure of the problems faced lol.