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Kobojunkie:
He is telling you to groom a woman in the year 2025, and you are thanking him? You are basically signing yourself up for a life full of regret if you take that advice. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

litaninja:
Oh. You no wan send am go school make e gather more intellect, but you wan make e use the acumen e get naturally run your business?

GTFOH

papyjaypaul:
In a few years, she will be 29 and you will be 40, do you want to be with the woman who will make the saying, a fool at 40 is a fool forever true?

By the time you are wise and she is 40 and you are 51, do you want to look back and be proud of your decision 22 years ago? When your children are already teenagers or leaving your house?

If you see ripe fruit, pluck am, no waste time. The family system is dying and parents are no longer training good children for marriage anymore. It's the internet that is raising kids these days, they will waste your life arguing with you about what is right and wrong because their parents did not teach them how to be husbands/men or wives/mothers/women.

Before the world contaminates this woman, groom her as the bridegroom and you won't regret it. Let me tell you one more thing, once she works with you or for you, she will have no problem with you, it will give you time to build more because she is a trusted manager. Trust is the most expensive currency in business. But I must warn you, they also say don't mix business with pleasure. Remember that once you get married, you have to change the way you deal with her, she's not your worker, she's your colleague, she's your wife. She will get pregnant, she will change, make sure you groom your wife and she will flourish.

Don't worry about what society thinks, it's all in your head. I often refer to Omotola Jalade who got married young and the age gap is like your own. People only look for bad examples to scare you but remain focused on your vision. The best time for women to have kids is in their late teens and early 20s, Africans have embraced western lifestyle to their own detriment and now we are having the same problems as them, such as fertility problems. Our parents and grandparents married very early, some of them failed and married someone else, some of them were successful. Education should not be an excuse to get married, don't let her waste her virtuousness when she can get education online. Moreover, all the education we are doing today is either to work for someone or be our own boss. She already has real life experience working with you. Let her enroll in courses that will make her sharp and your business will flourish. He is a lucky man who finds a good wife.

IamMobisola:
With this last paragraph, You are the ignorant one here.

Sonnobax15:

This is one reason why I didn't allow my ex banny to work as a sales rep for any man . Cuz what is this? . You aren't even considering if she has bf . How will you feel if someone snatches away your GF simply because he feels she's a good sales rep for him . You're not even considering sending her to further her education...instead na how to use her to cure your conji be your problem


Na wa for some men cha..

immortalcrown:
She dates him without considering it. Why not be consistent?

Samantha125:
Why are you her friend in the first place? I thought you guys are against the idea of women being friends with the opposite sex.

Chances are you'll end up being a problem to her marriage in the long run... Go hang out with your fellow bros.

samwash:
All of una wen they do BabyMama & BabyDaddy these days, you will see a lady have five children for five different men & a guy will have five children from five different ladies, so what do you have to say concerning that?
What is the difference with polygamy.
...And what is your concern if your friend is getting married to a person coming from a polygamous home or broken home.
Every guy or lady has his or her own person who they will get married to, why disturb yourself.

Educationalserv:
Busy body

immortalcrown:
What exactly is that thing that is concerning to you?
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Exceed15:
She made you spare part .

2cribz:
Students always fall in love once they see one dumb gal,a snitch and a thief. Imagine this ode thinking he has a gf so they can be nackin raw,

bigpicture001:
Sh will check up on u in 3months.... This time devour her cuz sh doesn't really know what sh wants.... Who switches off from their patner because u have worries... And one year for that matter... Sh is just a big mumu who the guy needs for sex satisfaction after which the guy will fall back to default settings of ignoring her again... Then sh will remember u....

Girls too mumu

Baronthecelebri:
Thank God for you

DarkLover:
You already made yourself a second choice, luckily for you the girl isn't a player or wasn't ready to play with you.

How could you even propose a relationship with someone you know hasn't gotten over her boyfriend?

You was just some emotional support while sorting out issues with her main man😒

DarkLover:
You already made yourself a second choice, luckily for you the girl isn't a player or wasn't ready to play with you.

How could you even propose a relationship with someone you know hasn't gotten over her boyfriend?

You was just some emotional support while sorting out issues with her main man😒

Jesuspistol:
If you were a sensitive introvert, I would have suggested online dating for you. Sounds strange but works well. It gives you a variety of girls to meet than physically. Physical first time meeting only works well for super extroverts but it also makes them predictable and vulnerable.

You should be able to ask seriously targeted questions playfully like you don't mean it so she can freemindedly give you true answers and make a girl come see you first than you going to see her. That doesn't mean she's cheap. Likewise a girl insisting you come first does not mean she's a wife material. In fact in my opinion, girls who extremely do the hard-to-get attitude have dark pasts they're yet to get over. Most good girls keep a simple life and approach. You should learn to think outside the box

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

First, try to carefully define this true love you refer to. So long as it reads no different from a dysfunctional relationship setup, you can pretty much find it anywhere. You only need to be open to being the one holding the short end of the stick sometimes.

Stephen0mozzy:
Find a friend first...... True love doesn't begin with sexual relationships.

Go out, mingle with people who share some of your interest. Have something beyond your genitals that you can bond over. With time, feelings might come in and often times mutually..... Then love can have a good ground to grow.

budaatum:
As in, how effective is it to lie to bag what is true?

As easy as it is to be corrupt and become wealthy I guess, though I doubt it doesn't come without a price, even if just the lack of peace of mind of being efcced some day.

But don't mind me. Lots of corrupt people do get away with it, but....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkNOcr5iHP4?si=4Awa1ZCLxbIf81hq

koladata:
It's hard to pretend when you are successful, it will show. The best way of finding true love is prayer. I'm not even a religious person but this one I'm soo sure it's the only right way.