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OSITA2love:

I am about to go and do the introduction into my fiancé's family but just find out that she has been chatting with her ex( who is already married for long) they have been calling each other for some time now and she have exposed our relationship to him.
They started reminding each other those good times they spend together and the guy keep on calling her love baby sweetheart and the guy told her that she would like to be served his favorite food that she is given me

Worse she told him that I'm not good at all when it comes to eat the apple.
Can a wife to be can act in such way?
But in spite of all this, she has not rebuked him but enjoying it and never been straight to him to stop him
I have catched her many times from one guy to another( all are her ex) never rebuke them but just keeping quiet. but I keep on forgiven; hoping that she will change . But this time, my cups is full.
Should I continue with this? My fellow brother

MhizPearl:
I got mine from my mum(God bless her soul).She told me she was sure I got swapped in the hospital. She also told me she wished I was never born. share yours

Donctoms:
Thread closed!

kingkakaone:
If she's the Christian girl I believe she's having guilt.
Her love for you may be her reason for giving in to sex so she won't lose you but her mind may be troubling her this "you are now having sex and later you will preach to others or pray"

Joiceee:
Is it something I can learn online without being guided

Joiceee:
Am in my final year in school.I have been thinking of learning a skill lately and am considering programming. But everyone thinks its not a good idea and I should probably go for fashion designing.
The issue is I have never had interest in fashion designing. Please what do you think about me learning programming, what does it entail, will there be so many opportunities?
Please I need your quick responses please!

healthserve:
Drama king. Leave the matter, you want take am fry beans!

HRHQueenPhil:
U won't lose that job..but u need to tell us Abt urself because I once helped someone get we're to sleep and he woke up annoyed that I didn't tell him d guy was a Muslim

Wumzygold:
Hi people,
I have a bf who really frustrates me. We have been dating for more than a year now and he get angry at little things...he insults me both privately and publicly whenever we quarrel.

Worst is he smokes sk and doesn't see anything wrong with it...he goes through my phone Everytime and even reply my messages sometimes. I can't have male friends cuz he calls me a prostitute whenever I talk to a guy.

The day I went through his phone I discovered he was asking so many girls out or either ask them for nudes or sexchat. I got angry and broke up with him but my dad had to settle it so I let it go.

The one he did last was when he asked me to come online on WhatsApp and it took me some minutes to do that and when I finally did I saw his messages saying I was busy with another guy which is why it took me long to get online and lots of insults.

I didn't reply to the messages and we didn't speak to each other for a week...he called and texted the next week but I didn't reply to any... I don't love him anymore and I want to break up with him but everyone including my family and his knows about our relationship.

.i can't explain to anyone what happened or they would try to get us back together.
Two months ago I met another guy and we have been going out a lot..he asked me out recently and I haven't replied him yet but I found out he womanize alot .

.I also found out that he has slept with most of the girls I know but when I asked him he said that was his past and he didn't have a gf then... I decided to give some space btw us cuz of his history with girls...

My bf is still calling with different numbers and threatening me since he found out am going out with someone else.

I don't know how to get break up with my bf and get him off my back.. I like the new guy a lot but the girls won't just stop calling him and my friends advised me to go back to my bf and forgive him since there is no perfect guy but I don't love him anymore and I don't want insults either....

Should I give the new guy a chance or let him go?
How do I tell my family and friends about my bf without them getting us back together again.

Please kindly advice
Thanks.

lollybizzu:
Okay...how did you learn it?
Personally, I mean by yourself or paid learning?
And is there a kind of special certification for that?

lollybizzu:
You mean vlookup and pivot tables?

lollybizzu:
What skill is that bro.
Please I'm interested.

jlomz:
@Francisayo I sincerely wish i could talk to you on phone right now, but bro, you really need to calm down first and be true and honest to yourself.
I had a similar experience and God! oh how I regret the decision I took then, if not for the mercy of God, Local man for don enter voicemail by now. Bros accept the #25K job for a start.
Lemme also tell you that one of the greatest gifts God has given you is the location of the school, jejely resume the school, use the tranquil environment and atmosphere to adequately plan your life. Oluwa has also buttered ur bread with a mobile phone such that you can even access the internet, use it judiciously. Join Twitter, follow sensible people that will help ur life and future; listen also very well but be careful to what you give ur ear to.
Finally, for the hanty that is doing ur head Turnionwon, kindly give her space so you can face and build your life. If she's for you, she'll understand and wait, if she's not, I give her 3/6/9months, you go hear say she don marry.


So brother, i leave you with this from Proverbs 4:7 "Wisdom is the principal thing, therefore get Wisdom; and in all thy getting, get Understanding". Use ur Akanuche ooooooooO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Francisayo:
My life has always been going well until I lost my dad when I was in year one in university, it shocked me so hard but I still manage to graduate...

I graduated and served d nation.

I have always been an extrovert and I like places that are lively...

I have a lovely gf who is so understandable even though I'm not taking care of her as expected cos of my lack of job

I served and returned home, I have spent 9 months at home since after my service, I looked for job everywhere but no job in sight, my uncle looked for job for me but d job is too tough with little salary ( they call it sales representative but d description is of sales boy), going to work from Monday 8 am to 6 pm Saturday with 18k salary which 6k will go for transport fare in a month.

I know I won't be able to cope with it so I rejected it, but it now seems I'm becoming a burden to my family as they look at me as if I don't want to work.

A woman told me to come and be teaching in her school, jss1 and jss2 only typically a new school, the school location is typically a village, but d pressure from home is much for me and doubt
left me with no choice than to accept d offer, d pay is 25k per month... Though out of it I'll be d one to pay for rent and furnish it, house rent is #1500/month....

I traveled to d place today and I can't believe what i met, d place is a very local place and everywhere is just so quiet and boring, i have 5 students in my class.

My gf is already serving and we've not seen each other for months which is already having a bad effect on our relationship...i got home this afternoon and having deep thinking with tears in my eyes if this is how i will continue to live my life...Im 27yrs of age and seems no direction in where my life is going...

Pls, i need mature advice from mature people pls...

It's looking as if i can't survive here at all and my gf is complaining cos better things are not looking to be forthcoming soon.

I'm typing this with tears in my eyes, pls pardon d errors

Dathypebruv:
Thunder faya yah yansh

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Ofemmanu1:
From Ikorodu to Yaba, stop at onigbongbo bustop cross to the other side and enter Opebi Allen.

oscarmoney:
thanks
have let go of it jare
Na d guy I feel sorry for d most cuz d girl have like two boyfriends in school dat she told me about then thou she told me she' doesn't love Dem like her boyfriend ..buh surprise m most is that d girl do tell me things she doesn't tell her boyfriend or siblings self

eddieguru:
They do not exist at all. the ones you see, are, we're just friends but still do shit...for me I have five besties and a girlfriend, that doesn't mean I won't have to bleep them all




Can't let someone daughter take me for granted as our op is been taken for granted because he didn't bleep that bitch

Smh for op

luvyaself95:
I can't oh
who besties epp
why can't she be bestie with girl like her.

BronzeMajik:
don't take it personal, my fiance and I were besties before we took it to the next level.
the young man is only trying to protect his interest.

luvyaself95:
nowadays besties are scam i couldn't blame the guy for not trusting you and the girl.
it would be better you guys find solution between yourself.

MrHandsome2013:
I got this mail from a friend and he needs your input
I got my ond four years ago and due to financial constraints i couldnt further.
I got a teaching job and i was able to save 100,000.
age is no longer on my side, i am 34 years and life has been unfair to me.
should i go for my hnd or startup a biz.

festilla:
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Raymondluv:
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Caezer252:
Good Afternoon everyone..
Please I need an advice.
I was Mobilized in this Current Batch B stream II 2019. I was posted to Ekiti State and was expected to report to camp on the 20th of August which was on Tuesday but due to incomplete documents that I couldn't sort out because of the 1week NASU strike , I couldn't go to camp. Now I have sorted my documents but I don't know if it's still possible to go to camp. And if I can't, what will be my punishment ? Will I be re-deployed? What should I do?

Does anyone have an idea please.

Koolking:
Oh no, that was almost a decade ago. The publicity was outsourced.

Koolking:
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starbuck:
I miss you. No, let me correct that, I miss the old you. I miss the old you that cared about me and the old you that would treat me so well. The old you that would talk to me every day and always have me smiling. I miss the old you that made me happy and knew what to say at any given point in time. I miss the old us.