₦airaland Forum

izuch:
All I'm saying is that under no circumstance should you make a woman or women an issue. When you become too emotional to a woman/women you start becoming irrational, seeking advice everywhere possible. If she turned your marriage proposal down "two years ago" finito, just do "friends". Go to her wedding, wish her well in her marriage sojourn and stop acting like a vindictive wussbag. Most of all triangle your mind to like plenty girls without over sampling one.

iCauseTrouble:
Yes. You can list on the different market places. I have a working blog that I listed on dan, Afternic and Epik

Avast:
Hello here, I need someone that has knowledge of IC. I work as technical support at one of the telecommunication company in Nigeria and what we do most times is replacement of IC. I need where to purchase different IC locally if possible. We only work on Mifi and Router, I don't know if they use the same IC with phones.
I can get pictures here if necessary, thank you. 070sixfivefourninefourthreefive5

partnerbizn5:
I think it's only online that men form macho, red pill, mgtow, alpha male, players and PUA.

Only online that women don't chop guys mugu.

Only online that guys don't tolerate rubbish from girls. Only online that all guys treat women like trash.

Only online that girls beg guys endlessly.

BUT OUT THERE DAILY, I see the opposite happen. Go to shoprites, Crunchies etc on weekends and see what guys are doing. Yet will come online to form macho so as to belong or stay woke.

We all know how some men beg and pet their spouses out there especially in the sack during coitus.

Some of them cook, wash, take kids to school, etc.

I know a guy that has been begging a girl for 3 years to marry him, he even sent friends. He may be on Nairaland too forming red pill.

Many will come online to form macho, deceiving others.

Same way some feminists wanna be collect prricck upandan, some even fall pregnant like Linda ikeji.

Guys be not deceived.

sp749513:
Good moring nairalanders.

I want justice pls.

I was jailed 4 years ago when i was arrested,tried and sentenced for fraud.

I was not a criminally minded person but do to the economic hardship and how to provide for my wife and daughter I went into fraud.

My wife was supporting our union with her trade which the income was very low and to feed was war.

To cut the long story short when i was in prison she do visit occasionally but during 3 years spent already she stop visiting.

When i was freed last 2 months and to know what ups I went to where we live and learnt from a neighbour that my wife has parked out from our 2 rooms apartment and is now living with a man.

I got the address,went their and lo and behold she was heavily pregnant for the man.

I felt like fainting that moment and to make matter worse she said it to my face that she can't live with an ex convict.

My 5 years old daughter wants me back but my wife and her family are fighting against that.


I still love my wife despite her betrayal but the pregnancy and her refusal to give me back my daughter is giving me problem.

I want justice against the wife snatcher and i want back my wife and daughter.



Please what is the best ways to go about it so as not to go against the law.

Mods,I want justice.

wisdomclass:
Am writing this out of the bitterness of my heart. Am sad as elf and i just have to pour this out here.

Am a student of the Delta State University. Last session, i observed the activities of some men defrauding innocent students around the school so i wrote an article about it. Just recently, while i was passing the university gate, i saw these men and decided to take pictures to support my write up. I never knew one of them was behind me, he came on me, took my IPhone Xmas, Slapped me and before i knew it, more than Seven hefty men came pouncing on me while onlookers, even students stood watching.

It took the grace of God to leave that place with swollen face. I reported the issue to the police and they are asking I make payment before they take me serious.

I want justice for what happened to me. Please someone should help

xaggar:
Yes some do administrative tasks (office duties) but could be rotated to try other departments. However, we are all operational or general duty staff: meaning we all could go out to the field.

xaggar:
Ond is placed on level 6 @ N50k or thereabout.
Further studies would upgrade u to level 8 or 9 (depending on the course studied) but must be from a govt recognised or known institution not just any but u must notify the agency when u get an admission

harizonal123:
"Jamaican castor oil" sold in big supermarkets. You can Google it

bunnae:
Please I'm interested in learning data science. I have started learning on codecademy.com though but I kind of need pointers, sometimes I feel like I'm everywhere.

Please is there any data scientist to help me find my way on the basics? And also suggest useful materials that can be of help to me. I want to build a career in this area. So please share your experiences with me on your own journey and the resources you used. Thank you

IamNotWariz:
Why should you beg to be loved?? That should be your first focus

As a man, are you that worthless Because that's the impression you are giving

swaggzo:
Women bashers, Clueless Men, and people that have never been in love, please keep off.
I'm already seeing some worthless "offpoint" statements and disregard.

harizonal123:
More fruits and veggies. Also use castor oil as hair cream. Problem solved

GentleChief:
Please guys, how do you over come heart breaks? I really want to forget this girl forever. But its as if my soul is glued to hers. Anytime she cheats and I want to leave, my heart area will pain me so much.

FYI, she is very beautiful, very intelligent, very smart and very knowledgeable. She can pet you like a baby. She can cook like the best chef in the world and is very domesticated. Trust me in assessing this in a human being.

This lady is every guys dream. Trust me on this. But I want to forget her. I think am done.

Am not a sissy or a wuss like most of you will claim here. Its just something natural. Love is a natural thing. A man is meant to have a mate.

But this time around, I want to forget this girl for real before she infects me with a disease or bad luck.

lalasticlala:
Please always tag my moniker correctly

Legionx:
I posted before about my problem with sexual urges...

https://www.nairaland.com/5494838/how-control-sexual-urges-school

Well today I went to school and I met a girl in my department that has been disturbing me since first semester...

The girl told me that she wants to be my girlfriend although I told her I will give her an answer later .

She told me she will help me cook, clean and any other aspects..

Truly I need someone to help me cook because I can't cook and I have gone to sleep hungry so many times because I spend more than 1k to eat per day

I want to stay away from girls because they can lead to my downfall..

But the hunger keeps making me to rethink

This girl is one of the five girls in my department that are on my neck, she is the only one that is brave enough to ask

I need advice from those that have graduated

sanmy:
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gabazin080:
my wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.
after clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.
now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


please help with any local or natural method of family planning

subtlemee:
She's expecting you to react so ignore her let her be disappointed

Godhand1:
She met this guy during the same time I met her but he is a married man with 2 kids and still promise to wife my gf

The guy is rich and gives her money and lots of expensive gift...I.e expensive birthday...expensive phone..iPhone 11pro

She said she loves me..that she's just in for the money with the married man

I knew about this ahead, i never ask about it but she told me herself and ask me to just give her a while...who knows what she might be telling the married man also?

Just some advice? I honestly love her ......but I cant give myself the right advice now

TemmyT002:
Lmao
Thank God I found something better

Mrcashman87:
I am not new to Nairaland but I have to use this account for my story . I have met her in 2009 she was calm , doesn’t talk much but easily get angry and I also noticed that she wasn’t a good cook but was good in other things ( chores) , it didn’t stopped me from loving her, I didn’t tell any of my people even though I have sisters that are good cook but I decided to take her to catering school to learn how to cook which she went for lessons to practice.

We got married in 2013 , she got pregnant that same month and she became so lazy that I will go to work and come back to found the house very messy with everything’s all over the places , dirty dishes and not dinner yet, and I have to take over cleaning and cooking dinner for us. She claimed she could not longer clean the house , she is tired and need to rest so I have decided to get a house help for her , a small 14 years old, this girl was hard working , very obedient but to my wife she is evil , every single day I comes back from work , this girl is always in tears my wife will beat the hell out of her to the extent of giving her black eye , if I confront her she will start accusing me of sleeping with the girl which is not true, I can never stoop so low to sleep with an underage girl. I have nieces of similar ages what I wouldn’t want another person to do to my nieces and wouldn’t do to another person daughter.

One time I came back from work to found the girl in a pool of blood , that my wife hit her with a wooden chair and she had a deep cut on her head , I got angry with my wife even her reasons didn’t make sense to me , all because she asked the poor girl to warmed up the baby milk and she mistakenly left it for too long , the milk was too hot to give to the crying baby so she got angry at her and hit her . I have told my wife she shouldn’t act like that no matter what and here come again you are sleeping with her and that’s why u are siding with her , we had an heated argument that I have left the house to cool down , I came back after 5 hours and next morning I have send for my brother to take the girl back to her parents , I have given her money 30k to manage that was how the girl left the house.

When our first child was 6 months , we found out she was 2 months pregnant she cried that the baby is too small , she can’t keep the pregnancy , I have begged her to keep that everything will be alright . Our twins were born a girl and boy , having 3 children under 2 wasn’t easy for us and I have to go to work while she staying with the kids all alone and she was depressed , I have decided to bring in a house help 15 years old boy , the same thing repeated again , she was maltreated him the same thing she did with the girl , that boy didn’t even stays with us for 2 months , he run away . I came back to found her crying that the boy has slapped her and run away, I was angry for what he did even swear if I catch him , he will regret the day he was born but the other way I knew that boy did it for self defence .

After the boy left I said no more e help , she will have to manage alone because I couldn’t help her anymore , but my house become dirty that I wouldn’t even want to bring in visitors because of the state of the house , dirty plates can stay in the sink for 3 -4 days , laundry she has a washing machine but she couldn’t bother to do , cooking we eats take away every single night , imagine I comes back home 9pm due to my job and Lagos traffic , at that time I’m even exhausted but I have to started cleaning , one time I got pissed with her that she didn’t wash the eldest daughter school uniform and all her uniform 5 sets of uniform were dirty and she had no clean one to put on in the morning , I have to wash them at 10pm and for her she didn’t see anything wrong with that.

When the twins were 1 years she told me she is tired of staying at home that she wanted to go to work , I have told her to wait at least for them to be a year and 6 months to start school before she can pursue her career but she disagreed with me, so I gave her money for business , she opened a shop . We had an agreement that she should be closing down her shop at 7pm so she could be home with the kids and take care of the house , she was ok and I got a elderly woman as a help , she doesn’t lives with us , she comes at 6 am and closes at 8pm and I also brought 2 of my nieces 18 and 11 to the house. Every since she started working she has never get home on time , sometimes she stays until 10pm , if I talk she get angry and will start raining insults on me , we haven’t make love in a long time , she always complains of being tired , her stomach is paining her etc etc. I have decided to leave her alone and not bother her about sex anymore , and it doesn’t bother too. She acts as im a nobody to her. So it happened in July I came back home to found my niece 11 years old with a deep cut and blood on her eyebrows and my wife did it just because the girl broke a plate so she hit the girl with the broken plate , first all I had to rush her to the hospital and she had 11 stitches and went back home, all I wanted to sit with her and to talk sense with her but she wasn’t even interested all she could do was shouting at me , accusing me of sleeping with both my nieces and the elderly house help , was so angry that I have beaten her badly which I later regretted and apologise to her.

That was the first time I have lay my hand on her something I vow not to do to the woman I love but she pushed me so bad and I have been remorseful but she refuse to forgive me . It’s now 4 months we don’t talk , we don’t sleep in the same room , she just do her own and come home anytime she pleases. I just don’t know what to do anymore , I love my wife and children but her attitudes isn’t right. We have 3 beautiful children 5and twins are 4. Sometime i want to divorce her but when I think about my children I just don’t feel like going ahead with divorce but I’m also a human and can’t stop living like this .

Please my brothers and sisters help me with your advices

seunmohmoh:
What was your main course.

Hamachi:
Mention one thing nobody taught you how to do but you can do it very well??

CROCHETING

donbachi:
Romieo and Juliet...if u have watched dat movie,u will see dat both of died.

TemmyT002:
At all
It was boring

Johnpaul1099:
Very cute child

aro1:
but you love the girl,why is promising her marriage a stupid thing?

lilianofentse:
don't really know why, I think its psychological. a guy that was quite good turned out to be a cheat. so I just dropped out of relationships.

aro1:
I used the last money on me to send her #1000 airtime,so that she could subscribe data on her phone,and i still borrowed #50 credit to send it. Last last,she still broke my heart..
Lets share the most stupid thing we ever did for love?
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Seun
Dominique

lilianofentse:
I gave him my virginity but he wasn't good in bed, since then I've not been able to enjoy sex.