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Darivie04:
Learning on one's own can be very discouraging since you have few people to talk and share ideas with. There are some online communities but they don't compare to physical communication with other people.

I don't live in Lagos so I can't suggest places in Lagos but I'm sure some others can.

It is not easy

Hiqma:
O dear, please you can chat me up if you like, I just wrote those preferences because I felt I would have more in common with people like that.
Amin to your prayer, thanks

I received your mail, I will surely get back to you. Thank you.

Kapello8:
Hello Guys,

Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain.

So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck and took away all d Joy and Happiness....

This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat...

I lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship...

I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel...

She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty....

I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore.

I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back....
I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls.

When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call.
She doesn’t wana even talk to me.


The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted...

Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me

Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love her.

Mods please move to front page.

How are you so sure she is not just using your predicament to excuse herself from the relationship. What if she wanted to leave before. Bros fear woman

Just give her some time, she will comes back for you if she loves you.

Preciousgirl:
How does theirs happen

Thou it is not everytime, but you can see it after erection. It is whitish liquid, just small of it will come out.

Yeh, but not as much as ladies.

Preciousgirl:
I particularly like guys with a black upper lip and red lower lip


What's yours

What I love most are gap tooth and dimple,but I go crazy when I see a girl with NICE front.

kaybills:
Hi. Trust you good? Sorry I can't access the mail this account is tied to.

Good to hear from you

I am good.

Please is NOUN form available for sale at present. Undergraduate

Lawalemi:
If that is all you see around Ota, I doubt your prosperity will come from the city

Lol, Savage

Hiqma:
I didn't see any message.

Will try again

kaybills:
Yea sometimes it really feels bad not having friends nor the ones who can understand you.

But we are already in this kind of temperament, and of course it doesn't make anyone less human apart from that it sucks sometimes.

I have had very nice fellas as friends, but they are few, though they changed with time. I haven't been able to make new ones since moving to Lagos over a year now.

So I would like meet new ones here, especially those born before the 90s

I think it's step to know we are all we need to get better.

Regards!

You have one already. I will dm you.

I need Nokia 1 power flex. I will appreciate if any engineer can source for it, I need to buy one and it is urgent.

NACE13:
I deliberately did many years ago. There was this chick I was into then, I just typed a cool message pretending like I was sending it to my brother. The content of the message was how I met a girl I'm seriously into and she rocks my world, makes my heart beat faster than normal and then sent it to her, making it look like a mistake. As you guessed right, She called to be sure and I pretended like she wasn't meant to see it, and feigning being embarrassed about it.

Well, I guess my intentional mistake broke down her defences and won me her heart

Bad boy

Hiqma:
If you find your soul mate marriage is actually very beautiful.

I sent you dm

Hiqma:
My own husband doesn't even want to be my trusted friend. Always hassling me about ' who is your best friend', ' who do you visit'? 'nobody is as introverted as you in this whole world', he knew me like this before marriage oooo.
I thought we would be able to share like a best friend bond after marriage but he didn't want that. He has gone to bring his childhood friend from another state to live with us. The two of them are always together and I now feel like the third party or clog in their wheel. I used to try initially to join their conversations but he would just ignore me sometimes or dismiss me. His friend is a jealous person and that one sometimes laughs when he does that.

The truth is that I actually have like two ' friends' in our area that I am a bit close to but they themselves are extremely extroverted and everybody is their friend, lol. So I can't call them close friends.

Sometimes it gets depressing though. If I was more outgoing maybe I would have been able to find a spouse that I really gel with and can be best friends with. But introversion and genotype issues just severely limited my chances of finding that type of person.

I can't see the option of pm in your profile, I would have sent you one.

Hmmmm, I do ask myself why people think there is something special about being married. I can categorically say that marriage is over hype. I feel your pain dear,but since you already there you gat no choice but to create an empire of love with your children.

chii8:
Thank you so much,I have been into this for 10years with just my husband alone. I came to understand that people keep friend or friends aside their spouse. Only one fits into the friendship circle but she has a lot people around her,so may not even notice me or have my time.And don't like rubbing myself all over people, I'm afraid also of the friend hurting me.

It really depend on the reason you want to keep friends. We are all your friends here.

princemillla:
U mean after connecting the battery clip

Yes

princemillla:
That means the battery terminal don pull out. U need to open the Fone and reclip the battery. If still not showing anything connect the battery terminal and try to boot the dome up .. no response yet? Connect to a system and see if there is any form of connection . If yes ur screen is gone

It only make sound on system but not showing on the system.

nellyquash:
Am equally an introvert and fun to be with. Never a dull moment with me especially when we are close.

Morning here, My tecno fell down and goes off. Since then it has not come on, Even it will not charge if I plug my charger. what could be the problem?

princemilla
freelancerx

nellyquash:
What do you guys think about this statement.....I don't pray to get married to an introvert because i feel the house will be so boring.

What are your take on this?

Let's discuss and share our views.

Being an introvert has nothing to do with that. I am an introvert, you can never regret spending a day with me. Some extrovert can't even keep their house bubble.

lekzytaker:
hello,my name is on my school's Senate list for batch B, and I don't intend to serve now. I wish to go in November or next year. what can I do to push this further?

Don't register

banchuz:
Her mama or mama sister nko

Bad Nigga

DiscerningSpy:
You are not in this alone. Its only God that can help us. In fact, I'm always scared of what the future holds for me and age is not on ones side. Tired of the joblessness in the country. One is just sitting at home doing nothing.

Its not even easy doing a business. Tried over four now and none worked out and lack of fund is another big problem. Tired of brainstorming on what to do which is just like building castles in air.

Depression is not our portion in Jesus name. However, I will gladly share my salary for two months with anyone that can help me get a job too.

Just continue to learn skills and try to master it. One day you will be happy.

PUSSYHOE:
the fastest way to deal with break up is to fvck the hoe's sister

What if she no get sister?

ferrariLaferrari:
Bro hear me well
Don’t stay in same room with her again,let her come around you herself. Act as if you don’t give a bleep about anything she does, later she will get tired if she’s always nagging alone.
If you divorce her now, your kids moral and mental psychology will be damaged.
So just play cool God be with you sir

I will not support this, what if she turns out to be sexually satisfied outside.

Juliearth:
Emotionally weak? Then you shouldn't get married. Even if you marry an Angel, your willpower would be tested and your energy zapped. You have to work OK that bro.

Yeah, am really working on that and I believe things will get better soon.

GrabHisBalls:
The worst thing that could happen to a man is to marry a bad wife. Some women could be managed, but a bad one has no redemption. I've seen and heard enough to believe that women pretend the most while in courtship just to be wifed, and after marriage, you get to see a whole new person. At times, love clouds your sense of judgment so it's easy to be fallible. Don't blame yourself. You only picked the wrong one.

I won't tell you to leave, or stay. Whatever decision you make is your prerogative.

I prefer to remain single than getting married to somebody that will sign my suicide note. I can't cope in that type of marriage because I am emotionally weak.

R2bees:
Is Anyone having a bad feeling about the world in today? mine started a couple of days back, my heart is heavy.. seems something strange is gona happen

Many strange things will happen.

I have been following this thread for a while, just feel like is time I write something about myself too. Actually I know am an introvert, I don't know how to relate or make friends with people and people think is pride. There is this kind of thing inside me that always tell me I can do it but I usually end up being unable to make friends. Only those that are closer to me know that I am loving, caring and naughty . When I chat with people, they will be like is that real you. In a nutshell, I love staying alone.

senatorken01:
is this group still active?

What do you want

humblesteve:
Computer village but the difference isn’t even much or worth stressing yourself if you ain’t close to ikeja

okay, thanks.