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WowSweetGuy:
Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.
We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

Oga stop calling her. I hate guys disturbing themselves on girls matter.

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Olalekank:
Las las everything na scam

Even your present no get WAEC

And your past get JAMB

Calyb:
I also heard you will say something like this

I heard you will see my post

Soccerbliz:
I sold out my business shop when i was thinking I'm going to settle down with a lady who plan to marry me. I asked her to come and be staying with me in Lagos where I'm working cos I'm doing fine and ok here, but she reasoned out that pregnant may enter and she doesn't have any relative in Lagos to be with her during pregnancy. Then we both decided to relocate to kaduna state where her relatives lives. That's make me to quit my business and sold out the shop.

I have gotten to another state and have rented an apartment to stay with the lady. But no job yet, no business yet, due to the environment. but still hoping to see one.

One day, we had misunderstanding, she left the house and didn't come back for two days, she only sent message to me that she's pregnant and she will get rid of it so that it will pain me. I was shocked when i received the message.

I can't imagine quitting my business and relocated just in case she get pregnant and now the pregnant has come, what she could go for is to get rid of it.

When i called her to know her where about she will shout at me that why i'm asking of her where about.

She finally came back and i didn't know she has been taking abortion pills. Later in the evening that she came back, she rushed to the bathroom and piss out some blood and thick clots. I entered the bathroom and i saw it, and i knew it. She has gotten rid of it!

I asked why she did this, she said because she was annoyed at me. I cried and cried.

I quit my business, i relocated, i rented an apartment all in case she get pregnant. Now the pregnant came and she wasted it and she knew she has really hurt me and finished me and make me feel bitter pain. She packed her things and left me alone.

I don't know what to do again, i lost everything. I keep thinking and thinking for many days but don't know what to do. I regret my life.

To my surprise, Today, i got a call from the guy that bought my shop that he's willing to sell out the shop cos he's traveling soon.

Now i don't know if i should buy the shop back and relocate back to continue my business. What of the apartment i have already rented here. I have only spent 2months and have already bought TV, Matrass, rug, electronics, kitchen items and fully furnished the apartment.

Please, what should i do? I'm so confused and depressed now.

I can't believe somebody like you still exist.

nuradeen011:
lets settle this ones and for all there is nothing like guarantors form in NSCDC, i ask someone that is a member of CDFIPB board they normally use it, but this time around they are likely to call only few people for interview, if you like fill as many guarantors form as possible guarantors form is not as relevant as many people take it.

Thank you bro. Mr Master holder no get connection with people that will give him this kind of valuable information.

Selfless1:
Can I Do Data Analysis on an Android phone? if yes, please how, I want to learn data analysis using mobile phone. I just need it for just Undergraduate project

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You can only learn about it on phone but can't do it on

Bash26:
Lol i finished my MSc in 2014 Elders keee you there

Still you lack sense

gentlejin:
I pity you. Cos even a secondary school student will know that there is no guarantor's form. You're a disgrace to Msc holders.

Seriously a total disgrace

calabardick:
Why not allow that boy wallow in his ignorance?

Lol, that is why he has someone like you here.

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.
Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.
She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

Cc: AstroG funmisticqueen Blackivy29 Amatarasha Onyi22 stupidity iLegendd

What do you want to end when you haven't started anything. You guys are not in relationship so why stressing yourself.

Kevsmart88:
U don't jump the gun broda....lemme tell u a lil secret...neva make sex a priority when seeking a relationship,you know why? Cos U just made her up her game unconsciously...I want a woman that would build a dynasty with me,if she finds out am not overly concerned about sex(like the rest), she goes back to the drawing board hence becoming even more resourceful....don't 4get am seeking for a life partner not a sex mate....i need a woman that would spur me to achieve the extraordinary not one who would weaponise sex at the slightest provocation....

You want a life partner Not a Jackie Chan.
Lol

Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

No lady, I repeat no lady would ever test a guy with sex. She wanted sex and you rejected so she change level.

Which kind test is that

Mandyvicky:
I know am not supposed to bring my relationship issues here but I can't help it��
I stay with him at school cuz am having issues with my admission didn't want to go home cuz I will keep reminding my parents of the huge amount of money they wasted. I love this guy very much I don't joke with him and am a very good cook so I love cooking for people to eat, he cooks too so he is this kind of person that likes bragging about what he can do, so at times I ignore him. But what he did today is really painful. He was sick so I decided to make moi moi for us(with his sister) was washing d beans then he came to the kitchen, started telling me how I should have washed d beans(Wai I shud select d shafts first before pouring water) I was like it's still d same thing then I complained to the sister and she had to tell him (oga na dsame thing) I continued 4rm where I stopped (I was already provoked) but I didn't shout later I trekked to the market to grind the beans came back (mixed the stuff, started cooking) he was like it will take 40 minutes to cook I didn't talk.
I went to sit waiting for the moi moi to get ready within a while he came oooh (my name) it's ready ooo so I stood up didn't want to argue with him went straight to the kitchen brought the stuff down, removed them from the hot pot. Guess what the moi moi didn't cook well, he said is because I didn't put them well. (note) it's not my first time of cooking moi moi in the house ooo, so I got angry I swear the thing pained me then I told him to stop telling me what to do in d kitchen that I don't like it (it's annoying) pls stop he was like he will slap me we exchanged words. Right now am pained cuz it's not the first time he doing this he does strange things that I can't even say. His cousin came last time he was telling her how cooks very well Wai have she tasted his food before a guy for that matter, which one is dragging with ur girlfriend who cooks better than the other

Pls nairalanders help me I don't know what to do
Ur advice is need
Pls don't mind my write up
Thanks

You are just a evals.


You running away from calamity but moving towards disaster.

happybee:
And one mod go push this go front page o..

Nairaland is losing her value already.

Hamachi:
What did your last relationship teach you?....

Me: Don't love,don't trust, just be there let things be!

To 4uck as many times as possible.

ValCon888:
One man's meat is another man's poison.
If you know how many men are looking for a reserved homely wife like that you will thank God for many blessings.

It is your duty to explain to them she's the shy type so they can meet her half way.

I dey tell you, this is the kind of woman I want in my life. Thou, I found one already. She is sweet and caring.

franchasng:
Sometimes I wonder where u ladies meet these kind of guys oh seriously hmmm, honestly I still find it difficult to believe that a Nigerian guy would summon the courage to ask a Nigerian lady he is not officially married to for financial help, I still doubt it.



Could it be that u ladies having this issue were once chopping men maga and maybe now karna wants to balance things for the world to be at peace Because I am still finding it hard to believe cos all the guys I know even when we were seriously struggling to find our feet, they never had the shame to ask any lady for help, not even their own sisters. I remember one of my friends back then had a kind of rich elder sister but this guy even when we encourage him to ask his sister for help would blatantly refuse that he can't do that, and today he is super made, God is great!!


Me I remember meeting one lady online then when things were so rough and this girl happens to come from a rich home and she just got a job with one of the best government parastatals in Nigeria then, guess what ended that wonderful affair

I didn't want her to know I was struggling then, I was so ashamed to let her visit me where I and some friends were squatting then. I told her I was doing a menial job though which she never bothered and never asked me for money, in fact she asked me for my bank details one day I told her I was traveling out of the state for a job interview, but shame and pride didn't allowed me to


She kept on demanding I take her to where I was living, I always divert the topic and we only met at fast foods and once at a garden and at a point when I lost out in a big job I was about to secure which I planned to use to surprise her and maybe officially ask her to be my one and only the day I will break the news of the job to her, I had to quit the relationship and told her we can't continue, she cried and asked me what she did bad, I never told her and that was the end, so I doubt this story of Nigerian guys begging ladies for money, it sound strange to me

Don't mind her.

rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants

Is it by force to be in relationship, you have been having issues from one bf to another since 2016.

STOP DATING UNDERAGE GUYS

thariodamaniac:
More like a statement "you just 4get me na"... I can strangle the person

This statement is mostly said by beggars

Pope22:
Am heart broken and its painful. A girl I have dated for good 3 years just walked away. I met her when she never enterd university. I stood by her, registered her in jupeb and got her a jamb form. She got admission and I have never left her side. I rent house for her, used to give her money before she asked, I made sure she never lacks. I got her gifts, phones, clothes, etc. I always take her out. She has the spare keys to my house and she can come anytime she wants. I never cheated on her. I took her siblings as mine and also do help some of her friends. She cheated on me many times in the past and i forgave have. I have been so nice and caring to her and I have been the best for her for good 3 years. Last month, she stared misbehaving. She started by refusing me access to her phone, said she doesn't want me to see things that will make feel bad even when they dont mean anything. She stopped having sex with me and said she needed break for sex. From there, she said she needed space and time to sort out personal things and from there, she broke up with me. I could not lay any hands on what I have done or where I have wronged her. I asked her many times to tell me what the problem is and she refused. When I persisted and disturbed many times, she opened up and told me that "Am the best she has ever had, that am the kindest and most generous guy she has ever known and that she will never find someone like me again.

She said that SHE NEVER LOVED" Am confused and in pain because it shocked me how could someone pretend to be in love for 3 years? Please, is it possible? I love her and its been hard for me to move on. How do I get over her? Please how do I fall in love with another girl with this kind of betrayal?

I need advice and help please. Anything that will make me get over her and out of this mess? 08070314305 for chats. Thanks

Àlàyé carry yourself enter ashawo aws, Bleep as you like till you forget someone like your gf exist.

EliteDude:
Hello nairalanders
Pls your help and sincere advice is needed. I was running a business outside Lagos, but due to many unforseen circumstances, the business crashed, am not giving up through.

The only challenge is the I've invested my all in this business and right now am broke and without a job, I really don't want to be a liability to anyone. I've been applying for jobs and funny enough most of them are in Lagos.

Nothing is forthcoming and I don't want to sit idle doing nothing. Am on my way to Lagos right now with no cue as to where I'd stay when I get there, but only arsenal is that I have a degree and am willing to take on any job that comes my way before I find my way.

Please help as regarding the place that's the safest to stay or hang around while hustling to raise cash to bounce back.

Who told you that you are going to make it in Lagos? Bro reason am well before you comot, everyone for Lagos now dey vex as someone earlier said.

orisa37:
Because The Alabakes have arrived.

Wa gbayì

peggywebbs:
Ok thank you. Saw it in a dream written on a billboard. Someone said its a parable or poem in the dream. I don't speak or understand Yoruba

If you are pregnant please don't abort it.

Thank you

Charleys:
I like girls like this.

Why

Serious matter

Gracealone:
Following the heavy downpour between yesterday and this morning in many parts of Lagos, please share your story about water level and flooding in your community.

At Isheri area, Channels TV Avenue, the total rainfall between yesterday and this morning was equivalent of to a whole month rain in a the middle of wet season. So many houses are flooded already in OPIC Estate and adjoining estates. Isheri North GRA is worst hit while OPIC was affected too because Ogun State government refused to provide quality drainage for residents.

We are okay here at ikorodu

AntiBrutus:
Most people will say StylPlus

Maybe early indomie generation children.

I can get married to a woman with 2 kids so far I found what I want in a woman in her.

Hintona:
So I'm in a relationship with this really cute guy, tall, dark and handsome but he's always hitting me for the littlest things, it's getting too much we are course mates and he even hits me in front of our fellow course mates. But they usually take it as a joke, to me it's not, I hate it and I've talked to him several times but he always apologises and does it again the next second though he has never beaten me seriously, I hate the knocks on the head and the slaps on the back.

what do I do?

You better think with your brain so that you will not be a disappointment to your parent very soon.