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Family › Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by ayenika1: 6:51am On Mar 30, 2019

Guest007:
I'm shocked this is coming from a 'M' that must stand for medium

What IF this disrespectful dog of a friend embarrassed this man in public.

In my community, the only etiquette we can't break:

A man is forbidden to sit down in the house of a married man, if married man isn't home, it was not her duty to *entertain men* in her matrimonial home, when the husband is out! Forgetting the fact that the said man never visit her. *religion-Islam*

If I was her my rule would be no men in my home in the absence of my husband, including his family, no be friend. Then we don't have stories that touch.

My mama never entertained "Uncles"

Thank you for this. Why would the man sit when his friend is not around? That calls for questioning. Probably,they are business partners, something huge is coming from the friend's side and loyalty is highly needed or they are cult members way back and the friend was the head or an officer who must be respected wherever and whenever.

I see no logic in going to a married woman's house whose husband is not around and sit if there is no ulterior motive to the extent of sending her on errand. To me,there is more to this that we need to know.

As a Social Worker,the background of the matter is very important before this woman can be psycho-educated. I believe she knows the friend before they got married so, what does the friend do for a living, what type of friends are they,how long has the friendship been,is the friend married, etc?

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Level 8 Salary In Federal Ministries As At December 2017 by ayenika1: 8:30pm On Mar 29, 2019

Youngk:
No show yet

Bro,I still dey this side o. Abeg, update if anything comes up. Thanks

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by ayenika1: 9:33am On Mar 28, 2019

Bodylicious:
The truth they say is bitter. It is really hard "very hard" to get a job in NNPC without having connection. Remember that a huge list will come from the presidency, which they usually acknowledge 90% of it. Another list from Senate, and so on....But with prayers and determination it will go well. If it is your job you will get it.

My brother,it is not only NNPC, it's all federal parastatal. If you don't have the right connection, it's kinda hard. Let me burst your brain. Three weeks before the advertisement, someone called to collect my details and few hrs later,a close pall called that his brother's friend working in NNPC called to request for his details via email. My own contact categorically told me to start reading GMAT.

That means they "might" have recruited and just using this to fulfill laid down rules. Not too certain as well because I was just brought into the film from a fourth party. I wish all applicants good luck but if you know someone that knows someone pls, start moving. #1kobo.

In a federal establishment I once temporarily worked, and had lots of hope just recruited 121staff. Yes,it is for real and not hearsay. No interview, no test,no advertisement and nothing just nepotism. I was not on the list though, but I knew it landed me in the hospital for 4days because this is a job,I was assured of but to my amazement even the top hierarchy were never in loop. Presently,they are kicking but this is Nigeria,they will all be compensated one way or the other in future underground recruitment.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by ayenika1: 9:32am On Mar 28, 2019

Bodylicious:
The truth they say is bitter. It is really hard "very hard" to get a job in NNPC without having connection. Remember that a huge list will come from the presidency, which they usually acknowledge 90% of it. Another list from Senate, and so on....But with prayers and determination it will go well. If it is your job you will get it.

My brother,it is not only NNPC, it's all federal parastatal. If you don't have the right connection, it's kinda hard. Let me burst your brain. Three weeks before the advertisement, someone called to collect my details and few hrs later,a close call called that his brother's friend working in NNPC called to request for his details via email. My own contact categorically told me to start reading GMAT.

That means they "might" have recruited and just using this to fulfill laid down rules. Not too certain as well because I was just brought into the film from a fourth party. I wish all applicants good luck but if you know someone that knows someone pls, start moving. #1kobo.

In a federal establishment that I once worked, and had lots of hope just recruited 121staff. Yes,it is for real and not hearsay. No interview, no test,no advertisement and nothing just nepotism. I was not on the list though, but I knew it landed me in the hospital for 4days because this is a job,I was assured of but to my amazement even the top hierarchy were never in loop. Presently,they are kicking but this is Nigeria,they will all be compensated one way or the other in future underground recruitment.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Showoff Your Qualifications Here, Let Your Employer Find You by ayenika1: 8:10am On Mar 28, 2019*

B.Sc International Relations
PGDE (Tertiary) Registered Teacher (TRCN)
Master's of Social Work (University of Ibadan)
Location - Abeokuta, Ibadan and Ondo
2yrs experience in Social Welfare and Community Development
2yrs Teaching experience in Secondary and Tertiary Institution.
1yr administrative experience
20+

Meticulous, Swift and Smart person you will always want to work with. Prefer working with an NGO or in a Tertiary Institution

tunjioui@gmail.com

Crime › Re: UPDATE: Nigeria Lady Laments As Fraudsters Move N4.8m From Her 75-yr-old Mom‘s D by ayenika1: 5:23am On Mar 26, 2019

Fash20:
I tried to use diamond bank atm to withdraw money from FCMB acct. They deducted my money and haven't refunded me since February. I have gone to my bank like 5 times to complain.

I hate that bank and I must get my money back.

@cbnnigeria on Twitter and tag diamond bank,you will be amazed with their swift response. Thank me later

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Crime › Re: UPDATE: Nigeria Lady Laments As Fraudsters Move N4.8m From Her 75-yr-old Mom‘s D by ayenika1: 5:20am On Mar 26, 2019

Diamond bank with lots of sad tales. I stopped banking with them 3years ago when I was defrauded. On every transaction I make, N1 is deducted even intra-bank transfer which will never appear on my SOA but the balance says otherwise. I complained,I even called customer care,I did a transaction while on call,the guy was dazed. He just told me it would be looked into. Days after, the manager called that I was not saying the truth. The next thing after he hung up was to move all my money and that was how I ended banking with them. That bank is a FRAUD.

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Crime › Re: Debby: Lady goes missing after traveling to Abeokuta to meet Ayo, online friend by ayenika1: 4:57am On Mar 26, 2019

Ladies of nowadays are also seeking for rich guys. Where I work,one of the corpers said,I can only marry a rich guy. Immediately,I sat her down and told her,she needs a Counselor asap. The other one said,I will marry and just have kids. No time to stay with a man who will cheat. Immediately,I called a married woman to counsel her.

The young generation have lost it all to wealth and riches. The Clerics are not helping matters. They preach riches and prosperity. Technology has worsened it by eroding our culture and we are now left with everyman for himself.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by ayenika1: 5:51pm On Mar 17, 2019

The passport stuff sucks,pls help

Education › Re: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by ayenika1: 8:54pm On Mar 16, 2019

Mexico applicants,lets create our own group,pls

Education › Re: Finished With A Third Class Degree, Can I Do Masters? by ayenika1: 9:21pm On Mar 15, 2019

Try as much as possible to do PGD in your required field. For instance, if you intend studying Chemistry at Master's level, let your PGD also align with Chemistry for easy Master's application. Best of luck bro..!

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: PwC Graduate Recruitment 2019 by ayenika1: 10:39am On Mar 05, 2019

mcshegs:
Anyone in Ibadan who needs a study partner? Got quite a handful of study materials. Sent some out to random emails here. Plus Free WiFi available.

Location in IB

Politics › Re: APM, The New ATM In Ogun After 7 Years Of Neglect. by ayenika1: 8:14am On Mar 01, 2019

We already know. Even the Ascon people about 10k or more that paid 10k for form,went through series of interviews,and yet,no final list has been released are mad at him.

APC's candidate is a rich man with no intergrity 'cos, I don't know how a man that wines and dines with the likes of Dangote and Otedola will join political and belittle himself. At last we all knew he only possess WAEC certificate. Where is the morality and intergrity? He ought to have attain the power of Tinubu and likes in his domain and develop it to a very large extent. What does he want in politics.? For me,he's a bad candidate.

APM,as you rightly said,we don't want a stooge again. We are tired of "Oga has not approved" et al. He should have just went back to Rep. It's certain,he will loose

ADC, let's try a new hand who has no blemish on bad record. Let us try the young man and see what his first time will look like. As for me,if I leave this hospital bed,I owe him my vote as a first time Voter.

Good luck to all aspirants. May be best win and have the people at heart. We are more political conscious so,if your first term is poor,forget the second term. No more godfatherism in Ogun State again

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Politics › Re: APM, The New ATM In Ogun After 7 Years Of Neglect. by ayenika1: 8:12am On Mar 01, 2019

We already know. Even the Ascon people about 10k or more that paid 10k for form,went thru series of interviews,and yet,no final list has been released are mad at him.

APC's candidate is a rich man with no intergrity 'cos I don't know how a man that wines and dines with the likes of Dangote and Otedola will join political and at last we all knew he only possess WAEC certificate. Where is the morality and intergrity? He ought to have attain the power of Tinubu and likes in his domain and develop it to a very large extent. What does he want in politics.? For me,he's a bad candidate.

APM,as you rightly said,we don't want a stooge again. We are tired of "Oga has not approved" et al. He should have just went back to Rep. It's certain,he will loose

ADC, let's try a new hand who has bo blemish on bad record. Let us try the young man and see what his first time will look like. As for me,if I leave this hospital bed,I owe him my vote as a first time Voter.

Good luck to all aspirants. May be best win and have the people at heart. We are more political conscious so,if your first term is poor,forget the second term. No more godfatherism in Ogun State again

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Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Results (Unofficial, Live Updates) by ayenika1: 10:24pm On Feb 24, 2019

twoMcfemad:
APC/ Buhari won here in Ogun state and all three senatorial seats; 6 house of reps, ADC 1 rep and APM won 1 rep.

I just hope the sworn enemies will not come together in later years. If they stand this way,our democracy is getting better but I doubt,they will cross carpet.

Politics › Re: Breaking News : YPP Wins Anambra South Senatorial Seat Defeat Andy Uba APC by ayenika1: 9:59pm On Feb 24, 2019

See that DSS guy's gun. Chai..Isreali product I think

Politics › Re: 'Small Alhaji’, 35-year-old SDP Candidate, Declared Winner Of Ondo Reps Seat by ayenika1: 7:45pm On Feb 24, 2019

I just wish he won't decamp. It would strengthen our democracy and give more hope to young people to contest.

Congratulations,Honourable

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Nairaland General › Re: thanks everyone by ayenika1: 3:16pm On Feb 24, 2019

bimpee:
see a 30somthing year old claiming 18 years. Na wao

Politics › Re: Jubilation In Kwara As Ibrahim Oloriegbe (APC) Defeated Bukola Saraki (PDP) by ayenika1: 10:31am On Feb 24, 2019

daddytime:
Bukky Bukky...

All hope is not lost yet...you still have a job to do.

I hereby nominate you as this season's "we won't take it - crooner"...

Go ahead boy...represent and Orubebe dem well...

Epe Baba ( Father's curse) had finally come to pass. He will be disgraced from politics so says Oloye before his demise..!

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Nairaland General › Re: thanks everyone by ayenika1: 9:34am On Feb 24, 2019

Lizjane18:
Sir I will upload it if I get the alert sir... I swear to God. Maybe people can bliv me sir.... At least u will be my saving grace for people to bliv me sir.

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5K sent. Acknowledge and pls, bring down your picture.

Nairaland General › Re: thanks everyone by ayenika1: 9:28am On Feb 24, 2019

JONNYSPUTE:
. I have just credited your acct with 5000.Plead with others to help you.Remain blessed.Sure you ve seen the alert?

God bless you. I'll do same right away.

Politics › Re: Atiku Speaks On Election Results by ayenika1: 8:50am On Feb 24, 2019

Cammo:
I don't know what you mean by being dodged, bro. Before Sowore became SUG he had been participating actively in politics. He had been a human rights activist since he was a teen. In 1989, Sowore led a protest against one shady IMF loan for oil pipeline. In that protest, he lost 7 comrades in a police shootout. He was arrested, imprisoned and tortured. Where was your Donald Duke and Fashola then and what had they done in the interest of Nigeria?
Even after his release, he didn't give up on his human rights ambition. He still continued protesting and speaking out boldly against corruption. More to that, he's rich and owns one of the biggest TV networks in Africa, which means he's a hustler and not a political criminal like these old men you're supporting. He's the perfect model for modern Nigerian youths but it's a shame you don't acknowledge him

Thanks for educating me more about Sowore. I do appreciate however, I think you're still a little bit sentimental.

In the present day Nigeria, those who know about all these are the likes of Tinubu and co. He left the political arena for the gladiators when he couldn't handle the situation hence,my dodgedness statement. Those he left the terrain for, made use of the opportunity to breed leaders like Fashola.

On Duke,he was nothing in Nigeria's political arena and never held any position but his sincerity and love by his people paved way for him to be a Gov which I think Sowore possess. His performance was extra-ordinary. Just let him join a ruling party,his antecedents is enough to make him the President like Fashola.

Sowore's antecedents as I said was not for this generation. You can ask around,what people know about him. I doubt if folks can write 8lines about him without googling.

Though, I really like his personality but he cannot with his State talkless the 25states of the federation if he does not start from grassroot.

Politics › Re: Atiku Speaks On Election Results by ayenika1: 8:13am On Feb 24, 2019

Cammo:
Nigerians are really stupid especially the youths. Sowore is the best presidential candidate but they chose two retired old Fulani vampires instead.

Tueh!!

Let's see who the stupid youth is.

What political position has Sowore held aside SUG president? Do you think being an SUG president looks a president of 200million people of diverse culture. Where is Sowore's strong hold? What exactly do you know about him aside being an online journalist?

My brother, don't use sentiment to make political decisions. Even those who have held political positions find it hard to carry everybody along. To be President of 200million is not a joke.

Yes,he's vibrant and young but let us see how he handles critical decisions. Nigeria's political terrain is not as easy as you think. It takes a dodged man to be respected by those military officers.

My take,Sowore should contest for Ondo State Gov, at least he won is polling unit which shows his people love him. He should perform beyond expectation if not like Fashola but to a level that make the citizens clamour for him as we did for Fashola. If Fashola contested against Buhari or Atiku for President,trust me,he would beat them hands down. That's the type of leader we want.

In all ramifications if Donald Duke had a strong base,he's better than all these mofos. He performed better than Fashola when he was a Gov.

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Politics › Re: APC Shares Rice, Spaghetti To Vote For Samuel Babatunde Adejare by ayenika1: 7:28am On Feb 23, 2019

The same thing was packaged in a box for PMB

Family › Re: I Needs Help In My Marriage by ayenika1: 2:35pm On Feb 22, 2019

infortech:
I needs your advice, please I got married in 2017, before my Marriage everything was going on well, in my business and my Contacts work. but my problems started immediately after my traditional marriage, my car catch fire, I used all the money I got from my traditional marriage to fix the car, dat one was not enough, the day of my white wedding my car spoiled Dat morning of my wedding, is like dat one was not enough again, I was kidnapped 7days after my wedding, all the money I got from my wedding was collected in process of kidnapping me. on the process of this things that happened to me my business went to zero.
My big problem is that is like my wife married me because of what she saw initial time, now things is very difficult for me she talks to me any how, comparing me wit other men out side dia, complain too much, I don't give her upkeep money, she can't allow it to happen, insulting me any how even when she no all the things we passed through. we can't stay up to 4days without having some problems, pls what should I do because am not happy with what is going on in my family.

Sorry for all your predicaments. God will replenish your losses in many folds. Amen.

As per your wife,let her understand that's what life has brought before you and it will surely pass if only she can endure and have more patience. You can only keep doing this with prayers and hardwork. If she decides to stay,which I think she would, if you find elderly people to talk to her but pls, don't push her out. If she decides to leave, let it be her option and her words for future purposes. It will surely end in praise bro. Keep hope alive..!

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Business › Re: I Have Just Been Given 100k To Startup A Business But... by ayenika1: 8:32am On Feb 22, 2019

ceeboymuhammed:
Please friends, i have been given a 100k by a friend to start up something in Lagos but am a little confused on what to do woth it or where to start from.
Please i need list of business ideas i can start with the amount... Please i need a genuine response.
No importation
No cryptocurrency
No network marking
No trading.

Thanks

Do you have passion for biz?

Have you done any before? If yes,why did you quit. ?

What is your passion.?

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Education › Re: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by ayenika1: 7:22am On Feb 22, 2019

Any Mexico applicant here?

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