bukatyne:


How are things with you now?

To be Very honest Sis, things are still the same, Infact I am yet to receive my last month Salary, and feeding my Family as been very tough since Monday.....

I was trying to set up a small business for my wife, early this year So she can be helping me small small, before Covid-19 lockdown come scatter everything, Printing business as really suffer a very huge lost due to this pandemic, and I am seriously affected....
All the Same, I thank God I made it this far......

Donhaywhy001:


Lol... You joking dude.
So u want me to beat him up....

Pls Son, don't even think of trying to beat your dad, the end is always bad....

Now let me borrow you a small brain, We children of nowadays sometimes don't help matters, especially when we are in University. See my friend, I think your father is a no nonsense Daddy and you don't seems to respect that. Please try all you can, to give him all the respect he deserves, don't go and "chill with your friend" without his approval, don't stay away from the house for too long, because your presence might be needed...

To the father's...
We father's too should try as much as possible, not to the venting all our problems on our family, YES sometimes we have so many things bottled up in our minds, But we shouldn't allow our problems turn us into a monster to our children......

So my guy, cool down small eeeeehhnn, Daddy loves you so much, that's why he's always on your case..... Just play your part well and you shall see the loving side of your daddy....

God bless you....

Mummylukaku95:


You really want me to say it It's obvious na.

Say it ma! No matter how bad it may be, you can still get help here.

Are you still in Onitsha? if Yes which part of Onitsha are you now?

This life Sha!!!
You don't have money, (Problem)
You have plenty (wahala)
If someone like "Otunba" can die of "ULCER" that means this life itself is nothing but a JOKE!!!!

Honestly, men don suffer, Imagine this critical time when the world is seeking a way out of this covid19 wahala, Someone is here talking about "30" ways to love your wife...
Ok oooo we have heard you...
@op Please don't forget to write the part 2 which will be 30 ways to Love your husband....

....peace....

Rbae:



Hahaha... Really? I logged in after a longwhile so I started reading old post first. I must have clicked on post mistakenly without checking d year
May God continue to protect the child for u.

Amin ooooooooo Jesu

Where have you been Ma!!!

[quote author=veave post=89104994]Hian.

Wetin I go talk go pain you o. But na the truth I go tell you. Madam, right now I can't tell you to start with 50% so I will say 20%.

Thank God there is covid and I pray your job doesn't get affected. As soon as you resume, the second day you get to work tell him there has been a 40% reduction from your salary due to low inflow of cash. You need to save at least 20% of your salary. This money no Matter if the roof is falling down you're not to touch it. Na your back up money be that. The other 20% is for your upkeep. You and your kids should survive on the remaining 50% because you'd definitely pay tithe. It's because he knows you always have a back up plan that is why he is relaxed and allowing you foot all the bills...

@op This advise will do you a whole lot of good if you can consider it, Sometimes I just wonder where some men fall from, How can you have a wife as dedicated as this and yet, you can't appreciate her....

Pls madam, whilst you go about carrying out the advise, pls ensure to always be more calm when talking to your oga, stop waiting for him to appreciate you, Just do your best and leave the rest, May God Help you.....

.....StayAlive.....

Rbae:



The best sleeping position for babies is lying on their back. Sleeping on their chest without being monitored properly could lead to sudden infant death. Let you baby lie on his back, it's the beat sleeping position. Google it.

Wow, I can't believe this can still be quoted today, the baby in question is 8 already!!!

Thanks for the response anyways, It will still be helpful to some.....

Can you please trow more light on this!!! Plsss

vickydankal:
I will contact mods if they can verify this account, I will help in my little way.

Did you find anything Ma?

How I wish the person behind this nonsense can be arrested for this selfish and wicked act, If he/she is confirmed to be telling lies, because they are causing serious problems on this forum already....

Guys This Corona Erra is doing Nigeria some good I swear, Assuming there's no coro, those Ventilators could have remained in that "BIG" store for many more years without being used...

Secondly, Are this Governors not supposed to hand over to there successor when leaving office?.....

obisite:


Where are you in Onitsha?

@Ojedi Road Inland town

jabolo:


Chief, you don't sacrifice your dignity because you are desperate. I think what @Igbowoman is doing is morally wrong but then, 'her giveaway, her rules'!.

You'd think this tough period is precisely the time to reaffirm our commitment to help each other, not create artificial barriers. 'Needy' is 'needy' - north, south, east or west.

And, what if the unintended consequence of what she's done is people now only give on tribal/religious grounds etc. Where will it end?

Thanks..... Well noted Sir!

Sir, I also shared in some of the problems you're facing in your home, but your own case is a bit different from mine because, You are very lucky you have a working Wife.

Sir I think you are the architect of your own problem and I have my reasons

1: You have been married for 9yrs and yet, you don't Understand your Wife

2: You're married with 3 lovely Kids, yet you stay out till midnight in a beer parlour

3: You still keep friends your wife is not comfortable with.....

Solutions....

1: Try and see things from your wife's perspective, I understand she doesn't have a good sense of judgement, but Sir I think you can help her get better if only you can pay more attention to her....

2: Try all you can, to stop staying out in beer parlour till late night, Sir! "Ijakumo ki n rinde osan, Eni a biire ki n rinde Oru" Please try and spend more time with your family than Staying in that beer parlour, Infact now that you don't have a Job Is the best time for you to turn things around... Maybe the reason why you've never gotten a new Job is because God is waiting for you to correct your wrongs....

3: Try and Limit the Numbers of friends you have, expecially the ones your wife complained about, because I can't see any good friend, paying for hotel rooms for his married friend to have Sex with another woman. Moreso, when your woman keep warning you about a friend, definitely she's seeing something that you need to pay attention to....

Conclusion: Sir I know it's not easy with the kind of person you are, but try all you can to re- arrange your home, because you are the head of the House.... I pray that God will will give you the strength to do what is right and give you a better Job Soonest

Regards to your beautiful Wife, She's is a strong woman, Men Like Us are Very difficult to manage....

Peace......

@Igbowoman, I saw your post about wanting to help only Igbo People First, I totally understand you because I have been in Igboland for some years now. But please If you have anybody in Onitsha that can give me either Rice/yam or any other foodstuffs, I will be Very great full Ma!!

Thanks

emmaodet:


Ok, no wahala.
I promised giving 20 people 5k each this month and have already given 2 people 10k already.
make i help this person too.

Sir if you can add my family to the 20people, I will forever be grateful, It will help us to get foodstuffs �����

Thanks

Please ooooooooo, Anyone that wants to give out Foodstuffs should please remember my house, we have run out of food and Salary does not look like what's coming this month.... Plsssssssss
Thanks

This your Monika funny Sha....

Hope I no come Late

07063694576

I need it to repay loan.... Thanks

Horlickz77:
please tell him to contact me on WhatsApp or call 08058721314

Noted Sir....

DukeNija:


Where’s his location?

Around Ladi-Lak Bariga Lagos.....

Be nice plsssssssss..

@Op, My mind tells me you're still single, Biko take this little advise with you as you Journey trough life ......

1...Marriage Is way beyond marrying your friend or not, because that your friend can turn out to be your worst Enemy within a day.....

2... Once your are ready for marriage, Just make sure you increase your level of tolerance from like 100% to 10000%.....

..... PEACE....

sisisioge:
Wow! How time flies! May God who was entirely there before, during and after he was born never depart from him. Happy birthday Samuel. Cheers to your new age.

Thanks Ma'am God bless you

Hi Everyone, how are you and your family?

The real op of this wonderful thread is 8 today, that Simply means this thread is 8 Already,....

Thanks guys for keeping the thread Alive

Please say a prayer for him.....

We shall all reap the fruits of our Labour In Jesus Name, and Insha Allah

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Good Morning Everyone, Our Son Okanlawon Samuel, Is 8..........

There's no way I will tell the story of the Journey so far without mentioning Nairaland Family Members, you guys are indeed Family.... God bless you All

Please Say A Prayer for Him

Thanks