₦airaland Forum

[quote author=ade_77]Can't u make a make a comment without Bringing tribalism into it. There are perverts in every tribe and country so please stop all this nonsense.[/quote]dont go down to a fool's level!
U dont need to educate anyone on ''tribalism''.
Only immature in mind can be!

bilaya: Yoruba pervert

Itunmo?

Especially for guys...be ready to c some parts of ur wife changing.
Orange-like breats becoming slippers-like, the flat tommies protruding, stretch marks on d smooth skin.
Just be ready...cos ur wife's beauty will surely depreciate as time goes by!
Guys be ready to love ur wife no matter what, especially after birth giving!

[quote author=Miss_Ife]Thinking about a recent thread here, I'd say any health-related issue should be discussed before marriage too. If one member has any long term condition, the other one should know, even if it is something that can be controlled through medication (asthma, diabetis etc.).

Expectation about husband/wife should be discussed too. Many men don't mind their gf dressing sexy for girls night out but will never let them do that once they are married. The same way gf will not mind her bf going to club every friday and saturday but will refuse it to him once he turns husband. It's better to be honest with what we expect.[/quote]Sooo on point!

[quote author=ti-ebe]I agree with you on this o. but not necessarily because the details may be dirty.

my thots on this is, only the important points should be discussed. what are either of the spouses going to do with all that info? it should only be brought up if it has any bearing on who the person has become now, or if a child was produced from any of those relationships, etc. you know, anything that has the potential of affecting the marriage. if not, i really don't wanna know ALL the details because it wont change my feelings for my spouse.

but like you said, apply wisdom.
I remember this movie 'due date' where a man's wife was having a baby and the man suddenly had creepy feelings that the baby was for her former boyfriend who was also the husbands good friend. sometimes i wonder, if they had kept the past relationship away from the husband, would he have had to be bothering his head with all that? especially if the both knew the past relationship was dead and buried.[/quote]Due date...such a nice movie. His fat buddy called his attention to the behaviour of his friends!

Gat ur point....is all abt application of wisdom!

Tgirl4real: Yea, its d main issues dat are important. Am sure u know what I mean.

Sure!

neyostica: Am in my first year, and it has been hell on earth so far, i married her cos of her beauty, but she has been a pain in d butt, the fact that she hasnt conceived after 7mnths doesnt help d situation either, am thinking of running away

Where u wan run go?
Never complain abt the issue of child.Leave that to God.
U can make the best out of her...it all depends on ur tactics!

bunmioguns: Mo juwonlo ni Jokes section, Jooooh oooo,

Na today?

cowgurl: . Simple matter.

Simple?
So, whats d quickest way?

cowgurl: . At their rendezvou.

I see!
U must have been the ''middlewoman''

slimyem: ......i dont check out male arses....except its being jiggled right in my face.
i do like a nice,well-rounded but moderate as..s on my man though..

I gat a moderate one here!

bunmioguns: the Joke no phurny bt because it was you then i will seigh it's very funny

A fan of 9ice.....
''gbogbo ogo mi to lo padawa......juwonlo''

Cowgurl, Im yet to understand u o!

Where are they ''dyt and woke4all''?
Hijacked?

playnaija: Just saw this on a blog that Don Jazzy broke up with Dbanj was due to Illuminati..on

http://clarkegilbert.com/don-jazzy-we-had-break-up-due-to-illuminati/

Can this be really true...

If true, then Im happy for him.
Atleast, here is someone standing for something!

Moyola: not alwayz true! tried n tested!

Hmmm....Ekun!
''tried and tested''

Sagamite: Took me much longer to comprehend it than if the negligible effort of writing in good English was used.

If that is the culture in Nigeria, I don't want to be part of it.

It really does not make sense. It is not justifiable. It is not an improvement.

All the opposite of things I aim for in life.

Well, hia I gez sndn an SMS is quit expnsiv dan d rate ova dia. So, we tnd 2abbrviat as much as posibl in oda 2......

Well, here I guess sendin an SMS is quite expensive than the rate over there. So we tend to abbreviate as many words as possible in order to convey more words in a page.
This is also well used in chattings here (yahoo mess,pinging, 2go, whatapp, nimbuzz and d likes of them)
I wanna believe that the guy must have been carried away while posting here, since there is no per alphabet charging here!

But, u too worry sha!

Tgirl4real: i like this post. Very well said.

Anoda area is discussing past relationships that can pose as a problem later in life.

Many prefer not to share which later leads to many issues.

For real...can everything abt the past be discussed?
Some are very dirty!

Gat ur point though, wisdom should be applied though!

Kudos to rokiatu for that topic of about a day ago ''How was your first year of marriage?''
such a wonderful topic.

I have heard ladies saying they cant have a joint account with husbands or letting them know how much they have in their accounts....WRONG!

Money should be one of first issues to be dealt with.
Your partner should know about your financial status.with this, joint account will not be an issue.
There is bound to be problem when ur wife knows not about your financial status and your projects, cos she is bound to ask for ''luxury'', but when u keep complaining and not fully responding (not because u dont wanna, but because of ur projects and.....), then there will be problem leading to problems.

Sagamite: My God!

Can people just type in English for heavens sake.

I first thought how did this become a New York city thread (nyc).

What is so hard in tpying "nice" instead of "nyc"?

What is so hard in typing "and" instead of "nd"?

What is so hard in typing "matter" instead of "mata"?

What is so hard in typing "overcome" instead of "ovacome"?

This is just self-degeneration at its best when one needs to be aiming for self-development.

Allow am now!
Atleat u cld understand d msg!
Dont tell me u've been out of Naija for over 15yrs!

asoderock: I ve been married for roughly a year now, and I must admit that it has really been difficult. Although we started dating just before she entered medical schl and hv been seeing once in a while since then: I am based far frm her schl. But suddenly the separation is driving me crazy and the strain is complicating matters for us, to the extent that the marriage is at the brink of collapse. But my wife seem not to understand the toll that the resultant stress has taking on me. Guess she s putting her career first.

Though, yet to marry, but Im sure with prayer and patience, everything will work out well IJN!
But, u will still need to call her and discuss at length!

rabzy: Five Months in and going steady, no quarrels at all, both of us respects each other, i have grown to know her for 5 yrs before wedding and i know when she is about to get in a mood and how to handle it, then she has stopped all those things that use to frustrate me during the courtship which has made it also very smooth for us, tho she told me she throws those tantrums, because she misses me and wants to get my attention. Now she has my full attention 24 hours and all those things have fizzled away.

Its been a beautiful 6 months, though i miss going out to watch my matches in the midst of all the crazy football fans and talking myself hoarse, she has banned it.

U must have seen the ''ban'' coming!
LOL.
God bless u OP...such an everlasting thread on Nairaland!

samueline: I would say Msc first if you are travelling abroad. Cuz wen u come back u can DICTATE the State where u would like to serve. On the other hand you can decide to serve first and hope you will be posted to a remote place where you will have ample time to still go abroad for ur MSc and come back to Nigeria during passing out.

ur dual-option is good for me to go.
Thanks!

Formal letter-like?
Pls,explain more!
Thanks.

Sagamite.....howz nikkykay parols nah?

Always d devil's work!

Almost 7years ago!

Sweetnecta: ^Ayobase at least, must have a mustard seed size faith?
So move this mountain [any mountain of your choice], anywhere on earth.

You people just they mouth nothing.

None of you is ashamed to call warrior Jesus a lamb. Which lamb when he came with fiery personality to divide family and wage wars with swords; except he was surrounded by faithless followers, who slept while their master worshiped all night long.

Imagine if the fault of Adam and Eve was more than eating, say cutting the tree down, or worse destroying the garden? What will be the settlement then, if Jesus died because of eating?

hmmmm!
Interesting!
Well moving mountain is not moving Kilimanjaro, but speaking to a problem and having faith that it will be gone...just like those miracles...scam? Then, u can say Jesus' miracles were all scam also!
The death of Jesus is to give us eternal life and not for us to live forever on this planet.
''for God so loved the world that he gave His only begotten son that whosoever believe in Him shld not perish, but have evarlasting life''

I can tell what would have happened if the tree was cut down or otherwise.God knows best. The instruction was ''....do not eat from this tree......'', but they did eat from it.
They were even hiding from God when he came to fellowship with them, so God had to look for a PERFECT mean to bring man to Him again.


Pls, do answer brainpulse' question....why is his head spinning?