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emusmith:
...I love the way this lady put words together- touching different parts simultaneously with discretion.

Nice point @ the bolded.

Unaa hear? CHANGE, make una vote buhari ooo

ronald4lif:
Hmmm

I think any lady that says such is trying to convey a certain message, that she might not be your first choice, but she's a great choice. She doesn't pretend to be someone she is not, because she's good at being her. She might not be proud of some of the things she did in the past, but she's proud of who she is today. She may not be perfect, but she doesn't need to be. That you should take her as she is or watch her walk away. Practically, look beyond her shortcomings and embrace her strengths.

As for a lady taking a broke guy as he is; tough tough one. Every one wants financial security, comfort and a better life. The over 7billion people worldwide are exploring ways to better their lives. So to expect someone, male or female, to consider a man who can't guarantee her at least the basic needs of life is not an easy one, especially when she knows she has the abilities to attract someone better.

The take me as I am phrase hardly comes in play in men's part, it's more about the women. And even if it does, not in the monetary aspect of it. Nobody or to be subtle very few people are ready to put up with hardship and only money keeps hardship at length

I totally agree with you, but say the truth, what's the % of you talking to a girl that hardly smile, most time our facial expression, our outer looks sometimes buttress what's inside.

emusmith:
I'm sorry if I wasn't sensitive enough.

Your story is just the same reason I and my ex went separate ways...

She said, " She is scared of our relationship because that's what her ex did to her"

She has "tagged" me as one who will hurt her as her exes... Did I strike a cord?

Why are you angry BTW, it's morning

Lol naa am not angry I was only using what the chinese call tai-chi, using some ones offense against him. It wasn't what you think, imagine having a gf that does things without letting her so called bf know about it. *

Me:PING!!! Good evening dear
she: Sup
Me: ??
She: sorry dear, am just coming down from the bus
Me: where are you upto
She: am in abuja
Me: Na wa oo, when did u get to abj, we still spoke yesternight, and u didn't say anything about that
She: am sorry jare, I didn't plan for it.

Now u see this conversation, has happen several times, she even started working some where and I got to know, 2days after. She kept changing dps in office, curiosity
Me: who are u visiting everyday
She: sorry I forgot to tell u I started 2days ago.

Now am sure u getting my point. A gf that doesn't carry you along, who doesn't listen about a particular thing her supposed bf is blabbing about.

Dating for over a year and doesn't even know the names of my 2 brothers.

Well that's among all.

emusmith:
Beautiful... So beautiful... A girlfriend of mine once said, " LOVE changes people". If it's Real Love o, it must automatically change you.

It changed me too. Ok, let me share...

When we swallow eba together, she doesn't like me putting my hand back in the water ( even when the eba is so hot)

That was my flaw! I grew up that way.

I had to change and endure for her.

I still find it difficult (even if I'm eating alone) doing that

Am really happy for you bro, that's the way it should be, and in this girl's case, I feel she should anticipate what the guy will like and do it. If someone say something bad about me once, I may not or never take it serious, but when a 3rd party make mention of it, I put it in my to-do list immediately. That's how I feel it should be. Be what you want to see in others. @lol at the eba and water.

emusmith:
Can you put me through?

At all, its above your pay grade, and it doesn't make any difference, you can drown in your own thought dear brother.

emusmith:
Hmm...reasonable points!

I want to really help her in the little way I can (Make your world a better place.)

She looks meek but very hard inside, I don't know if you understand.

The "Take me as I am" phrase is not really good for her.

I see it daily. She just feels she is endowed and pretty, therefore He should take me as I am...( that song sha) (deep sigh)

But will she accept her prospectus bf or suitors the way they are? Left to me, I think if we are willing to spend the rest of your life with someone, we should be ready to change what we don't like about each other. That's my take.

emusmith:
Thank you Sire.

That's a "strong" word she used there.
She has labelled you already- more like tag you!

Hmm...

I don't think you have an idea of what you talking about, do you?

Its people like the girl that think there problem is spiritual. Its just a simple thing, most guys are already half in love with a girl that smiles at them. its a pity most girls don't think and check themselves. About same reason why I broke up with my gf yesterday, they don't think, and they expect we guys to do that for them. Imagine a gf telling her bf, see there is nothing you can do to me that will surprise me, it can't be more than what all my ex did to me. We should always learn to choose our words when using them.

Wait, did you copy and paste this, or this is your own analysis, as for the this is a poor picture quality, although from afar, you sound right, but common, you have to lay your hangs on a better quality of picture before you can assume all you want.

pdp people will say he is contesting that's why he is following order, una hear the testimony 'He always follow the queue'

Its not detailed enough, that's a general expectation compared to the htc one series

OREMUSSANCTUS:
can anytin good come from tinubu? Don't even call fashola, cos of recent he has turned thug and dancing shoki wif a mentally derailed ambode. Mad men leading lagos state since 1999

But lagos state still stand to be the best among all the state, in term of development

Please is there vacancy for female corper to fill in any position? Thank you.

U said you had Fs that's more than 1, am sure u are not the only one without textbook even if you didn't buy, and you did well am sure the lecturer might reduce your mark, but failing you?
I know some of them are devils. But was it all your lecturers u didn't buy there book gave you F?

Amen

i feel Hyundai, is fuel efficient compare to Honda

profjustine458:
if Gej has failed ...pls let him repeat class

Not in this school, I suggest he changes school. And wait, are you GMB or GEJ? *pensive

profjustine458:
# ForwardMarch # Nigeria !!!
It is your Choice. # ForwardEver, or #BackWard .
# PEACE or # Violence . The People have chosen
# GEJ !!!!

Taaaaaa,

Mine was a private school, I was suspended for a semester that's an extra year, well I didn't let anyone at home even uptill now, when I was meant to graduate I just pretended I was sick, and couldn't write 2 papers, I lied I will not pay for the extra semester, because if I was to pay, I know my pman, straight to school. I paid the extra year fees my self, it was just God. I coped well, I even turned out to be one of the best student in class, I didn't miss my extra year classes, tests, I did well, group assignment I was always chosen as the group leader. I am a shy person naturally, but I didn't even know how I did it, but I did well, I didn't see it an obstacle rather it was an opportunity for me to be a better person. Ohh!! I was caught cheating during exam.

pinkycute:
Ouch the guy no even dey najia sef assuming say nah najia d guy dey, sun for don show e skin woker ehnnnn or better still, he skin for don rough or be like shit

Well, good luck to d guy and make he no com najia, wit DAT he fresh skin and why he makeup sef Somes guy forming gay

He is a nigerian boy, his name is Pela, well from his formula or whatever they call it, he has done wonders with it, he a student of my alumni, The bells university of technology, sango ota. Lots of people patronize him, on the matter of been gay, well...

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To all of you that are calling me names,, I am stupid, I should carry my family there, I don't deserve to eat in a restaurant , and my fellow comrades, I understand your pain, we all do, the situation in nigeria gives room for you all to have your say, I am only showing you all, of a higher human I am by not calling you names back. You were all here when our dear girls were taken, we got intelligence and man power from our allies, but what happened. We knew of there arrival and never heard of there departure. We only heard that they found the girls, through drones or was it satellite, and we didn't hear anything again. Were you not all here when Asari dokubo said chibok girl case is a scam, what does that mean? the same person that said " we should return there son to them or else we will see what ll happen in nigeria" Yes I know, what it takes for terrorist group to take over a town, and local government area so to speak, it means the government has failed the people, this BH thing started from Cars, to parks, to Bus, villages, towns, municipal, its growing day by day, if the activities is going off and on we will say yes, they are working, but this group are growing in size and strength day by day, amour thanks under your nose moving about in convoys, and you people are telling me the government will not know jack about all this? What intelligence are u talking about again when its obvious, For those that are familiar with 24 series, by jack bauer, there was a season that the president of the country designed and carry out an attack on US soil, designing the attack and solve it in other to be praised, went out of hand, and was caught, other seasons, I notice that when events like this happen the president rather governed always know the person responsible, we are talking about years here. The president has the resources I believe and man power to tackle this when it was growing, he didn't say this people will be caught and brought to book, rather he said God will judge, take your time and analyze what that means, ( let them continue and see what God will do, Will He come down and solve it when he you have all the things you need to tackle) when obasanjo heard of a village where they were eating humans, he sent soldiers to level the place, even to common lizard , Oh no!!! Violation of human right, I love that dude, what has to be done should be done, or did u think a peace meal would have solved that? I feel the government isn't doing much on this BH issue, and a stronger hand should be use to tackle it. And storming this place is what should have be done way long ago, yes there will be collateral damage casualties. I have said this before, if jonathan should tackle this BH issue at the last minute of election, he is isn't the man for the job, he is just trying to be popular and if that isn't the case, more greece to his elbow. But what I know I know. God bless nigeria, you are welcome to drop your matured comment.

lexyclasy
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@ZionJay God bless you for that question ask you ask faladesm1132
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@philips70
@Frankiss44:God bless U too

lexyclasy:
are u not aware that nigerian govt just secure new drones from Asian countries......some question self........when buhari was head of state did he buy any drone for nigerian air force.....maybe u thought drone is 10 kobo

Drone back then? #gasps

What took them this long to storm the place, they knew of there hideout all along, they had the drones, so why are they just doing all this? Lives would have been saved and properties would not have been lost. A government which is committed to protecting her people, will swing into action immediately. #something is fishy.

keleto:
I want to set it up.and I need someone to run it for me.

Where do you have in mind to start it up, mean location?

Do you mean someone you can put in charge to be running it for you? Or for someone to put you in charge and be running it for the person?

You all can visit ICAN website for Nov 2014 (professional, skill and foundation) pathfinder. you can go ahead and download it, its free. please am i n need of the study pack for skill level, someone should please send it to me, thanks in advance. you can contact me so as to send it to your mail straight for the pathfinder. ayonic20032001@yahoo.com

Thats a big lie, most yorubas at my place of work in the south south, are strongly behind GMB, even most yoruba here in port harcourt that i know of, are strongly behind GMB

Mattkent:
Sth that is immoral lacks purity which in a way makes it wrong!

As u said if two pple consent to it...the gurl might jst b doin it cos shes enjoyin d moment n in d heat of it she wud forget her moral grounds...at dat point it totally doesnt seem like an immoral act. Mayb even afterwards she wnt feel guilty.

But wen dat pic or video goes viral...thats d main issue...thats whr she realises wat she has done.

Most gurls dnt tink abt this part

I agree, but don't fail to address the guys that share the pix and video.

Mattkent:
We cant leave religion or moral out of it....even if we did...wat abt conscience?

Conscience according to my own dictionary is the moral sense or right and wrong as it affects one's own behaviour. What is moral to you, may not be moral to someone else. Morals is actually defined by the society, because when we talking about moral, we talking about what affect others. Now if it has to do between two people, who see nothing wrong in it, will you say they lack morals? Why I say leave religion out of it, it is wrong in all dispensation, will u say, because its wrong makes it immoral?

scrollmeout:
What ever happened to sympathy and comraderie? Instead of helping out in one way or the other, you are here giving some useless "advice". will your advice bring the car back?

And yours will do the job? My point is that, it isn't wise to borrow money to buy things like cars, and stuffs like that, especially when u are still striving, as this guy is now, he will have to first pay off, his loan, and then indemnity him self, that's a 2 fold wahala, where as if its a land, you MAY never loose it