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Pls advise me, I'm thinking of doing an international passport, at least if I can move from Nigeria here to Ghana and huzzle and from there move to another European countries. Please travelers gurus should advice me and tell me if I am thinking of making a good decision or not.
Also, I have never traveled out of this country before in my life and this is my first time this thought came to my mind and I feel like I should activate the feelings. I want to make a better future for myself and my unborn babies. And also I'm a single 33yrs.
Please advise.

DonBenny77:
Cost of living and rent is higher in Ghana currently, take note

Noted sir. Thanks sir

Thank you sir

BlueStripper:
Ghana for greener pastures

Sorry my friend, you won't see any green pasture there. You are a human being, not an animal.

To be serious though, opportunities abound even in Nigeria. Time and chance is all you need and that's what the Almighty gives you.

So, if you are relocating to any country or state, please keep you expectations low, put your trust in God and don't forget to work hard.

Stay away from bad friends and if you are single, take your time and find a good woman who is willing to help you and grow with you. This will make it easy for you to integrate into the society and survive even the harshest economy.

Pls advise me, I'm thinking of doing an international passport, at least if I can move from Nigeria here to Ghana and huzzle and from there move to another European countries. Please travelers gurus should advice me and tell me if I am thinking of making a good decision or not.
Also, I have never traveled out of this country before in my life and this is my first time this thought came to my mind and I feel like I should activate the feelings. I want to make a better future for myself and my unborn babies. And also I'm a single 33yrs.
Please advise.

I have seen relationships, marriages, new couples collapsed because there's no money.

However, any circumstances can result to broken relationships but lack of money carries the higher records that I have experienced.

Your immediate Families will not even recognize your presence either here or there. MONEY?

My name is Ayomide.
NAIRALANDERS pls I have come here for you people to tell me if there's any other ways others are doing it that I have not done. Yes I am physically fit and no sickness, I thank God for the good health and the freedom of Life.

But the activities of Life and its requirements to meet up to yourself as a human being is very tough at my side.

Urgent1Million:
If they are real, you won't see them sold in the open market.
No item sold in the open market can function independently in the spiritual realm.
You need a combination of items and the expertise of a spiritualist to combine them to work with the right invocations.
Those scented liquids sold as spiritual perfumes are all fake. They're nothing but just perfumed liquids.

Sir, thank you sir for this comment. I quoted part of your statement above, as a for one woman that said I should get divine grace perfume, scent leaf, bitter leaf, and others with some Bible verses. Sir, with what you said above are this bound to be real

Sirmwill:
It's all fake and a manipulative deceit fr



It's a frame of mind thing

Followed by deceit and lies

Okay Sir

LordBiden:
Yes they are real,certain scents can be used to attract some spirits or demons to do a task for you.

Oh really. Thank you sir for the comments

I heard about this from some of my colleagues at work and I have been curious about it.

Please I want an eye opening over this subject.

I want to really know if truly spiritual perfumes are real.

I am open to everyone that has experience over this and to enlighten me over it.

Pls no insults, as this is thread is for learning sake

absingle:
Men, send me your stories about your experience with single mothers.

They give you s3x to satisfaction...

They Don't love U, They manipulate Loving U

Their love is on their child/ren, and they try how to manipulate you to be responsible for those child/ren.

If you want to eat more Kpónmó of a single mother; pretend you care for her child/ren.

Finally, they give you s3x wotowoto like as In, just because of one reason; to engage you emotionally... Na lie oo no go fall for them oo

Finally again, I'm talking from experience, I've dated single mom of 4, 1 , 2, 5, 3

Usmanovic95:
People who feel you share with them some identical personalities will find you more relatable and trustworthy.I have experience that as well, please make sure their secret is safe with you.

Yes I do make sure their secrets are save with me. However, I am not a type that just talk any how. And I don't welcome gossip with anyone in my place or work even at home.

One of my guys at work, somehow 10yrs older than me was telling me his one of his personal secrets about his family. I was even surprised maybe I was dreaming.

And this is a man that everyone knows at my place of work to be very discreet. And here he comes telling me the raw hidden truth of many rumors other workers have been carrying up and down at work.

What baffles me is that when he was talking to me he said the reason why he was telling me his personal secrets is that he sees me as a good person. Haaa! Me a good person?

And not only him, many people like that even when they never knew me before, from one talk to another the next thing they will start to share their personal secrets.

PLS WHAT DO THESE PEOPLE SEE IN ME?
HOW DO I LOOK TO THEM?
:

Kaki No be leather oo boss. It has not been easy oo. Na 35K I dey look for my wife since last week for her medical checkups at the hospital, I never see upto 20k. Make God help me. Just dey HUSTLE from one place to another.

I have come across this scenario more than two three four times that if a woman is on her menstruation period and she use that period to pray or curse anyone that it will manifest or come to pass. Either a woman to her children or a woman to her love ones, that if they should hurtfully or gladly utter a curse or prayer to their subject that it would definitely manifest.

NAIRALANDERS? HOW TRUE IS THIS?

DOES IT MEAN MENSTRUATION PERIOD HAS SPIRITUAL EFFECT?

Oluromantic:
With all the prayer your mama dey pray with menses, you still dey borrow MTN data by now

Has your mum done that for you before, using her MP to pray for you

I have come across this scenario more than two three four times that if a woman is on her menstruation period and she use that period to pray or curse anyone that it will manifest or come to pass. Either a woman to her children or a woman to her love ones, that if they should hurtfully or gladly utter a curse or prayer to their subject that it would definitely manifest.

NAIRALANDERS? HOW TRUE IS THIS?

DOES IT MEAN MENSTRUATION PERIOD HAS SPIRITUAL EFFECT?

That sentence "no se)( b4 marriage" dey drive me cræzy. Inside this life wey we dey na hin one girl go dey tell that trash. It won't work bro

I had this experience last 4 month and she told me no se)( b4 marriage, I thought she was joking at first untill proof it to me. She visited me in the morning on Saturday and after eating, drinking and from there to another I told her I'm in the mood and she said never that she has already told me and she meant it. Na so I left her, I no wan rape person pikin.

In the evening of that Saturday when she got home na so she call me for phone oo say she needs 18K to make hair so that she can look nice to work on Monday morning.....

Hmmm, I laff in Bala-Bluu... Maybe when the pig flys I will send the money

....

slaypapa:
It's not easy being 40 and struggling last last Oluwa got my back

Sorry sir. I can feel your pains. it is never easy. Most especially when no one to support you up from your family

Genital warts
__________________
Oloribu Ómó

Make she dey play
If any girl run come meet me for any mumu marriage now, if I give her Iforùn and Ilaadi

jsp0:
u will die quickly thinking about the slightest thing done from a typical Nigerian girl

Hmmm

I just dey imagine how and why my contact and another man's own would be hidden inside my girlfriend's WhatsApp Archive. I swear relationship doesn't worth it, the best responsibility of a guy should be his health, food, future and his family.

Pomegranates:
Looking for a relationship with a Godly man that can lead to marriage next year. Abroad-based person like me preferred but those in Nigeria welcome. Do not message me if you're in a relationship already, previously married, or have kids. I don't have kids and not interested in someone with kids. We shall start our own. 35 to 43 in age.

You can dm me on my WhatsApp number 09156465440. I'm 35.

And adage says we are the writer of our lives but I don't want to say I miswrote mine in 2018.


I have always been on frying pan with my family and all my efforts to create love between my mom and dad were in vain.


I have always been craving for an happy and joyful family in my life. Seeing my mom and dad laughing and kidding with us and maybe my wish is in my dream.


When I finished my OND program in Nov 2016 I decided to stayed in school with my few course mates because I knew if I come home I will never found joy.


These few of my course mates are indigenes of Ijebu Igbo. And they love roaming about pointlessly and I dislike this useless doings.


We will move from football field to gambling shop to Atéénu party and to where they never invited us. I dislike all these things but since I have no one to cling to or place to stay I have no choice to play along with them. They were even surprised founding me in their midst because I have my midst during program but my midst have gone to meet their own families.


In Jan 2017, I stopped roaming about with them and I applied for casual job in a local bakery in the same Ijebu Igbo. I will resume bakery before 6am and closed at 8pm and I will be paid 300 Naira everyday like that.


I could not able to use the money to do more tangible things but I succeeded using it to finance my project and the printing.


Till 2018 when I joined one private security company. During this time my colleagues at school are already planning for their HNDs while I'm thriving to survive on the street.


I have already been warned at home not to bring anything schoolsl stuff's to their ears. So I carried my cross.


I joined this private security company in Benin City. I traveled down from Ijebu Igbo to Benin City. And since then it was from one abuse to the other; from one insults to another to the extent that one day I looked at myself and I cried. I even doubted my sanity.

There was a time I was attending to a customer and I was speaking in English fluently, the customer looked at me from my toe to my head and hissed before getting away.


Security guards are seeing as unfortunate beings, human dogs, packaged slaves, poverty carrier and so on. I hate this experience


I never planned my life like this. Why? Why? I don't want to commit before making it God. God help me


Some customers will make your day but 85 percent of the customers you are to attend to in a day are coming to molest and embarrassed you whether you render the service to them politely or not.


I could not be able to save up the money to pay for my school results levies due to accomodations and feeding problems over 20,000 Naira they were paying me per month till 2022


In March 2021, I enrolled for a professional photography class at 100, 000 Naira for 1year training. And I catched up quickly in learning. Photography is very expensive but I believe God that I will move mountains through it. I needed another Master class to enroll for but money no dey now.


In June 2022 when I saved up to 120, 000 I traveled to school in Ijebu Igbo and when I got to school I was told by the school admin that levies has been multiplied by 3 for late payment. I almost wept out my blood that day.

I paid the affordable levies I could pay and I have their receipt and I traveled back to Benin City.

Last year was tough that I could not even walk with the kind of illness I went through. Thank God for the savings I have that I was saving up for my school levies it was what I used to give myself a good treatment.


And this 2024 again, '24 is going and I have not make it to bring my family back to the way I want it. Even at my age now I have not make up to get a family. I want to be a responsible man to my wife and children.


I don't want my children to smell POV not to talk of VERTY. Working as security guard since 27yrs old to 33yrs old and still receiving insults and embarrassment from mere customers. Just because of a penny, another person's girlfriend pedicure and manicure...


God when. Pls help me from above. I want a standard Life for my families God help

CJStarz:
Don't respond to that junkie anymore. Have some feeling of self worth. Your Destiny helper will locate you soon in Jesus Name.

Yes sir. Thank you sir. And amen sir

Kobojunkie:
You see yourself as a savior to members of your family? Who gave you such a mission? Where you born that way? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You're making jest of what is making me cry, it's unfair
I'm not seeing myself as a saviour sir, but one of my dreams I have been craving for is seeing my family in a happy mode. My family is my foundation. Have you thought of the joy someone can have traveling down home to meet his families with joy and happiness.

Not in the other way round whereby everyone is on Helter skelter.

Kobojunkie:
Why were you trying to shove your idea of happiness down the throats of your dad and your mom who from your narrative don't care for any of that, to begin with?

2. You want a standard life for a family you admit you are unable to afford at this point in time? Which God do you expect to help you and when do you expect him to do this for you?

At least if I can be able to bring love and happiness to that family.

dawnomike:
What did you study in school?

Drop your contact

I studied mass communication sir
WhatsApp 09156465440
Call: 08103324457

And adage says we are the writer of our lives but I don't want to say I miswrote mine in 2018.


I have always been on frying pan with my family and all my efforts to create love between my mom and dad were in vain.


I have always been craving for an happy and joyful family in my life. Seeing my mom and dad laughing and kidding with us and maybe my wish is in my dream.


When I finished my OND program in Nov 2016 I decided to stayed in school with my few course mates because I knew if I come home I will never found joy.


These few of my course mates are indigenes of Ijebu Igbo. And they love roaming about pointlessly and I dislike this useless doings.


We will move from football field to gambling shop to Atéénu party and to where they never invited us. I dislike all these things but since I have no one to cling to or place to stay I have no choice to play along with them. They were even surprised founding me in their midst because I have my midst during program but my midst have gone to meet their own families.


In Jan 2017, I stopped roaming about with them and I applied for casual job in a local bakery in the same Ijebu Igbo. I will resume bakery before 6am and closed at 8pm and I will be paid 300 Naira everyday like that.


I could not able to use the money to do more tangible things but I succeeded using it to finance my project and the printing.


Till 2018 when I joined one private security company. During this time my colleagues at school are already planning for their HNDs while I'm thriving to survive on the street.


I have already been warned at home not to bring anything schoolsl stuff's to their ears. So I carried my cross.


I joined this private security company in Benin City. I traveled down from Ijebu Igbo to Benin City. And since then it was from one abuse to the other; from one insults to another to the extent that one day I looked at myself and I cried. I even doubted my sanity.

There was a time I was attending to a customer and I was speaking in English fluently, the customer looked at me from my toe to my head and hissed before getting away.


Security guards are seeing as unfortunate beings, human dogs, packaged slaves, poverty carrier and so on. I hate this experience


I never planned my life like this. Why? Why? I don't want to commit before making it God. God help me


Some customers will make your day but 85 percent of the customers you are to attend to in a day are coming to molest and embarrassed you whether you render the service to them politely or not.


I could not be able to save up the money to pay for my school results levies due to accomodations and feeding problems over 20,000 Naira they were paying me per month till 2022


In March 2021, I enrolled for a professional photography class at 100, 000 Naira for 1year training. And I catched up quickly in learning. Photography is very expensive but I believe God that I will move mountains through it. I needed another Master class to enroll for but money no dey now.


In June 2022 when I saved up to 120, 000 I traveled to school in Ijebu Igbo and when I got to school I was told by the school admin that levies has been multiplied by 3 for late payment. I almost wept out my blood that day.

I paid the affordable levies I could pay and I have their receipt and I traveled back to Benin City.

Last year was tough that I could not even walk with the kind of illness I went through. Thank God for the savings I have that I was saving up for my school levies it was what I used to give myself a good treatment.


And this 2024 again, '24 is going and I have not make it to bring my family back to the way I want it. Even at my age now I have not make up to get a family. I want to be a responsible man to my wife and children.


I don't want my children to smell POV not to talk of VERTY. Working as security guard since 27yrs old to 33yrs old and still receiving insults and embarrassment from mere customers. Just because of a penny, another person's girlfriend pedicure and manicure...


God when. Pls help me from above. I want a standard Life for my families God help

Screwcode1:
Someone out there got this 100$. Please don’t thank me or try to send a message to me. Post about to be deleted

Pls make this a fortune for me boss if you have not scratch the card for another person. This will go along way in my life sir
My WhatsApp number is 09156465440