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BigDick70inch:
How old r u first??
Well no greener pastures in Ghana like I heard.....

I'm 34 sir. Thanks for the comments

Nairaland pls advise me. I'm thinking of leaving Nigeria and to travel to Ghana to see how I can dig out something better out. However, If anyone staying in Ghana currently see this my post should pls drop his number so we can chat privately. I really want to make it in this life. Anytime I see how poor men face intimidation, bully, insult, and etcetera, I always fear for my future days ... PLS no one should come to my post and be raining insult on me ooo. Just because it is getting easier for you Does not make you to start insulting my post please.
No families, no mother, no father, no siblings just only me in this life. And I want to pave a good way for my children. Please seek a road 🛣️ for me and not an insult. I LOVE YOU PEOPLE ON NAIRALAND. Thank you

duduade:
First learn to always thank God for your own situation...
Ogbeni don't over pressure yourself please
Each person has his or her journey in this life
Learn to stop stalking all these people on social media too... All na packaging... Do you know what they are facing internally
Just focus on your hustle.. connect or network with people that will take you places and live your life

Thank you very much sir. I appreciate this also.
Haa! This life heen.

Please Nairaland family, to those who have experienced this feelings before, how do you cope with yourself seeing your secondary school mates, past years neighborhood colleagues, your parents friends children and etcetera that you know; you see them doing well maybe some have traveled out of the country or still here in Nigeria doing awesomely. And anytime you come across their pictures or videos on social media you can tell they are doing well and you can also tell the life patterns they could be living might not be a circle ⭕ pattern.

I feel depressed when I see this. Like how can I also change my life 🧬 pattern and live a happy Life. I'm just here working 9 to 5 collecting minimum wage while my friends and colleagues and others are climbing higher.

Has anyone ever been in my shoes

NairaLands pls 🙏 help me.
I have been going through comments under my thread since yesterday and I have never seen anyone to help a brother. Fathers and mothers in the house pls help me...

MrHandsome2013:
It is very simple to spot parents that never love their kids from day 1.
Like me I was never loved from day 1 by d so call parents .
1) no child fond memories
2) no single group pic with them as a kid and as an adult
3) They never care about you or how you make your money as long as you send them money
4) I was hospitalized for one good month , my dad one day never call or ask about my well bring
5) the worst thing that can ever happen to you as child is having both parents coming from a polygamous family , no single love.
6) imagine your mum from a polygamous family and your dad from a polygamous family coming together to get ma, worst nightmare parents combination .

My childhood experiences were tough and wicked with my parents. Despite my calmness and meekness my "dad" did says I'm a mistake. He did says he doubts his paternity over me ... I'm still inside the trauma currently in my 30s ... I fled from home after I came home from school (polytechnic program) and just to heard him vowed for himself that when I'm done with my polytechnic program he's gonna show me shéégé. ..... I looked up and down and I asked myself if I have been a wayward or disobedient child to this man in a life before this.... I didn't see love. I envy children who talk about their parents with a good and loving energy

essentialone:
You are extremely lucky to be in 2 trains that most guys have never ever experienced before.

1. To be liked or loved first, by a Lady.
2. To be asked out or told I love you, first by a Lady.

I have never ever experienced both. So, lucky you. At a time, I even kept aside 10million Naira for the first lady who would ever do so to me, whossai, no one even look my side.

But guess that is no longer possible.

But all the same, enjoy your experience. Many of us wished for it but never had it. Na only Oloshos naim dey approach us, if we Waka pass wrong places at wrong time. But as for other ladies, na we dey always do the approaching. Made me to conclude that most Nigerian ladies are either too shy, too naive, or too cowardly to approach guys and express their feelings without being promoted or approached first. They would rather go to Shiloh and other Churches and waste time praying for a particular guy to approach them, instead of walking up to the guy and be open about how they feel

Show your man some love BOSS. Make I send acct make you bless your man for breakfast. Laho

Is this spiritual? Please 🙏 help me.
Right from my teenages I have been experiencing this issue of cobwebs attacking my face when I'm on my way.
The most confused part of this issue is that even after many people have passed the road when I passed I will feel a tangled cobwebs on my face and when I tried to stop to remove it gently and check if truly the cobwebs is real Sir I will not see anything to pick out of my face but I will feel tangles on my face. Even if the road is as wide as anything or in a shuttle area or environment or market or selling square, I do experience this. I am tired. Please fathers and mothers in the house should help me cry

I decided not to border my parents anymore since they did not do anything to the first experience I told them about that I do pick snails in my dream. I started noticing All these weird experience during my teenages and I am person that is very sensitive to himself and his experience.

And I did tell them that they should help me cry, but they were Soo...they were Soo.. cry cry I don't know what to say.
I told them that I do pick snails in my dream and I never felt good about it, but instead for them to seek an help for me they would knock me off. cry cry

Pls someone should help me with any spiritual cleansing to save my life and destiny.
I'm lagging behind and my life is slow. And my spirit is not happy with himself. Pls NairaLands pls cry cry cry

sofeo:
You need to be prayerful bro.

It's so unfortunate that your parent took this with levity, it's a very sensitive thing.

Cobwebs and picking snail in the dream are demonic forces that drag someone backward..

Fast and pray.

Fast and pray,

Fast and Pray,

Pray, Pray and Pray brother. Destroy every demonic power upon your life, dragging your life backward.

Thank you very much sir. Although I always pray over this I pray God should intervene

Is this spiritual? Please 🙏 help me.
Right from my teenages I have been experiencing this issue of cobwebs attacking my face when I'm on my way.
The most confused part of this issue is that even after many people have passed the road when I passed I will feel a tangled cobwebs on my face and when I tried to stop to remove it gently and check if truly the cobwebs is real Sir I will not see anything to pick out of my face but I will feel tangles on my face. Even if the road is as wide as anything or in a shuttle area or environment or market or selling square, I do experience this. I am tired. Please fathers and mothers in the house should help me

I decided not to border my parents anymore since they did not do anything to the first experience I told them about that I do pick snails in my dream. I started noticing All these weird experience during my teenages and I am person that is very sensitive to himself and his experience.

And I did tell them that they should help me , but they were Soo...they were Soo.. I don't know what to say.
I told them that I do pick snails in my dream and I never felt good about it, but instead for them to seek an help for me they would knock me off.

Pls someone should help me with any spiritual cleansing to save my life and destiny.
I'm lagging behind and my life is slow. And my spirit is not happy with himself. Pls NairaLands pls

Sirmwill:
Finally

Someone else has enough sense to know that Game of thrones is boring

My brother, I found Game of thrones boring oo. The series just get as E be jaré,

I'm not a fan of boring and cold series movies.
Someone should please recommend some series action packed movies for me; like:
INTO THE BADLANDS
THE LAST SHIP
JACK REACHER
THE ACOLYTE
LEGEND OF THE SEEKER

I don't know why GAME OF THRONES is boring

Someone should recommend for me; action packed series movies

Guys this is thread is created for

Bobos

, Alimajiris too and dódóyó can also peep.

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AngelicDamsel:
Instead of using deceptive headline, why not create a thread and post your work there. Update it often with new photos you take and interested clients will contact you after they see your good works.


Post your works, if it's good enough you'll get patronage.

Modified: and don't think these few photos are convincing enough, post more

Thank you. For the comments. People like bloody news and erotic ones I think this is a good idea you gave to me

haphizz57:
U are under arrest

I beg oo boss help your boy oo

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Unfourtwonate:
I don’t even have a home
I reside in a church stand they have even asked us to leave
Omo my life is the worst I have seen

It's okay brother
We will not wait or relent till God 🙏 answer our prayers and crown our huzzle

VinnyBaba:
If you be 30+ Bros and you are still single and Broke, just find one lonely babe in Your area to dey Samankwe o.

Bcus Depression + Konji can kill a Bro, wallahi.

No be lie brother. But do you know say nothing goes for nothing, even if the girl is lonely she must still collect something

Unfourtwonate:
I am not up to 30 but I am already experiencing all this
I can leave my phone for 10 yrs without receiving a single call
I can die of hunger without anyone noticing

Can you imagine brother
I thought I am the only one.
In this life that I come; I am all alone.
And I'm striving to make a good family out of myself
As I am speaking to you now I am hungry and my house rent need to be renewed this month. I dey gather the money

Manculated:
Wunmi, So you sef never see one man catch

Life dey show everybody pepper not only wumi, even you. Everywhere no bam

doctore212:
Well, I have two shirts and two pants with no boxers. I stay in face me I face you in Ketu

All the babes in my street no dey allow me sleep . I don't have much financially but am endowed.

I don't have much problem untill last two months when one retired olosho from Agbor came into my life.

Ever since then, have been confused and don't know what am doing.

I used my school fees to open a saloon and now she doesn't give me free kepkus. I wish was wiser then.

That was a great mistake you did bro. Those genders are entirely another being. Don't crucify yourself for their sins.

tanigororo:
You won't understand, you won't know if it's your money they are after or they really love you. Couple with the level of desperation, just hope they don't go diabolical.

Well you're right. They can do anything for the sake of their bad exploitations.
Just to "gaanusi" the wealth they don't know how the owner suffered for

[quote author=tanigororo post=134945425][/quote]Life is easy for you bro, at 95.7% I'm happy for you. Unlike me. I wish I am financially stable before my 40s

How do we face the depression of life and its frustrations at this our 30years+ Most especially In this country called Nigeria?

For those of us that don't have anyone to look up to
For those of us that only eat and drink and spend only from what comes out from our pockets.
For those of us that are still on the street looking for better future for ourselves.
For those of us that have no girlfriend not to talk of getting married because of our weak financial capacity
For those of us that have no friends, no companions, no neighbors, no visitors, even families.
For those of us that will look at our contact list and will never see a single body to run up to in time of help.
For those of us that if we eat; we eat. If we get hungry; we get hungry. O.Y.O
For those of us that people will be thinking that we have money because of our dressing but deep down they don't know we just don't want to look like our problems. We face a lots than they do.

At your 30+ you're facing challenges like this or more; share experience and let's encourage ourselves. This life is not easy

Please 🙏 mothers and fathers in the house that cherish the present and future of children should please put me through over this egg cleansing.
I posted a thread on nairaland about my Life and someone commented that I should do an egg cleansing. That I should Wake up early in the morning by 4am or 5am take one egg and use it to rub my whole body while I pray for forgiveness and good Fortune and good luck for my life, he said after doing this I should go to T-junction and smash the egg at the point. He said I should this for 7days.
I want elders in the house should please help me on this on their experiences about EGG 🥚 CLEANSING
Thank you sir and ma. I'm open to comments

Please 🙏 mothers and fathers in the house that cherish the present and future of children should please put me through over this egg cleansing.
I posted a thread on nairaland about my Life and someone commented that I should do an egg cleansing. That I should Wake up early in the morning by 4am or 5am take one egg and use it to rub my whole body while I pray for forgiveness and good Fortune and good luck for my life, he said after doing this I should go to T-junction and smash the egg at the point. He said I should this for 7days.
I want elders in the house should please help me on this on their experiences about EGG 🥚 CLEANSING
Thank you sir and ma. I'm open to comments

Update147:
Wetin u wan dey do for Ghana ?

Sir na condition dey make person dey reason many things...

Someone commented that I should instead look to Northern Africa like Tunisia, Morocco and Algeria; if anyone still have any idea about those countries should pls enlight me and put me through please 🙏

[quote author=tochez240 post=134874392][/quote]Thank you so much sir. I really appreciate this.
Pls fathers and brothers should in the house should still put me through. I'm open to comments. Thank you so much NAIRALANDERS

Laird:
Cost of living is higher in Ghana

There are restriction on Nigerians opening small business and shops in Ghana

A lot of Nigerians are using ghana as a base to.do gee


I advise You restrategize

Not a time to carry Love or woman on top head. Survive first



Or You can visit for a month and study and obssrve but carry enough money

Thank you sir, really appreciate