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Good evening house.

mirexxx:
Hello people! It's been more than a year since I dated a man. I miss being in a relationship to be honest.
Well, since I'm not the outgoing type, I've tried online dating but it's boring.

It'll be nice to make reasonable friends here tho.








I haven't been active on this platform for a while.. So i decided to create a thread and interact with ppl so nobody should say trash here. I only pick out important comments and trash useless ones so be wise. I came here to express myself in my thread. I don't even care if u came to judge me.

Dating can actually been boring and same time be fun,it's complicated jawee..but nevertheless dear,try to love again,having a true partner you can pour all your feelings,emotions,heartaches,worries etc to is a blessing on its own..i wish you the best dear.

Abetterperson:
I don't really fancy married at all, it as to do with my upbringing I never grow up in a stable home and I found happiness when my parents were apart rather than together. I really don't like the idea of marriage because I see it as a cage, mind you im not totally against it I just think it wouldn't suit me, I never grew up in a family home so I don't know how to build one.

A guy asked me out and I agreed only on the condition that we wouldn't get married, he refused saying what's the point of the relationship if it wouldn't lead to marriage, even though I don't like the idea of marriage I do want to feel loved and wanted, I still do want kids and some sort of companionship, as crazy as it sounds I just want a baby daddy, I wouldn't have a child with him because I want to money, nop I'm already trying to establish myself, I really want to be financially independent so as to take care of my kids
Now the main reason I don't want marriage is because of my Independence, I don't want to answer to anyone at all and I know it will be difficult if I'm married to someone because in every marriage there is a level of dependence that is needed to make the marriage work, whether you are a man or woman u don't just do what you like especially when there is a child involved, secondly I'm thinking about the emotional stress my kids will go though if the marriage doesn't work, I don't want my child to grew up with memories of dad beating mum, mum shouting at dad, mum throwing a knife at dad and incase I do divorce I don't want my child to be in a state of depression, thirdly most Nigeria men treat their wives as trash, I Know what I'm talking about they don't value their wives, some see them as property other than an actual human being, some think of their wives as house maids and will refuse to do anything in the house or even allow the woman to get a help, some are also serial cheaters and don't see anything wrong with cheating because as they put it "I be man". Now I know that some women are equally as bad but I'm just stating my concern as a woman after all I'm not going to walk down the alter with a woman by my side.
So that's all I need my Independence, stability and control, people are saying I will regret but I really think it's for the best for me, I feel like I have a lot of time to think as I plan on having children at 28 but I don't know if my opinion will change then.

I'm I stupid for not wanting marriage?

Exactly my point,this is the battle I've been fighting with my family members since.

Bola146:
God have mercy on some stupid ladies of nowadays in the name of looking for what No wonder it's very easy for Yahoo boys using them for rituals in the name of having sex like dogs Let me keep quiet!

good morning omobolanle,trust you are doing good?

oke2018:
Really

yes dear,can I get an 'Hi' @ ayjasper287@gmail.com. thanks.

oke2018:
Amen to our prayers.

amen , I wouldn't mind knowing the queen behind the mask..�

oke2018:
Started single but by His grace ending it married

amen ....me too by god's grace

Pregift:
I just need to know. I have my reasons. Please ladies in the house. By Just looking or seeing your boyfriend/ husband naked either in the kitchen, parlour or anywhere in the house. Do you feel the urge to have sex at the sight of the naked body.

yes , unclothedness of a man do makes a woman aroused,I could remember more than 5 different ladies had warned to stop been on just boxers whenever they visit me that it's doing them harm underneath ��so I think it goes vice versa

missiret:
it's a smile emoji, I don't know why it's showing question mark.....no offence taken

alright ,can we chat?

missiret:
I don't know why people won't stay away of their ex, you broke up with them for a reason.

Birthday mate,can we talk on WhatsApp....08101108891

missiret:
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And if I’m wrong ,I’m sorry for quoting you,do have a nice life sir/ma. Cheers.

missiret:
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Thought your birthday is July 28th, was just happy seen my birthday mate for the first time . Have a nice weekend.

missiret:
A Rare Gem
A Treasure Lilly
July Baby.
Today I celebrate ME! The birth of Me! The
person I have grown to be! The person I will
become! The daughter, sister and friend of who I am! and the Mother and Wife I will be
someday! I celebrate Me today!Happy birthday
to Me! I wish myself many more years of joy,
love, laughter, health and prosperity. I wish
myself strength and wisdom for days to come
and success with everything I do today, and
tomorrow! so on this special day HAPPY
BIRTHDAY TO ME

wow!! my birthday mate. July 28 king.

Deborah98:
Single

can we chat privately

Preshieben:
Good Morning Y'all....

I'm just gonna keep this short and simple...
its been a year and 2 months since I got into a real relationship...
Tired of Flirting and wanna get serious and committed to a Man.
you're single,hardworking and not broke..
Please Pm,I'll give you my WhatsApp number and I'm gonna keep everything on the low and secret,
Let's try something together..

08101108891 chat me up, I hope your location is sw.

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Deborah98:
lolzzzzz am not sir,am a lady, okay to me I don't think it's a sin provided you are doing it with your wife or husband, anything outside marriage is illegal, unwholesome and abominable...

do you do it to your husband or you ain't married yet dear ? I have a reason for asking pls

Queenlovely:
I love my life

What do you love about your life dear? tell me�

Queenlovely:
I love my life

What do you love about your life ��tell me

LillyVal:
Given enough time, every guy will disappoint you.

I like the

SheCool:
That he had basketball practice, but he was just going out to chill with the fellas, and then on Snapchat he stupidly posted himself, he forgot to block me from viewing his story, he was just there laughing like this “ ” I was so dumbfounded watching his stories, I broke up with him but later got back with him again

Hi

I'm t

Paxie55:
I'm not interested.
I wanna learn german.
Wait, ashewo boy??
I pass.

Guten morgen Frau,I can teach you German if you are truly interested but you will pay a token, you can pm if you are serious about it.