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daretodiffer:
Says me

Do you have statistics to prove your opinion?

do u ve statistics to prove otherwise?

daretodiffer:
This has to be the biggest lie ever

says who? in this era of deception?

Yes, No sex before marriage is good but honestly it is outdated to not understand your partners sexuality before marriage. Worse is that some impotent people hide under the guise of born again to deceive other innocent people into marriages. Now when you finally end up with a barren or impotent partner, the same church will tell you that you must never divorce. Hell no.



i concur with this premise. say yes to sex before marriage. test run the engine before buying to avoid stories that touch the heart....................

sickstars:
I make love to all of them cos i dont feel a thing

They just wudnt leave me they keeo coming bck

I suggest u get tested for all the STDs available in Africa. See yeye girl boasting abt having casual sex wit every Tom dickk and Harry. Are u that cheap? Is Ur self esteem that low? U need Jesus young woman.

Toks2008:
Before i dwell on the matter i would like to welcome every Lady Nairalander who has perfected the act of E-cursing to come on board especially those who are still far from the reality of marriage to call me names like monster,misogynist or any other name that comes to your mind.

Yes we know that philandering is a hell bound sin and adultery is very sinful so this is not about justifying or encouraging the act but does that change the fact that a man who will cheat on you will do and some guys will never cheat on the woman in their life but unfortunately there is no way this can be written on their foreheads.

Many ladies hate to hear the word "Polygamy" but do you know that POLYGAMY IS THE ANSWER TO THE PRAYERS OF MANY LADIES such as:

1.Many never married single ladies in the late 30s and in their 40s.
2.Many lady divorcées with children.
3.Many widows in their 30s and 40s

Apparently it is the married men that will fancy these set of ladies MORE and only a lady in their shoes will relate perfectly to my stands and i believe it makes no sense for a man to divorce an innocent wife because he desires another woman.

How hypocritical it is that ladies will prefer a man to be married to them alone and keep side dishes rather than for the same hubby to marry more wives and remain faithful to them? Same ladies that talk down on polygamy will be the same having affairs with married men and i just wonder at the level of hypocrisy and foolishness.

And even more pathetic is the fact that a lady will divorce her husband because he decides to marry or date another lady just for her to end up as a mistress to another married man or starts sleeping around shamelessly after divorce.
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SO IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THE POSSIBILITY OF SHARING YOUR HUSBAND WITH ANOTHER WOMAN EITHER AS A MISTRESS OR ANOTHER WIFE PLEASE DON'T BOTHER GETTING MARRIED.[/size]

I know many ladies will say a man should also be ready to share his wife too but please you are free as a lady to marry more than one husband at the same time if you can


This is not the way it should be but a fact you must accept as a lady or stay single for life.

Dude u need Jesus. Only Jesus can help u remain faithful

searchiing4love:
hello debbie, how can i contact u privately? i would like to discuss some important issues. strictly proffessional, no strings attached

Bros ur signature. Wetin naija girls do u?

debbie:
An ICT Organisation based in Lagos need smart fresh graduate for the post of Business Development Executive in Lagos and Abuja. Abuja based applicant must be able to speak Hausa. Interested candidate should forward their CV to ictcareers@lumenave.com.

HI Debbie. The above vacancy does it have any specified discipline? U can speak hausa very fluently, and am a fresh graduate, ve served. What's my chances?

If you are asked to choose Who is your best democracy president so far? Who will u rather choose? And why?



For me it's no 4. Isn't it glaring why he is the best so far?

jerome263:
ok, pls can u gv me directions to their office, am coming from delta, and also little explanation about wat dey meant by Formal corporate

Seriously am not talking abt their office in Port Harcourt it's in kaduna

jerome263:
ok, pls can u gv me directions to their office, am coming from delta, and also little explanation about wat dey meant by Formal corporate

It's not the pH office, it's kaduna

jerome263:
hv forgotten sha, but let me go tru my sent mail first...I will get back to u

OK. Thanks. I actually made it to the interview stage of their recruitment for sterling Bank graduate trainee. But I recently saw another advert for cv submission by same work force. I did and they said they will soon call us for interview. That's why am asking. Tot it was d same, cos I submitted last week.

debbie:
Social Media Intern position available at a Green/Sustainability focused NGO in Lagos. Send CV & writing sample to greenimpactshub@gmail.com

Madam Debbie. Biko post jobs in kaduna or kano. I studied geology and mining, with 2.1. Recently served, passed out Oct 2015. Even if it's teaching job. Something to keep me busy before I go for masters. Thanks

jerome263:
I received this message this afternoon
You are invited for a bank interview with workforce on Monday 22/02/2016 by 12noon at 84 Omuma close off Dacoster Orlu-Akwu avenue, Rumuogba estate, port Harcourt.
Dresscode - formal corporate
Come with an updated copy of your CV

there was a time I sent my cv to their email address late last year

Pls what email address was that lemme compare with the one I used

jerome263:
I received this message this afternoon
You are invited for a bank interview with workforce on Monday 22/02/2016 by 12noon at 84 Omuma close off Dacoster Orlu-Akwu avenue, Rumuogba estate, port Harcourt.
Dresscode - formal corporate
Come with an updated copy of your CV

there was a time I sent my cv to their email address late last year

Pls when did u submit ur cv?

theatom:
I got a test invite from stanbic bank which will b taking place in Kaduna. Please who else got the message??

Venue and time

pinkiberry:
I don't wear clothes again in the night. plus heat rashes really disturbing me.

Pics or its a lie

grosy:
pls help a soul, tomorow at 8;30

Google is Ur friend

crocodile tears. this is kwaruption

Diddyydiva:
Do all the listed

Repeat them daily, it will never get you a real Lady.




The listed will only get you the greedy ones

who then is a real lady?

omg

I will find her

Smellymouth:

Lots of Vaseline crew can relate to this pics

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

I was scared when I started reading ur story, I tot u Wil say u brought out a gun and shot him. I must commend u miss. But pls cut ur ties with him. If u want ur nxt guy to take u serious.

Take heart. But I find it hard to believe he left u because u refused to relocate with him to ogun state

ifeomaekol:
ya I get ur drift, bt wat is wrong is wrong, u dnt justify wrong jux b/c u r a man. If u can't condone a cheating woman then, a cheating man shuldnt b condoned either. Its always a beautiful thing wen a man sticks to jux one woman n it takes a real man to do dt. Enjoy.

U are right, that's why we hide it when we cheat. We not proud of it. But it's something very little ve control over

ifeomaekol:
ok I get ur point, bt ll u understand if she shuld eva cheat on u?

I don't think I will marry someone who is capable of doing that, knowing fully well Dat she risk been kicked out of her matrimonial home wen caught. If u get my drift

ifeomaekol:
so dt u cont cheating ba?

am not perfect. its hard to be faithful to one woman for a long time. am not a cheat but am just saying am proned to the temptatation of cheating someday, when i do, i need my spouse to understand

MzPecs:
I wonder why i'm getting trashy mentions on this thread!

because u are not been realistic. careful so u dont reach 30 something because u were picky.

MzPecs:
Go for both!

U can as well get some clay and mould ur own man. Dey thr dey wait to meet the one wey get both, u go old.

sheilak:
Ode!

Malu

Stealthideals24:
Bigwigs! These people were robustly contributing in the fight against social injustices using their literary talents. Nowadays, you see self-acclaimed bigwigs in nairaland literature section churning out crime and romance stories. If your work is not reflecting your culture or motherland, but seeks to glorify alien cultures of the whites, we will see how you will be reckoned with in the literary world.

Hard truth.

cruzita:
yes your boobi is for the opposite sex,but no allow anyhow man handle am because the way e go take reach your knee u no go understand am

#TeamSmallBooobs. Am sure ur boobies are small for making this comment