₦airaland Forum

Roseart: As long as the people are consenting adults, no one is being harmed, and its in the privacy of their home, what people do with one another should not be anyone's business

Talk Hoha: My dear, sexuality can't be picked up and dropped like slippers. If it were, Nigeria would not have a 'gay problem,' because nobody would choose a gay existence. Just as you did not choose your gender and skin colour and sexuality before you were born, INNO18 did not choose his. He should not torment himself or be tormented over it. It is his nature, and he has a human right to fulfilment in his sexual nature, as long as he oppresses no one. To say being gay is unnatural is a biological lie. It's also historical falsehood. The world has enough problems, let's not add unnecessary and unhelpful ones to the list.

INNO18: Sister, you still dont get it do you? homosexuality is not an attitude like stealing, lyinge.t.c that can be stopped anyday, it's a genetic trait people are born with, i started exhibiting the traits @ age 4, it was at age 11 that i knew what i was. Praying isnt gonna solve it. It's the way i'm meant to be. God created me this way.

You know we can decide to argue this to-fro, back-forth and eventually arrive at nothing but the truth has ALWAYS remained simple and quite glaring for whoever sincerely desires to know.
To confidently assert being gay is unnatural is a biological lie… I believe you have studied natural truths enough from their sub-atomic structures and have extensively observed their roles especially procreational.
Nobody should castigate another for ‘failing’ to meet some mark; failing is not a problem, remaining there and wallowing in that mud is.
Inno I repeat, please if you really do believe in God, sincerely ask Him to reveal His intentions to you regarding your sexual orientation and see if He wont. Don’t say it’s something prayer cannot solve cos you wouldn’t know that.
Please I would you take that seriously. I perceive you’re much smarter than this charade.

Talk Hoha: I think the hatred is based on a few factors. Fear of the unknown, conventionalism, lack of information about others. We humans often reject the unfamiliar. Gays have been in all cultures, yet at least in Southern Nigeria have been a small, underground, peripheral minority. If we followed strict Christianity, any act that gives us pleasure without glorifying the Lord is a sin. Who is fit to cast stones? I know that nobody would be so self-hating as to choose to be gay in a culture where it is abhorred. The creator made varieties of personalities, each to fulfil certain roles. Men and women can't and shouldn't all be stereotypes. I said in another post that without gays (that embraces LGBT) there would be no culture and civilization, and that is fact. I mentioned several names but I only repeat that of the greatest known genius, Leonardo da Vinci. The gay pedigree is awesome. Immortal.

@Talk Hoha, i hope all these is not to make Inno feel better cos no matter how dressy your write on this, you are not helping by not pointing out the glaring truth. . .we all miss it one way or the other but do we have to DWELL there? ? we make changes for the better or at least acknowledge our helplessness and seek help and guidance.

Inno you are a fullblooded human created and loved totally by God and it's unfortunate you have the natural created biological functions twisted! You believe in God why not sincerely pray He at least corrects you if you're not getting it right instead of just trying to live with it out of helpless frustration?

jamace: Low morale don dey set in for dis biz o. Anyway, man go still dey do am sha. No alternative for now.

how about investment in gold?

feelamong: You can actually get this from your bankers or discount houses just like i do get mine. at times CBN does put up these stop rates on their web sites...but like most govt agencies they are no really very religious about it

Thank you. Can you pls provide their web links? i always want to reconfirm from another source after dem bankers have dropped theirs just to be sure.
Oga feelamong abeg is there anybook like.. say 'Treasury bills investment for dummies' . .as i want to really study the workings of the market and make the most of it?

if this is real life, ASK GOD! 15yrs is a whole lot to gamble with.

feelamong: The last Auction was done on the 8th of Dec 2012. The next one is on the 22nd.

oga feelamong welcome back o, please where do we get the published auction results apart from when pasted here?

question: Please note that some banks (if not all) will take N5 per mille COT when they debit your account for the T-bills.

how about using a savings account?

ochukoccna: I think the rate has been around 12.7-13.5%
Try a treasury house if you ain't cool with the bank rate given you.

ochukoccna: I think the rate has been around 12.7-13.5%
Try a treasury house if you ain't cool with the bank rate given you.

thanks

@inno
religious inclinations and biases aside, how do you feel about seeing unnatural beings or phenomena? i guessed uncomfortable.
you claim being gay born, lets assume that granted but so are siamese twins which we 'naturally' tend towards righting the aberration by surgically separating and not celebrating the anomaly.
my point is it's IMPERATIVE for you to really see your situation as not in sync with nature and right it!

Please can you explain the rates following the link cos i keep seeing around 14% but a banker told me last week that the max available is 11%.how true is that pls?

I wish we dont run on food in the first instance so we wont have to work.

Hoax?really Dayokanu?why should you publish this if you think it might not be real? you might think this will add to hurting the guy's career but God has a way of turning devil's work downside up. i mean what do you gain by this publish?even if it were all true - twin is alive and 40 while taye decides to be 15, is it your business?who are you to judge another man's slave? and for all these your i-holy-pass followers who carry big big stones...Amadiohaisreallykeepingtabs and setting you up...for humptydumpty crash...focusless joblessness

Following human nature we'll definitely want it to be all about us, everytime; understanding human nature we should let one another exhale. I'm guessing you've seen other guys with one or two physical attributes you love that your beau doesn't have and is yet to change what you feel for him?

congi: I av been trying this site for last 4 weeks. It has never opened, even at night.

Same here but when some peeps said they tried and it went, I slept with it all thru last night and at a time, fiam, it went and I received the confirmation mail. Just keep on at it; it must go.

Why the lamentations? even as we speak, neighbors are already welcoming them back home from crossriver!

Simple deducement: you come as refugees, war has ended: return as refugees.

And while we're at it, why should pple be scared of returning to their original abodes? Is money picked off the streets of anytown? look around you whereever you are and generate something if it comes to that.
Settle indeed - the parents have eaten sour grapes and their kids teeth are on edge; fulaaani--just return to your known homes, biko.

Picture... isi akwu dara na ala...

hmnn...good thinking but that means dem suicide bombers will start walking in - terrible. kai Jehova please we pray for more insight

Seun don't pls run this bizness with ijebu or igbo sense as they say. you may mean well but if its not working one way, try other options, one must work ; dont be bent on using this one size fits all approach even when you're innundated with free and constructive ideas of way forward. It vexes me when I open this page to read up and am greeted with a comparatively bland insipid site. honestly, whatever idea made you drive your customers to your competitors shops and encourage them to actively seek alternatives which they' ll definitely find?brand loyalty can only last that much. Please in the name of Jesus I beg you to apply wisdom...and some more wisdom.

Seun goodmorning and very weldone for thinking change. I must confess when I logged in this morning, I exclaimed...kai, not again!... I really like nairaland and have gotten so used to it that even with any kind of change, downgrade or up, I'll keep visiting. That's not a popular opinion and what sells is popular which is what a representative sample of the users have been lamenting about in close to 5 pages of advice and suggestions in many shades of emotion. I know you mean well by progressing to 2 but it's not hitting the right chords just yet.I suggest you herd us all back to the old comfortable feel at homeNL, then provide a link to the new site where we all will contribute and help you build it, afterall you're building it for us and you would want it habitable and alluring.

@letustalk hello, please can I possibly get your email address? I need to make some inquiries. Mine is ayztech@yahoo.com. Thank you very much

Please I forgot to mention she read accountancy and has an MBA. She  has always wanted to work in an international NGO.thanks again

@mpmp, sorry I have to infringe on your kindness extended to georgee.my sis just got laid off by ecobank too and i know she will very much appreciate the IRRI link.please how does she contact you?many thank s in anticipation

OGBUNKA. Orumba south

Yea, family and festivity, thot as much. You did very well, thanks a whoooooolelot and have a very splendid new year!!!

Nwaka respond nowwwww or anybody that's got this shld please share ooo. By the way everybody, make sure you enter the new year and Harpie new year at that.

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