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Toks2008:
If my wife commits adultery and she is repentant AND I LOVE HER WHY NOT?

And I remember telling you this lady that you must never ever compare a man and woman when it comes to matters such as this.

A man can marry as many wives as he likes, there Is no sin in it so if a man can marry as many as he wants then tell me if it is not madness that a lady will now leave her husband cos he wants to be with another lady?

Please I beg you, stop asking this shallow question again

Good evening big bro. I wrote to u through your mail since on Thursday evening. Still earnestly waiting for your advice . Thanks

uptownmusic:
Did someone cut you off?

Just get more value.

A beautiful lady seriously wants me to be her friend as in very close friend and she's getting married to a rich dude before the year runs out and I'm a kind of person that does not want any complications in my life or future as am trying to put myself in her fiancée shoes. By the way am jobless and have nothing to offer her.

Toks2008:
I have lived for decades and i have had several friends .... I have had friends with very annoying manners but with an amazing heart of gold.

I have met ladies who are demonically stubborn but are loyal to the core, ladies who told me they can't date me but had stood by me come rain or shine...

I have met friends who act so arrogant but will always have my back whenever it is necessary ...people who do not have any money to give to me whenever I'm in need but their words of encouragement is worth millions.

The simple fact of life is that there is no need cutting off anyone from your life or consider them irrelevant to you at any point in time cos that person that drives you crazy might be the same person that will come through for you when you least expect...that person you feel is too poor to give you money might be the one that will link you with a life changing opportunity that will be worth more than all the money you have ever seen in your life...and the ex you are so angry with might still have a great impact in your life.

Appreciate everybody and be nice to them because there is something good and valuable in everyone we come across no matter how terrible we may think they are, even that tout you avoid so much might be the one that will save you from hoodlums tomorrow.

bro this your write up is just explaining the kind of confusion I'm in right now. In fact, reading this, I don't know weather I would be able to sleep again this night as it has further increased my anxiety and confusion. I seriously need your advice and need you to hear the full story as it has to bldo with a lady at my place of work. I just feel this thread is Godsent and made for me . pls how do I contact you...

BigDawsNet:
You are right, I have a friend who normally I should have cut off... she doesn't meet my standards now and I don't really feel she had something that's so special I can consider keeping her ...

I kept my distance no doubt...she try to close the gap but I appear to be step ahead when she try ..she never gives up on me ...

I don't know what's so special about her really...but something I don't know or feelings keeps telling me she's not a friend to loose...that voice keeps saying keep in touch with her because there something hiding and special about her which is even hiding from her...

She carry something bigger than her without no single soul knowing...it's a ticking time... waiting to explore....

My advice to all... always listen to your inner self before you regret your decision..

big bro, I'm exactly in your situation, my own is even worse as this girl I about to get married this September, as in she's always on my hair. I really will need and appreciate your advice bro. I have sometimes publicly embarrass her so she could leave me alone but she no gree. BTW she's getting married to a guy way richer than me.l, works at NNPC Abuja.Me wey ne ordinary classroom Teacher.As in this girl dey make life tire me. Pls I need your advice. how can I contact u?

Thanks for everything king leo

udemzyudex:
You forgot to add family wahala.

I dey tell you bro

Number one is really my greatest worry. I am tge first child and have younger siblings. We have been orphaned since 2013. The little income I earn from my blue collar job is always spent on my siblings feeding and upkeep since I can't run away from my responsibility as the first child. Am always unable to save as a result, I even run into debt.
The job I do is really is really nor easy, it requires a lot of physical exertion( factory lab our at night). It really weakens the body with time.
If not because of the people under me, I would have been able to save monthly till I gather a fair sum that I would use to start up a business or learn a skill, but I can't. My younger ones have got to eat. And still what I warn is never enough. We only can afford to eat twice a day
I still thank God sha.

I bame ganduje APC. Believe me I live in Kano, and before ganduje came to power, former hover keankwaso have been paying the neco fees of students who passed a "qualifying exam" in sss2. But baba gandollar stop paying nexo exam fees to deserving students 2years ago. ... APC, change!!!

I graduated in 2020.. I am currently a mathematics and physics teacher in a private school close by and I am very good at it. Funny enough the students especially the females who hated mathematics prior to my coming to the school are now the ones coming to call me from the office when its time for maths. In fact I can teach all science subjects very well. Sometimes I wonder maybe teaching is my talent that I couldnt discover all these years. It takes me little time and more efforts to transform a student who is a crawler to one of the fliers in the class .
And I just enjoy teaching just like how someone would enjoy smoking or drinking.Although my salary is quitee poor, a paltry sum of 25,000 naira monthy. My only joy and consolation is seeing my students becoming better each day from my efforts.
I still thank God for everything as I pray for better days.