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This is coming at a time when DNA and paternity fraud is rife....

Maybe her two kids were not from her first husband ( paternity fraud); hence the separation......

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She has never been married

positivevibez:
The sugar go sweet for two years after that e go sour

What do you mean by that?

Please, interpret your adage

I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.

Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.

Theophinio:
Elon Musk my Guy
I know he will definitely be the No 1
He would remain there for a very long time

You think so?

Bezos will get back to his position soon.
Remember he is also into that kinda business and again he faced a major challenge in the form of divorce, if not Elon can't near him.

These things are just time/period,tomorrow amazon's may rise and you will see the rapid increase in his wealth.

Well, Elon did well e no easy.

Let us see how it goes...

And the pain returned back home successfully to their comfort zone zebra united with a lightening speed ��

nedekid:
It does not change anything. A wife that will Bleep around will still do thesame even under your nose.

That one nonfat happen, under my nose?

BTW,
She give me wahala, she go her papa house, thank God in Nigeria person no need divide him properties or investment batter sending a woman away.

Divorce is not expensive here as it is in some places.

Prechy08:
ehhh u still need to visit the shop to check if ur kids resemble one of those shop owners or any of the exco .

Shop excos in my shop?

Anyway, good woman na good woman.

She give me wahala, she go her papa house, thank God in Nigeria person no need divide him properties or investment batter sending a woman away.

Divorce is not expensive here as it is in some places.

I no dey joke with my peace of mind.

handsomeyitayo:
guy even staying home gan self..I have seen many women who bring their lover home when their husband is not arround..or go to work..
Omo make God let us marry our Faithful wife ooo..

Imagine, na God dey guide us o.

I don comot that one be that.

mysteryman2014:
Just marry a hermit, so far a woman goes out, if she wan commit she go do am.

This life ehn, it is well.

Baba40:
Na that home worse pass....

I don comot am for the options.

Fiscus105:
I pity ur childish believe , stay at home doesn't guarantee fidelity, it will only put burden on you solely

Pity yourself, there are slot of housewives out there.

BTW, I have stroke that option out.

HisMajesty1:
And while she's at home feeling bored and Hot, you think one guy will not come and do your duty while you're away... Sorry o.

Story, when I get camera full everywhere.

Anyway, I don strike that option out.

That one is for people that will allow their wives to work.
It is either I start a business for you or you come and join me in my business or stay home


BTW, I thought similar post to this was posted on the FP few days ago.

Modified: Staying at home is not an option.

luminouz:
Well, I prefer a bowl of pounded Yam to you two

HungerBad

PBeni:
Rubbish talk. And drop that nonsense 'full blooded igbo' tag, cos you're not

I am more Igbo than you will ever imagine, it is not mouth making.

You are just living in denial young man, mind you I'm a businessman FYI.

Mine is not a mistake though, it's a business investment and it's one of the best decision of my life so far but seeing as people are travelling out of the country, it made me think that I could have used the money to travel out but God's will is final.

basty:
Peter is so cool, fine and relaxed.
One good thing about him is, he is loved.
I prefer him to Paul and Jude.

I prefer Paul to him, anytime anyday

Brainiac12:
I know what you are saying
Ego obara

I know talk anything o

PicLtd:
Na so we dey do am.

For my family na stocked shop plus 2 million we dey take settle Nwa boy. He can still live with us till he settles down and gets his own accomodation. A family that has trained and set up over 108 Igbo boys and 1 yoruba boy since 1970 till date, many from families we don't even know, from as far as Enugu, Abia and Ebonyi.

For onitsha, some heavy men settle their boys with warehouses and 4 storey/decking building.

The Secret of Igbo success.

That second to the last part of your story na lie Mr man.

That person is not just a normal everyday boyboy.

Can you mention your business name?

I wan open your nyansh

Check that money well, that money fit be 10k spiritually.

I know what I am saying and people that are familiar with the apprentice system will understand too.

Note: I am a full blooded Igbo and I also a have siblings who have been tru that system, even though my family is a comfortable one.

TheRareGem1:
This two are blessing to Nigerians and Nigeria. They have what it's takes; actionable, sound administrators, empathy, kind hearted and sailor of Nigeria democracy

Which rubbish blessing be that?

Swerve joor!

Your Oga won't like this because he is currently somewhere recovering serious treatment and you people are talking about 2023

Sure, he is right.

I wonder how some celeb go broke after enjoying at the top of their games for years.

FuckThaMod:
How did u use your wisdom? Cos one 9 years old girl has been seducing me and always gives me signs she wants to suck my dick

Are you for real? Well, those kids are something else, that was how one told that her mates in their native language that our dick will be long just the way we are tall.

Back to the question, be strict with her.
Reduce the way you smile, play and talk to her. Let it be strictly tteacher-student relationship.

Give her the feeling that you're open, i.e you can expose anything or tell people anything once you find something out. In that way she will tends to avid you in order not to be exposed or caught.

During my NYSC, a female student accused my fellow ex-corper of punishing her because she decided his proposal and by proxy it affected me.
Me and the principal had issues because I stood my ground that I won't accept any fault since I am innocent, las las we settled it.

Again, during my working time(post NYSC) as a secondary school teacher, there was this JSS 2 girl with big blossom bigger than most matured ladies own.

One day, she was acting dull and sick, as their favorite teacher I called her and asked her what is wrong with her and other questions.

Do you know this girl got home and told her parents that I am asking her out.

Her mom came to school to report and meet me, being a smart and a top teacher in the school, I used my wisdom to sort everything.

Later the mom, approached me to apologize and since then I don't even care if anything is wrong with any of the students till I left the school and stopped teaching.

SamJed:
So I am a primary 4 classroom teacher and I love my children and ensure that they learn in the best way possible.

Most times I gather them around me and tell them some real life lesson, current events, science, stories, and even show them YouTube videos of some topics or discussion we had.

I was just reminiscing about what these children have done to me innocently that almost put me in trouble.

One day, before teaching a particular topic, I decided to watch some YouTube videos. One of the talkative's in the class managed to find her way to my table and saw me watching the videos.

She went back to her classmates and of all things to tell her classmates, she told them that she saw me watching a video with two naked girls and a man.

Damn It was just youtube videos. I don't know what she saw that made her conclude such. I had to quickly call all the kids together and show them what i was watching, because I knew that from class it will definitely get to their houses and that could be the start of some problem.

Another day, one of the little ladies wrote me a letter detailing how she likes my teaching and don't want me to go. According to her, I should keep teaching her till she leaves the school.

She kept asking me for a reply. I still wonder how I wriggled out of that situation.

Another one was another little lady coming to sit on my leg and gbam it spread... I initially waved it off till the proprietress called me to be wary of the kids

The little guys don't have problem apart from always reminding me of the gifts I promised them for whoever comes out best in any challenge I give.

So guys have you ever been put into trouble by kids

ok

Jeezuzpick:
Please try and visit YouTube.

One-on-one battles between the water buffalo and lion don't end well for the lion.

Those beasts (buffaloes) have hides over 4 inches thick!

LoL, the argument is "can male lion can't kill a buffalo?

Go to Alaba, Trade fair(Balogun market), main market and tell them.

Adakintroy:
That's a lie. Lions are moslty pack hunters. It will take up to three of four mature lioness. Maybe two male lion to take down a fully grown male buffalo.

Those things are built like tanks..unless you just being baise in your accesment.

Funny guy.

You think it is only about size.

Stealth, instinct,hunting prowess etc put lion on top of food chain in the forest.

A full blown malelion will take OT down.