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Amya:
I started seeing this course-mate of mine 3 months ago. We aren't boyfriend and girlfriend in the real sense of the word, but we were quite close. We are both in our final year and we didn't really know each other much all these years but I've always noticed and admired him over the years. Somehow, through a twist of fate we became close and i started developing real feelings for him.This year, our intimacy went to a whole new level and we started having sex and regularly too. I knew we couldn't be in the stereotypical relationship, but we were lovers. Even though i wanted much more than that, but i was content with the way things were and i didn't want it to change. There wasn't any form of commitment from both parties. . .which was still okay. . . I should mention that I'm 3 years older than him even though i don't know if he knows it. This is actually my inhibition in getting too serious with him. . .i know it can never work, that there can never be a happily ever after end to that one, but i fell in love.

Yesterday, while we were in school, we were together as we always and there wasn't any hint that anything was amiss. . much later in the day, i called him to ask  him if he wanted to spend the night at my place, but he didn't take the call. i sent him a text, he didn't reply. I assumed nothing.

Today, i was reading through status updates on face book, and i saw the one he posted last night ""months of meaningless sex , worthless relationships, finally I'm in love n I'm happy" i can't describe how hurt i felt.

Chei! OP, you too dey jump o! He's probably trying to say after months of meaningless sex (how can sex be meaningless sef), and worthless relationship with YOU, he has finally taken it to the next level. He's in love with YOU!

I'm not trying to give you false hope, but seriously there are two "meanings" to that sentence. 

Find out which one is it!

P.S: All these babies that upload/update nonsense on FaceBook sef, nawa for una---ahn ahn!

^^Nah. Forget politics!--lol-- This is a Yes or No question.

2buff:
The urge to not stay with one partner is a result of the "I want it all, I want it now" mentality that people develop in this age of "standardized fornication".
Essentially, we are spoiled. The media and fashion doesn't help either cuz a man is [b]expected [/b]to keep it together while thick-thighed girls run around in miniskirts, tight, short dresses and various assorted "f@ck me" attire. 
there were certainly more coverings on a woman's body back in the day.

There's also boredom of the same thing over and over again. But then instead of the couple to work on re-spicing things up (which takes considerably more effort) they'd just rather go the cheaper,faster route (I want it all, I want it now) and get new azz/cork.

2buff, you know upon all your grammar, you didn't answer the OP's question---

1one:
@Poster
Guys keep coming up with this same old same old, change your circle of girl friends, girls would continue to remain the same as long as you continue hanging around the same poverty stricken,2 naira worth-cheap chewing gum eating ones, I can hardly imagine friends from the upper crust of society buzzing you because of some new pay package.CHANGE YOUR FRIENDS!

hhmmmm-- Interesting advice.

This one na SPIRITUAL KONJI!!!!

When that spiritual sometin hold you, River Niger go be like Kanji Dam!

Even for afternoon you go dey see stars!

Nuff Said!!!

The topic is supposed to be: "So Why does Mr. Cork Avoid Dark Skin Females?"

Oya, gimme my bicycle!

rokiatu:
You are slowly becoming one of my favourite nairalander

Ok, so you said you date girls that fill out your personality, and you get bored after a while with them---meaning they're boring lots! and You are quite fun!

So, next time try not dating girls that complement you. Date girls that have similar traits as yourself---Fun girls!

See, what happens. Oh yh, I don't think there's anything wrong with you.

You just haven't found that personal person yet, that's all.

Keep doing you! (So far you're not a bad person)

spermoderm:
Possible but very rare in this day and age  

We were not meant to be with one woman for the whole of our lives, just not natural

Ashually, we were! That's the natural! What's going on now, is what is not natural!

No long tin---

It's very possible!

When I look at a man---"If he's gay or not"( I have that talent. I can tell if a guy is gay within a snap of fingers)

When I look at a woman---Her shoes.

awww---Michelle is a babe o! Nicely done!-- Loving Beyonce btw.

Patience Jonathan ke ? Can she even yahozee or Alanta?

The only song she can dance to is Rihanna's Umbllera! 

^^ Yup! Yoruba!

Tosinville:
LOL^

Thats some kind of hilarious, anyway its all good & i no wan turn talkative jare till i show.

Aight!

@Omo to sweet

hmmmm---Intresting! Dada estate asin opposite Capital hotel?  

I lived somewhere in Ogo-oluwa, then I moved to Dada estate area too!

Good to know!

Tosinville:
Babe!
Advo abi? ti owun ko ba appreciate e dada then mofe je ko mo wipe emi feran e gan ni no bi seresere, maje ko gba gbe any obinna for d rest of your life ni walahi lol

**clears throat**, Mo ti gbo o! I don hear.

Advo appreciate mi da da-- Boyfriend gidi ni.

As for the obinnas: Olorun ma je kin ri nkan ti ma fi gbagbe omo-nnas--Tufiakwa!

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=657963.msg8254102#msg8254102 date=1304457094]@Babe

Oh, I grew up in Osogbo, Osun State and I---admittedly and embarrassingly---do not speak either of my parent's native Esan or Akoko-Edo language. My mother and I speak Yoruba and my dad and speak conc. Pidgin English.[/quote] Osogbo??-- NA LIE----OMG! wHERE----I lived in osogbo for a while--

Tosinville:
Babe!
Forget, omo 9ja ni e ye sebi bolo, tani boyfriend na nibi bayi? so fun mi? se o fine or swag loni to mi ni? nitori ti e mo ma move straight up lo si texa[co] walahi  .

lol--haha--O mo boyfriend mi now--he's your guy! Anyways, mo ti gbo, e ma ko bo!

190:

Se o si te'nu yin wo segbe kan?

Tosinville:
Babe!
Forget, nitori ti e ma gba gbe yetunde ati kemi straight up, iwo sha fi ibe yen sile

Obinna go don tire for u o!, na only to cuddle una dey do for winter ni abi wetin?

--ha ha!! hm hm -- Ma je ki boyfreind mi catch e with all these talk o---lol

@ Omo to sweet--

Aight! I was just asking, coz Conc. Yoruba was written all over you.  

Tosinville:
big ogo?LOL all omo-ibo ogos always dey shapeless with enuf koko hehe!

lol-- Abeg don't go there jo! Only the ones with "Chukwu" at the beginning of their names have big ogos.

Tosinville:
Babe!

Forget, ti n ba fi si fun e, wa gba gbe omo-nna for the rest of your life cos ta ba de ori bed fadeyi oloro ni mi.

hmmm---Dagrin will sue you o! --lol

Tosin, ma fi gbogbo yen han kemi and Yetunde. They'll appreciate it!

Gba gbe omo -nna ke? Lai lai-- Ko ti possible!  

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=657963.msg8254051#msg8254051 date=1304456356]@MrsChima
Whenever someone questions the logic of your statements by showing their contradictions, unverifiable assumptions, or inconsistencies, you resort to ad hominems. It clearly shows that you lack the intelligence to support your statements and cannot reasonably engage in an intellectual discourse. By the contra-positiveness of your previous statement, your father is not a high caliber man since your mother chose his surname. And folks who go to my school are known to be amongst the smartest individuals in the world. We have the statistics to prove that.[/quote]Omo to sweet--Where are you from? Just curious--

^^ I like obinnas! They're very sexy! Chukwuemekas have big ogos! lol

Nahhhh-- The konji no reach that level yet--- We'll just cuddle. That's all. No jara!

Tosinville:
Babe!

Yup! i no wan use konji make dem no understand ni hehe!

lol-- O ye mi---Spiritual Konji!

Anyways, ti "agro" ba n mu mi-- I'll probably do the same--I would give Obinna a call! --lol

Tosinville:
Babe!

Aso ibora or blanket ke? se ti agro ba n mu e, se blanket ti ko le solve any problem lo ma lo ni?

Is "agro" the same thing as "Konji"?

^^^ lmao---Yh, That's what it is. I have diff. looks.

Yay! You're are a shoe (heels) lover too! I love heels---I don't like flats--they're boring.  --lol. I think I only have 2 pairs or so--