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Headlamp1:
I just hope you know what you are doing. If he releases the stuff on the internet how easy is it to nail him when he isnt in the same country with you.

I hope you have spoken with legal professionals on the situation and get their advice.

how far is the uk? just a stone throw from here if I have to be there physically.

Yes, I know what I'm doing. Nailing him will be too easy. I have him by the balls.

freecocoa, you've got mail.

nihilist abeg you get mail.

MaziOmenuko:
Books space
Those mods protecting fraudulent activities in Nairaland are indirectly doing more harm than good to this site.
Babe3, I missed out on the pix and screen grabs.
Kindly repost

this is all I can post for now. I can't post any email exchange between me and others.

those were his messages to me on viber last night. .and missed calls... I cropped out his face and number.

if he wan post nùdes, why not just post? why the noise?

ELYMAXiimus:
BABE3, drop 'em screenshots

elymaxiimus, pm me abeg. I'll drop them there. don't want them to lock another thread.

freecocoa:
Chai! Is this where we are meeting now?

lol.
cocoa, I will reply your mail soon..
there's hold up.. no vex abeg...

raumdeuter:
You email am so e go fit reply you at least you sabi jackbauer email

you have mail....

SIRcumalot:
@BABE3

Just talk about issues dat relate to the fraud stop posting too much info about yourself and your relationship with coogar.dem don dey turn am to another thing.

okay. I'll do just that.

SailorXY:
lol guy na staunch Christians go believe this kid tale.
you date a guy for some years, you didn't confirm what he does for a living? let's assume she was told (as in lied to) for example that he's a veterinarian or salesman or whatever, there was always going to be a way to confirm either through observations, his friends or neighbors, personal effects on him like ID or work tools/appliances? nothing gave him away as a liar? even if she visited him @ least 3 times during the relationship from USA or Kaffanchan, no work commitments came up throughout her stay? this babe no be whitey oooo naija babe? abegii

how about juxtaposing his spendings with a perceived income range for the whatever kind of work you were told about? abeg there's no point deceiving ourselves. she must have known but something held her there - either love or materials or potential whatever. this is like saying you are the babe of a drug pusher & you have no idea - na yam? if the babe talk that one for my front, i go cripple her immediately without remorse.

i have never advised anyone not to do crime (me sef don do some things i no dey proud of) but enjoy the cash when it flows & do the time if ever shite hit the fan!

if these tales are exactly how they've been written here, coog can 101% easily rope her into whatever punishment to be meted out by the courts.

what cash flow ke? I'm paying all the debts back now.


each time.i went to the uk, he'd tell me he's on leave so no work for him for that week.

I've actually never been to his workplace, or his apartment, just hotels. And that hotel bill.its my noney we use to pay while I was there.

The reason he gave for staying in hotels is because he said they're cheaper than real apartments.
He said his bosses believe hotels are more economical.

He recently just moved to his dad's place when he got in trouble with the authorities recently. He had to do community service at Birmingham.

Fùck, who knows if that was even a lie.

Reyginus:
Where are the other victims? Why are they quiet? Your quietness will not help anyone. If you believe in God you are doing something that will lead you to hell by keeping quiet. Speak out. You can create new monikers if need be.

Thank you o. I've have loved to post their emails here but that won't be smart.

Mindfulness:
I am not saying you do it because you still love him but you are doing it because you are blaming him for your misery when in fact you were not only gullible but also co-dependent and a co-conspirator and co-creator.

As for the we need to 'take him down intention', it is not your job. Your priority now should be your well-being.
Every Nigerian knows about scam and credit card fraud and yet hundreds of ladies fall for it every day. You won't save them. They need this painful experience to wisen up just like you did.

ok ma.

Reyginus:
Tell them speak out too. Keeping quiet will solve nothing.

I have o. they all will..soon enough.

Mindfulness:
Babe3,

I would lie if I said that I didn't enjoy the juicy gist but the the truth is also that I sympathize with you.

If I were in your shoes, I would let it rest as quickly as possible. The relationship caused you considerable distress but you want to feel good, happy and peaceful. Focusing on the relationship by looking back and by fighting him will probably cause add to your distress instead of making you feel better. Girl, you need to let go and move on FOR GOOD, BETTER and BEST.

First understand that you are not a victim and accept responsibility. You chose to be with someone who is, according to you, criminal. You decided to send him your nudes. You didn't mind enjoying stolen goods. You have been making wrong decisions for three years. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones!

You need to understand and accept that it is you who did it to herself and then you need to forgive yourself.
You want to be happy and feel good, like every human being, so make it happen instead of blaming others for the miser you yourself created.

I understand that. I already said I was a mumu. I was naive and stupid. I know. I'm not doing this coz I can't let go. I did the breaking up. So it's been over.

but does start mean we should keep letting a scam artiste roam free.... He survives on fake credit cards, isn't that enough to take him down?

He's a criminal, do you understand?

Gboliwe:
This is scary! Who for think am? Babe3 and Coogar used to be an item. Both of you were so mouthed and I actually thought both of you suited each other. At some point sef, I even thought both of you were one individual using different handles. I am shocked at these things I am reading. Are these other girls nairalanders?

yes they are nairalanders.

Emaprince:
The username ish doesn't interest me at all. Its not news that coog has multiple I.Ds. Jackal, sauron, cougar, sharron, rapdevil etc. What I'm really interested in is how these women falls for him so easily to the extent that they'll be sending money to him. But then, if you date a man for 3 good years, did some favour to him and later broke up unceremonously, why would you come up here and claimed that you are being scammed? Cc BABE3

This wasn't a hit-and-run relationship, but a freaking 3yrs affair. As far as I'm concerned, this is just a case of a bitter woman trying to get back at her ex for the way he broke up with her. Maybe, she's even more bitter considering all the money she invested in the relationship which eventually didn't take her to the alter.

lmao . and the 4 other woman that have contacted me so far narrating their ordeals are bitter too

so we are all just happen to be bitter at once about the same issue.


if there's one thing I'll forever be grateful for, it's the fact that he didn't take me to the alter.. alter wetin?? jesus I thank you. Omo! That'd have been a self inflicted life sentence.

Olorunmaje. If you knew him well, you won't wish him for your worst enemy.

Chillisauce:
abeg babe3 . whats this story?

see amibo do me o. i get project o.

Come and gist me abeg, hopefull 'he' will not lock this thread

lol.. I know o. your boy na scammer o. He threatens the girls he scammed with their nudes if they try to expose him. That's the story.

...and hopefully this brouhaha will stop other potential victims from falling. coz omo, e no easy.

freecocoa:
BABE3

You got mail.

resend the mail...I didn't get it.

Ibime:
What the people on this section need to confirm . . . . give us his past usernames. . . All of us Sports section old timers know him as Sauron, but a lot of newbies on this thread didnt want to believe me although everyone on Sports section knows his usernames. . . can you give us the list of his usernames?

yes you're right. . his usernames are sauron, jackal, coogar.. there are a bunch of others that I can't remember

Emaprince:
The way Ibime just dey mention person any how for familly section sha. Lmao! That coogar case get as e be o. But that BABE3 is a fool IMO. How can you date a guy for 3yrs, send him money at some points, then come online to disgrace him because he dumped you? If coogar takes any step to humilliate her now, she will start acting like a victim.

--- point of correction, I broke up with him.
Secondly, the only thing he has are my nùdes. I posted screenshots where he threatened to release my nùdes if I said anything else on NL. I'm sure you didn't see that.

I am a victim. I don't need to act like one. I and 10s of the ladies and men he's scammed on this site are victim. He's running a romance-scam-enterprise and he will be shut down.

Since just yesterday, I've gotten emails from several other girls narrating how he scammed them.