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Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 2:38pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
IAMSASHY:hahahaha if you really love a guy and want him to be your bf, will you tell him: yes you have a boyfriend? it just doesn't make sense and it's childish and shows that she has tendencies to be a cheater in future.. but if she really has a bf then she's being matured and facing reality. She's like a semi stranger so i don't want to just waste my time leading an already taken girl. |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 2:21pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
IAMSASHY:I'll really like it if you give your opinion.. i wanna see this also with a female perspective.. |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 2:11pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
peerless0012:I don't want to be lead on.. she sees me as a confident guy but I'm getting to know her and i deserve to know if she's dating someone or not.. before i can advance.. i don't even touch her or hug her tight when we meet.. its feels cold to me so i had to know what i was dealing with. i don't want to waste time playing games.. she's supposed to show tiny hints and gestures that she's tripping not to let me do all the work by flirting etc.. I clearly understand you, i didn't ask her directly if she has a boyfriend (the insecure guy style), i jokingly said: You have a boyfriend..? he must be cool, I'll like to get to know him, you know, so he gets to see the guy taking care of this beautiful lady when he's not around?. Maybe because I've once been in a situation where I was having this attraction with a girl only to figure out she's a liar and dating other guys.. i was looking for a potential relationship and steady SP not a night stand, if i was looking for someone for night stand then you're absolutely right. So what step do you suggest i take now, i wouldn't mind if she leaves her bf for me. |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 1:21pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
stupidity:lol boss.. i be guy man.. true... that girl really fine to be single. but imagine she's trying to eat her cake and have it back.. two guys at once.. she was supposed to say No. @latexxbro true.. she's confused at this point.. when she called yesterday night i knew she was hurt for saying she has a bf.. well I'll see her in 2 weeks from now while maintaining contact with phone calls (once in 4 days). |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 12:49pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
I've modified the root thread where i forgot to add that she really did call me that evening though she didn't have much to say.. just the "i told you I'll call". etc |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 12:48pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
CHAIRMANMAO:hahaha it's worth the read. |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 12:40pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
horlumightyy:You have a boyfriend? - - - - - - - > I might be interested in you so I'm just checking to see if you're taken that's what the question really means in face value. latexxbro:I thought about this too. but i can never know now can i? she already used her own mouth to say she has a bf so i can't know if she's lying or telling the truth + won't she start disrespecting me or feel I'm possessive if I keep leading her on after she's clearly made the reveal that she has a bf? |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 12:31pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
izaray:hahaha you cracked my ribs right there.. i don't want luck.. I'm not stupid.. this world is filled with selfish people and i want my self-confidence in check, i need to first know if she has a bf first before making any move which i did.. also i wanted it to happen naturally.. no need to pour out feeling to a girl this days they'll take advantage of your honesty.. it's better i get to know her true character/personality etc then let the relationship flow from there.. she's probably a whoře that's why she didn't even say she has a bf while hanging out with me the whole time? @horlumightyy 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 12:25pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
mployer:Smart thinking.. but there's a 90% chance that she'll probably cheat on me if she already has a boyfriend but still going out on dates with me like she's doing now.. that's why i asked her that question.. you know as guys if we like a girl and she asks us if we have a gf, we always say No.. so i think she has different guys on her neck because obviously she's really beautiful and she doesn't want to break his heart but yet still wants me.. she can't eat her cake and have it back |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 12:07pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
izaray:Not quite.. I grew up around ladies men.. i have some experience but I'm willing to learn from anyone.. what are your thoughts? |
Romance / Re: She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 12:03pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
mployer:hahaha explain sir.. please how wack.. I'm willing to learn from anyone. (no need to be close to me you're taken was said in my mind i didn't say it out) lemme edit my post @izaray |
Romance / She Says She Has A Boyfriend (she Paused For A Second).. Help Me Out Guys! by babtaima(m): 11:52am On Sep 28, 2017 |
So we started seeing each other, she works close to where i eat lunch from on a daily.. So I've known her since last year but only faintly on the surface level (just hello hi type of knowing).. She's beautiful (20+yr/o), at least any guy will find her attractive. So this started 4 days ago, i was going to have lunch and she saw me (i didn't see her) she called me and initiated a small chatter, i admired her humility and all so invited her to join me for lunch (a date in disguise, yeah I'm not dumb,wanted to know her beta) i bought her food and some grocery items (mid shopping I told her I'm not even rich with a loud voice because we were at a mall and because she kept saying bla bla is expensive and only rich guys can afford it, indirectly she was referring to me) to take away with i then offered she escorted me a bit as i went on about my business she escorted me really far.... please note before i offered her an invitation to join me for lunch i asked her to escort me a bit while we talk but she was uncomfortable and said she can't go more than a few meters from her shop (I started getting character hints that she's probably a selfish person and will always want control if in a relationship but hey we are not dating yet so lol.. ) but after the lunch and other stuff i payed for she escorted me to my destination and i had to escort her back a bit so she doesn't walk back the distance alone (me trying to be romantic and a gentleman because I didn't expect her to trek this much).. why did she have a change of heart to escort me that far? + when we meet she pulls out the hand but i open my hands wide and opt for the hug instead (I'm guessing she's scared of getting emotionally attached to me just yet?). then fast forward to the next day, i was using the usual route and she spotted me again, she immediately left her office and came smiling to me, she looked hungry though and i she told me she's hungry (I felt really hurt inside, is she trying to take advantage of my kindness the other day? like she works.. I'm not a freaking free meal ticket or her boyfriend) but i just wanted to show her i can be nice to anyone so i offered to buy some Coca-Cola drinks for her colleagues at work that she should follow me come get them since it wasn't nice me taking her for lunch while her colleagues wait up on her.. so we hit the mall again, i brought out my phone to check my messages and she started making a big deal about it because it's an iPhone, she collected it and was using it to take selfies up and about.. she asked how much i bought it, i said i can't remember that it's not as pricey as she thinks it is (just to drift her from thinking I'm even rich because we all know a relationship built on money is crap.. but it didn't work.. she started blushing up about taking selfies etc) i bought the cokes and my own lunch (take away) she surprisingly said she doesn't want a drink but a cheap bottle water and that she's fine (reverse psychology?) anyway she escorted me a bit and asked me to please check on her when I'm passing her workplace. Anyway yesterday was the day to clear the air, so i went to her work place and she wasn't around, her other colleagues where really nice to me, even offered me to sit that she'll be back soon, but i didn't want to sit at it'll be less dramatic, because her seeing me standing waiting looks better.. so she finally arrived, I told her i came to see her for the last time because I'll be taking a long leave and wouldn't be seeing her for a long while etc she immediately pullout her phone feeling sad and asked for my number which I gave her, while smiling, saying: "If you wanna call, call.. if you don't want, don't call".. she says she's not that sort of person and that she'll definitely call me ASAP as she reaches home.. so we talked for minutes and minutes until i hit the nail on the head because I'm not a gay guy who will get friendzoned by any girl I'm attracted to.. so i asked her: You have a boyfriend? Your boyfriend must be really cool, I'll like to get to know him, you know, so he gets to see the guy taking care of this beautiful lady when he's not around? (reverse psychology) She was uncomfortable at this point but faked a smile while looking the opposite direction and said: Yeah my boyfriend, i have a boyfriend.. (she paused a bit, then continued..) I'll let him know. so where do you even live? I replied: wow.. lucky guy, then proceeded to tell her my street address. I then reminded her about when we first met how she lied about her name telling me a fake name etc lol she was like: You're really close to me now and that time i barely knew you so.. and I was like: no need to be close to me hey.. you're taken.. (I said this in my mind not to her) i won.. i won't have to spend/waste time with someone that has been taken.. deep inside she knew that her reveal that she had a bf has changed a lot of things.. and things won't be the same anymore with us.. sorry for bad English guys and punctuation.. i was typing fast. what do you think i do? she might be lying to see if i chase her or I'm genuine? anyway I'm out of an awkward situation.. what do you think? edit: I forgot to add, no one really asked.. She called me around 8pm as soon as i reached home, as she promised. |
Business / Re: How Can I Recover My Money From A Lady? by babtaima(m): 9:35am On Sep 28, 2017 |
Kelklein:you don't see any problem here? haha, braindead. unintelligent. oldman. dull. choose one that fits you. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Boy Survives After Being Mauled By 2 Dogs Who Opened His Head. Graphic Photos by babtaima(m): 7:27am On Sep 27, 2017 |
OmaniPadmeHum:you're sick in the head... mentally ill person... it's a dog, killing them just makes you less than a dog.. |
Phones / Re: Why Is There So Much Hype On Apple Products by babtaima(m): 11:55am On Sep 24, 2017 |
PhonePlanet:+1 for that sensible post.. |
Phones / Re: Why Is There So Much Hype On Apple Products by babtaima(m): 11:51am On Sep 24, 2017 |
ollah1:get a life bro.. i use both Android and iPhone unlike you |
Phones / Re: Why Is There So Much Hype On Apple Products by babtaima(m): 11:49am On Sep 24, 2017 |
jashar:lol i hope you never use an iPhone and experience what I'm experiencing � |
Education / Re: Writing WAEC 10x Those Days Because Of 2 Subjects, How Many Times Did You Write? by babtaima(m): 4:17pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
kimbraa:hey you sound like a really cool person..wanna chat on whatsapp? i think i might be helpful to you |
Phones / Re: Iphone 8 Benchmarks - By Far The Most Powerful Phone Ever by babtaima(m): 8:25am On Sep 23, 2017 |
okpaire:that cheap blog looking for cheap traffic reviewing cheap phones.. i like him but he should chill the fůck out.. he should start reviewing and recommending apple products maybe Apple might invite him for their next keynote etc and his life can change for good not doing silly reviews that can't properly sustain a man and family. 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Iphone 8 Benchmarks - By Far The Most Powerful Phone Ever by babtaima(m): 8:22am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Tosyn007:lame excuse.. you'll outgrow that shitty customization from android.. most people work in big companies and don't really have time to tweak phone.. or all that nonsense except you're a "developer" + android not even secured even if they bring in faceID on Samsung, the Kernel and OS can be easily hacked because it's Android.. Why android be selling more phones because it's really cheap and you like feeling cheap? Samsung doesn't feel cheap though but it still doesn't match the iPhones. 2 Likes |
Phones / Re: Reasons Why I Think The Iphone X Is An Overrated Piece Of Metal - Naijatechguy by babtaima(m): 8:25am On Sep 21, 2017 |
Hoypete97:Chill the fu<k out! you clearly know nothing about technology.. that dude is looking for cheap traffic to his useless naijatechguy blog.. he'll beg for the IPhone x when nobody is looking at him. |
Education / Re: 7 Types Of Classmates We Had In Primary School (Throwback) by babtaima(m): 9:20am On Sep 20, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva:I'm here.. i forgive you 1 Like |
Phones / Re: See How Much It Cost Apple To Make The Iphone 10 by babtaima(m): 11:08am On Sep 16, 2017 |
ollah1:lol.. you hate iPhones? just buy one and start using maybe you'll have a clue as to how great the device is. |
Phones / Re: See How Much It Cost Apple To Make The Iphone 10 by babtaima(m): 11:04am On Sep 16, 2017 |
GeneralOjukwu:Yeah i don't carry my phones out late or to very strange environments.. i use a small Nokia for that.. I don't think your excuse about screen breaking is substantial unless you have very shaky hands as this highend phones are really durable.. |
Phones / Re: See How Much It Cost Apple To Make The Iphone 10 by babtaima(m): 11:00am On Sep 16, 2017 |
ollah1:the naming is marketing strategy lol.. anyway i love the s8, it's a wonderful piece of technology, I've used it couple of times but i just like how iPhones are better at handling stuff without further complexity. |
Phones / Re: See How Much It Cost Apple To Make The Iphone 10 by babtaima(m): 10:57am On Sep 16, 2017 |
GeneralOjukwu: hmmm Is highend laptop very mobile? Can you take your gf out rock climbing and make quality 4k videos for your kids to see in 10-20yrs from now by carrying a laptop around? + other fun things? I like the S8 though but the iPhone 8/X will be better than that. |
Phones / Re: See How Much It Cost Apple To Make The Iphone 10 by babtaima(m): 10:51am On Sep 16, 2017 |
ollah1:you sir, do not know anything about Apple.. Apple smarter than your Samsung.. that's why they used the "10" naming, this puts them ahead of Samsung.. the camera is better oga, it uses machine learning to take quality photos... fluidity is better (iOS remember?) AR is better(Bionic chip A11), .. stop saying what you do not know anything about.. goto twitter and follow some devs there to know "more". |
Phones / Re: See How Much It Cost Apple To Make The Iphone 10 by babtaima(m): 10:38am On Sep 16, 2017 |
Tonason:oga we no want.. why don't you do what you like with your own money and let others do what they want? i hope you invest and live long enough to see your investments.. |
Phones / Re: See How Much It Cost Apple To Make The Iphone 10 by babtaima(m): 10:37am On Sep 16, 2017 |
StackNerd:Dude..chill the fuçk out!! Samsung is miles ahead what? processing power? iPhoneX processor is the best in the market currently.. camera? lol.. lagless? lol, AR? lol, lol lol. |
Phones / Re: Infinix HOT 5 Unboxing + First Look by babtaima(m): 5:11pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
henry007:Oga if you're awesome you'll grow.. if you do things differently you'll grow.. + you need a shit ton of subscribers too though.. you can do that by making lots of friends on nairaland and get them to subscribe to your channel etc |
Phones / Re: Infinix HOT 5 Unboxing + First Look by babtaima(m): 4:58pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
XDplus:oga you tried but your review really sucks.. your voice is cool and great to listen to but your video lighting sucks we can't even see anything... really dark.. + no nice background music.. |
Phones / Re: Infinix HOT 5 Unboxing + First Look by babtaima(m): 4:53pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
TechsNG:first you should try to speak clearly and slowly.. don't rush things, be calm.. try to use the most basic words as possible.. don't try to use big words and all that.. then show your face, talk to us, we're your audience don't be a degenerate.. you might actually be a cool guy and we wanna know you.. be unique.. I'm going to start my review channel soon when i buy a good camera this year ending. |
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