Any possibilities she's into me? we just started hanging out together but just as friends.. then she just suddenly asked me that question.. She's been acting all flirty with me recently, like allowing her body to touch me when we walk together etc.. What does this mean? I do not want to risk my confidence in asking her out and getting the NO answer or friendzone drama... So guys do i have a shot at this?

Edit: My response once she asked that question was somewhat dumb.. and no, I'm not inexperienced, i was just surprised as to what triggered her to ask that question.. I simply responded with: I DO NOT KNOW. She then replied: "YOU DO NOT KNOW" means You have a gf. So have i by any chance ruined my shot at this?

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NarnieSnyper:
Op, just get her something simple, fvck expensive gifts jare, since u said she's d materialistic type. She aint worth it abeg. Trust me, i have been there.
The girl may like u but will put other things above u.
I liked a certain girl one time, I knew she liked me too but being a student, she knew i had nothing to offer her. She's the "who fine boy epp" typa chick.

Just know u have to keep up with the expensive shii u buy if u wanna win her over. We both know she goes for only already-made blokes.

I didn't buy anything... i didn't call.. i have won!

proxillin:


There are. You just need to keep looking. Unfortunately, its men that are spoiling them

How?

lefulefu:

in that case if u really like thiis babe like u say then try make friends with her,call her on the phone...ask her about how she"s faring.let her see ur own qualities.but eventually u might ask her out oo.nothing go reduce ur status even if she says no.but dont use money to woo her make she no go turn u to maga50.

I just wanted to make an impression, make her impressed...? but it's not worth it i think?

kimbra:
Since she's your crush. Don't give her a gift just because you hope to date her. Do so because she's someone you like. If you're expecting a favour in return then it's a trade and not a gift.

Just what if after buying the gifts, she collects and tells you she's in a relationship?. I know how you would feel.

So i shouldn't give her a gift?

lefulefu:

bros using money and gifts to woe a girl or to make her to love u is wrong.if u want to do it with an open mind and expect no reward in turn then by all means go ahead.u say u crushing on her..so whats stopping u telling her how u feel.

The fear of rejection my brother.. No girl is worth stealing my pride. Except my future wife of course.

sirusX:

POINTS TO NOTE...

The gift ain't from the heart, if you give with the intention of receiving

Also, cz you have interests, that makes you emotionally involved

I'ld say; "if you need to spend, spend something you wouldn't mind loosing, else you might be filled with regrets"...thus your hesitation

PS: I do have a gf, and weird enough, I once did something similar for a friend cz she didn't have a boyfriend to make her day special, so since I had a little extra cash, I had to help spice up her day with a trifecta (movie, games & lunch)...although her description doesn't fit this your girl, it was worth it cz no attachments

You have my like there.. I'm happy i can receive good advice here.. Thanks once again.. but I've made up my mind, I'm not sure I'm going to go for her birthday.

kimbra:
What happened to giving her a genuine gift because it's her birthday without an ulterior motive?.

Should i rather by an inexpensive gift for my crush birthday or miss the whole event instead as damage control? you're really smart but look at it from my own perspective?!

Fifthcolumnist:
Pls don't. You'll regret it if nothing goes down!

Sure.. Thanks for this helpful advice... I'm not that great with girls either, i end up in the friend zone much often bro..

2dice01:
sure maga number 4 on the way

lol.. i won't give her anything again o.. instead I'll buy my junior sis some random gift for doing well in her studies.. better?

So she's a friend of my friend who's supposedly a girl too, her birthday is coming up (it's tomorrow actually and my friend told me about her birthday, wanted to hit her with a cute surprise) and i wanna buy her expensive gifts and maybe give her money too... I do have interest in her though, been crushing over her recently but these girls ain't loyal... should i go ahead and make her day tomorrow or just miss her birthday over some lame excuse since i do not owe her anything (I'm good at making annoying excuses)... Since the said girl wouldn't mind hanging out with richer guys as money moves most girls mind these days (seen this in her character)... thoughts? Your goodness of heart will be much appreciated by responding to my question..

Jamb is a big scam. How can someone pass an exam but when the person fails to gain admission the person re-writes the same exam he/she had passed before again..

Interesting.. thanks OP for sharing this useful piece of information. lalasticlala do the needful

Buhari has turned people into theifs..