Sicilyjoe:


I don't think she will adhere to that, she is stubborn and she might use it as an excuse for not to call me or flash me or even come around again, I will stop spending on her with promised to give her enough money as time goes on

Why do you want to still keep someone that brings you pain around? she doesn't even deserve a bang with you.. just delete her number and go no contact for 3 months Forever , use this time to improve your life and meet other girls, you must ignore her cos she'll try hard to want you back as her personal fool.. forget the stubborn part, you feel she's better than you? what has she offered you? you're better than her by far.. she can't even afford a phone without you, once you go no contact she won't contact you for a few days as well but then she'll start feeling pain, the pain that you have realized yourself as a man, she will use different tricks and even mind blowing cex to decieve you, ignore her.. you love this girl but she doesn't love you, don't try to use her for cex when she comes back because you're asking for pain.. once you start meeting other girls, you'll see how silly you were wasting time with this beech.

Note, when she comes back to you next year with different tricks, do not give her your time, she's not coming for love.. i repeat, she's not coming for love.. she's coming to hit you one last time and disappear..

Sicilyjoe:


Sorry for info I bought the phone my self with carton and receipt 19k500

She's monkey branching... Dump her, with her actions, she has already dumped you from her mind.. dump her now.

So something i have noticed recently on my game with this girl I've been seeing for the past week (she tells her friends I'm her boyfriend despite having tons of guys spend heavily on her ) is that girls are attracted to guys with the king/alpha/secure mindset, forget about all the external things like clothing, nice cars and money.. We've heard uncounted tales of how girls cheat on guys that provide them with financial security with a guy you're financially better than etc..

Inner > Outer. Develop your inner mindset.. notice how monks feel even though they don't have money or luxury items like cars etc? they feel secure and comfortable and think of themselves as very happy, happier than anyone on earth. A girl will always have great cexs with a guy who is king from the inside than a guy who has money but acts like he can't do without her.. A girl will use said guy for constant validation, comfort and maybe showoff to her friends depending on how much he spends on her.. Whereas the guy with the Alpha mindset gets mind blowing cex and doesn't even spend a dime and also isn't worried about losing her because he has like 5 other girls to spin on the weekends.

So guys it starts from the inside. You can't possibly become good at this stuff overnight..

Stanleyafam:
Guys be careful about the kind of woman u commit to... The op said she was engaged... But because of a little spoil she now craves him, what then happens to her man... Take a cue from this guys.

exactly... but sadly lots of low quality comments here trolling the OP.. e.g haywire07 etc they're the kids, no reason in their posts just trolling OPs.. smh

Alexrayz:





Either you station a drone over her head dat follow her about like protus you should not use dat word TRUST cause in truth we all human and can't really know someone fully u just be surprise she have a good poker face in as dat cherish what u have and same time prepare ur self for the worst

She makes her own money and buys her own stuff... as long as the cexs is great i really don't care.. as a man, you reward good behavior (great cex) with a good lunch in a popular restaurant, visit to the park, movies etc.. she's not entitled to your money unless you are married and she has your kids.. you reward bad behavior (flaking, etc) by withdrawing attention..

NManonymous:
I have heard a lot of people say that having a girlfriend doesn't require having money.
what is your view on that .
thanks.

my gf has never asked for money before lol.. but she's loyal asf.. begs me for a kiss etc

UBGG:


You should change though. I've got piercings. I smoke occasionally, drink lightly but the sun would rise in the West before I'd be caught whoring.

This is exactly what a LovePeddler will say? no LovePeddler will admit to being one.. you don't need to be caught to be a LovePeddler.. JK

jomoh:



Why because they won 2 CL in a row without playing a single English team?


Madrid is overrated they were only lucky cos their success came at a time English football and other European powerhouses were suffering.

big mouth.. football is unpredictable(Barca vs bayern remember?) .. English football is nonsense unentertaining thrash..

DrMuzungu:


Which services? And what will he put on his CV? Something like "I phucked up big time, so big that they fired me on the spot"

No matter how good engineer he is, nobody wants to have an employee who stupidly (not even for money!) leaks secret.

Imagine a CIA or NSA agent giving his child (no matter how grown up that child is) his super encrypted system to check facebook, for example. No, you are not going to see it. Then, these young KGB (FSB actually) graduates last year in Moscow. They held a party openly saying who they work for and what they do. Nobody heard of them ever after.

So, in the end, this dude will be happy if he gets a job as a phone repair man. Don't think that company HR services don't have some sort of black lists. Samsung, Sony and others certainly already know about this fu.ckup. Guaranteed.

Dude he didn't f'up.. you know nothing about the corporate world.. Apple just showed how shitty they are.. they went too far.. this is like a hype for the yet to be released Apple.. Steve woz bad mouths apple but he's still up there.. this is just inhumane from Apple and believe me, sammy will hire this guy fast as lightning!

lawddanny:
post the group link

links can't be posted because it'll get trimmed... show me where you see links on here..?

wanna join? drop your digits.. I'll notify you when I've added you so you can remove the number out of nairaland to protect yourself from spammers cheers..

WebSurfer:
Girls are terrible people....

They have masters degree in lying...

Trust me on this bruv...

I guess we have nothing more to do than to keep exposing them for the ones who are still guilible to learn.


Believe everything they say at your own risk

You wont believe a girl lied to me with her own's mother's health last week saying things was getting critical and she cant focus with her life lookimg very sadistic making me feel sorry for her and all that..

Only to find out just last night on her email ( she logged in with my phone) that she even had twice the said amount already on her account making it tripple balance.

And after thorough and careful investigation with her transactions, there was nothing like her sending money to her apart from a transaction she sent to a female counterpath to buy something. i sent her to help me withdraw last night so i saw the balance to confirm she has this money.

Brothers and sisters... my story again... just because i couldnt take chances with her mother's health to assist as i could

WEAK MAN.
The moment you realize that you are not obligated to do anything for any woman until after marriage or engagement the better for you. Giving her that amount of money makes her lose any respect she has for you.. If you still continue this relationship then you're really a weak man.

osuofia2:

Thanks for the answer, I have asked her and she said she does not have anything with him but I am not convinced, do you think I overreacted by telling her let's go for a break? Thnk u

Never you judge your plates by their words.. always judge them by their actions.. She said She said etc are all s##t..
Dude tell her to quit her job and be with you then.. When it comes to your plates, always believe in the worse case scenario.. You have to believe her boss is banging her, do not ever try to convince yourself of the good things or that she's honest with you... always follow your instincts.. now as a man, go out and meet other girls, as soon as she notice a decline in your interest she'll do something about her boss calls... if she doesn't do anything about it, then you've been playing with a beech so treat her as one (use her only for seechs).. and do other improvement things in your life since it's apparent her boss is more important than you thus her not finding a solution for stopping his calls.

pcguru1:
I have a very old laptop sadly, new laptop to replace this has been stolen, so am stuck with this, anyone know where I can get a battery for this, and also the double packed battery will it work for my laptop, Fake batteries won't turn the laptop on, so I can't order from Konga knowing they will take time and might also send me a fake battery. If anyone has had experience with the double packed batteries and they work for him they should let me know,

Also does constant charging to light kill the battery fast ?

Check out this MTN lumos whatever it's called.. it's a solar powered inverter kinda.. can use this instead of a battery since old pc drains battery alot.. sorry about your stolen laptop... be alot careful next time.

koife:

Stop being a scumbag and bringing disrepute to NDA. I could track you going by that date you arrived home following your pass and get to know how many were given pass on same date and you'll buy job for direspecting a female civilian because of your unprofessional ways. Don't let me get to afaka before you return, shut this thread down now! That's an order!

Dude swerve..
.. don't bring your useless army thrash online.. no one cares.. worse, you can't even handle a hand to hand combat with me.. dude got his heart broken you should sympathize.. she disrespected him and deserve what she got.

PrinceDerrick:


I met her on Facebook.
We live in same town.
I helped her with money to write an exams. I never wanted to meet her, she brought herself. And became relevant as a wife. I fell for her. Thought my wife has come

dude if you don't bang that bih then you're a weakling

biacan:
Hustle hard then she will take you serious

ho spotted

ossaichika:
Got my best friends girl with just Samsung j5

Any girl you get from your best friend isn't worth it at all.. you're a low quality guy.. Change.

Another one has learned from his mistakes lol..

Why give a bxxxh your heart when she'll rather have a purse? - Lil Wayne.
Always have options so when she flops, you NEXT her and focus more energy on your other options (girls).. There's no such thing as soul mate or other half.. humans are natural selfish.. people even do good and give to the needy because it makes them feel better... So be confident, have other options and don't rush to get married yet..

There's an exception though.. We call them givers.. they're rare, a giver is any female that commits to a relationship 100%.. every guy wants a giver as a wife.. Don't be deceived about this feminist rants.
1) Men's purpose in life is not women. It is something else. Find it, do it. Women are the distraction, preferably a pleasant one.

2) Women's purpose in life is to find a good man and procreate, have a family. Her career/job is just a distraction from that purpose.

Because we got these two all mixed up, we find a lot of problems between men and women nowadays. We have men who make their relationship their life purpose (like me about a 1 year ago) and it never ends up well and we have women who wanna make a career and think that is going to make them happy. It doesn't, neither side. We need to get back to the basics.

A good relationship, if you ask me about it? A man following his life purpose everyday, with passion + a woman that has her own interests, but does not confuse their importancy and is there to support her man.



Anyone need quality dating advice can pm me, I'm willing to help anyone. Peace!

mhizesther:
Just let her go or you forgive
That's all

She must be very special for him to forgive her.. she has the ability to increase his bank balance.. sigh.. most guys this days worship women that's why they get their hearts broken hahaha.. they're other girls out there, if you cheat, i have other options, if you don't cheat, i still have other options waiting for you to flop.. so the moment guys start seeing no girl is that special, the better their relationship in general.

timosky1:
Hello friends

I need your advice
I caught my girlfriend kissing my nigga emotionally
I didn't approach them, I quietly left, I do not if I should continue with the relationship or I should move forward without her...
She still forming good girl for me
Wetin I go do mbok?

lol you don't know what to do? kiss another girl in front of her.. don't be silly.

g

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IamKashyBaby:



I don't think so...


It's even very rare I say SORRY. How much more to kneel down...I DEY MAD?

lol you're probably dating a sheep

oderinde151:
I got her number frm Facebook, she stay close to my nd also we attends same uni


after getting her number frm Facebook, I sent her a message on whatsapp nd we got into talking about I got her number. I told her hw I got it but to my surprise she comported her slf...fastforward she said she wanted to knw the person she was chatting with(which I knew she was forming cos we stay close to each other nt upto 50m sa). nd I told her when she comes back from shop...around 8pm in the night sa we started chatting on WhatsApp she now said I sud come outside from my aos that she is on her way (note: like 2 mins walk from her aos to mine) less than 30secs she was starring at me..was she lying that she doesn't know me? Na her prb be that o...
after that night we got ourselves talking about relationship nd co, which I now asked her if she was in a relationship which she said no(nd she only dupes guys nd I was like u dey do wetin?..i asked her why is into thatt which she said because of her ex cheated on her *epele ma*..she said she is nnt ready for any relationship for now..dis story is last month o..
we came to sku on Sunday but NT together
I went to her aos once nd left early because she has a roomate nd one stupid amebo guy was der also..
she is the type that don't call, text but rather beg u that she didn't call u

gurus
why did she tell me that she is duping guys
she dnt allow u to press her phone ( is she is keeping something from me ?)
if she Is sly wud she say she had been duping guys
or is she doing that to steer me away?
bros nd brosess I don lost
I like dis girl no be small

* She trusts you
* She's shy you may see things you're not supposed to see on her phone


You shouldn't like her, she wants to use you for her own enjoyment.. And you know it doesn't end well..

youngfocus:
Am sorry for the long espistle nd pls over look my grammatical burarrah
omo av been following dis drill back to back,for a whole year nw,to who more is giving need to show appreciation,
harddon am very gr8tfull to Dis ur treat u created,av gain alot from it, dis drill av b help me frm the hand of this soft creation ever since av bump into dis drill,it a big turn around because av again a lot financially with dat, I don't gv a fucking damn for any fucking girl,
nt dat I raise my ego,BT wen I look back into d past hw I swim a red sea for a soft creature,hw I pass through a fire to pleased all dis soft creature, I Jst av to hit my head wit a book,dat am once a fool,desperate, (to girls)
nw it same me a girl will come to my house sitting on d same sofa,Jst talk normal put my rod in control,no matter d body language they gv if am nt gonna do,am nt gonna do.
Financial my money av b wit me or other way round dey buy me card,buy me drinks,cloths, as if the world revolve around me only,as if am d only guy in d planet, even though my current phone was gotten for me by a girl.
It nw dat i knw am d 1 dat make dem to b bad to me.by been nice to dem,it nt there fault it my own fucking fault.
when i snd a card to a girl,my GRADE A foolishness lead me to a situation dat when she call to appreciate, I will tell her to cut the call DAT I will call her back dat she should nt waste d card,pls sum1 call me I tell her she is wasting d card tomorrow will she card me.
I don suffer,BT nw DAT my eyes are open,it my time dey should b after me like suger in d mist of an ant
I still need one more tins oooo,hw can sum1 format love out of sum1 girlfriend head she is too on my neck,I don't like it. nt DAT am wicked to dem oooo,cos if I am wicked dey won't come back oooo.
Jst tip to format,pls after downloading all dis drill on her heard nt knwing is too much for her,she av been after like hw lastman is after danfo dat violate the traffic rule a run away.
she was d first girl I use d drill for ,and it up to a year nw,atleast I need to free her b4 she will b tinking of marriage oooo,she even said if I brake up with her she will nt go into any relationship again,the love is Strong in her heart oooo,abeg help ur brother out pls
d last time I said am nt interest she way crying oooo,I Jst av to plead wit her dat am Jst joking,
and today nw I saw it on Facebook a girl dat drank snipper because her bf leave her,I don't won't such case oooo,any tip pls I will b appreciated,

Dude don't be silly lol..if you're looking for LTR this won't work.. if you're looking for ONS then cool.. Every relationship should be 50/50, both partners investing on each other.. with the way you're going, you'll get tired eventually as you will only attract low quality girls..

ikp120:
Do you have money very well? If you do, then you are with a cunning little bìtch

jesu.. that's what everyone is saying..

Dotwillis1:
she gave it to you because she has another account

lol.. if i was using my head I wouldn't ask this.
Thats her only account.

I didn't ask for her Facebook password.. we just started dating.. I'm not insecure but I've heard many things about her before we started dating (that she has a lot of orbiters (guys hitting on her 247)).

She must have thought: 'this guy has heard the rumors about me", thus her trying to earn my trust by giving me such a personal thing as a Facebook password? i didn't decline the offer..

Also to add, she's always really nice like super nice when we're together, like this holy Mary attitude and my dad always say: if it's too good it's not true. Could she be that wolf in sheep clothing? have any of you guys encountered such a person? it wouldn't be safe to assume now that she's a pretender.. what are your thoughts on this?

Edit: Some of the nice things she's done are:

*Giving to road side beggar as we drive on a date
*Paying for the food
*Sharing food and drinks with my friends

And generally, not getting angry no matter how hard i pick on her... I think I'm getting played big time. How can i know her true character? though I've checked her messages and saw her flirt messages with her Ex, nothing out of the norm.

MhizzAJ:


She's trying her best nah at least she's not the demanding type..All she's asking for is a little bit of care.

The motive of some guys is just to take as much as they can from a lady.

you dance!? what's your Instagram?