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Romance / Re: Settled by babtaima(m): 10:06am On Nov 11, 2017 |
Sicilyjoe:Why do you want to still keep someone that brings you pain around? she doesn't even deserve a bang with you.. just delete her number and go no contact for Note, when she comes back to you next year with different tricks, do not give her your time, she's not coming for love.. i repeat, she's not coming for love.. she's coming to hit you one last time and disappear.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Settled by babtaima(m): 10:00am On Nov 11, 2017 |
Sicilyjoe:She's monkey branching... Dump her, with her actions, she has already dumped you from her mind.. dump her now. |
Romance / Re: Guys! Focus On Building Your Inner Self First If You Want to get laid easily by babtaima(m): 7:43pm On Nov 07, 2017 |
Romance / Guys! Focus On Building Your Inner Self First If You Want to get laid easily by babtaima(m): 7:30pm On Nov 07, 2017 |
So something i have noticed recently on my game with this girl I've been seeing for the past week (she tells her friends I'm her boyfriend despite having tons of guys spend heavily on her ) is that girls are attracted to guys with the king/alpha/secure mindset, forget about all the external things like clothing, nice cars and money.. We've heard uncounted tales of how girls cheat on guys that provide them with financial security with a guy you're financially better than etc.. Inner > Outer. Develop your inner mindset.. notice how monks feel even though they don't have money or luxury items like cars etc? they feel secure and comfortable and think of themselves as very happy, happier than anyone on earth. A girl will always have great cexs with a guy who is king from the inside than a guy who has money but acts like he can't do without her.. A girl will use said guy for constant validation, comfort and maybe showoff to her friends depending on how much he spends on her.. Whereas the guy with the Alpha mindset gets mind blowing cex and doesn't even spend a dime and also isn't worried about losing her because he has like 5 other girls to spin on the weekends. So guys it starts from the inside. You can't possibly become good at this stuff overnight.. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: See What A Girl Told Me Just Because Of Good Time..guys Get Moni by babtaima(m): 8:17am On Nov 06, 2017 |
Stanleyafam:exactly... but sadly lots of low quality comments here trolling the OP.. e.g haywire07 etc they're the kids, no reason in their posts just trolling OPs.. smh 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can Someone Really Be In A Sexual Relationship Without Money by babtaima(m): 2:18pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Alexrayz:She makes her own money and buys her own stuff... as long as the cexs is great i really don't care.. as a man, you reward good behavior (great cex) with a good lunch in a popular restaurant, visit to the park, movies etc.. she's not entitled to your money unless you are married and she has your kids.. you reward bad behavior (flaking, etc) by withdrawing attention.. |
Romance / Re: Can Someone Really Be In A Sexual Relationship Without Money by babtaima(m): 10:31am On Nov 05, 2017 |
NManonymous:my gf has never asked for money before lol.. but she's loyal asf.. begs me for a kiss etc |
Romance / Re: Nude Abuja Girl Shows N100,000 She Got From One Night Stand. Shares Video by babtaima(m): 9:01pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
UBGG:This is exactly what a LovePeddler will say? no LovePeddler will admit to being one.. you don't need to be caught to be a LovePeddler.. JK 3 Likes |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Real Madrid: UCL (3 - 1) On 1st November 2017 by babtaima(m): 10:35pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
jomoh:big mouth.. football is unpredictable(Barca vs bayern remember?) .. English football is nonsense unentertaining thrash.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Phones / Re: Apple Fired An Iphone X Engineer After His Daughter Hands-on Video Turned Viral by babtaima(m): 9:54am On Oct 30, 2017 |
DrMuzungu:Dude he didn't f'up.. you know nothing about the corporate world.. Apple just showed how shitty they are.. they went too far.. this is like a hype for the yet to be released Apple.. Steve woz bad mouths apple but he's still up there.. this is just inhumane from Apple and believe me, sammy will hire this guy fast as lightning! |
TV/Movies / Re: I Created A Whatsapp Group For Gamers And Anime Fans by babtaima(m): 11:25am On Oct 27, 2017 |
lawddanny:links can't be posted because it'll get trimmed... show me where you see links on here..? |
TV/Movies / I Created A Whatsapp Group For Gamers And Anime Fans by babtaima(m): 10:29am On Oct 27, 2017 |
wanna join? drop your digits.. I'll notify you when I've added you so you can remove the number out of nairaland to protect yourself from spammers cheers.. |
Romance / Re: Girls Are Terible People.. by babtaima(m): 1:14pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
WebSurfer:WEAK MAN. The moment you realize that you are not obligated to do anything for any woman until after marriage or engagement the better for you. Giving her that amount of money makes her lose any respect she has for you.. If you still continue this relationship then you're really a weak man. |
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by babtaima(m): 7:59am On Oct 26, 2017 |
osuofia2:Never you judge your plates by their words.. always judge them by their actions.. She said She said etc are all s##t.. Dude tell her to quit her job and be with you then.. When it comes to your plates, always believe in the worse case scenario.. You have to believe her boss is banging her, do not ever try to convince yourself of the good things or that she's honest with you... always follow your instincts.. now as a man, go out and meet other girls, as soon as she notice a decline in your interest she'll do something about her boss calls... if she doesn't do anything about it, then you've been playing with a beech so treat her as one (use her only for seechs).. and do other improvement things in your life since it's apparent her boss is more important than you thus her not finding a solution for stopping his calls. 1 Like |
Computers / Re: Battery For Toshiba Satellite L755 Laptop by babtaima(m): 11:14pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
pcguru1:Check out this MTN lumos whatever it's called.. it's a solar powered inverter kinda.. can use this instead of a battery since old pc drains battery alot.. sorry about your stolen laptop... be alot careful next time. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Smelled Of Condom Down There And I Broke Up With Her by babtaima(m): 2:07pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
koife:Dude swerve.. .. don't bring your useless army thrash online.. no one cares.. worse, you can't even handle a hand to hand combat with me.. dude got his heart broken you should sympathize.. she disrespected him and deserve what she got. |
Romance / Re: I Fell For Her Pretence: Disguised Olosho by babtaima(m): 3:59pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
PrinceDerrick:dude if you don't bang that bih then you're a weakling |
Romance / Re: I Fell For Her Pretence: Disguised Olosho by babtaima(m): 3:56pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
biacan:ho spotted |
Romance / Re: "Name Anything You Want... "- Lady Promises A Guy So Many Sex For Iphone8 by babtaima(m): 10:55am On Oct 20, 2017 |
ossaichika:Any girl you get from your best friend isn't worth it at all.. you're a low quality guy.. Change. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Smelled Of Condom Down There And I Broke Up With Her by babtaima(m): 5:38pm On Oct 19, 2017 |
Another one has learned from his mistakes lol.. Why give a bxxxh your heart when she'll rather have a purse? - Lil Wayne. Always have options so when she flops, you NEXT her and focus more energy on your other options (girls).. There's no such thing as soul mate or other half.. humans are natural selfish.. people even do good and give to the needy because it makes them feel better... So be confident, have other options and don't rush to get married yet.. There's an exception though.. We call them givers.. they're rare, a giver is any female that commits to a relationship 100%.. every guy wants a giver as a wife.. Don't be deceived about this feminist rants. 1) Men's purpose in life is not women. It is something else. Find it, do it. Women are the distraction, preferably a pleasant one. 2) Women's purpose in life is to find a good man and procreate, have a family. Her career/job is just a distraction from that purpose. Because we got these two all mixed up, we find a lot of problems between men and women nowadays. We have men who make their relationship their life purpose (like me about a 1 year ago) and it never ends up well and we have women who wanna make a career and think that is going to make them happy. It doesn't, neither side. We need to get back to the basics. A good relationship, if you ask me about it? A man following his life purpose everyday, with passion + a woman that has her own interests, but does not confuse their importancy and is there to support her man. Anyone need quality dating advice can pm me, I'm willing to help anyone. Peace! 427 Likes 48 Shares |
Romance / Re: I Caught My GF Kissing My Bestfriend , What Should I Do? by babtaima(m): 5:33pm On Oct 19, 2017 |
mhizesther:She must be very special for him to forgive her.. she has the ability to increase his bank balance.. sigh.. most guys this days worship women that's why they get their hearts broken hahaha.. they're other girls out there, if you cheat, i have other options, if you don't cheat, i still have other options waiting for you to flop.. so the moment guys start seeing no girl is that special, the better their relationship in general. timosky1:lol you don't know what to do? kiss another girl in front of her.. don't be silly. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Buhari Presides Over FEC Meeting (Photos) by babtaima(m): 12:52pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
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Crime / Re: 6 Months Pregnant Lady Arrested By Her Boss For Stealing In Delta State. Photos by babtaima(m): 12:37pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
Wanna kill yourself? Imagine this. You come home from school one day. You’ve had yet another horrible day. You’re just ready to give up. So you go to your room, close the door, and take out that suicide note you’ve written and rewritten over and over and over You take out those razor blades, and cut for the very last time. You grab that bottle of pills and take them all. Laying down, holding the letter to your chest, you close your eyes for the very last time. A few hours later, your little brother knocks on your door to come tell you dinners ready. You don’t answer, so he walks in. All he sees is you laying on your bed, so he thinks you’re asleep. He tells your mom this. Your mom goes to your room to wake you up. She notices something is odd. She grabs the paper in your hand and reads it. Sobbing, she tries to wake you up. She’s screaming your name. Your brother, so confused, runs to go tell Dad that “Mommy is crying nd brother won’t wake up.” Your dad runs to your room. He looks at your mom, crying, holding the letter to her chest, sitting next to your lifeless body. It hits him, what’s going on, and he screams. He screams and throws something at the wall. And then, falling to his knees, he starts to cry. Your mom crawls over to him, and they sit there, holding each other, crying. The next day at college , there’s an announcement. The principal tells everyone about your suicide. It takes a few seconds for it to sink in, and once it does, everyone goes silent. Everyone blames themselves. Your teachers think they were too hard on you. Those mean popular girls, they think of all the things they’ve said to you. That boy that used to tease you and call you names, he can’t help but hate himself for never telling you how good you really are. Your ex girlfriend, the one that you told everything to, that broke up with you.. shee can’t handle it. shee breaks down and starts crying, and blames herself . Your friends? They’re sobbing too, wondering how they could never see that anything was wrong, wishing they could have helped you before it was too late. And your best friend? He’s in shock. He can’t believe it. He knew what you were going through, but he never thought it would get that bad… Bad enough for you to end it. He can’t cry, He can’t feel anything. He stands up, walks out of the classroom, and just sinks to the floor. Shaking, screaming, but no tears coming out. It’s a few days later, at your funeral. The whole town came. Everyone knew you, that boy with the bright smile and bubbly personality. The one that was always there for them, the shoulder to cry on. Lots of people talk about all the good memories they had with you, there were a lot. Everyone’s crying, your little brother still doesn’t know you killed yourself, he’s too young. Your parents just said you died. It hurts him, a lot. You were his big brother , you were supposed to always be there for him. Your best friend, he stays strong through the entire service, but as soon as they start lowering your casket into the ground,he just loses it. He cries and cries and doesn’t stop for days. It’s two years later. Your teachers all quit their job. Those mean girls have eating disorders now. That boy that used to tease you cuts himself. Your ex girlfriend doesn’t know how to love anymore and just sleeps around with boys . Your friends all go into depression. Your best friend? He tried to kill herself. He didn’t succeed like you did, but He tried…your brother? He finally found out the truth about your death. He self harms, he cries at night, he does exactly what you did for years leading up to your suicide. Your parents? Their marriage fell apart. Your dad became a workaholic to distract himself from your death. Your mom got diagnosed with depression and just lays in bed all day. People care. You may not think so, but they do. Your choices don’t just affect you. They affect everyone. Don’t end your life, you have so much to live for. Things can’t get better if you give up. I’m here for absolutely anyone that needs to talk, no matter who you are. Even if we’ve NEVER talked before, I’m here for you. Copy and paste this as your status to show people there are people out there that care.let's see who actually read all of it. For anyone that feels this way 84 Likes 16 Shares |
Crime / Re: Man Stabbed To Death By His Girlfriend In Lagos State by babtaima(m): 4:23pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
You.. Yes you reading this, You're Awesome, Don't let anyone make you feel angry or worthless, you're a beautiful and important person in this world.. Have a wonderful day 18 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Ladies Be Sincere, Can You Do This To Your Boyfriend, When You Are At Fault? by babtaima(m): 3:57pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:lol you're probably dating a sheep |
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by babtaima(m): 11:17am On Oct 15, 2017 |
oderinde151:* She trusts you * She's shy you may see things you're not supposed to see on her phone You shouldn't like her, she wants to use you for her own enjoyment.. And you know it doesn't end well.. |
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by babtaima(m): 11:10am On Oct 15, 2017 |
youngfocus: Dude don't be silly lol..if you're looking for LTR this won't work.. if you're looking for ONS then cool.. Every relationship should be 50/50, both partners investing on each other.. with the way you're going, you'll get tired eventually as you will only attract low quality girls.. |
Romance / Re: She Gave Me Her Facebook Password Voluntarily, Why? by babtaima(m): 8:50pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
ikp120:jesu.. that's what everyone is saying.. |
Romance / Re: She Gave Me Her Facebook Password Voluntarily, Why? by babtaima(m): 4:02pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Dotwillis1:lol.. if i was using my head I wouldn't ask this. Thats her only account. |
Romance / She Gave Me Her Facebook Password Voluntarily, Why? by babtaima(m): 3:48pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
I didn't ask for her Facebook password.. we just started dating.. I'm not insecure but I've heard many things about her before we started dating (that she has a lot of orbiters (guys hitting on her 247)). She must have thought: 'this guy has heard the rumors about me", thus her trying to earn my trust by giving me such a personal thing as a Facebook password? i didn't decline the offer.. Also to add, she's always really nice like super nice when we're together, like this holy Mary attitude and my dad always say: if it's too good it's not true. Could she be that wolf in sheep clothing? have any of you guys encountered such a person? it wouldn't be safe to assume now that she's a pretender.. what are your thoughts on this? Edit: Some of the nice things she's done are: *Giving to road side beggar as we drive on a date *Paying for the food *Sharing food and drinks with my friends And generally, not getting angry no matter how hard i pick on her... I think I'm getting played big time. How can i know her true character? though I've checked her messages and saw her flirt messages with her Ex, nothing out of the norm. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by babtaima(m): 11:13pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:you dance!? what's your Instagram? |
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