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Paul Planted, Apollos watered, but GOD gave the increase,
just do your part and leave the rest to God,cos nobody has the power to change another person.

Jesus said if i be lifted up, i will draw all men unto me
you do the lifting, HE does the drawing

christianity is a race and we are still learning, its a gradual process,

cheer up sis!

This man babangida!

@cexplorer, please continue with your story

I dont know, but your love for this girl seems to be based on her physical qualities and the fact that she is yet untouched. You dont want to lose her innocence to boys in her university who might have more skills than you have presently,

In my opinion, you still need to mature more, judging by your posts in other sections, so that you can be the kind of husband you desire to be.

I think she is a smart girl by insisting that she must complete her schooling first, hope she sticks to her guns!

Best of luck!

Assuming Jesus were to be on earth and Yaradua requested him to pray for him,would Jesus have gone to pray for him since he (Yaradua) is a sinner and not deserving of any mercy and also knowing that the nation of Nigeria will strongly condemn him and cry "crucify him"!!!!

No I think Jesus would still have shown mercy to him and prayed for him. Jesus was a friend to tax collectors, what name was he not called by the public becos of that friendship.
He rescued the woman caught in adultery with enough witness, and said "he that is without sin should cast the first stone"

Lets take it easy, we have not heard the full story of what transpired to make judgemental statements. If Oyedepo had come out singing that Yaradua will soon be up and about to take over his office like the Imam did, then i will believe he went there for another agenda.
Instead he kept quiet.

Assuming Jesus were to be on earth and Yaradua requested him to pray for him,would Jesus have gone to pray for him since he (Yaradua) is a sinner and not deserving of any mercy and also knowing that the nation of Nigeria will strongly condemn him and cry "crucify him"!!!!

No I think Jesus would still have shown mercy to him and prayed for him. Jesus was a friend to tax collectors, what name was he not called by the public becos of that friendship.
He rescued the woman caught in adultery with enough witness, and said "he that is without sin should cast the first stone"

Lets take it easy, we have not heard the full story of what transpired to make judgemental statements. If Oyedepo had come out singing that Yaradua will soon be up and about to take over his office like the Imam did, then i will believe he went there for another agenda.
Instead he kept quiet.

@Aglah1976
I think i know how you feel and the dilemma you are going through.
Truly a 3 year old child still needs his mother's love. He is too young to be seperated from his mother, it can cause irreparable damage to his psyche and self esteem. your profile picture shows you really care about the child, but if you take him from his mother, you might not be able to fill the vacuum due to your work or career and then end up leaving his care to your aunties or relatives, and this can lead the child to become withdrawn.
My advice is go ahead and establish your business in nigeria, but discipline yourself to visit him at least every 3 months and spend quality time with him that leaves him with fond memories of you and at the same time you are building a relationship and establishing rapport with him.
In due season, get a God fearing girl to marry that will love you and be willing to be a part of your son's life, and therafter you can approach them again about taking custody of your child. At this time, your son will be crying for you and they will have no choice than to relinquish him to you. This can be done at 5 years of age.

Above all i think you need to be serious with God and ask for his blood to cleanse you from all bad luck and oppression and that He continues to bless the work of your hands. Remember no one can curse whom the lord has blessed.
Cheers

@ Faum & Badecash

Rejoicing over the massacre of women and children is totally reprehensible and revolting.
You can abuse yourselves and call each other names on nairaland but dont rejoice over evil.
Evil is no respecter of persons even the one that perpertuates it always drinks the bitter dregs
and the pain and effect always reverberates from generation to generation.

There is a GOD who is watching and who heard the agonizing cries of the victims as they writhed in pains before life was eventually snuffed out of them

Rejoicing over it will earn you the same judgement as those that actually did the act!!!
Rejoicing over it will mortgage and forfeit the lives of your children generations yet unborn!!!

Please Desist.

Whoever did this to these kids is definitely not a human being.
Words fail me and i cry even as i type.
May their children be massacred in even worse ways than this
May they see light and call it darkness
May evil and hatred live with them all the days of their life

May it never be well with anyone that rejoices at this pics
May your children be fatherless
may your lineage be slaves unto their 4th and 5th generation
May violence be their food
May they be rewarded in multiple folds with unprecedented evil

Kai!!! this is too much!!

you wish!
marabouts cannot save your husband.
Do the honourable thing and your husband might just recover in peace.

@Desthan, please where did you get the snipper in abuja?
highly interested.

Have you slept with him?

It is only a fool that says all that is in her mouth or heart,
Nkenna is just crass. Her behaviour is way irritating, she lacks decency and training,
and that is why SA and other countries have kept her in the house as an avenue to ridicule nigerians
you need to see the posts about her,

Even wikipedia referred to her as a "villager from nigeria"

Clearly you dont know the meaning of love.
That you call her wifey does not mean you are in love with her.
True love will not condescend to asking this question.

Obviously you guys have stopped communicating for a while, thats wh things have degenerated to this.
You need to take the bull by the horns and initiate a talk with him.
Ask him whats happening to you guys and why is it so.
Entreat with him to pour out whatever might be wrong, but a word of caution here to women, dont always take the blame for everything just becos its a man's world. but you need wisdom to reason it out with him.
If that fails, go for marriage counselling or discuss with an elder that he respects.

God help you

Right from your childhood, events and situations have made you to believe, you don't have a right to be happy, but i tell you, its a lie from the pits of hell.
Joy and happiness wells up from inside you, cultivate it by singing praises to God at all times especially when you feel the depression creeping up on you.
The bible says we should count it all joy, even when it seems so hard to, God will never allow you to be tempted above that which you are able to.
Please don't be scared to be happy, the devil will end up camping with you, becos he thrives on fear.
Invite God's presence at all times by being joyful and happy and excited.
Count your blessings and name them all one by one, and you will find a reason to be joyful and happy at all times.
cheers!

Oba to n fi ina da hun