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| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by honeric01(m): 7:11pm On Apr 10, 2010 |
Go and meet the family with your own family, if they agree, then you can go ahead, but not without her own consent, if she refuses, just wait or go for another girl who's ready for marriage. |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by tantan: 7:20pm On Apr 10, 2010 |
SOMETIMES, ADVISE IS WHAT WE SEEK 4 WHEN WE ALREADY KNOW D ANSWER BUT WISH WE DIDNT. WHAT I KNOW IS SHE IS RIPE, PLUMP AND TIGHT.SOMEBODY MUST SUPPORT ME IN D LONG-RUN, I KNOW COZ I HAVE POINTS AND IF THEY WILL BE MARKED, SURELY I WILL GET A GOOD PASS MARK. GUYS TIME IS PASSING US. |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by tantan: 7:23pm On Apr 10, 2010 |
honeric, god will bless u. ur point is noted. |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by tantan: 7:41pm On Apr 10, 2010 |
i dont have any say on her education as 4 now but am well paid to take excellent good care of her at what eva level |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by liliana(f): 7:59pm On Apr 10, 2010 |
@Poster, Why don't you allow her to start her studies and get married to her halfway through the studies if you truly love her that much?It would give her time to get exposure and decide on what she really wants.It would also give you timr to prepare for what is ahead. Besides,if you have stayed without getting intimate till now,surely another 2 - 3yrs would not be much afterall she is 18 and you are 25. Remember,marriage is beyond intimacy! Give your babe time to get more mature and emotionally ready! |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by queeneve: 7:59pm On Apr 10, 2010 |
Let that girl finish school. It doesn't matter if you are well paid. Two income is better than one income. If you are marrying her just so you won't feel guilty then your marriage is already doomed! Marriage isn't peach and cream as people say it is. So take your time and make sure that the girl for you AND NOT YOUR DIICK. |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by Akinagirl(f): 8:15pm On Apr 10, 2010 |
Poster do you have any other VALID reason to want to marry her so soon? Other than s/e, /x? Because thats all you seem to talk about, that part only. |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by Nobody: 8:15pm On Apr 10, 2010 |
@ Nairalanders pls i want to ask a question relating to this topic. Lets assume the girl finish her school i mean higher institution by 19 and the husband is ready to marry her. pls can they marry? Just a question please. I want to bring sometin out of it.  |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by Nobody: 8:31pm On Apr 10, 2010 |
tantan: Then any advice you get will be wasted on you. tantan: You sound like a prospective buyer, poking and prodding at a cow, he may or may not buy. She's a human being, with feelings. Let her complete her education, to whatever level she chooses to attain. tantan: You're only 25, not 45. How then can you say time's passing you by? Unless you have a terminal illness, and only a short time to live? |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by tantan: 1:16pm On Apr 11, 2010 |
Am clean what i mean is that i want to grow with my kids. |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by tantan: 1:25pm On Apr 11, 2010 |
Timmy. Accordn to my respondents, she is to young at 19. Even when she is a graduate. |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by axeman85(m): 2:16pm On Apr 11, 2010 |
Siena: |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by 190: 2:20pm On Apr 11, 2010 |
poster you are 25 and well paid abi~ how much are u paid hope its not that ur last salary of N75K per month you're talking abt!  leave the girl alone!! let her read!! |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by kpolli(m): 1:03pm On Apr 12, 2010 |
who is the child  u or her?? |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by elseohjay(m): 1:51pm On Apr 12, 2010 |
I am pressed. You be cloth?  |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by bluebunnie(f): 4:28pm On Apr 12, 2010 |
tantan:If u really love that girl, u'd let her go to school first, since dats wot she wants. If ur scared abt her fornicating, d fact dat u marry her wont stop her from commiting adultery. Everything lies in her and the kind of relationship u guys have established. Besides she's still young, support her dreams, and stand by her. In due course, u both wud get married if u guys are really meant to be 2geda. U dont force/ push these things.  |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by ruskiee(m): 1:19pm On Apr 13, 2010 |
Can't she go to school while married? |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by kemisuga(f): 1:46pm On Apr 13, 2010 |
Seems the babe in question is a virgin. So he doesnt want any other person to climb her first than him. Cos he is just lamenting fornication, fornication, fornication!!! @ Poster - Are you sure this is not infatuation?  |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by ruskiee(m): 1:54pm On Apr 13, 2010 |
^^Hmm ask him. |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by babuji(f): 4:16pm On Apr 13, 2010 |
I dont know, but your love for this girl seems to be based on her physical qualities and the fact that she is yet untouched. You dont want to lose her innocence to boys in her university who might have more skills than you have presently, In my opinion, you still need to mature more, judging by your posts in other sections, so that you can be the kind of husband you desire to be. I think she is a smart girl by insisting that she must complete her schooling first, hope she sticks to her guns! Best of luck! |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by GboyegaD(m): 2:13pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
I have a contrary opinion to most of the response in this post. Are we saying an 18years old lady is not old enough to marry? In my view, it is up to both parties and the guy should relax. He has made his point known that he is ready to marry her and would appreciate them marrying now. This does not in any way stop her from achieving her dreams of being educated. My advise to the OP therefore is, give her some more time to get herself together and be sure she is ready to commit herself into marriage. Do not enforce it on her as she may not be psychologically prepared now and also, just take your time pending when she is ready. Wish you guys the best. |
| Re: Help. Am Pressed With Intimate Issues by seyibrown(f): 1:09pm On Aug 03, 2010 |
I am laughing so hard at all the responses! Make una take am easy with this bros na! It's not wrong to marry at 18 but does marrying this it fit into your GF's plans for her life? Does she want to marry at 18? We understand that you are trying to prevent fornication (on both parts, I presume) but you want to be sure of what you are getting in to. Marriage is not just about sex; being virgins as at your time of marriage and staying sexually faithful to each other does not guarantee a successful marriage! There is a lot more to marriage! How far? You guys married now? Or are you waiting a bit longer? Let us know, please! |
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