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Before now, it is believed that the only relationship a Christian single should go into is called Courtship and this case had always been over-emphasized in our local Christian gatherings and all that.

By saying so, it simply means that Christian singles should not be involved with anything called Dating. The dating I meant here is not the setting of a date on which an appointment or an event will take effect.

The dating I mean here is practically the one that has to do with the mutual relationship between two opposite genders. This one is really not for Christians and it was tagged quite irrelevant.

Now as a Christian, if you must go into any mutual relationship with your opposite gender it should be courtship and not dating. Meanwhile, courtship begins the moment male gender proposes to the female gender. However, in some developed countries, female genders are not restricted from proposing to a male gender.

In my subsequent contents, I’ll surely try to provide a comprehensive article on the difference between dating and courtship and why you shouldn’t do dating as a Christian. Now, I wouldn’t want to deviate from the topic of this very content which really has a lot to do with courtship rules.

The issue of being in a courtship without some restrictions should be highly prohibited and done properly. So many youths from different circles and races are into courtship without acquiring any formal or informal knowledge about courtship.

Ideally, this is one of the major reasons why so many would-be spouses breakout from their courtships, and if that doesn’t happen; things might go wrong. As a matter of fact, majority of youths who are involved with pre-marital sex are would-be spouses (folks who are courting).

Added to this, most of the marital problems people face today in their marriages are products of what they did in their courtship period. Most times, trusts are broken in courtship before marriage.

All these would have been avoided if the folks involved had adhered to courtship rules. Now without wasting much of your time, let me quickly move into what we have for today.
Things You Shouldn’t Do In Courtship


Here in this segment are some important things you shouldn’t do when courting someone.
9. Don’t Visit Partner Alone:
I know this may sound very funny or maybe look so foolish before lots of folks but on a serious note; you really should not visit your courtship partner alone. Yeah, no matter how Godly or spiritual you might be, you must learn to be disciplined and try as much as possible not to visit your spouse to be alone especially if it’s at night.

Yeah, this is practically so because you’re still flesh and you might be tempted to make an immoral move if you are alone with your spouse to be. Hey, listen up; don’t say you can’t fall for such temptation or whatsoever because immorality does not respect anybody even if you’re anointed (don’t forget that David in the bible was also anointed too but he was caught in the web of immorality).

So what am I trying to say here?

You can still fall into the trap of pre-marital sex (fornication) and that’s a sin before God. So if you’re already into courtship, don’t visit your partner alone.
8. No Kissing:
I’m pretty sure that your mind is already telling you that this point is baseless or maybe not relevant. Sire Charles Writ Frederick made a stroking statement on one of his book I read (Questions Young People Ask- Go and get your own copy; it’s a must-read), Missing your period always start with kissing his lips.

Yeah, there are numerous lessons to learn from that very statement. If you don’t want to be involved in sex before marriage (Pre-Marital Sex), then don’t kiss your partner in courtship. Kissing is actually one of the elements that trigger the hormones of humans to sexual actions. So don’t kiss.
7. No Pre-Marital Sex:
Sex before marriage is purely a sin before God and unto mankind. The bible called it Fornication, and then the westerners called it Pre-Marital Sex. Nobody is qualified to have sex with you apart from the person you’re legally married to. Yeah, even if the person is going to be your husband or wife; they’re not still qualified until they’ve become either your husband/wife.

We’re courting is different from we’re married, so don’t misunderstand these words. Listen to me; Sex is worth waiting for, and if you’re a lady don’t embarrass your family and community people at large (smiles) by giving him the forbidden fruit.

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My Brother, why do you always like admiring wrong ladies for a wife? A lady in distress, moving from crisis to crisis, always disturbed, and worrisome will continue to be distressed after you marry her.

A lady who criticizes your decision and unwilling to submit will continue to nitpick; an uncontrollable lady can't be controlled even after the wedding.
You can’t force yourself into loving an arrogant and none submissive wife but you can force yourself into regretting your marital choice for the rest of your life in that marriage.

If you want a nice lady for a wife, then look-out for a nice cheerful, knowledgeable, understandable, respectful, and godly lady, pray for God’s approval and marry her. Treat her with love and respect and she will return the kindness.

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Proposing to a lady is not a skyrocket science, neither is it something you just wake up one morning to do. There are some certain things you should deliberately know about a lady before proposing to her.

Over the time, I’ve seen numerous and uncountable numbers of young guys who thinks that marriage is a boyfriend and girlfriend thing. Marriage is far beyond dating nor courting someone, perhaps it’s an everlasting union of which can only be separated by death.

This means that even the tortures of sickness and tough times cannot separate this bond. So, have you seen the reason why you should be very careful in the choice of spouse you will probably choose to end up with.

As a matter of fact, this is the more reason why you should deliberately know some things about the person you want to propose to. Meanwhile, on this very short and precise article; I’m categorically talking to the male genders.

It is majorly believed that make do the proposing; so I’d just focus on that so as to ensure you quick grasping of this content. So in a nutshell, I’ll be writing on the things you should know about a lady before proposing to her.

Things You Should Know About A Lady Before Proposing To Her


1. Her Family Background:

Knowing her family background is one of the most important things you should and must really know before proposing to her. Listen dear zealous young man, don’t let your love for a lady to make you forget some vital things you should know about her.

Knowing her family background is very vital. By saying this, I’m not talking about the financial background of her family, but am talking about the totality of her family background. You’ve got to really know where she came from, her parents, her siblings etc. Hey Dude! Don’t ignore this.

2. Her Age:

This is funny right?

Before now, I’ve heard people say ‘Age does not matter in marriage’ even for countless times. But listen to me, as a young man; don’t marry a lady who is older than you.

By nature, women always look older than the men. Will you agree with me that girls who are of the same age with you look older than you?

When you see a guy of 25 and a girl of 25; from their look and body structure, you may think that the girl is older than the guy with about a year or even more. So dear young man, before you propose to any lady; please make sure that you’ve known their age and it is okay by you.

3. Her Genotype:

Her genotype is another thing you should know too. This really has a very important role in childbearing. Don’t be in a hurry to propose to a girl forgetting about the reality of her genotype.

Please before you propose to that young lady; make you already knew her genotype is it is compatible with yours too. Meanwhile, in my subsequent contents, I’ll do a highlight on genotype compatibility so that you will really know the type of genotype to marry.

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Over the time, I’ve seen so many young ladies that ended up in a bad marriage while some were entrapped in the carcass of courtship heart-break. This problem still exists even till now and many more youths are still warming up to jump into wrong marriage.

Meanwhile, you can feel free to check out an article I wrote on The Causes Of Unhappy Marriages and Skyrocketing Ways On How To Prevent It. In addition to this, it is believed that ladies are always too emotional than the male gender.

As a lady, learn to control your emotions; don’t be so fast to revert an answer or a feedback to a guy when he proposes. This is also applicable to the guys too. There are so many things they should know about a young lady before proposing to her.

However, wisdom demands that you should know at least 50% to 70% of a guy that proposed to you probably before you accept his proposal. Don’t be too emotional; be sensitive to ask him and realize some certain things about him.

Ideally, on this very content, I’ll be sharing with you 15 different questions to ask him before accepting his proposal. Hey, listen; you shouldn’t do this immediately he proposes. Just do this little by little don’t rush this.

13 QUESTIONS TO ASK HIM BEFORE ACCEPTING HIS PROPOSAL

13. Ask Him His Genotype:

This is not a matter of being spiritual or not. One of the major questions you should ask a guy before accepting his proposal is his genotype. This aspect really matters a lot, dear sister.

Don’t allow yourself and emotions to be disorganized. Make sure you know his genotype. Yeah! This is actually one of the questions you should ask him when he proposes. Don’t forget this; ‘Genotype compatibility’ is one aspect in marriage you shouldn’t neglect.

12. Ask Him Why He Wants To Marry:

It’s obvious that so many guys out there don’t really know the reason why they want to marry. Most of them don’t even have a reason for doing so. Now from another sphere and comparison, there are so many young guys that see marriage very necessary the moment they become ready for child-bearing.

Other young guys want to get married simply because they were pressured by parents and relatives. As a young lady, as soon a guy proposes to you; try to find out the reason or reasons why he wanted to marry. Please don’t you marry a guy who needed marriage just because he wants to start making babies.

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Millions of ladies are still single not because of scarcity of husband but rather due to "lack of understanding of the time"
Attracting a godly husband is an easy task because marriage isn't carnal arrangement but rather uphold and originated from God. It's not something you goes out there and fetch by yourself through the aid seduction or makes-up without divine intervention. Marriage isn't about finding your self desires spouse but rather the outcome of such a marital relationship.

I have seen many singles ladies in tears and worrisome due to lack of seriousness and willfulness of men to marry them.

They feel depressed and confused due to time frame which isn't on their side or probably due to marital pressure and the thoughts of remaining single for life.

Hence, this ugly delays emiting around this sisters is often attributed due to lack of moral training, spiritual deficiency or witchcraft manipulations.

However in this three reasons which often play horrible ordeal in hindering many spinster from getting attracted to their future husbands,...... the most easiest way of crushing it off can be drives from the life experience of Queen Esther in the Bible.

SECRET AND EASIEST WAY TO ATTRACT A GOOD HUSBAND

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This is an agreement between two or more parties, bounded together by lust, evil powers, and monitoring spirit. An ungodly soul tie is a demonic covenant between man and woman. One of the hardest things to do is breaking ungodly soul ties covenant.

It is a strong tie between two people or more that bound them together with the evil spirit attachment. The ungodly soul tie is responsible for the sluggish delay of many destinies to be fulfilled.

That’s why prayers to break all ungodly soul ties could be your destiny saver. The witchcraft power behind this evil covenant has been destroying many people’s marriages and thereby dragging them backward.

Unarguably, sexual soul tie is one the strongest covenants that kill Godly affair and replace it with an ungodly relationship. For example, having sex with people in the dream is the best example of this sermon.

This shows that your souls have already been sold out to the spirit spouse and this dream experience can frustrate your expectation in marriage. Whenever a person finds it difficult to have a stable relationship, it’s because such a person is into one covenant that has been nursing for years.

When you have sex with someone you are not married to, you are already tied to the spirit of the person. This means that whatever spirit that is troubling the person will surely affect you.

WHY?

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If you are capable to spot the changes that is happening to your spouse then there are pretty good chances to repair the damages caused. Women are great at being patient even when they take a hit on hot spots. Sometimes you do a few things out of unconsciousness but it might hurt her even if it was never your intentions.

If you think that your wife is being calm more then she is ever then it is time for you to revisit your past memories and find out what went wrong at first place. Here are some signs that, if you notice, then you can say your wife hates you.

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One of the easiest way to find out that she is being grumpy or not is that you look at her. If you notice that her face looks irked then yes, there is your sign she is grumpy. Often women can act grumpy when they really want to speak their hearts out but they have lost all expectations over you of understanding them. They start getting over little things like your unorganized clothes or shoes. She stops making things you like and the taste of food changes. If forget doing house chore that she asked you and she does it herself. She will often start using phrase like “doesn’t matter” a lot.

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The rate of Unhappy Marriages in the world today is becoming so alarming and perhaps some remedial efforts need to be implemented in order to curb Unhappy Marriages.

Meanwhile, even our young people are still warming up to go into an unhappy marriage. The proper knowledge on how to detect the causes or reasons for unhappy marriage is not known by so many. Probably, even they had known this; of course, there wouldn’t be any unhappy marriage again.

Over time, I’ve often seen so many homes without happiness. I’ve seen lots of unhappy marriages. I mean, I’ve been able to come in close contact with couples who never wished they got married and all these awful experiences have created a deep burden in my heart for upcoming or will I say so-to-be couples.

Meanwhile, on this content, I’ll be highlighting the causes of Unhappy Marriages and How to turn it into a happy marriage. Read through this content to fully understand this content.

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This is to announce to you that the Federal University of Technology, Akure's (FUTA) website has been hacked by an unknown Indonesian code party (walkers).

According to the hackers, they were openly blaming the webmasters for not keep it or too confidential against hackers.
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Our Android smartphones have become our closest companion and confidant as they carry lots of personal data and even sensitive documents relating to work and business.

Some of these include e-mails, passwords, messages, contacts, photos and videos. Therefore it is of paramount importance to secure your handset to prevent fraudsters from gaining access to it.
It is also important to ensure that in case it falls into the wrong hands, your data and information stay safe.
Some of the ways to do this are outlined below.

Password-protect Your Device


All Android phones have the options of using either a pattern lock or an alphanumeric password (numbers and letters). When using the pattern lock, ensure that it is not an easy to guess pattern but one that you can remember and make sure no other person knows the password for the Gmail account associated with your device.

For the alphanumeric password, it is best to use numbers, letters and symbols together but it should be something you can remember.


Don't use passwords like 12345, your name,birthday or other things that someone can look up. In both cases, do not tell anyone your password and ensure no one sees you when drawing your pattern.

Use Google



All Android devices from Android version 2.2 and above come with a special feature you can use to track and manage your device. Check for Google Settings on your device denoted by a grey icon with small letter ‘g’ and a gear symbol.

Open the app and choose the ‘Android Device Manager’ option, you will then see various options for locating, remote locking and factory resetting of your device in case it gets lost or is stolen.

Then you can log on to the Android Device Manager website
http://www.google.com/android/devicemanager

using your Gmail account to control your phone from any location.

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You all can agree with me that one of the challenge/s bloggers of today is the sphere of making their blogor blogs look better. But getting through with this is as if they needed to climb a certain huge rock. But with this thread or topic; I believe they would come to the realisation that they have the key right in their palms.

As bloggers, we all want to make our online homes the best they can be. We want to make sure the content appeals and satisfy our visitors, which the design is attractive and the functionality is top notch. It’s easy to overlook things when we get so wrapped up in creating and tweaking elements so that they work well for us, but often times we forget about those new visitors.

GET A MOBILE FRIENDLY THEME OR TEMPLATE

As bloggers, you all ought to know that 90% of your visitors are on mobile. This is to say that majority of our traffics comes from mobile. So for us to get to the right side, you seriously need to get a template or theme which wouldn’t be friendly to your mobile visitors.
CREATE A TO-DO LIST

An ongoing list of actions to complete can help you stay on top of your blog. My brand new book, The Ultimate Blogger To-Do List takes the trouble out of coming up with tasks to improve your blog. It is filled with tips and actions just like these ones that will help you launch your blog to the next level, while improving your site’s functionality, design, and promotion techniques. It’s basically like a big sticky note full of reminders that you hadn’t even thought of yet.
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Entertainment as we all know is one of the best and hardest jobs recognized in the world at large. Tirelessly, every day, night after night entertainers ensure putting themselves together and with the ultimate hope of performing in a stage evoking an emotional response to the audience. Stage performance is not something that an entertainer can suddenly graduate from or be improved over time. Meanwhile, most performers are natural gifted with the gifts and suddenly exhibits good performance on stage.

Now, I will be teaching you how to become a good stage performer or will I say a good entertainer. So let’s rock on;

FIRST IMPRESSION CONTRIBUTES A LOT

Audience are always impatient and can’t really wait to see what you got to offer. By saying so, you will need to understand that they are very judgemental. So for you to be reckoned as a good entertainer, you will have to think of something probably a joke or something else so as to capture the attention of your audience because the is your first impression and it plays a very big role in making you a good stage performer.

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You all can agree with me that you have once been a victim of such aberrant act. Whenever I encounter such; it was as if I took a bitter pill. Sleeping at work is very bad. In-fact it has become the habit of majority of fellows today.

Have you felt it? That afternoon slump when you can’t keep your eyes opens at work. The best way to deal with that type of drowsiness is to ensure you get enough good quality sleep at night, thus preventing the drowsiness in the first place. However, if you still find yourself drowsy, you can make a few lifestyle changes to increase your energy overall, as well as use a few tricks to up your alertness when drowsiness does hit you.

Below are some preventive measures on how to avoid sleepiness at work;

STRETCH YOU BODY A LITTLE BIT

You are absolutely limited in your office as to how much stretching you can do, but you can perform a few simple stretches. This will really help you out on such experiences.

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In our world at large, doing a business has become very competitive just like going to school. Business entrepreneurs hardly succeed because there are lots of them out there on the same area doing the same business.

In Business, it doesn’t matter whether that business is on behalf of a small company, a globe-spanning corporation, or your own entrepreneurial venture; can be considered a businessman or businesswoman.

Success in this field can be measured by looking at both personal achievement of a businessman, and the overall health of the business in which particular person has been a part of. The two are often intertwined quite deeply, as the attainment of company-wide goals begins with the work a person puts into their own success.


Now, on this very content, am vividly going to teach you some valuable tips and measure on how to achieve success in any business venture you find yourself in. Keep reading to get the real fact about this particular article.
MEET PROFESSIONALS

Back then in others days when I was staying with my aunt, I candidly remembered how a good many of some personalities come to see her, with the reason and purpose of asking her for advice/s on how to start up a provisional business since she’s already prospering in the business itself.
Ask them, who know, them being so kind might leak their secrets to you.

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Here in our country (Nigeria), Independence Day is a national holiday that celebrates the country's declaration for Independence from the great Britain. Locally, many people here in our local Country celebrate this day with parades and joyous celebration.

Most times, people or even family go out on a date on this very day being 27th of October. Celebrating this really matters, but here; what really matters is how can we make it memorable and unforgettable.

Here on this content, we are gonna expose to you, some useful facts and information on how to make your Independence day memorable;

DRESS UP PATRIOTICALLY

Some citizens choose to wear clothes that have the Nigerian flag design on them, or even choose to wear the green, white and green. You can have a lot of fun trying to look as patriotic as possible using just these colors.

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Updating a blog is not that easy, or I’ll rather day that it’s practically not for lazy fellows who cannot spend time in making article but rather choose to plagiarize instead. Before, you will certainly need to impress your readers with trending article; you wouldn’t want them to see a particular article on new on your blog for three days. All am trying to say is that, you are expected to feed your blog regularly.

Most times, a blog topic idea is right under your nose. Finding blog content doesn’t have to be a tough job and shouldn’t cause any stress. If you start recognizing topic opportunities regularly, you’ll never run out of blog post ideas.

Here on this content, we are going to teach your the various ways that you can search for and create unique content for your blog. Be sure to keep a notebook handy for the endless amount of topics that are going to start flowing out of your brain.

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Here is another edition in the sphere of movie or film production. A good many of us are trying on continually in other to become a movies art director. Movie art directors are highly recommended in any movie or film. In other words, I’d rather say that Movie Act Director is most honoured in any movie production.

The role they play in the production of any movie is what the production industry at large can’t do without. Nevertheless, their services require more skills and knowledge.

On a film set, an art director is responsible for all of the artistic and visual designs used for a production including all aspects of set design, from the colour of a rug on the floor to the look of a spaceship's bridge in a science fiction movie. Because an art director oversees everything from the size and construction of a set to the smallest details, he/she must possess the artistic and structural insight of an architect, an interior designer, and an artist. On big productions, the art director works for the production designer, and has a team that includes a set designer and prop master.
On small, low budget productions, the art director may take on all of the aforementioned roles. Read the following steps to find out how to become an art director in film.

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The spate of students’ failure in examination, extra-curricular classes etc or and even in core subjects such as English and Mathematics is alarming. Several discoveries have proved and shown that students read for exams and yet fail there exams, uhm here comes the question WHY? And the almighty answer to this very question is because they employed bad reading culture and that has also influenced their academical performance too.

So today after reading this article, your reading habit will definitely become a thing that will come to a plethora platform of growth. Below are the reliable ways and tips to grow and develop your reading habit for better.
Below are the reliable tips and how you could develop your reading habit.
Make reading your lifestyle: This has been one issue why we generally face in this adventures society or generation. So many students only when when theere is need to, for example; they only read when they have assignments or examination which is very bad and it is not advisable too.When reading becomes your life style, your reading habit is at the peak of growing, because you will now see reading as something you cant do without.

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Developing a website or a blog as the case may be is really fun, but it’s obvious that a good number of bloggers and web designers majorly didn’t go for a recommendable domain name (.com, .net. ng, .us, .tv, .org, .tech, .co, .gov, .com.ng etc) but rather choose to go for a sub-domain which is powered by the blog or webhost and some of the examples are given in the table below

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