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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by bagger293: 1:04pm On Jun 14, 2017
Gptech:

Check gearbest, now $400 when you use a coupon code, according to gsmarena, they are celebrating Xiaomi midyear sales for Xioami. http://www.gsmarena.com/xiaomi_midyear_sale_mi_6_for_400_mi_5_for_222_and_other_deals-news-25581.php
thanks...but your guy nor get moni...I go gather am monthly..u knw se $400 nor be beans wink
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by bagger293: 4:21am On Jun 14, 2017
TJ0987:
Sorry for the late response guys...

I bought the 3gb/32gb option

The phone I used is a blackberry Z3

Me na Mi6 I dey plan to buy...now it's over $400...I'll wait for some time when the price goes down.. cool
Education / Re: Why I Won't Go Back For My Masters (M.sc) Now As A Fresh Nigerian Graduate by bagger293: 11:42am On May 03, 2017
Bae026:


Simple! Take GRE and TOEFL tests. Score very high, and apply to schools in the US.

I can guarantee you that you won't regret taking those tests.

Good luck.
But they are expensive now oo
Family / Re: 13 hypocrisies and Idiosyncrasies of Polygamy by bagger293: 3:23pm On Oct 28, 2016
Toks2008:
Disclaimer: Polygamy is not for everyone considering the stress and complexity not forgetting the economy tipsy turvy.This article is aimed at beaming an eagle's eyes on polygamy at large in relation to the idiosyncrasies of people about it and not intended to encourage anyone to adopt it neither does it represent the lifestyle of the writer.

I implore every reader of this article to analyze each question objectively without any form of bias so that we can have a no holds Barr approach to this age long phenomenon which has caused many marital anomalies all around the world...So lets take a candid look .

1.Could Polygamy be the answer to the prayers of a sect of single ladies.
It is believed that there are some set of ladies who have a better chance with married men?

The widowed who is in her late 30s or 40s with children,the divorced woman who is in her late 30s with children and the never married lady in her late 30s or 40s. While some ladies in this categories are fortunate to marry a fresh guy polygamy seem to be a better choice for most of the ladies rather than single never married guys. The fact is that even you reading this who believes that your marriage is very ok might just fall into the first 2 categories tomorrow..this is not a curse but a fact of life and until then,this point may not make sense to you...Pray you don't experience it.

2.Why do most women prefer polygamy in disguised form.
Have you ever wondered why many ladies prefer their husbands to keep mistresses but frown against same marrying another wife? yes i have asked many ladies that given only two options which would they prefer and they gladly chose the former and i begin to ask myself what difference does it make? Some ladies will tell you to keep your wife while they enjoy the benefits of being a mistress to you and i tend to ask who is fooling who?

3.Could Polygamy relieve stress of a married woman?.
This is one truth many of us can't shy away from. There are some marriages where the lady can't just keep up with sexual demands from the man and this has caused serious issues in the marriage and it usually gets to the point where the wife gives the man the go ahead to get another wife because she can not come and go and die grin.

4.Is it possible that Polygamy might encourage financial independence in many ladies?.
This point needs to be understood especially in this part of the world.

Do you know that most ladies do not mind if a rich hubby marries another woman? As long as he is doing his duty and she is still getting the goodies she may find it hard to leave the marriage but this is not the case for a struggling guy who will likely be reminded that she is only patching up with him.

Maybe polygamy will make the woman understand that her hubby no matter how poor he may be, might see another financially stable lady who does not need the man's money but only wants a man in her life and this will make every lady sit tight and become financially independent to avoid being a liability to the man...because MEN HATE LIABILITIES.

5.Why are Women willing participants in polygamous act?.
Can a man commit adultery with himself or become a polygamous man without the participation of a lady? In-fact many single ladies have eyes only for married men and i kept wondering why these same ladies will clamor for monogamy when the same ladies will gladly date a married man and even desire to be his Mrs....So why the hypocrisy of monogamy when it has become a norm for single ladies to snatch or share a married man.

6.Could Polygamy reduce the number of unmarried ladies.
I don't need to explain this much. It is no longer news that many ladies in their ripe ages are still single and searching but unfortunately the young men who should marry them are either still struggling or confused about what they want yet there are many married men matured enough to adequately marry two or more wives. It is believed that if Polygamy is embraced, many single ladies will find succor in the hands of some responsible married men who are capable enough to meet the emotional and maybe the financial needs of two or more ladies.

7.Could Polygamy bring about more responsive and responsible young unmarried men.
Many young guys at marriageable ages are just too nonchalant to settle down with a lady and most of them will use the economy as an excuse but if Polygamy is embraced by us,the beautiful young ladies will be taken as wives by already married men thereby forcing the single guys to brace up to settle down fast with the woman in their lives to avoid such being married off to a married man..

8.Can Polygamy reduce wife battering and mortality.
Believe it or not, for every 10 cases of a wife getting beaten or killed by her hubby,you can be certain that 8 can be linked to adultery. The question is;why should a lady go through pains because she found out that her hubby is having an extra marital affair? is her life not more important than that? however,maybe if polygamy is accepted all over the world, no woman will bother her head about a man being faithful to her which will ultimately bring about serenity into the life of the woman....This may sound ridiculous but think about it.

9.Why is polygamy acceptable in certain situations.
We have another hypocrisy when it comes to polygamy. In some cases where a lady can not bear a child for her hubby due to serious complications,she tends to give a go ahead for the man to take another wife and in the case where a lady knows she just can't be available due to many factors she gives a nod to a second wife but in a normal situation she will threaten fire should the man think about such move.

10.Can Polygamy reduce the incidence of lesbianism and zoophilism.
Ask any lesbian or zoophile you see why she is one and you can be sure to hear her tell you about a failed marriage or a failed relationship as a result of a cheating hubby or fiance. Most lesbians are in the act due to heart breaks from men but if every lady has it in their mind that polygamy is a norm, they will be ready to be in any affair with the mindset that the man may likely have another lady which will create an emotional readiness for such happening.

11.Does the Quran and bible outrightly condemn polygamy.
While our married Muslim sisters are at peace with their husbands irrespective of the number of women he marries, our Christian sisters are always quick to use the bible to counter the act of polygamy but while the bible does not clearly give a nod to polygamy,some people believed that there was no where in the bible that polygamy was condemned in clear terms and while many Bible scholars use human philosophy as regards the fact that GOD created only one woman for Adam,there is a documented evidence that those strongly loved by GOD were polygamists.

12.Is there any difference between Philandering and polygamy.
While many people believe that these two are different,i believe they are the same because in most cases, a mistress bears the man's children and gets all the attention the wife gets if not more so why fool yourself thinking you are married to one lady when in-fact your mistress is as good as your wife even if they don't stay under same roof.


13.Could the acceptance of polygamy reduce the rate of divorce cases.
Maybe If the world embraces polygamy, there will be a drastic reduction of women filing for divorce due to sexual unfaithfulness from the man as they will know before going into marriage with the man that there is a bigger possibility of him getting married to two or more wives.


This is not a one sided article but a vivid view on polygamy from a critical angle and i would be glad to read a counter view to this.

Hope this makes sense.
Oga u try no be small..I no knw as I go take reward u sef,
Education / Re: ABU Zaria Team Wins The Shell Eco-marathon Competition In South Africa by bagger293: 8:00am On Oct 19, 2016
thatsmartgirl:

My view about Females in the Engineering field is personal.
so what is the view
Politics / Re: Military And Shia Members Clash In Funtua Katsina (graphic Pics) by bagger293: 2:18pm On Oct 12, 2016
undecidedYoruba:
I am not a Sunni Neither am I a Shiite ........


But honestly this is so wrong and should be condemned by all cry cry
Brother, the reality is that, nobody is stopping these people from celebrating, they always go off limit eg. blocking the roads, sometimes hitting anyone who comes in their way..etc

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Politics / Re: Military And Shia Members Clash In Funtua Katsina (graphic Pics) by bagger293: 2:18pm On Oct 12, 2016
undecidedYoruba:
I am not a Sunni Neither am I a Shiite ........


But honestly this is so wrong and should be condemned by all cry cry
Brother, the reality is that, nobody is stopping these people from celebrating, the go off limit eg. blocking the roads, sometimes hitting anyone who comes in their way..etc

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Phones / Re: What Is Hotknot And How To Share Files Via Hotknot? by bagger293: 6:38am On May 05, 2016
[quote author=graceheart866 post=45323852][/quote]Oga na by force Bloody scam

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Career / Re: Strictly For Elect/elect Aspirants, Students, Engineers And Professionals. by bagger293: 3:11pm On Apr 06, 2016
donwise1:
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Phones / Re: Who Has The Worst Customer Care MTN, Airtel, Glo, Etisalat? by bagger293: 6:12am On Mar 29, 2016
Maybe you don't know that they have changed the price from 1000 to 1400, try again with 1400 airtime
sexychacha:
Just noticed that I can't subscribe to glo 3gig on my bb10
Pls who is xperiencin d xme tin
Education / Re: Parents Should Stop Doing This Because Of Their Children's Future by bagger293: 5:52pm On Oct 05, 2015
On point brother...That's the point..
einsteino:


You make it sound as though only successful people have a passion, there are tons of unsuccessful businessman, musicians, writers, programmers e.t.c who really had passion but just didn't succeed. I know some of my peers who are really passionate about their dreams and gave up a whole lot but are still no where, they may succeed and may not. Many folks like to tell the stories of the few who succeed, deliberately leaving out the multitude who didn't. This is the real world, it is a game of chance when it comes to certain things. some people rather take the less risky path that has a certain end. if there is anything about life, somethings can not be undone.

all am saying is, passion shouldn't be the only thing that guides your ambition. it is alright to go with your passion but make sure you are fully aware of the risks and probability of failure(not talking about grades, talking abt succeeding in life), if you still want it, have a backup plan that has a backup plan.

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Get A Graduate Assistant Job by bagger293: 10:08pm On Sep 05, 2015
I'm surprised there are poeple like me who want to be lecturers...I'm often mocked by some of my course mates...but I do look at them like..'you wont understand'.. wink
ggirl4real:


As you are starting, use your 100 and 200levels to build your CGPA coz the CGPA you start with goes a long way to determine the grade you'll graduate with. If you can be on 4.5(possible but not easy) after your 200level. All you'll have to do is to maintain it. See you at the top!!!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Get A Graduate Assistant Job by bagger293: 9:55pm On Sep 05, 2015
My sister please try n get a first class cgpa...be puntual to lectures, prepare a good study schedule, always be reading...so the untouched materials wont pile up...i really regret not doing when I was starting.... cry
igstars:
Good day uncles and aunties..
Api to see this thread.
Pls am aspiring to be a lecturer too.
When its my turn, pls be there to help me in any way u can..

Am an undergraduate sha...
But would rily love to be a lecturer when am done.
Truthfully.... Am jst starting...
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Get A Graduate Assistant Job by bagger293: 9:01pm On Sep 05, 2015
Thanks for the advice sister..I'm currently having a cgpa of 4.16 and I have just 500level remaining...if I try and upgrade it to 4.2 I might be considered right?
ggirl4real:


Determination is very vital to making good grades.

Don't miss lectures please....

Don't joke with that "just one mark". One mark placed me on 4.497. There's this 300level course I scored 69% - I had a B. If I had 70%, the story would have been different now coz I would have graduated with 4.5 (First Classy).

You may have to limit your clique of friends coz they can be a serious distraction at times.

Study as if all depends on studying and pray as if all depends on praying (I.e if you believe in the efficacy of prayers).

Wish you all the best. See you at the top!!!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Get A Graduate Assistant Job by bagger293: 8:34pm On Sep 05, 2015
STENON:
Yes, I know. Bt he has some roles to play on his own Part and pertaining to his academics.
thank you brother for the advice, I'll try to implement it...going early to lectures and trying to get As in all the courses...
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Get A Graduate Assistant Job by bagger293: 4:47pm On Sep 05, 2015
bagger293:
I'm not after the money...I just dont want to be idle after graduation and I have a passion for lecturing....
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Get A Graduate Assistant Job by bagger293: 4:43pm On Sep 05, 2015
I'm not after the money...I just dont want to be idle after graduation and I have a passion for lecturing mehn...so much time to yourself...
sureguy02:


It's not too late bro. Start getting close to your lecturers too. Answer questions in class and walk up to them for advice on any issue bothering you.

As for the salary part, never go to the academics for the money. You must have the passion, if not, you will end up frustrated
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Get A Graduate Assistant Job by bagger293: 4:32pm On Sep 05, 2015
I have the same ambition with the op, I will soon be graduating with a 2.1 but the problem is that I'm not close to the lecturers of our department talk less of the HOD, he doesn't even know me and I'm approaching my final year..my questions are...is it too late for me to start getting close to the HOD and what is the salary range specifically for Graduate Assistants? Please nairalanders help a brother...
Politics / Re: How Cameraman, Police Saved Lives From Damaturu Suicide Attack by bagger293: 9:44am On Jul 21, 2015
bendutch:

Forget that thing. When you die for Allah you have virgins to bleep. Deny it. Whats holy war then?
There's nothing like holy war in Islam...the word 'Holy War' was first used by crusaders when they were invading the muslim lands..forcing them to convert from islam to christianity...in Islam,if there is going to be anything like war in this current time...there has to be a set of conditions that must be fulfilled...up till now no set of muslims have been able to fulfill these set of conditions to wage war...so whatever you see on the media eg Palestine is probably because of self defense..but What BH is doing is totally prohibited...
Politics / Re: How Cameraman, Police Saved Lives From Damaturu Suicide Attack by bagger293: 9:36am On Jul 21, 2015
Demigods:


Can't respect other people whose beliefs has cause grieve to thousand of people worldwide.
Muslims need to be eradicated.
May their god help them in that day of battle.
brother do you that Adolf Hitler, who killed millions of Jews was a christian? Then why don't we say that the Christians need to bee eliminated?? Because the number of people Hitler has killed is far more than 3 times the number of people the so called Jihadists have killed since the time they began killing of innocent people...please and please try and seek for the truth before making any conclusion
Politics / Re: How Cameraman, Police Saved Lives From Damaturu Suicide Attack by bagger293: 9:27am On Jul 21, 2015
WukedP:
bro tell that to the birds, ok tell me where it condemns it in the Quran
In the Quran (5:32) it is said that anyone who kills the life of one innocent person is like he has killed the whoke of humanity, and if one saves the life of one person...it's like he has saved the whole of humanity. Please don't be carried away by what these 'black sheep' are doing..it's 100% forbidden in Islam to kill any innocent human being
Politics / Re: How Cameraman, Police Saved Lives From Damaturu Suicide Attack by bagger293: 9:16am On Jul 21, 2015
[quote author=Freemanan post=36112370][/quote]gentleman I'm surprised at this comment you're making..are you the one to perish the billions of other muslims on the world, The fastest growing religion is Islam brother..What these terrorists do is not Islamic at all, Islam CLEARLY condemns killing of innocent people whether muslims or non muslims..

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