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Family / Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by Bakersfield: 4:18pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
[/color] VEHINTOLAR:This is the best submission for me on the trending topic. I'm a grandfather in my mid sixties who had seen it all. Unfortunately I felt sorry for the OP, but you have to be man enough to look for peace of mind in your marriage. Be MAN enough to take charge. Young women of nowadays, hummmmm. Let me drink my bottled water🙏] Guy,I'll be very honest with you;you've got to change the dynamics of your relationship with your so called wife. What do I mean ? Yes,you have got to show her your "other side" too. This is a must for you to do if you must have that respect you deserve in your own house. See,if you listen to the advice of any woman or those women in man's body here,trust me, you're done for ! You see, it's very likely that your wife has another man,a new man in her life. Don't ever underestimate what any woman can do;you can't afford to trust any woman. These are what I'll advise you to do,they are very simple : (1) Without giving her any clue or a slight hint, start investigating her activities - check her phone call logs,text messages and interactions / engagements on the social media platforms. Check if she passworded her WhatsApp and other social media accounts. If she does,get a tech guy to hack her account for that means she is hiding something. (2) While you're gathering information about the likely reasons for her toxic behaviors and disrespect towards you,start learning how to GO MAD WITHOUT WARNING ! You'll need that when you discover that she has been secretly seeing another man behind your back ! It is a well established pattern;a woman starts losing respect for her man/husband when she is involved with another man that she thinks is better than her own husband or man. She may have been comparing you with another man in her life whom she thinks is better than you ! (3) Do I or anyone need to tell you what to do if you discover that she has actually been cheating on you with another man ? The choice is yours,but I hope you won't be so naive to continue living with such a woman. Be quick about the (1) above;it's very important as it is very important to know the root cause of her bad attitudes towards you. (4) If you discovered that she was not involved in any extramarital affairs,then you begin to stamp your authority as the MAN in that house by taking out unnecessary sidetalks and any other frivolty with her. Show her love but don't ever be "a sucker for love" ! Be angry when it is necessary;that shows that you won't tolerate nonsense. It is time you change her perception about your personality. As it is now ,sadly,your wife sees you as a weak man ! Goodluck. 1 Like 1 Share |
Car Talk / Re: Help Me With Oil Recommendations by Bakersfield: 12:55pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
Joshx23:. Go for Harddex synthetic oil 5w30 OR G-Life fully synthetic oil 5w30. Make sure you go for service every 5000km, u will surely the value for your money. Goodluck
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Family / Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Bakersfield: 12:00pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
egojeny1: What an old man would see sitting on the ground floor, try and go to height of the building. The fact is that you can't DECIPHER IT. I don't really comment on this forum because most times people lack COGNITIVE INTELLIGENCE to handle tropical and delicate marital issues. Conscience, Nurtured by Truth ~ The Guardian. 1 Like |
Family / Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Bakersfield: 10:46am On Mar 18, 2019 |
ruddyman500: My brother I have been in this business called marriage for the last 27 years now. I'm lucky I married my best friend and soul mate. She is from the south east and I'm from the south west of Nigeria. I know some of the hidden secrets of successful, unsecured and unsuccessful marriages. No long story. Let me tell you the NAKED TRUTH. YOUR WIFE IS A NYMPHO AND SHE IS BLEEPING HEAVILY WITH HER EX's. Maybe your CUCUMBER is not doing the job as expected and she resolved to help herself outside. Please try to do reappraisal of your sexual performance. Maybe you are lacking in some areas of her needs and the EX's are filling the gap for you. You need to sit down and sort out issues holistically. No holds bar discussion. From your submission, she has all the traits of INFIDELITY. Adjust and follow the trails. Good luck. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Career / Re: Help! My Boss Is Taking Credit For My Work by Bakersfield: 7:54pm On Nov 28, 2018 |
Google the 48 laws of power. Read the summary and digest. I don't comment on nairaland.com, but you need elderly wisdom and guidance. Take your time and make decision. My 2kobo for you. |
Career / Re: Help! My Boss Is Taking Credit For My Work by Bakersfield: 7:50pm On Nov 28, 2018 |
Take your time to read 48 laws of power. Pinpoint the first law. My two cents /kobo for you. |
Pets / Re: German Shepherd, Rottweiler And Boerboel Which Is Better Attack Dog? by Bakersfield: 6:27pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
Rottweiler will do the job for you. Rott is genetically an attack dog. No mercy especially the female Rott. But this is the caveat, it's not a family dog to play around with. Rott is ATTACK ATTACK ATTACK. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Senate To Probe Ibe Kachikwu's Letter To Buhari Over NNPC Boss, Baru by Bakersfield: 3:43pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
aguiyi2: I totally agree with you. I'm from the South West, married to a woman from South East close to 22 years , campaign vigorously to my South South colleagues and friends to support GMB. But my friends are attacking me now for leading them to support this mess. I'm really ashamed now to even utter a word to defend myself when they confront me with facts and figures about the level of corruption in the system. 3 Likes |
Phones / Re: Which Browser Is Best For Android Phones? by Bakersfield: 7:47am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Mykel4God: Puffin browser is the best. No rival |
Phones / Re: Which Browser Is Best For Android Phones? by Bakersfield: 7:42am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Puffin Browser is the best. Speed of light, reliable and efficient 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Man Dies In Accident 3 Days After His Wedding On Their Way Back To Lagos (Pics) by Bakersfield: 10:24am On Jan 08, 2017 |
idupaul: Intelligent submission. You simply hit the nail on the right spot. I'm a trained professional driver with over 28,000hrs of driving on West African countries highways. My rule on the job is SAFETY FIRST. Nobody is a perfect driver, but if you follow the SAFETY PRECAUTIONS AND RULES, getting to your destination is guaranteed. No shortcut. RIP to the victims. 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Which Browser Is Better Than UC Browser? by Bakersfield: 4:36pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
greenhulk: Puffin Browser all the way. The fastest browser in Google Play Store. I have used all the mentioned browsers, but my experience with Puffin is awesome. Speed is Puffin doctrine. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Hillary Clinton Is Democratic Presidential Nominee by Bakersfield: 10:27am On Jul 27, 2016 |
Quakertellicus1: We are on the same page. Most dudes on Nairaland don't really understand the demographic groups in the States. Let's wait and see what happens in November elections. I believe the ESTABLISHMENT are in support of Hillary. One cannot be too sure, but personally I think Hillary will be win in the fall. My 2kobo. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Something Strange Is Happening In The Southwest - Azuka Onwuka by Bakersfield: 11:35am On Jul 19, 2016 |
amodu: Haaaaaaaaaa, kilode, eleyi ma ga ooooooooooooooo. E sanu omo Ibo ke. Awon gan o moba arawon. PROUDLY YORUBA MARRIED TO IGBO WOMAN. LOBATAN. |
Politics / Re: Dele Momodu: "I Don't Care If All Buhari's Appointments Come From Daura" by Bakersfield: 6:54pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Dinocarex: I'm sick too. The illiteracy level is mind blowing, I can see the end product of mass failure in English language in WASC examination. Really sad. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Dele Momodu: "I Don't Care If All Buhari's Appointments Come From Daura" by Bakersfield: 6:41pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
989900: Spot on. E tire me oooooo for this people who do not understand simple SARCASM. 1 Like |
Car Talk / Re: Range Rover Sports Vs Mercedes G Wagon, Which Would You Choose? by Bakersfield: 8:38am On Jul 09, 2016 |
cortix: My brother we are on thesamthesame line of thought, please don't bother me with G WAGON AND RANGE ROVER. pPlease just arrange me, TOYOTA AVALON 2015 LIMITED EDITION. SHIKEENA. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Falana, Agbakoba: Ikpeazu No Longer Abia Governor by Law by Bakersfield: 4:01pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
donstevoz: This is the most logical and intelligent submission. It's plain and simple. I'm not a lawyer or from South East,but Agbakoba and Falana both SAN have spoken. The level of thinking of people on nairaland.com beats my imagination. It stinks, full of bias with nepotism. IT IS VISIBLE TO THE BLIND AND AUDIBLE TO THE DEAF THAT GOV IKPEAZU GOOFED LEGALLY. When a sitting Governor hire CHARGE AND BAIL LAWYERS, this is the result expected. Inec confirmed that they received only NOTICE OF APPEAL NOT STAY OF EXECUTION from Governor Ikpeazu legal team, and Ogah smartly capitalised on it. This is not rocket science but political gerrymandering and ability to outsmart your political opponents. My 2kobo. 2 Likes |
Car Talk / Re: Dilemma Issue Please Assit My People Camry/ Corolla 2005 by Bakersfield: 11:08am On Jun 26, 2016 |
Papilolo007: I just discussed with a colleague who is an auto engineer, he advised you should not compromise or have a second thought, GO FOR TOYOTA COROLLA 2005 MODEL, and your life will be full of joy for taking the right decision. Toyota corolla 2005 model : Fuel economy Engine and gear system not problematic like big daddy Smooth to drive Reliable for long haul journey Spare parts available anytime, anywhere in Nigeria My candid opinion. Have a nice day. 1 Like |
Car Talk / Re: Dilemma Issue Please Assit My People Camry/ Corolla 2005 by Bakersfield: 10:49am On Jun 26, 2016 |
Papilolo007: From experience as a Toyota camry owner, please go for 2005 Corolla, you will not regret that decision. Camry big daddy has its good side and bad side. But on overall rating between the two, Corolla comes first in all. My 2kobo for you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: AMCON To Takeover Ben Murray-Bruce Companies by Bakersfield: 9:53am On Jun 23, 2016 |
sammhi: You run away from the FACTS and FIGURES, and start preaching sentiments. Is BMB not owing Union Bank up to 11b naira of shareholders and depositors fund? I'm sorry to say that your thoughts and submission stinks. Haba 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Left Me, I Feel A Bit Suicidal by Bakersfield: 8:36am On Jun 06, 2016 |
jahsharon:Gbammm I feel your pains and agony, but life is too short to allow yourself bugged down with your wife exit. Please be strong. Move on and let positive thinking be your watchword. There are millions of honest ladies out there, I will advise to go out and explore. The Lord is your strength. |
Autos / Re: Help To Choose, Nissan Primera 1998 Model OR Golf 3 by Bakersfield: 8:13am On Mar 30, 2016 |
Expecting more diverse opinion. |
Autos / Re: Help To Choose, Nissan Primera 1998 Model OR Golf 3 by Bakersfield: 8:12am On Mar 30, 2016 |
bisi16: Good submission.Thanks |
Autos / Re: Help To Choose, Nissan Primera 1998 Model OR Golf 3 by Bakersfield: 5:58am On Mar 29, 2016 |
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Autos / Re: Help To Choose, Nissan Primera 1998 Model OR Golf 3 by Bakersfield: 5:57am On Mar 29, 2016 |
kulobyno: Thanks, really appreciate. |
Autos / Help To Choose, Nissan Primera 1998 Model OR Golf 3 by Bakersfield: 7:07pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Please help to choose between Nissan Primera 1998 model or Golf 3. Really confused to make a choice between the two cars. Thanks |
Car Talk / Re: Cost Of Replacing The Nissan Primera 1998 Model Complete Engine by Bakersfield: 6:52pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
GAZZUZZ: Thanks |
Car Talk / Nissan Primera Vs Golf 3 #### Let's Discuss by Bakersfield: 4:36pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Good day Nairalanders, let's discuss the merits and demerits of the Nissan Primera 1998 model vs Golf 3 . Choose one between the above mentioned cars and state the reason why you opt for the choice made. Looking forward to an interesting and educative discussions. 1 Like |
Car Talk / Cost Of Replacing The Nissan Primera 1998 Model Complete Engine by Bakersfield: 2:44pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Please I want someone in the house to tell me the price of complete toks engine of Nissan Primera 1998 model manual transmission.Thanks |
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