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Carchoice:
Nonsense really?


I was in OPs shoes as well. Broke up with girlfriend and focused on my life. Few months later I got a job I didn’t go for an interview for.

The moment you stop thinking of someone else all in the name of relationship, your thinking faculty will expand to doing great things for yourself.

Relationships in Nigeria is stressful when you are in love. You’ll totally forget your existence.

you really nail it man
God bless you

MrSensor:
Nonsense

sorry ehn

frubben:
If your kiki is associated to badluck and stagnation our own kiki is better for us .


Thank u

boss try and get the main message am trying to pass through
talking about how fear and procrastination can pull down from achieving your goals and success

donbachi:
Ehn!.u mean am?

I mean am o Lol

donmixc:
joblessness

if you ain't jobless also, why are you on nairaland by this time of the day , you are suppose to be in your office working tirelessly, and why did you allow the topic pushed your finger to open it when you ain't jobless.

you guys should mind what uu say to people because you can't take that also

I FINALLY BROKE UP WITH KIKI (NOT REAL NAME)

Hello babe, it feels so sad to tell you this. Things cannot remain the way they used to be. This is really a tough decision for me but life must go on. Thank you so much for being with me all these years.
Just as I expected, I missed her calls 30 good times. Didn't even respond to the messages she sent via SMS, WhatsApp and messenger. I was done with her. My negligence continued for good six days (sometimes, I even felt I was too hard)
On the seventh day, I got a text from my babe's mum (I love that woman so much - Kai).... Here's what she wrote :
Hello son, hope you're good this morning. Kiki (not real name) told me what happened. Son, my daughter loves you so much. Since she got that text from you, she rarely eat and I bet that happens with her sleep too. I don't know what must have prompted your decision but please for my sake son, forgive her and let things be the way they used to be. Come and take a look at her, she's growing lean son. Talk to you later.
When I finished reading this text, I almost called Kiki but can't explain what held me back. For mumsi to have texted me, it means the whole stuff is telling on Kiki badly. I waited one extra day before replying to kiki's mum..
Hi mum, good morning. I got your text yesterday and I'm sorry not to have replied immediately. As much as it's hard to say, my decision to part ways with Kiki is nonnegotiable . I'm so sorry ma (my heart was racing when I was typing this o)
After I had sent this text, I didn't get any more messages from kiki's mum again. Weeks swiftly turned into months and I became even more stronger with my decision. I had moved on (not with a new babe, with myself)
Exactly a year later, I discovered I had achieved more on my own than when I was busy composing new poems to send to babe's inbox. Like say devil read my mind, she sent a text
Kiki : Hello Val, I see you've moved on and don't even care. Goodbye
Val : Hey! Kiks, yeah I've moved on ooo.. Thanks Sha. Later tinz.
Four years later, I don do plenty things with my life.
Horray, I finally broke up with my babe
I finally broke up with FEAR (Kiki) and didn't allow the soothing words of kiki's mum (Procrastination) to get at me. Lolzzzzzz... See my picture na, I'm so excited.
What is holding you back from achieving your goals and living your best life?
fear and procrastination are your enemies o
BREAK UP WITH YOUR KIKI TODAY.

Shanklee:

you this pikin is trying to know abi lol

iLegendd I swear this guy JoeClef makes a lot of money also and care for beautiful ladies
but he is always serious with business and makes money while he sleeps. Lol if anyone know they know o

iLegendd I think xfire and Emmy9ite
makes lot of money also o

NattySassi:
The guy is very very stupid,,, I don't think he is mature enough, always creating rubbish post

have you read other posts iLegendd has created that can give you good knowledge, try checking it out dude.

love is a beautiful thing indeed but when it goes sour and make you feel down and heart broken won't you rather let it go and focus on career.

Stop acting like your ex was God’s gift to men. She wasn't perfect. If we’re being honest, she probably wasn't even close.

No matter how hard you try not to, it's common to keep having thoughts about your ex-partner. It's normal to be sad that they're gone, or resentful if they hurt you. You might feel like doing nothing but moping around and feeling sorry for yourself. Some studies even suggest that you can be physically harmed by heartbreak.
You're not weak for feeling this way, but it's in your best interests to move on as quickly as possible. Until you do, you'll be robbing yourself of the opportunity to be attractive to women who would be a better fit for you. That's a terrible waste, yet some men still let failed relationships cripple them for years.
my girlfriend and I had a break up in April then we got back in may but the change I expect in her does not even show, the same thing she did that caused our break up still came up again and I decided to let her be. fast forward to this month, I decided to get another girl that was once my friend and told her mind but she said she is not interested.
so I taught to myself why will I want to make my self suffer over this issue of relationship, can't I just forget about it and focus on my career that I wanna build, I had to leave my formal work place due to covid-19 and I decided to start a career in networking and RF engineer by starting as trainee. so I can see myself not improving to the level I want because my mind is just thinking of how to get into a relationship.
no mind me o, this is part of the things I wrote down to be able to move on and focus deep on building this career :
Let's be frank, relationships in our generation just don't last. This is both a gift and a curse, but it is the honest truth. So don't waste your time trying to hold on to something that won't work. Focus on your career as it will prove to last longer than any relationship you will ever experience in your 20s. Build a solid foundation that will last you the rest of your life, people come and go, but your bank account will always be there.

Careers will make you money, your relationship will only waste it.
career will be there in 5 years, your relationship won't.

A title change in your career is actually a good thing.

Your career doesn't talk back.

Your career has limitless potential, while your partner's days are limited.

Loyalty isn't an issue with your career, you never have to worry about your career cheating on you.

You don't have to take your career out to dinner, your career actually takes you out and appreciate you .

anyone with the screen

iLegendd:
As if that's the end. I recorded myself having fun all alone and now I'm watching myself on TV.

It's called self-love and self-fun. Or simply: me myself, and I.

Tip: If you don't have light in your area, kindly relocate to my area and enjoy 24 hours free light from year to year. You'll never pay for light or water bill. The oil companies here have paid for everything. So, pack your load and come over.

F*ck! It's raining...

ilegenddd I swear this kind life dey sweet o
make I come over

anyone that wants your success downfall will be the one to fall at last

ambitiouschap1:
this is your February earning right?

yes

my boss has shown love to as m,any that wants it

u are blessed boss iLegendd

see below this screenshot from KDP
i don't know why this thing hasn't bring out more
but am sure it will bring more earnings by God's grace

last month
flyer

abeg remain the wings for me

enjoy my boss

this has really shifted my thinking to so certain level...
focus and determination does it all

thanks boss

balosammy@gmail.com

Dinaglory:
Stop text messages please as I will not reply to text.

Send me a direct message via WhatsApp or email.

Thanks for your understanding in advance.

pls your email address

stop joor
this is not real

and that may 4 ehn
some girls will Bleep the hell outta guys
close up since 2months ago

fulaniHERDSman:

Useless User Guide Manual for fvck girls that won't add any financial etc values but rather erode precious values from your life.
Thread sounds more like "HOW TO SUCCESSFULLY WORK INTO A NAIJA GIRL'S LIFE WRECKING TRAP" to me.

[i][/i]you dont have to chat up all those wrecked life naija girls, look for the ones that can add value to your life and probably bring connections that will help you in one way or the other.

NockMedia:
You made sense. Women don't want to feel like they are being interrogated. Some guys will just slide into a lady's DM and start asking her "jamb questions".

But the truth is, there are some ladies that will still snub you no matter how smooth you think you are.

The only time a lady wouldn't snub a guy is if he requested for her account number.

like this is another topic o, some wont reply immediately, they will go over to view the guy's timeline or picture.

you are doing well sir

lefulefu:
some guys wil send a chat message to a girl thus like this...ow far or hi
na maybe an hour later the girl go reply and during those 60 minutes they still be hooked on their phone waiting for her reply

shebi some will even reply you in an hour time...some will not even reply you at all or they will block or unfriend you immediately
no mind boda wey mumu


you are doing good sir

realokopi:
Nice write up.

thanks sire

SangoOlukosoOba:
Why do I have a feeling that this write-up was composed by one midnight Newspaper.

Anyways, The write up is good

I am even thinking of sending sango to you for having for having a bad feelings of what you aint sure of sir.
just playing around...thanks sir

Dear Men oo,

Have you ever wondered why sleep mode has been activated on your "SHOTS”, whenever you slide into a lady's Dm ?

Have you ever felt what the hell does she feel like?

Have you ever judged her arrogant, because she never replied you?

Now, you should read this.

Before you slide into anyone's "Dm" or shoot your shots, there's need for "clarity".
I mean, why do I want to chat her up?.
Trust me, this will help you intiate a healthy conservation.

How do you expect a lady whom, you have never spoken to reply you, when all you have been sending is "Hi, Ov far, Sup, Xup etc?". And the funniest part is, you have chosen to be the father of Hiiiiiiii.

No doubt, Courtesy demands a "Hi or Hello" for a chat after which you shoot your shots.
Example,

Hi Kendra,

"Trust you're doing great this morning.
I checked your profile, and I must say,
you'll make a good friend.
Do have a pleasant day".

I'm sure a "reasonable" lady, regardless her busy schedule, will find time to reply you.

A Week Later

Hello friend,

Trust you had a splendid weekend?
How's is life generally?....

No lady will ignore anyone who slides into her "Dm" in this reasonable order.

In some cases, after the first chat, the lady might have gone to check your profile, and she likes the personality your wall portrays, She's already looking forward to chat with you again. You have gotten her attention already.

So, when next she sees your message, she replies immediately.

Friendship is the basis for any form of relationship. It takes a process. Let the lady at least trust you, to an extent. At the long run, she will be the one using "endearing" words for you.

Why? Because she's getting use to you already.

Some of these lady's have a lot on their minds and are so intentional in the pursuit of their careers amidst other things and wouldn't have the time to spare for "mushy" chats.

I have had someone ask me have you eaten? And I asked her, do you intend sending me food ? And the next thing she blocked me. Who cares?

Dear men, How do you feel when your "ex" bugs you so much. Even when you've made it known it's over?.

Just so you know, that's the same way a lady feels when you become a "pest" with absolutely nothing to offer!

Some of you even tag any lady who refuses to reply your mushy chat "arrogant, rude" and you conclude that's the reason why she's still single in her late 30's.

You say she's being selective while she was much younger. That she has lost her prospective spouse and has "slim" chances of getting none.

Like are you serious?

So, all because a lady has decided to live by the knowledge of who she is, and not by the standard of none other?

To my Amiable 30's,

Being in your 30's isn't a crime whatsoever, it doesn't give slim chances of settling for less.

Gracias !

iLegendd:
Came to peep to see if I should do it now or later.

still waiting brs