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... Later she said she didn't know how to do the sending
stuff on the phone that I should leave the cooking I
wanted to do and come send the app to her phone
which I sharply replied her that I am busy!

She immediately asked for what I wanted to do and I
said I want to cook rice. She was against that! Now
before I proceed. I told her yesterday that I'm going to
pay someone a visit the next day and I may spend the
weekend there.

And the rice that just finished today was the rice I
bought for #2150 when one of my younger brothers and
his friend were planning to visit me sometimes ago.
I continue:

She said don't cook the rice let's cook indomie. Me that
doesn’t like indomie much coupled with yester night’s
hunger plus this morning's hard labour. I insisted I will
cook rice.

I would've even grudgingly managed the indomie had it
been that she'd cooked it b4 I finish the Bush cutting.
She didn't. So I just washed the rice then poured it into
the pot on fire. She was angry that I shunned her on the
request to send an application at the detriment of my
own health/stomach.

That was only my perception. She just came to me in
the kitchen few minutes later and angrily said " U are
cooking that rice being the last because u know u will not be
at home tomorrow so that only me will face the hunger, well,
u know what that is called, selfishness "

I laughed within myself. And I was still planning out of
my foolishness of over caring attitude to buy small rice
for the house from my pocket before going to where i
told her i will be going to so that she will have
something to eat before i return and before we will get
our pay.

When she said what she said, I was tired and hungry
and also felt like it's not every statement of ladies one
should respond to especially when they are angry.
So I kept moot!

Please, among the two of us who is selfish?
She was reserving the last food for herself and starving
me, and not even making the efforts to cover it up by
quickly cooking the indomie before I finished the hard
labour of cutting grasses.

So I ate the rice and when I was ready for the place we
were going to I called her and she said I should go that
she was not ready for the program which she would’ve,
on a normal day she will ask me to wait for her, so I
went.

While coming from the place I bought another small
quantity of rice hoping her statement of me being
selfish was just a slip of tongue, She got home before
me and I met beans on the fire. She wasn't there when I
dropped the rice in the kitchen. The beans got burnt and
it was the odour that made me went to the kitchen....

... came and all the grasses in the
compound of the house began to grow.

Let me quickly narrate the story to you.

The summary is that I began the clearing of the
compound here on one Saturday and finished it on
Thursday of the following week!

That part of the works in this house was one of d
reasons I allowed her into this house. There is no much
food in the house today and that was one of the causes
of d disagreement.

Food shortage has always been our problem in the
house that two or at least one week to the time we will
collect our peanut salary food items will have finished
that I will always need to spend extra money before
we'll get money to contribute.

Like this month now, I dropped #7,000 for food. She did
the buying and I consider it a bad habit for her to come
back from the market and I begin to scrutinize all she
bought.

So I usually leave her with everything. Soup finished last
week. I had to drop additional #500 for another soup on
Monday when we couldn't bear it again. Rice totally
finished today. I also finished the clearing of bush in the
compound today.

I worked so much yesterday and all I ate was small rice
and D spagg that she cooked with it. In fact that rice
was cooked the night before.

Now after I ate that rice yesterday by 3pm, I was so
tired. Around 6:30pm my neighbour went out that I even
asked her b4 she told me she was going out probably to
look for network.

She didn't return until like 8:30 to 9pm and I was so tired
because of the work i did, that I found it difficult to walk
down to the kitchen to cook.

I den decided to drink gari. This morning again I worked
so much to ensure that I finished the work of d Bush
clearing.

And there was also a program we must compulsorily
attend today. I finished the cutting around 8:15am.

And it's a usual thing that she goes out without eating,
she mostly eat when she comes back from that
particular program.

But with the hard labour I did coupled with the fact that
I didn't eat much yesterday despite the job, I couldn't do
that with her. And I just quickly went to the kitchen and
picked the last quantity of rice to cook for us to
manage.

She also came out and was asking me she wanted to
collect one application like that from my phone....

Received this message in my email on Thursday 28th
May, 2015. A nd according to the sender he needs advice
from every reader...

I am a working class part-time student in a polytechnic
situated in a remote area of one of the states in Nigeria
who earns nothing more than #20,000(twenty thousand
naira only) monthly.

I was lucky to find a very beautiful house whose owner
was a relative and was just concerned with having
someone who will be taking care of the house.

The house is very good to behold with big compound
filled with bushes. The landlord who happened to be a
relative of mine stays in the city and only comes home
occasionally.

He handed over the house to me and I kept leaving in a
four (4) bedroom flat.

Later on, the job of the house became quiet much for
only me to cope with and I decided to beg my relative
who is the landlord to allow me bring one more person
with me so that we can easily keep the house clean.
The job of the house includes cutting of grasses,
mopping of the big sitting room and also cooking in the
house.

The landlord after series of plea accepted that I should
bring just one more person with me that he doesn’t
want too much people especially students who will
scatter the house for him since he doesn’t need their
money.

I then purposed in my mind to find a lady who will be
able to help me in the house and not guy who could
easily turn something else overnight.
I even thought about the cost effect of living with a lady
than a guy which one of my friends concluded that I can
still cope at a minimal cost per month since the lady is
not my girlfriend.

Luckily for me I found a lady so beautiful, smart and
intelligent who is also from my tribe and brought her
into the house. She is also working, receiving almost the
same peanut like mine but couldn't get an apartment.
With first impression we kept moving on with each other
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uchebest2006:
first son hv unique things behind them.....they deserve respect.

ofcos!!! I think u r the first born, u might not know the feeling... This z beyond respect i swear

I remembered how i use to feel whenever my dad was talking and my sister(the firstborn) will be putting jara which will increase the tempo of my dad's annoyance while all he will be saying will be making someone to feel dejected, useless. And at times it is not what my dad was saying that will get me annoyed but the jara my sister will be adding.

Did the first born of your home do the same to you? What was/is the feeling like?



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The Revenue Mobilization Allocation and Fiscal Commission has announced on their website the

amount President Muhammudu Buhari and vice- president, Yemi Osinbajo, will be earning annually
during their four years in office.

Buhari and Osinbajo will earn annual basic salaries of N3, 514, 705 and N3, 031, 572.50 respectively.

Apart from salaries, the president is entitled to allowances like; Hardship, 50 per cent of the basic salary – N1, 757, 350.50; consistency – 250 per cent, N8, 786, 762.50.

Other regular allowances that will be provided by government and not paid for includes; motor vehicle
fueling and maintenance, special assistant, personal assistant, domestic staff, entertainment, utilities, security, Newspapers and periodicals, accommodation,
furniture, and duty tour allowance (per night) as well as medical allowances, which are also to be provided as requested.

The president and his vice are not paid furniture allowance as they are already provided for, while
allowances on travels will be on demand President Buhari will take home N1, 171,568.33 each month and N14, 058, 820.00 yearly if all the allowances are added up, while Osinbajo will receive N1, 010, 524.17 monthly and N12, 126,290.00 annually.

Also, Buhari’s severance gratuity is valued at N10, 544, 115, which is 300 per cent of basic. The retired general is reported to be entitled to a leave allowance of N351, 470. 50, (10 per cent of basic salary) and an optional motor vehicle loan of N14, 058, 820, at 400 per cent to be repaid before the expiration of the president’s tenure.

Mr. Osinbajo will also get allowances that are provided for Buhari and his hardship, consistency, severance gratuity and leave allowance are set at N1, 515, 786.25; N7, 578, 931.25; N9, 094, 717.50 and N303, 157.25
respectively.

The professor will also receive a motor vehicle loan at 400 per cent of his basic salary which is N12, 126, 290; also to be repaid at the expiration of his tenure.

The salaries and allowances are drawn from the Consolidated Revenue Fund and fixed by the RMAFC in 2007, Premium Times reports.

Meanwhile, the Kaduna State Governor, Nasir El-Rufai, on Friday, May 29, stated that, he would reduce his own salary and that of his deputy, Mr Barnabas Bala, by 50% until the economic situation in the state improve.

Should Buhari and Osinbajo follow suit?





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Please this is a discussion and your comment can help
someone.

I have heard so many things/excuses from many
women as per what they want in a man or what a man
must have before a yes can be said.

Let's talk, you are a woman too, what did you want from
a man or what must he have before you can say the
YES he is dying to get? Or what did your man possess
or did before you said the Yes to him?


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Your response is highly appreciated

The Nigerian Army has dismissed 290 soldiers for allegedly refusing to fight the Boko Haram insurgents. Human rights lawyer and Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN), Femi Falana disclosed this Thursday.

According to him, “I have just confirmed that a total of 290 soldiers were dismissed yesterday by the authorities of the Nigerian Army. The letters of dismissal were distributed in Jos, Plateau State and Ibadan, Oyo State. Before the dismissal, the soldiers were subjected to orderly room trial.

“Even though they pleaded not guilty to the charges of cowardice and failure to fight the Boko Haram sect, the dismissed soldiers were not tried by any court-martial in line with the provisions of the Armed Forces Act. It would be recalled that the Nigerian Army also sacked another batch of 200 soldiers in similar circumstances in December last year.”

Falana added that “apart from the deliberate refusal of the military authorities to respect the fundamental right of the dismissed soldiers to fair hearing guaranteed by the Constitution, the punishment meted out to them cannot be justified since the Federal Government failed to equip the armed forces at the material time. Indeed, the belated onslaught launched against the satanic Boko Haram sect by the Nigerian Army has been attributed to the military hardware recently acquired by the government.

“As the soldiers are ill-equipped to handle the weapons the military authorities have admitted that ‘military instructors’ have been engaged from South Africa to train them.

“In the light of the foregoing, the authorities of the Nigerian Army should annul the illegal letters and recall the dismissed soldiers without any delay. In the alternative, a programme should be designed for the rehabilitation of the dismissed soldiers. Otherwise, many of them may be driven to criminality since they had been given military training at the expense of the nation.”



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A Federal High Court in Lagos, on Thursday, dismissed the suit filed by some disaffected subscribers challenging the recent 20 per cent increase in subscription rates of MultiChoice’s DStv platform. The subscribers, Osasuyi Adebayo and Oluyinka Oyeniji, both lawyers, had filed the class action suit on behalf of themselves and other DStv subscribers in the country.

The plaintiffs had sought an order of the court restraining MultiChoice from effecting the new rates, which began on April 1, 2015. But in his ruling, Justice Chukwujeku Aneke upheld the preliminary objection filed by MultiChoice and described the suit an abuse of court process. The judge rejected the plaintiff’s argument that MultiChoice did not deserve to be given right of audience, having failed to abide by an earlier ex parte order of the court restraining the company from implementing the rates.

Justice Aneke said the court was bound to entertain arguments from all parties before it, notwithstanding the alleged violation of the court order. The court also ruled that the suit disclosed no reasonable cause of action, given that the plaintiffs were not obliged to remain MultiChoice subscribers on account of the hike in subscription rates.

Justice Aneke also upheld MultiChoice’s argument that the suit failed to comply with mandatory provisions of Sections 97 and 98 of the Sherrifs and Civil Processes Act, which stipulate that a writ to be served outside jurisdiction must be concurrently issued. The second defendant in the suit, the Nigerian Broadcasting Commission (NBC), based in Abuja, was said to have been served without compliance with the provisions of law.

The plaintiffs, through their lawyer, Yemi Salma, had urged the court to discountenance such argument, as Section 19 of the Federal High Court Act, clearly defines the jurisdiction of the court to be one within Nigeria.

Salma also urged the court not to punish any irregularity in the issuance of the writ on the plaintiffs, as such emanated from the court, stating that such irregularity could be corrected by the court in doing substantial justice. But the judge rejected the argument of the plaintiffs and upheld the objection. He was also reticent on an argument by the plaintiffs that the objection should be considered an attempt by the defendant to get the suit dismissed without filing any process to the substantive issues, something that has been abolished in the rules of court.

In the instant suit, MultiChoice only filed preliminary objection, and did not file any process against the substantive suit.

Earlier in the proceedings, the judge had rejected attempt by human rights lawyer, Ebun-Olu Adegboruwa, to opt out of the suit. Adegboruwa had filed an application to be joined as a co-plaintiff, but later sought to opt out. Justice Aneke said he was persuaded by a Supreme Court decision, which stated that once an objection is raised challenging jurisdiction, the court was duty-bound to first determine the objection before entertaining any other application.

According to the suit, the plaintiffs had sought an order of the court compelling the NBC to regulate the activities of MultiChoice so as to prevent what they described as arbitrary increase in subscription rates.

They specifically urged the court to impress it on NBC to be alive to its statutory responsibility by ensuring that MultiChoice is compelled to implement the pay-per-view scheme in Nigeria, whereby subscribers would only pay for programmes they watched, as was being done in other parts of the world where MultiChoice operates.

But MultiChoice, through its lawyer, Moyosore Onigbanjo, argued that the plaintiffs had no cause of action, as a court did not have the power to regulate the price of services that a business was offering to its customers.

The company further contended that neither the government nor the court could regulate prices in Nigeria, being a country that operates a free market economy. The company pointed out that under its conditions or terms of agreement, especially Clauses 40 and 41, it was at liberty to, from time to time, change the fees payable by subscribers for the services being offered by the company.


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A French bartender has received a suspended jail sentence after being convicted of manslaughter for

serving a man 56 shots during a drinking contest which lead to his death.

Bartender Gilles Crepin, 47, admitted he had made a mistake by displaying the shots record on a
noticeboard as he received a four month suspended sentence by a local court on Wednesday.

Mr Crepin has also been banned from working in a bar for a year, and his lawyer has said he will appeal the ruling.

Renaud Prudhomme, 56, broke the shots record at the bar called Starter in the central French town of
Clermont-Ferrand.

He had spent the evening with his daughter and friends who helped him home, but the emergency
services had to be called and Mr Prudhomme died in hospital the following day.

“It’s a decision guided by emotion and the unconscious desire to set an example,” said Renaud Portejoie, Mr Crepin’s lawyer, who had called for
the case to be thrown out.

Portejoie said his client bore no responsibility and that it was the man’s daughter who had pushed him to break the record. In addition he cited existing respiratory and alcohol abuse problems.

“We can’t ask every customer who buys alcohol to present their medical certificates,” he said.

Antoine Portal, a lawyer for Prudhomme’s daughter, said his client was not at the bar at the
time of the competition and that she approved of the year-long ban on Crepin’s future work as a bartender.

“My client is relieved by this decision.

“We want to remind some professionals that it is illegal to serve alcohol to clients who are in an advanced state of inebriation.”


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You ask your barber to give you a nice cut and suddenly nature calls and this transpire ..... What will you do?




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"Rape is about violence not sex, if a person hits you with a spade you wouldn't call it gardening." -Viceroy Bandersnatch


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But be warned, some men are better cook than many ladies irrespective of the above

Some men are as bad as this when it comes to cooking matter...




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Criticism of the write-up is allowed but getting to the right person(those with the same thought) is my motive behind posting it here... Everyone should know the role they play for a relationship or marriage to last

Someone told me that "a woman cannot change a man
because she loves him, but a man can change himself
because he loves her."

This may be true and false at the same time...

But do you know that if he doesn't know what you want
from him he may not change?

And by showing him what you want, what are you
doing?
You are changing him alread!

You can't change a man in the sense that a man that
really loves a woman will definitely want to do what the
woman wants so as to always be favoured by her.

In a case whereby the woman doesn't like some of the
behaviours of the man, the man might change because
the happiness he wants from the woman has to do with
him adjusting some of the characters that is not in line
with the desires of the woman.

What i have said above will only work when a man is
just about approaching a woman to declare to her his
intentions.

Definitely, someone whose some or all of his characters
are not good knows, so, for you to win a particular
woman whose way of life isn't in agreement with yours
you have to adjust.

Many men out there will be ready to change quickly
because they want a woman, but after the woman
agrees will the man retain that good habit he portrayed
when he was still proposing?

He can only retain those characters for a while, but
because whatever you borrow you have to return it, your
own real behaviors will start roaring its ugly head, this is
why you should be yourself when you want to be with a
woman for a very long time.

When you pretend you will definitely unknowingly show
your real colour one day. If the woman gives you a Yes,
good for you, and if it is a No, good for you at the same
time.

One thing i want you to know is that no matter how bad
a man or woman may be, there is a man or woman for
every man or woman. You will never be happy if you
pretend when you are dealing with a woman, so also a
woman, you don't need to pretend to your possible
man.

When you are open and you let him or her know who
you are from the beginning then your problem is solved.
This is for him or her to know where to touch so as to
get the best of you.

A woman can change a man and a man can also change
a woman.

Courtship is meant for knowing each other and making
each other to be compatible.

During this period the two intending couple are to make
themselves open for correction because marriage is not
something you can just venture into without proper
compatibility.

There are so many ways a woman can change a man
without being rude or harsh about it. In a real
relationship, a woman has power over the man so also
does the man have power over the woman but it takes
wisdom to utilize the power.

When you say a woman cannot change a man or vise
versa then there is no need for courtship.

Before marriage, you have to know yourselves and
blend yourselves to your taste and it is the result of this
blending that you reap in your marriage life. You have to
show yourselves some things you don't want in your
partner and the possible lasting solution.

Nobody is perfect but there is still personal perfection
which you gain as a result of your influence on
someone.... Read on




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I don't know how it happened but someone forwarded it
to olufamous.com and we thought it wise to share this
with you guys:

DIVORCED COUPLE RE-UNITED

Brethren, please join me to thank God for bringing back
this couple together again. When I first heard
that this powerful man of God and his wife were
divorced, it broke my heart, and I knew that something
was wrong somewhere, for a servant of God to divorce
his wife.

However, this is an example of what God can do.
When all hope was lost, and people were running their
mouth, then God did what he alone can do,
destroying the works of the devil that was operating in
this family and brought them back together again, to
show that God does not condone or tolerate the divorce of his children.

Remember, the devil does not take it lightly with any
true and serious child of God who wants to do God's
will. He wants to do everything possible to destroy their
lives, but no matter what happens, God will give victory
at last.

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, may God continue to
strengthen and use you mightily for his kingdom in the
mighty name of Jesus. All glory to God





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This lady is rich, i mean extremely rich, will you go for
her cause she is seriously looking for a handsome,
caring and God fearing man to spend the rest of her life
with. The man's financial status doesn't matter at all
(winks)...




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" I was at a restaurant this morning ,
sittin beside some girls .... They were three in number , and u
know girls ,they start gisting...

Then one said " my friend , there was this bobo o ... U know
the last time i travelled nah, hmm na this bobo pay my
transport fee from Lagos to Osun state #she burst into
laughter# , the guy mugu no be small, as a sharp girl nw , i
start discussin with him , flirtin with him ...

"Mayb thats what got into his head o, he den ask for my
number which i gave after he don pay for my fare , he said
dont worry ... Hw much is ur fee , and he paid"

Guys when are we gonna start learning that these girls
think we are fools, like we don't know what we are
doing...

But do they need to be treated like animals before they
know what's up?


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