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Godditex:
I agree with you bro! If people see me and my Queen together they would imagine all sorts of things am enjoying without knowing am dating a BORE. Why is it like this?

you know some girls are brought up that way. They won't try nd communicate either romantically or any level with you unless u bring the topic up and even when the topic is up mehn they will always find a way to make it over sharply... Well some girls are 100/100 in being conservative but not boring while some can be boring but outspoken try and figure out which is the girl Problem..but incase its both boredom nd everytin then u are in land of.........intelligent person should fill the Gap... But there are ways u can make tinz interesting with such girls though

ademi87:
tunda fire ur cheap mum for u dragging my mom to dis issue...I dnt av any sista nd my mum got married wen women value dere diginity rather dan women of nowadays who gives dere body out to men on financial terms....I might not av prerogative to judge anybody but I bliv I av d right to xpress my own opinion which might not count anyways coz its my perception, so why my mom Tori olorunit really shows u r not frm a gud home or ur mum raised u dis way....aaaah haaaa.. IYA ADE na hin u drag come nairaland con dey use as an example?? U get mind?? U no even fear...e pain me enta bone marrow ooo

Bro I didn't insult your Mother- I was only giving or perhaps letting you know the extent of womanhood.. And thank God u insulted my Mum back-so its all good- u showed how ur Mum taught u to respond to situation like this by doing the same... Thank u nd sorry---Mabinu

sosiqdude:
Above me is dead smelling chicken/ the same as her mama/
And if you and ya mama claims your fundamental/ I visit your life with hammer/

DRY---

priscaoge:
Simple, don't add a girl without her consent,but if u did without her consent then tell her d truth how u got it What's d big deal

If after telling her d truth How u got it and She still deletes u,Free her

Seconded

Wisdytech:
The number five (5) guys rocks!

u fall in?

ademi87:
Mtscheeewu maybe u were reffering to UK babes sha. y cnt u save ursef d stress nd buy dem #1500 recharge card or take dem to TFC nd cinema... but if u r lukn for tushed ones just get a nyc car...I knw dey cnt resist dat,aℓℓ of dem will want to be d one sitting in dat front seat.#material pple.

Nice but same goes to ur mum nd Sisters sha o,

There is this bundle of untold joy and hope that the Creator
wraps up in every little child. He seems to be saying every time
He lets us have a child; take, raise, love and support, protect and
defend and do right by her or him. Every time a child comes
beaming that ignorant smile or wailing that doubting tear, they
seem to ask: will you do right by me?
This question has lingered for a period of eon in my mind, the
question: Have we done right to the Chibok girls? Have we loved,
supported, protected and defended them? Each one of them is
like my sister’s little spring of hope to their parents- full of life,
brand new prospects and amazing promises. Yet, I can’t help
but conclude that as long as we have moved on, not only have
we failed these beautiful daughters of Chibok, we have also
violated the sacred memories of their mothers; their rights to
treasure and nurture all the hopes and promises that come with
motherhood. That is exactly what we do each time our leaders
parade their odious abandon towards the plight of these
promising children.
I watched the United Nations address of President Goodluck
Jonathan. He said, among other things, that the girls had been
gone for “over three months”. It took the unwashed memory of
Hala Gorani, a CNN correspondent, to remind the world,
Nigerians and especially our President that our Chibok sisters
have actually been gone for over five months.
It is so easy to forget, it is so easy to raise our heads and
embrace each new day with renewed vitality, forgetting the
anguish of those who will never return, forgetting the terrible
pain of mothers who will never hold their kids again, of fathers
who are lost in the doubt of the miserable gloom hanging over
their daughters.
But is it really easy to forget? Can we easily forget these victims
of our collective omission and dereliction of duty as a nation?
Does your heart tick every time you wake in the ambient cool of
your room to remember that these girls perhaps didn’t get a
quarter of the sleep you just had? Does your soul nudge when
you want to lay your head to remember that these girls
wouldn’t remember the friendly comfort of a blanket? Or, is
your conscience simply numbed?
Have we earned the right to forget? There is a reason victims of
man-made tragedies seek closure. The assurance that comes
with knowing that those who armed you or inflicted your pain
have been dealt a mortal blow and that the state has exerted the
same measure of pain upon them in the belief that others like
them will be dissuaded from joining the fray. This is what
lawyers call deterrence. Yet, the families of these girls can
neither have solace nor closure- their daughters have neither
been found nor their violators punished. So long as Boko Haram
boys still loom large, striking at will, invisibly-invincible, like
turtle ninjas, we cannot arrogate to ourselves the right to forget.
As long as our military keeps ‘killing’ Abubakar Shekau everyday,
while we all keep counting and hoping that they kill him at least
the ninth time, like the proverbial cat with nine lives, we cannot
forget or abandon this terror dance orchestrated by the endless
Boko Haram tune. And it stills beats me that our
consciencelessness has even dipped to a “lower low”. How can
anyone attempt to sell us the dummy that “Shekau” has been
killed? Please, and please! When Osama bin-Laden died, the US
government didn’t have to release photos or go to the extent of
cooking stories to sell the point. Americans simply felt it. When
Shekau is truly dead, the Nigerian Army will no longer need the
services of a “photo-shopper”, we will simply feel it. Somehow
we will know that he’s has been killed.
So a few days ago, when October 1 came upon us- our usual
time to roll out drums and songs and fly our colours- I just
simply didn’t feel any conviction that this year’s was worth
celebrating. This is my opinion and I am unapologetic about it. I
am not a pessimist and I know there are a few areas where we
have excelled, like the curtailing and containment of Ebola.
However I believe that deeply ingrained in the meaning of
‘independence’ are synonyms like ‘freedom’ and ‘liberty’. It is
therefore a sad irony that we had the shameful audacity to even
think of marking this year’s independence when our “girls” still
wallow in the forest of God-knows-where. Can we truly
celebrate independence when these compatriots are still at the
mercy of these brutally- carnivorous Boko boys. Can we
celebrate independence when over two hundred girls have been
held captive for about six months-denied freedom and liberty?
Our true mark of independence should not just be in ‘green-
white-green’ or in a National Anthem or a lofty Pledge. When
your head aches, your legs don’t just stand up to go to the
village square. When your head aches, your body aches. That is
the grain of our “Ubuntu” philosophy: “I am because we are”. It
is what makes us Africans, the culture buried deep within us
that “we will never leave anyone behind”. It is bad enough that
we failed them in the first place, it is even worse that we are
struggling so hard to numb ourselves to a perennial ‘hang-over’
regarding the whereabouts of these Chibok queens. So, the least
we can do, the very least we can do is to keep their memories
alive, to stay true to the ageless African creed that whoever you
are, so long as you are our kin, we will be your keeper, we will
not abandon you. This is not asking for too much!
Again you leave me no choice President Jonathan, because
indeed after all is said and done, the buck stops on your table. It
is commendable that you are rumoured to have declared that
you will put national interests and unity first before personal
ambition. I believe one very good way of showing this is by
declaring that you will not declare your second term bid until
the Chibok girls are found, brought home and reunited with
their families. You will be surprised at how ingenious your aides
can get when it comes to finding these girls. Their ideas will
literally astound you. The bitter truth is that these girls
“vanished” under your watch and so the responsibility of
ensuring their safe return rests squarely on your shoulders. This
is the solemn responsibility that comes with your office. It
makes you owe the world, Nigerians and very strongly, the
mothers and families of the Chibok girls their safe return.
These children like my niece, came wrapped in a bundle of hope
and love. They looked at their parents at birth and beamed the
“asking smile”: Will Nigeria do right by us? Mr. President, I
believe it is not too late to answer, and our answer can only be
‘yes’ the day we start placing a non-negotiable premium on life,
and it has to be any life for that matter; your child’s, my niece’s
or the Chibok girls’! We must never forget them. No we must not oooooo-

Firstly I did not enjoy your post nbah-- it was so boring and pointless- u created the Problem urself then clean up your Mess- pls don't come with 1 useless thread that seeking views and comment okay? U even lied about pic! OMG- wey the pics?I guess lying is 1 of your innate talent- modfiy your post before I call all my goonz to incur dr wrought on u- Boys are not smiling o

prettythicksme:
OK i don hear

Whatever

dmcdad:
Bros...

u geh mouth

prettythicksme:
and you think i am going to wait for a guy to beat me to coma never!!!

since u enjoy hitting a guy- then u have to make ur self available to enjoy bn hit also- 50/50

tosyne2much:
the bolded gat me laffing.. Lwkmd

lmao too

dmcdad:
My dear, you are misquoting me. I gave that example of my mom to tell you how odd it is for a woman to strike a man. I never implied it's okay for a man to do so. Besides, didn't you read the part where we even went as far as asking my mom to strike back? That's to tell you we never supported that notion. I brought out a lesson from her own perspective, that is if you would see it as one.

Like I stated before, I am very much against a man hitting his wife or girlfriend. I have never and will never subscribe to that irrespective of what must have conspired. My point to you has always been that, it is wrong on both sides. The same way it's wrong for a man to hit a woman, is the same way it's wrong if you flip it. But you made is seem like it is very foolish for a man to hit a woman, and an ordinary thing for a woman to do such(that is what you meant when you said men should walk away when assaulted by women). You never said women should walk away too. You see the sentiment?

oga.

prettythicksme:
I love hitting guys

Try and endure it,if guys beat u nd beat u to COMA!

lilmax:
Feminists where una dey?

kitchen

Nostradamus:
yea bros,it happened in my street..the cool headed guy who's known for his civility just drove away(am sure he was highly embarrassed,it was in the open street)

he walked away?? It was embarrassing but he showed maturity- nice guy

Folarinwazzy:
like i said,i study them before choosing them,and am a good jugde of character,so it's very unlikely for them to behAve incoherently....and even if they annoy me,i'd be the one to apologize...but we won't be friends anymore

Henehen?? Nice then- lovely.....But if

lynpetra:
Hmmm!!Now i get it.A woman shouldn't fight back..God would so angry.Infactt its against t the laws of the land.A woman shouldnt hit her husband,and even if her husband did hit her,she should go to the alter,kneel,take the holy communion with a bloody eye and be a peaceful wife.But not me,not my mother or my only sis.If my dad hits my mom and my retaliates,i will personally carve a stick and place it in her hands.If he wants to die,i personally wud be glad to have his blood on my hands.No man touches a woman!

Pastor and Omo buruku at the same time? Don't let ur Dad see this though

Nostradamus:
I agree that it's not right to hit a lady,but some silly women always capitalize on this and start to provoke...a lady once shouted down a dude and called the young man 'arindi'(slowpoke)for no justifiable reasons because she's sure the guy won't attack her being a plain gentleman

Lolz arindin? That's way too much? A slap can do the trick--lolz

urhoboman:

abii--

captainflash:
mtchew. .go and sleep

arindin--- scoundrel otijooo

Scyllapatron:
indeed? but there is justification for a woman to slap a man in public?
there is justification for a wife to hit her husband with shoe?
there is justification for women to verbally and physically attack a bus conductor?
but no justification for a man to lay a finger??
bunch of hypocrites...

To you now which is the right thing to beat a woman or not to lay hands on them irrespective of the situation!

MrCork:
. .hangon.... wots wrong wit beatin dak skin babe?

Cocky

dmcdad:
Thank you... This has been my point. It is both ways and shouldn't be directed to men alone. Imagine someone saying it's cowardice to slap or hit a woman, buy if a woman does so, then the man should just walk away. You see the sentiment and hypocrisy in this?

It's painful when I see a man beating up the opposite sex. It's something I hate with passion. But for a woman to feel she has the right to do so to a man, it's just not right at all.

Ladies on here should admit that it shouldn't be done to either of the opposite sex. Not frowning so much at men for doing so, but looking at the women with mildness for doing same thing.

right but ur point is based on??

Folarinwazzy:
i swear,dem fit annoy ehn....they will be at fault,and they know they are at fault,still dey will be raining curses on a guy...that's why i am careful when choosing female friends,make yawa no go burst

those 1s u choosed what if they later annoy you? What would u do?

CashdownNG:
okay ... 10 points for length, -9 for content.

congrats man..

kk

tosyne2much:
Bleeping a lady like my 85yr old grandpa can make you lose respect to a lady

bad Man

Tymax:
I am objective. I believe in most of what you wrote.

thanks for the nice gestures

woman’s respect is like virginity: Once you lose it, you’re
basically never getting it back. However, while you were
probably eager to get rid of your V-card, you definitely don’t
want to lose her admiration.
Let me be the first to tell you that it’s not as easy as it seems.
While it goes without saying that certain things pose a risk to
losing a female’s respect — being caught in a lie, cheating, etc. —
there are other less obvious threats that unfortunately happen
to line up with a lot of guys’ innate behaviors and tendencies.
Don’t take your chances. Avoid these habits and you’ll hold on to
your dignity:
Firing too fast
It happens. In fact, it’s an unfortunate but uncontrollable
scenario that struck the men before you and the men before
them. You finished too quickly during sex, and even though it’s
pitch black in the room, you can still see her disappointment.
It’s enough to nearly destroy every shred of masculinity you
have, but don’t let it.
There will be times when the climax occurs a tad quicker than
you wanted it to, but the worst thing in the world you can do is
start apologizing, or worse, feel sorry for yourself. The second
you start making up embarrassing excuses for why it happened,
showing shame or over explaining, she starts to lose respect.
Instead, take her by surprise, turn the tables and do whatever it
takes to make sure that she gets off. She’ll definitely forget all
about the fact that you were once a three-minute man.
Giving up too easily
In your mind, letting a lady “win” every battle is the right way to
go. However, it’s the kiss of death in terms of your self-esteem.
When you constantly “yes” her, give up during every little
altercation and cater to her every whim, she subconsciously
realizes that she has total control.
No woman can respect a man who lets her get away with
everything. Most of us women want to be called out when we’re
being unreasonable or shady.
It’s okay to agree to disagree on something. Differences are what
make relationships more interesting, more dynamic and more
passionate. Moreover, asserting yourself builds confidence,
which is the key to having her look up to you.
Surrendering to jealousy
Jealousy is a funny thing. A total lack of it in any relationship
raises a female’s suspicion that you’re not at all worried about
losing her. However, too much of it makes you come off as
pathetic.
That means you can’t get paranoid any time she’s hanging out
with guy friends or strike up a fight with every guy who smiles in
her direction at a bar. You might be tempted to lose it, but doing
so shows self-doubt and makes you very unattractive.
It’s natural to have a protective instinct, but channel it to prove
how much you care, not how insecure you are.
Loathing your job… and doing nothing about
it
If you lack ambition, you might as well have erectile
dysfunction. No woman is attracted to a guy who constantly
complains about his career.
Obviously, not everyone is fortunate enough to have his or her
dream job, but if you’re too lazy to make a change or at least
aspire to do something different, you’re going to have a tough
time convincing a lady you have any drive or integrity.
It’s also a major turn-off to any female because if you aren’t
passionate enough about something to pursue it, how can you
possibly sustain the spark in a relationship? You don’t necessarily
have to love what you do, but at least have a plan, or a hobby —
anything that excites you.
Flaking out
There are so many uncertainties all around us: Your company
could shut down tomorrow, and your best friend could move
away next week.
Life is full of disappointments and the last thing this planet needs
is men who make more of them. If you say you’re going to call,
do it. If you promised to meet her friends on Friday, be there
even if you’re freaked out about it.
Of course, things will come up occasionally that will shatter your
plans. The more consistent you are, the clearer you can
demonstrate that you’re dependable and a man of your word.
Basically some Nigeria guys are annoying with there grammars too though just saying
(Bonus) 9ja girls will lose respect for you if you are a broke ass nigga.
The point is, a woman needs someone she can count on. So you
want respect? Then for the love of God, just follow throug

Come- How old are you?

Folarinwazzy:
hehe
you are sighted

BAD BOYS

captainflash:
wack kid//i'll tatoo f-u-n on my dick//for fucck you niqqa while i poke f-u-n on ur bitch//you'r a metality ass//you and ur whack bars again//my rhymes hit you harder than train//











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why dropping lines like an illiterate? Small boi 15yrz of age-
Modafucker u better get out of this place! b4 I chop u nd serve u on my plate- Yaraa-