KMTee:
a responsible man would never lay a finger on a woman likewise a well brought up lady would
never slap/hit a man. it's so razzzz

anyone of the 2 gender who hit the opposite sex has lot of background issues, either he/she is from a broken home, had previous bad experience from the other gender and now tries to pass the displacement/aggression to the other or just indisciplined.

we should try as much as possible to avoid violence, the best thing to do atm is to walk out of the situation.
if one person is being hit and walks away (either a man or woman), it shows the level of maturity and advancement of the person and the other party will learn a great lesson from that. he/she might even change from the process.
There is no justification for hitting the opposite sex wether you are male or female.

a friend was slapped by her bf back then in school, the lady held her cheek and just walked out and dat was the end of the affair. the guy still appologises anytime they come across eachother, a matter of about 8yrs back. let's assume the lady retaliated, who knew what could have happened, 2. the guy may not feel remorse each time he sets eyes on the lady as he does presently.

#nuffsaid

Folarinwazzy:


i swear,dem fit annoy ehn....they will be at fault,and they know they are at fault,still dey will be raining curses on a guy...that's why i am careful when choosing female friends,make yawa no go burst

dmcdad:

Thank you... This has been my point. It is both ways and shouldn't be directed to men alone. Imagine someone saying it's cowardice to slap or hit a woman, buy if a woman does so, then the man should just walk away. You see the sentiment and hypocrisy in this?

It's painful when I see a man beating up the opposite sex. It's something I hate with passion. But for a woman to feel she has the right to do so to a man, it's just not right at all.

Ladies on here should admit that it shouldn't be done to either of the opposite sex. Not frowning so much at men for doing so, but looking at the women with mildness for doing same thing.

MrCork:
. .hangon.... wots wrong wit beatin dak skin babe?

Scyllapatron:


indeed? but there is justification for a woman to slap a man in public?
there is justification for a wife to hit her husband with shoe?
there is justification for women to verbally and physically attack a bus conductor?
but no justification for a man to lay a finger??
bunch of hypocrites...

BANGERLEE1:
those 1s u choosed what if they later annoy you? What would u do?

dmcdad
post=26994606:

Cowards hit a woman? And when a woman does same to a man, he shouldn't
retaliate? Which means, the woman would deserve a round-of-applause
right?

If a man that hits a woman is a coward, then a woman that does so to a
man is worse. If a man who hits a woman is a foolish man, then a woman
who does so to a man is far more foolish than anyone can ever imagine.
Let's get something straight here, like i statedarlier on, there is no
justifiable reason whatsoever that would make a man strike his wife or
girlfriend as the case may be. On the flip side, ot is rather unheard of
for a woman to do so to her hubby or whatever. To me, it is more
grievous for a woman to strike a man. Chai! An eye-sour.

Let me tell you what I learnt from my mom... Irrespective of the fact
that my father was the violent type, she never retaliated in any violent
form. It got to a time when we had to ginger her to summon the courage
to retaliate for once, because at a point it was unbearable. But she
never did, why? because it was against her ethics and morals and also
against her Christian belief.

Now my point is, ethics and morality doesn't justify the fact that a man
should or is allowed to hit a woman, but also as much frown is geared
towards the man for doing so, it's even much worse for a woman to do.

Please, stop padding a woman's angle is if to say it's right for a woman
to hit a woman. If it's cowardice to hit a woman, then it's a taboo to
hit a man.

Nostradamus:
I agree that it's not right to hit a lady,but some silly women always capitalize on this and start to provoke...a lady once shouted down a dude and called the young man 'arindi'(slowpoke)for no justifiable reasons because she's sure the guy won't attack her being a plain gentleman

lynpetra:
Hmmm!!Now i get it.A woman shouldn't fight back..God would so angry.Infactt its against t the laws of the land.A woman shouldnt hit her husband,and even if her husband did hit her,she should go to the alter,kneel,take the holy communion with a bloody eye and be a peaceful wife.But not me,not my mother or my only sis.If my dad hits my mom and my retaliates,i will personally carve a stick and place it in her hands.If he wants to die,i personally wud be glad to have his blood on my hands.No man touches a woman!

Folarinwazzy:


like i said,i study them before choosing them,and am a good jugde of character,so it's very unlikely for them to behAve incoherently....and even if they annoy me,i'd be the one to apologize...but we won't be friends anymore

BANGERLEE1:
Lolz arindin? That's way too much? A slap can do the trick--lolz

Nostradamus:
yea bros,it happened in my street..the cool headed guy who's known for his civility just drove away(am sure he was highly embarrassed,it was in the open street)

lynpetra:
Hmmm!!Now i get it.A woman shouldn't fight back..God would so angry.Infactt its against t the laws of the land.A woman shouldnt hit her husband,and even if her husband did hit her,she should go to the alter,kneel,take the holy communion with a bloody eye and be a peaceful wife.But not me,not my mother or my only sis.If my dad hits my mom and my retaliates,i will personally carve a stick and place it in her hands.If he wants to die,i personally wud be glad to have his blood on my hands.No man touches a woman!

BANGERLEE1:
right but ur point is based on??

tosyne2much:
lynpetra, mind you, there's a limit to what everybody can take just that some men take it to the extreme. Even if there's no justification for a man to lay his hand on a lady, also have this at the back of your mind that some ladies stretch your tolerance to the end point under the cover of being a lady.. I was speaking to a friend ystdy and he told me his elder brother had a quarrel with his wife which resulted in a physical combat. I told him that his brother was dumb as he ought to have walked out on her at the scene. He told me his elder brother tried to vacate the room in order not to lose his temperament but this same wife closed the door and frustrated his life out

tosyne2much:
lynpetra, mind you, there's a limit to what everybody can take just that some men take it to the extreme. Even if there's no justification for a man to lay his hand on a lady, also have this at the back of your mind that some ladies stretch your tolerance to the end point under the cover of being a lady.. I was speaking to a friend ystdy and he told me his elder brother had a quarrel with his wife which resulted in a physical combat. I told him that his brother was dumb as he ought to have walked out on her at the scene. He told me his elder brother tried to vacate the room in order not to lose his temperament but this same wife closed the door and frustrated his life out

tosyne2much:
lynpetra, mind you, there's a limit to what everybody can take just that some men take it to the extreme. Even if there's no justification for a man to lay his hand on a lady, also have this at the back of your mind that some ladies stretch your tolerance to the end point under the cover of being a lady.. I was speaking to a friend ystdy and he told me his elder brother had a quarrel with his wife which resulted in a physical combat. I told him that his brother was dumb as he ought to have walked out on her at the scene. He told me his elder brother tried to vacate the room in order not to lose his temperament but this same wife closed the door and frustrated his life out

OliverPin:
my dear don't mind that lynpatra abi watin she say she be. Same ish also happened to my flat mate. His gf locked the door and hid the key. She frustrated the guy sote the guy beat her. I happy ehn no be small . No one supports beating a woman but lynpatra should not say when a lady hits a man the man must walk away. What if na stone she use? Make I walk away? God forbid. I go beat shege comot for your body

OliverPin:
my dear don't mind that lynpatra abi watin she say she be. Same ish also happened to my flat mate. His gf locked the door and hid the key. She frustrated the guy sote the guy beat her. I happy ehn no be small. No one supports beating a woman but lynpatra should not say when a lady hits a man the man must walk away. What if na stone she use? Make I walk away? God forbid. I go beat shege comot for your body

tosyne2much:
you are just so funny my man

dmcdad:

God go cool down bless you broda. That is what I have been saying since the genesis of this thread. You no fit say make man walk away when a woman slap am, but if na the man slap the woman, na coward. That's pure sentiment. How you go say make man no beat woman, but make woman beat man then make the man waka?

@emboldened, you mean say you go beat her sotey Nigeria go come be her like Mozambique?

lynpetra:
That's is still no ground to hit a woman.There are ways to subdue a woman.I learnt that from my brother.If i charge,he picks me up and throws me on the bed and runs out.Simples!Once you are married as a man,listen with one ear,ONLY hear the good things that she is saying!Wo,men nags and there is nothing a many can do about it.aIf you are a man you won't beat your wife!That's y we are women and they are men.Some ..dots will kic,make a fist on a woman!What nonsense!

OliverPin:
LoLz u sef ehn. Although I try as much as possible to reduce parol with girls oh. That's another measure to cure this case. I no dey cross boundary.

tosyne2much:
I get what you are saying.. Havnt lay my hand on any female b4, not even my siblings, aside that, I think a lady can make you beat her no matter your temperamental control . I know what am saying.. If the temptation you cannot withstand can make one drift away from God, then whats the beggie in beating a lady compared to my aforestated illustration?