i feel like crying after i read your post, 04real thanks for hearing me out!, jackal was sooooooooooooooooooo foolish to have said i wrote my sister had 3 abortions!

thanks 04real you feel my pain!!!!!!!!!1

ronke how far?

thanks everyone for your candid advice well, thanks to ronkeD,mamaput and those who share in my pain well, i had the D& C on Monday and am getting much better! i will be resuming back to work on Friday and i have also learned my lesson in a VERY VERY VERY HARD way. my Ex is still begging and our eldest brother arrived to U.k on Saturday to help ressolve the matter

According to jackal, maybe i can sell this true life story to make a film out of it. Now its my past but somehow it still hurt. i have register with an organization called ASSIST ( theyoffer assistance support and self help in surviving trauma) at least with that i have a counselor who feels my pain and who understands me better.
as for my sister, i pray she would live to regret her mistakes!
THANKS!

jackalyou are JUST 21 and you said you left UK 10 yrs ago so that means you would be like 11yrs! so what do you know? a small baby like you!and if you are not senseless you wont write the way you did. i know for sure you are the same with my Ex. so i don't f*********king blame you!

and please if you feel this is a fa-bu or anything then i don't need your candid advice anymore!

st************pid!

jackal or whatever! you don't have to pay anything if the preg is not up to 24wks and moreover if you have a GP he would arrange that through your nearest hospital.

try and ask any one who is more sensible, or may be you just arrived!!!!!!!!!!

alj, i don't care whatever you say, my mummy is late and my daddy can't really do much, when he heard he was so annoyed! all they have to say IS to forget. honestly my sister told me when she had her last d & c and why should i think that it was for my guy? i have never caught them together before! but all I HAVE TO SAY IS MY SISTER HURT ME SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

dauda, sasuos & alj i don't blame all of you, because i know for sure that all of you are birds of the same feathers who can f*********k their girlfriend sister.
i don't blame you, i blame my self for posting this.  ****************

t4cash i don't have to invite them, all i needed from nairalands is just an advice, u know when two or more people encourage u don't feel really down, i don't know any body in this forum the only thing i want is their candid advice. no more no less. having the courage to write all this down is just sharing my pains and making someone to feel me!

lia lia ( never) crying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

sorry for break, i told my sister to see me Monday just for me to hear her out and she told me she had 2 abortions for my guy, that she's madly in love with him, that I ADEBANKE should give them a chance.

i spoke to my Ex last night and i told him to come he said that my sister was the cause that she's responsible for him cheating on me, he said so many things that i almost passed out! am still 2months and 1 week preg now.

now tell me dear readers how will i have a baby for a father who has aborted for my sister?

never!

i so much love my Daddy for so many reasons and also i love my mum too but my daddy is the quite type who get easily fed up and my mummy is the ''owambe'' type so one works for one!

ronkeD, how are you coping with things generally? hope you have resolved the issues of your guyz! well just pray and fast serious about it.God bless you!

NEVER!

t4cash you put some smiles in my lips for the first time after that incident. thank you.

whitelexi you are not serious! what about London boyz?

i have decided to have the meeting with them tomorrow's evening to allow me receive more advice from nairaland's readers. i need ur advice!

OK. i will call them separately and arrange a meeting place for our discussion.

SEUN are u advicing me not to hear both parties out?

my fiance now my ex came this morning and revealed a lot to me! he said my junior sister said many horrible things about me, things that are not real and things that i can never do, he was furious and he said he didn't know when he slept with her, he said he was ashmed of himself. Honestly dear nairaland's am more confused than before! i have called my junior sister to face my ex. is that decision proper. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

all i can do is to cry!

so what am i to do?

thou shall not kill?

reading your advice is the only hope i have, am 2 months gone, i have called my G.P to arrange a D&C or what do you suggest?

its not funny at all, i could not get to work today! its just like a dream. my sister came to my house to beg, i did not let her in,my friends are advising me if i stay by my self at home i might have high blood pressure.

ronke try and be patience, with that you can achieve alot in life!

i don't think its a bad idea! but if the man is reasonable you can go ahead.