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Is it wise to miss out on a perfectly balanced and virtuous woman because she's too active in the blogosphere? what if her hobby is blogging? is that bad too?

there is nothing like a perfectly balanced woman. get off your high horse

oyb:
https://www.gadgetreview.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/logitech_performance_mx.jpg

damn i didn't know logitech made stuff like this. i only know them for their webcams

this man needs to start endorsing viagra sharp sharp.
i want to be like him when i grow up.

chic2pimp:
True sha. Dwight was always the more talented player. The only problem was if he was NBA ready as many saw him as Raw.

the magics and lakers were lucky with the big men they selected or else you could end up with a kwame brown or kendrick perkins

emeka okafor was more of a defensive player from his days at Uconn.   There was a reason dwight howard was drafted ahead of him.  Players like emeka okafor are solid out of college but with limited room for growth.

chiogo:
yoooooooooo, it's hotting up in the bean.
Abeg oo chai

good job, the more miami loses the bigger the chance wade considers chicago

biina:
Dont tell me you are actually looking forward to attending PTA meetings in your 50s

While maturity should be a strong factor, health shoudnt be too far behind, and I think at somewhere 25-35yrs you should have a balance of both.

see this man putting sand sand in another man's garri. she said she wants to have fun jare
carry your philosophical sef waka go

i think ive alreadi told u im not gna engage in a debate??

what kind of scientist am i

im onli bein trained by the best!

go ahead put your faith in soo called carbon dating, tree ring counting
dna comparing
heck im pretty sure there will soon be cctv footage of the big bang
and letters from aliens
kmt

yeye woman. we communicate with aliens using crop circles and hubble telescopes.
your own scientist na aba made.

I've been saying it for 2 seasons now, barring injuries, Tony Allen woulda been an All-Star by now.

pass me the good stuff you are smoking.

H2O2:
You pipu have started.

Bawo the gay-crusader

this man is finding my trouble o. don't make me send shigidi to ur doorsteps.

Deep Sight:
Bawo - i referred specifically to those homosexuals whose orientation is a result of having an excess of opposite s.ex hormones.

i get what u are saying.  i'm not sure i would consider that a disease though. is being an hermaphrodite a disease?

cultey:
Mr. bawo, if you share ancestry with monkey, that is your business, please, don't generalize that your view at all. We don't want your monkey blood line , thank you. Leave our 2,000 year old book for us. Yes, leave it, we like it! You, carry your monkey spirit and go. We don't want or is it by force?

yes its by force. me and you be primate now

ayettymama:
tell me how these theories were observed and tested??

the big bang theory is still a nascent theory. That's what the haydron collider and co are for. to test such collisions on a smaller scale of course

As a scientist i can tell u evolution implies the current man comes from monkeys

no it doesn't, what kind of bootleg scientist are you? i kid

It is actually a theory one man cooked up and is being followed yrs l8tr by those who believe in science!

I guess darwin cooked up the theory while observing plants and other species. Oh yes that makes sense.

it has not been or can neva be proven! tested! or observed!

you are right, even when we have evidence of new plant species evolving or bacteria strains evolving to restrict antibiotics. I guess that's all cooked up by mad scientists.

were u alive millions of yrs ago to knw if the worlds temp work in cycles??

umm that's what tree rings, carbon dating, the study of ice cores etc are for. What kind of scientist again are you?

but bottom line is its all abt beliefs! you either believe in God or mr scientist!

believing in God and following science aren't mutually exclusive. Darwin was a catholic priest i believe.






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Deep Sight:
In the hormonal misbalancing terms that i mentioned, it is incontestably a hormonal disorder and thus perfectly akin to a diesease.

what makes you think homosexuality is an hormonal inbalance? Is being bisexual or asexual an hormonal inbalance too?

MyJoe:
^^^ Ok. I would take back the word, "sufferer". I didn't even note I had used it.

Being born with incomplete, surplus or malformed body parts or organs, such as fingers, is not normal and is almost certainly the result of a disorder that took place in the womb. But, of course, I would not go around shouting "disorder", "disorder", around the individual. But if I was the individual I would recognise I have a disorder and try to find a solution, if possible.

I agree that the procreation argument used by some anti-gay campaigners is a non-starter. I only cited it to show the generally recognised order of nature. I am against all stigmatisation. A lot of people have people with disorders in their families and they learn to accept such people.

I agree with what you are saying.

even Obama no get 607 personal assistants.

lol prayer warriors getting paid for their services. man must wack

ElRazur:
Really? Shame most agree.

The form of democracy practised in that part of the world is possible because of low population. You try organising direct democracy in Nigeria and see if you can pull it off. Let us see how you organise your citizen to vote every month or week on important issue. Let us see how feasible it will be?

As for your last claim. You do realise, there is a distinction between the monarchy and the govt? It is similar to a nation having President and Prime Minster. The people in the House of the Lords are elected, but don't let me stop you.

@Thread Wole Soyinka's observation is wrong. There are ghetto schools in America too isnt? Based on that alone, his assertions are flawed. For the record, the number of home grown terrorist here are in the minorty and not in anywhere the number or manner suggested.

agreed.

ayettymama:
Science itself is a religion

you either belive it or you dont

nothing is proven, its just a bunch of theories pick wat u prefer

i.e humans coming from monkeys, wheres the proof??

yet we do it everyday-its now the basis of biological study

global warming?? i thought millions of yrs ago the world was ice??

so whats the problem?? people religiously recycling due to the words of a scientist

yet people wanna turn deaf ears to the word of God

evolution doesn't tell you humans come from monkeys. we share ancestry with monkeys.
as per global warming, the world temperature work in cycles. 

no science isn't a religion.  Some dude didn't just wake up from his dream to publish the theories of evolution and relativity.  These theories have been tested and observed unlike the 2000 yr old book you hold to heart.

I guess isaac newton told his fellow scientists to believe in calculus or just forget it.

MyJoe:
I think you misapprehend me. From my post above and an earlier post in this thread, I believe it is clear I do not take a pigheaded approach to this subject. Different homosexuals feel differently. If John thinks he has a problem, I would help him find it, if I can. If Okon thinks he is fine, I would accept him as he is.

i agree, it should be a personal choice.  but i doubt homosexuals would want to change who they are if there wasn't a societal stigma to being gay.

Let's face it, Bawo: A man who came into the world without fingers has a disorder. So is a child who is born without the external ge.ni.talia, and so is a hermaphrodite, that is, a child who is is born with both male and female ge.ni.tals. These are different types of congenital disorders. The sufferers do not deserve scorn, but understanding and acceptance. It is quite obvious that nature intended men and women to complement and procreate. A man being attracted to another man is a deviation from the norm. Science has proven that that deviation can be caused by a disorder brought on during embryogenesis. While I share the view of liberals and philanthropists on the need to accept homosexuals an am intolerant of intolerant people, I do not think they can change what are known facts.

why not call it a deviation/variation rather than a disorder. that word has a negative connotation.   And you use the word "sufferers".  Is being born gay a form of suffering? i do not think so nor is someone that is born with six fingers suffering.  Nature intended for men and woman to procreate as a collective but not every individual has to procreate to extend the Gene pool.   Our population is expanding thx to advances in technology and health care so i honestly see no biological negatives to homosexuality.

It is certain that these are physiological and biological disorders and the reverse cannot be argued any more than it can be argued that a man with excess or insufficient insulin in his blood is not suffering from a biological disorder.

lack of insulin leads to diabetes, is being gay comparable to a disease? You guys are on something else

lol, You men are very visual creatures, so just lots of lingerie, roleplaying, alternative vacations, e.t.c. Don't want to go into too many details on NL

hmmm hmmm, wait till your sunday school teacher hears about this

Goodnite o. visits Pa Abekeade to start making preparations for the introduction and engagement he he.
we'd agree to disagree.

Abekeade08:
It does not matter if i have a headache/work project

kai abekeade is a ride or die woman (pun intended)

, I would still submit to him. I realize other women might not be like me or might not even be happy that I am saying this, but this is how I feel.

quick question, do you expect similar submission from your husband.  He must give you intimacy when you are in the mood?

Marriage is not a license for a man to treat me like a sexual object, but the truth is my husband will love me and I will happily be my husband's sexual object as he is will be sexual object. Naija marriages usually last a long time and I have a few tricks up my sleeves to enjoy it as much as possible.

oh oh, can you teach me some tricks too.

Intimacy is not something where you set an appointment to do it, the most exciting part about intimacy is spontaneity, so there will not be anything as despoil in my marriage, it will be my husband wanting me and me being receptive to his advances,

i believe the idea of this thread is when you are not receptive to his advances, can he still force himself on you?  that's despoil IMO. 
intimacy should be mutual and not the man/woman deciding when and where.  don't stop being a cowgirl though 

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=390459.msg5436567#msg5436567 date=1265158712]I dey kampe, Nairaland don begin dey bore me these days. [/quote]i know right, maybe the virgin threads need to come back lol

Abekeade08:
Before 2 people go into a marriage they are usually in love, so I just fail to see how a man that loves his woman can despoil her. Maybe I just think a little differently than other girls, but when I am married and my husband wants to be intimate and I don't want it, it may start out forcefully but as he is my husband, I will submit and enjoy his touch because i love him.

what if you have an headache or have something else to do (like a work project) would you submit to your husband and just spread wide open?

I mean is marriage a license for a man to treat you as a sexual object? you seem to have the love conquers all philosophy.

mama-gee - how market now

Abekeade08:
I am sure a lot of women will not share my view, however I am of the mind that a man cannot ra*pe his wife.

When a man is in the mood, it is the duty of the wife to sate her husband whether she is in the mood or not and vice versa. If i were married and my husband is not in the mood, I would hold him down and ride on like a cowgirl, at the end of the day, we will both be enjoying it. I would rather my husband take what he wants from me, than going outside to look for another woman. I am not sure how other women feel about this, but this is my own view.

I thought rape is when someone says no but is still forced to have sex? sexual abuse does happen in marriages.
and applauds on riding like a cowgirl he he.

Abekeade08:
Well since you don't live in NYC, I am afraid you won't be privy to my soca whine rendition, but believe me, its hot to death

na lie jare. we don't believe you, you need more people. 
nice pic by the way.

Abekeade08:
Soca Whine rendition ehn, don't ask for things you can't handle ooh Mr Bawomolo.

kai all these talk and no action. i want my money back

verycute:
I am in Lagos and very happy that all the streets are getting more churchs rather than brotels.

yeah that's a true sign of development. a church on every block.

I personally would pay closer attention to the theory that it is a congenital disorder which may, in some, be amenable to drugs, psychotherapy or hypnotism and not be in others.

why do you see the need for homosexuality to have a cure? if homosexuals are fine with who they are, then let them be.

I personally do not see it as a disorder. A deviation from the norm but hey,

agathamari:
if you want to and you are willing to deal with the stigma some people have then why not

tattoo - have em
"normal piercings" - have em
"exotic piercings" - have em
multi colored hair - had it
long hair/shaved head - had it

"the difference between tattooed people and non tattooed people is tattooed people never ask you why you dont have tattoos"

interesting, what do you mean by "exotic" piercings. tell me more
what kind of tattoos do you have by the way.

I respect you for being willing to express your self.

saints got this. case closed.