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Elpieda:
@Ranosky 2009

There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting a man who is intellectually comp[atible with her, Thats actually a must but that intellectual compatibility should not be measured in monetary terms, which is what a lot of naija women want, Yes there must be some level of financial independence but why must the onus always fall on the guy, What ever happened to sharing resource mutuallyBoth the man and the woman contributing and reducing financial burden, rather than place it all on the man and expect to keep receiving from the man all the time??

the same women that think going half on a date is demeaning. oh oh

there is only 2 options:
A) accept that your man is the way he is and pretend it never happens for the benefit of "being married".

this is the option most naija women take. word to my uncle's wife

zebra543:
you took the words right out of my mouth!

@bawo ok go to howard and tell a couple of black students you prefer white women because you have a different standard from them. . . . good luck with that!

why should i go to howard to announce my preference in women and where did you get the impression i prefer white women?

Is it that hard to accept that a black man could actually prefer white/asian/latina women to black women?
Is it a must a black artist must have black women shaking their bom bom in his videos?

tpiah:
^^i think you have a mighty crush on taio cruz.

true talk, this seems to be personal
talk true zebra

joanana:
You guys are so funny!!!!!!!! Dont quote me wrong. Yes its a fact that most women r materialistic also same as not all men are the same. So brother not all women go after money n posh cars,, Yeah my kind of guy must be futuristic. Not all men will remain poor forever, it depends on his mindset ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

so you indeed expect financial security at some point in the relationship? that's understandable.

FBS:
All the above is over the bar.  

What you are saying is that a girl who works in a bank will only marry someone from her own "class"?

Class is in the mind. Forget that one.

but people tend to marry within their social status.   It may be in the mind but it's highly influential.

Ovation magazine wouldn't exist if we weren't bothered or attracted to high class

If this was to be the case, Most women would be marrying their Houseboys and maiguards security ko Askari ni.

To the women who say money doesnt matter, How many of them would date an Okada rider or a newpaper vendor who knows how to toast

this thread go start riot o lol

He said he has since reconciled with all the major political gladiators in Anambra, and they were all in his village to condole with him during the funeral.

aww how seeet. sike

guys it's just medical marijuana for her glaucoma 

[quote author=omo~fat link=topic=486167.msg6457979#msg6457979 date=1280238199]She is a major threat to society. Some poor kids will die in the slums of mexico and the US cuz of her actions.[/quote]why not just legalize weed

you make the assumption he would have gotten playing time in Man U

that punk was a bust for the bears. chasing all these celeb women must be sapping away his energy

she looks like a teletubby or the koolaid man 

https://www.freewebs.com/jimmygman/KoolAidMan.gif

smh@piggy brown

Gekko:
Damn, thot this discussion was going to be about exposing bread to heat.

lol comedy

mama gee - it's a youth competition

bawo if you didnt understand me i was saying dont use the words standards to describe ones taste in a particular race! simple i dont think i can make it any clearer! #thatisall

If i say i prefer strawberry to chocolate ice cream. does that mean chocolate ice cream is of lower quality?

taio cruz seems to have a preference/standard that differs from us.

Take this. It's from Steve Harveys book:Act like a lady think like a man.

"If a man goes along with an “open relationship” or
he offers it, he’s doing so because you are not in his longterm
plans. He does not see a future with you. Both of
you can stop all this “We wanted some spice in the relationship”
talk. When a man loves you, he’s not trying to
share you with anybody—period. When you find that
guy who’s willing, I will show you the guy who’s not in
love with you. We’re just not cut out that way".

Based on the above i won't have an open relationship

i definitely won't date someone who takes relationship advice from a comedian

THE AMAKA:
[color=#cc00cc]cosigned. [/color]

I'm shocked someone raised in the states like you is actually participating in this ethnic brawl.

https://ihadheard.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Foxy-Brown-At-B.B.-Kings-02.jpg

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=485278.msg6453538#msg6453538 date=1280176153][color=deeppink]Let's see if you have a 250Ibs buffalo as a wife and she asks you to leave the bed.

I would like to see your face when she lifts you and tosses you on the floor. [/color][/quote]I can always make an exception for my buffalo queen 

Separate bedrooms can work depending on the personality on the couple. introverts would probably like the idea

when we eventually make peace, he would be made to sleep on the couch for denying me his presence the other night.

that sleeping on the couch stuff only happens on sit coms.

no woman can put me on the couch, i'd rather sleep with one eye open

His wife will curse him for like 6 months and then take him back after all the bru ha ha

true talk

you guys need a hug

vivaladiva:
bawomolo------just ignore the morons---incapable of thinking for them selves---dont u know that most people on this forum know little more than what their parents and pastors have told them

thank you.

I don't know where all these AIDS and selfish talk came from

ITbomb:
Una dey talk Naija soljaz. What of the 1000 children fathered by youth corpers during their service year as at last documented count (SFH 2009)

he he that's part of the service now

adetoru:
It's sad really,that it sounds like you guys have come  to an end but if you still want a child,you could still adopt on your own.

Adoption is extremely difficult for a single parent.  I doubt that would work out.

I find it shocking how you guys turned this thread into a my ethnic group is holier than yours argument.

It's not that serious

olax44:
@bawolomo and viladiva. i think both of u are crazy. for u to support that silly act, their must be something wrong with u.bcs will smith did it, monique too did it, that made it a good idea. you are all mad.

were your forefathers mad when they practiced polygamy?   

monogamy isn't the only marital system that can exist dummy.

phizman:
u both r not sane, u urself no get pride as a typical 9ja dude 2 dey post dis topic, i'm sure u'll do same when u get married, giving your wife free ticket to bang around, RUBBISH!!!

who knows he could be into the wife swapping thing.

yup from sportin lisbon B team to Arsenal.

that makes sense.

thank you

get your hustle on player

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=481794.msg6443560#msg6443560 date=1279982901]Alot of u here have relatives, friends n associates in government positions n so on who give u money n favours how many of u reject them? Please![/quote]is this really an excuse for daddy GO?

hey they do it so i can do it too

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=483441.msg6444815#msg6444815 date=1280001009]mtchewww, I know that Busayo isnot posting here. As if he's old enough for all this.[/quote]who is busayo?

Just because someone is a father of 4 doesn't mean they are old and shouldn't be going out to enjoy themselves.

Yup a father of four should have fun by getting drunk in a nite club. yeah that makes sense.

I dont know what it is with these white bitches and Nigerian men.

those evil white women rap-ing our men.