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kai even cartoon network go reject this movie.

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his head looks like its about to fall off

why are you calling another man cute hot funmi aloy?

oh lord, what a shocker.

the same woman with songs like ladies first is a lesbian.   i'm flabberwhelmed and overgasted (credit to igodo megodo)

Oba234:
lol@nairalanders throwing bible scriptures. Chineke!!! I didn't even now there were this many bible warriors on Nairaland.

lol abi o.   all these religious people in a messed up country.

the same people who talk about pre-marital sex up and down in the romance section

Condom:
Are you now looking to trivialize the importance of "animal consent", which according to your earlier entry shouldn't be "overlooked"?  I laugh out loud at you Mr. Awomolo. 

How about some consistency?

how does killing an animal compare to a conscientious relationship between two ADULTS?

don't be putting out my government name out there negro

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=492527.msg6537808#msg6537808 date=1281316387]Yea, back in the days. . . . like I said, no man in my generation would expect that of me.[/quote]but that was submissiveness then, are you saying it wasn't healthy? 

i hope you now realize a submissive relationship may or may not be healthy, it depends on the individuals involved.  i doubt women like hilary clinton or michelle obama are submissive.

Let's be serious. This is the 21st century, no man wants his wife to prostrate for him while bringing his meal. And how is that submissiveness?

you would be surprised. that was considered submissiveness back in the day too.

you didn't answer my other questions.

ikeke idi - would you do stuff like prostrate for your husband to greet him or before giving him a plate of food?

buzugee:
i plead the fifth

just don't mess with a woman whose daddy has a shotgun

Submit to him, pump up his ego, make him feel good and I assure you he'll do anything to please you. And in turn he'll try to satisfy you and find ways of making you content.

what assurance? you mean the same country where having mistresses and side pieces is a regular occurrence?

how has submissiveness benefited you in your relationships, just wondering.

buzugee:
how can 'voluntary imprisonment' be sweet ? at least if you rob a bank you will be paroled after like 10 years in prison even some murderers are paroled after 25 years. marriage is 'life without parole'

lol your own too much. you probably would abscond on your wedding day.

Mcleo007:
Marriage is a mutual union, exclusive to two pple. Submissiveness in marriage is healthy, bt should never be misunderstood for subjugation.

is polygamy exclusive to two people?

who decides when submission is healthy?

Condom:
These sentimental arguments can easily be torn to shreds.

If "animal consent" is so important, why don't we require animals to consent to or sign a death agreement before killing them for food.

are you comparing being a carnivore to getting married?
what would we not hear.

davidylan:
Sodomy laws include bestiality . . . are you also calling against this blatant "discrimination" against my right to marry my dog? Sodomy laws also included MouthAction . . . any heterosexual couples complaining of being prosecuted under this law?

sodomy laws were hardly ever used to prosecute heterosexual couples and were intended to target homosexual couples.   This can't be denied.

how does your dog consent to this marriage, can he sign a marriage certificate?

you people seem to lack coherence when it comes to issues like this.

what "people"

That's nonsense . . . when its 2025 we'll change the law to accomodate peadophiles too?

the slippery slope theory doesn't work here.   the idea that we would go into a state of anarchy just because homosexuals get to marry is laughable.

Topics like this just show how barbaric and insecure many Nigerian men are. It's amazing!

you would be insecure too if your position of power is being challenge. how do you feel whites felt about the civil rights movements.

massa isnt massa anymore.

the reason invisible feels women shouldn't be educated is the same reason whites felt blacks shouldn't be literate then. education liberates the mind.

i don't see what's so horrible about what theblessed is saying. i typically disagree with her religious stance but what's so wrong about a man putting on the kettle when he comes home earlier than his wife.

it's about time we break out of this stereotypical gender roles.

polosco:
God did not need to consult man or woman when He set marriage in motion, and He put man as the head and woman as the body, can a man's head start struggling with his body that it is the head and not the body? Let us pay a visit back to the Bible and learn the reasons for marriage and how it is to be run so we can all have a blessed unions. The issue of equality should not even arise in a properly set up marriage, let's not allow modernism destroy our homes. God help us all!!!!!!!!!!

i wonder where all these religious talk go when nigerian men are out cheating about.

you guys typically forget this christian god frowns on adultery.

@chy-baby, herein lies the contradiction, how can a woman with very high degrees and too much knowledge respect anyone, talk less of his husband that she sees his 'kini' every night? The high pursuit of knowledge by women is a problem on its own, in the end the kids suffer, the society gets more misfits growing up and yet things are not better than they were when our grannies lived.

wow i hope you don't have any daughters.

For me, I cannot bear to see a woman I love to the extent of calling her my wife to soil her pretty hands working

lol, she could soil pretty hands cooking you know or do you plan to get an house maid

and what do you think about omar thornton smoking those 8 racists ? for or againt his actions ?

those racists were asking for it but how and why was this mofo stealing beer from a depot?

Sagamite:
^^^ Another serious tithe payer.

but we somehow end up on the most corrupt countries list and can't hold credible elections, have men/women engaging in extra-marital affairs left and right. but hey, we still got the bible though.

what instructors manual?

who is the instructor and what manual did he/she/it right?

davidylan:
hmm parallels like what exactly? So if you're gay you get to sit at the back of the bus or go to second-rate schools or be unable to vote or refused citizenship . . . ?

I hope you folks understand that "jim crow" laws went far beyond marriage.

ever heard of sodomy laws? it's absurd to say homosexuals weren't discriminated against in US history.  this is not to compare their suffering with that of blacks or jews but they are a targeted community.

who said jim crow laws was only intended to curb interracial marriage?

davidylan:
who got to define marriage in 1745?

the absurdity of folks who think that statements like this prove they are "progressive" blows my mind.

this is 2010, such definitions can be changed and aren't fixed.

i won't even respond to your personal taunts. not once have i referred to myself as a progressive.

coolier:
No, but then why walk alone? 

some people are loners. example is lawrence of arabia.

not married doesn't mean you are alone either, the people could just be gay

so what caste does she belong to now? he he

Condom:
That marriage is a union between man and wife and the state/federal government extends benefits to them for reasons emanating from that definition. Clearly, interracial union does not breach that definition, does it? Once the government recognized this, the Jim Crow laws were annulled.

Now, defining marriage as a union between lovers is clearly sentimental nonsense which gay rights crusaders and their proponents like to trump.

don't sidestep the question, does the definition of marriage include polygamy? who gets to define marriage. heterosexuals?

buzugee:
nigerian men will always SUBMIT their abunna to a different woman even if their wives SUBMIT to them  
i crack myself up

lol abi o. a lot of women must be submitting themselves to the same man

why anyone would compare a wife-husband relationship to an employer-employee relationship is just amazing.

twindude:
i'd say the whole thing boils down to respect from both parties be it in a relationship or marriage or else. the ability to listen, ask for suggestions and take her opinions seriously would be a great asset with nigerian men, instead of being a control freak, feeling deprived or egoccentric when she gives suggestions. u laugh 2geda, play2geda and even at times make her feel totaly in control, women love the feeling. When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of options they’ve been presented with. This is called option limitation. now, i understand some chicks might have a problem with authority; obviously thinking their about rights, equality bla, bla, bla bu if u truely luv some1 u would want to make each other happy no matter what. u win some and lose some without any feeling of deprivation. thaz a happy and fufilled life

that makes sense. both partners should show each other some respect and not have an ego clash.

i find it hilarious that even with the submission that you guys are preaching, nigerian men still find a way to cheat and engage in polygamous relationships.

that submission isn't exactly keeping nigerian men content. people should do what's best for their relationship and not worry about some silly gender roles or what the bible states.

you know what ? just ignore all this talk about submission and subordination. all of this is irrelevant when it comes to a happy union. you got to remember one thing, it is one thing to have a happy union based on respect and it is another thing to have a happy union based on camaraderie.  the happy union based on respect will eventually get stifling. the one based on camaraderie will always prosper.
all i am saying is that look for a person whom you are both on each others level, you laugh together, you are like buddys, you joke together, you act silly together, you are best friends, you are like 2 peas in a pod, you feel extremely comfortable in each others company CUZ once you have that ? issues like 'submission' will never arise.  you dont have to submit to any human being. if you feel like you have to submit to your husband, then you are in the wrong marriage.

bows down for this post.   

I am most likely going to be older than you, smarter than you and more rational than you. Have some respect.

this seems like a condescending attitude to take into a marriage saga. take it easy o

Condom:
Interracial couples are not attempting to redefine the institution of marriage.

they were, jim crow laws back then boldly stated marriages couldn't exist between interracial couples.  i know it's hard for people to associate the gay rights movement and the civil rights movement but they both have parallel. 

by the way, who defined the institution of marriage. is polygamy against the institution of marriage?

Fair enough let's wait patiently to see what the supreme court will decide.

that a state ban on gay marriage is unconstitutional?

And how about them Lakers? 

preparing to give up to title to the bulls abi 

cold:
Yep,i'd agree with the fact that TI went beyond looks to tie the knot.Just hope it lasts though 

they have been living as a couple without some silly paper. they were basically common wife and husband by law.

ThoniaSlim:
Nope! I got a man.

you got a man but do you have an american based nigerian business man 
watch positive k - i got a man then get back to bawo

oyb:
u think u dey talk 2 uju 

i like to catch em young before they become demanding like ujuoan 

by the way - i see you have started turning your kids to eficos/nerds like you