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snowdrops:
apparently will smith and his misses pratice this and it seems to have been working for them

monique and her husband do too. lots of Nigerian marriages are basically open anyway.

Open relationships don't work for most people, especially where one partner is the one who really wants it because his/her low morals and uncontrollable urges.

the OP and his partner could be one of the few it works for. If they want to give it a try, let them do it.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=483441.msg6444244#msg6444244 date=1279992569]Look he is not merely looking for a new way to spice up his relationship. He is getting carried away by other ladies n wants 2 fulfil his fantasies wit dem albeit witout recrimination from his girl n she comes back wit me too I go do my own. Tell me dat is a health way to do tins?![/quote]well at least there is honesty and communication in the relationship. would it be better if the OP got a mistress without her knowing?

WhiteOne:
What is hard about it? Mutter do not be so greedly!
If Baba made a good choice, i would not might one or two of us at home.
Less cooking, less cleaning, less taking care of everything for me.
Of course he must provide very well for me and specially for my kids.

And all of us woman must do something usefull for the success of the family.
Going to work in an office, running your own business success and very smart or beeing the one, who teach or take care of all our children.
Being lazy or making Big Madam, who only goes shopping, drive a new car and make mouth, i will kick you out and i do not care, if you have a child for us or not! A woman must earn and maintain her space within the family.

And baba must be smart, too. He must service and provide for every one.

Just like communism, it sounds so beautiful and ideal on paper then human nature sets in.

lol@kicking a married woman out these day and age.

^^

OP could be a calabar man

zebra543:
Of course not bawo it's not about the fact he never has black women in his video or that he isn't quick to rant on about his heritage, it's the reasons he gave! Craig David had to do the exact same thing because they believed him having Only White love interests will make his audience diverse, that is understandable taio went onto say he has never spotted an attractive black woman at his castings if that doesn't sound disrespectful to you as a black person I must say it's sounds very disrespectful to me, a White man will never get away with saying that talkles of a black man about a White woman! Taio is a coconut no doubt about that but even coconuts don't have to be rascist. It's an illusion and an effect of the media on society to assume ones whue counterparts are superior to or more attractive another. Him taking on his mothers name just goes on to prove the struggle he's having with identifyin himself as a black African man! Don't assume I'm just upset because he doesn't talk about Nigeria I don't talk about Nigeria myself and I won't randomly mention it if I don't have to; it's a different. Chamillionaire adebayor and Sade adu arent heavily familiar with thier Nigerian sides but they are not ashamed of it neither do they alienate themselves from it!

but he is half and half though and not fully black African. doesn't he call himself Black british or something?

As for not finding an attractive black woman in castings, maybe he has different standards from us.

honesty is the best policies, some people go for swingers parties to relief the boredom that often creeps into a relationship that has been goin on for a long time
i commend u for being faithful to your gal friend for 5 years---it isnt easy and i can understand that u prob need a lil soming somin to spice up your sex life
u and your gal frnd sound like very open minded people and i think d fact the both of u can have this sort of conversation indicatates that your very honest and comfortable in each others company.  contrary to wat most pips have said here with regards to u having an open relationship, i certainly  think it is better than sneaking around behind your patner
u would be surprised that your relationship would have a longer life span than all them mother f-u-cker that like to pretend and ignore the basic truth about life
every thing has consequences and both of u sld think carefully about having this open relationship, it could bring u guys closer together or old insecurities might surface

i think both of u r prob experimental when it comes to s3x, which is absolutely fabulous------to make this open tingy more intimate---u cld share your sexual exploits with each other---ie when your in bed n your getting all hot and bovered u can ask her to tell u how it was effing the other guy and vice versa---the more explicit the betterrrrr
good luck to u and your gal----and remember to be alway honest with each other

this could work

You both agreeing to an open relationship really means you can exit the relationship at any time.

and how do you know this. he wants to engage in three-somes or swinging relationship but that doesn't mean the relationship is over.

while the night guards on duty jumped the fence to take cover inside the building.

real recognize real

it's a sign of inferiority complex that black women are actually worried they aren't portrayed as sexual objects in a music video. Is that really a privilege you want to fight for?

It's not a must tayo acknowledges his nigerian heritage especially for someone raised in the UK all his life. same goes for sade adu and co.

it's a miracle working god

seanet02:
GOD WILL PUNISH sanusi and his Northern colleagues

what about his southern colleagues

dont make me start with you mama-gee

mystikal:
This Guy money no dey finish.

Shortly after coming under fire for buying his 16-year-old son a £245,000 Maybach, music mogul Sean 'Diddy' Combs has done it again. This time by donating his £130,000 Lamborghini Gallardo to teen singing sensation Justin Bieber.

Beiber, 16, passed his driving test only three months ago. Diddy, a close friend of Beiber's, promised him the Lamborghini when he turned 16 and, despite Beiber's doubts, he came up with the goods.

The singer was spotted taking his new white Lamborghini for a spin in Los Angeles, with 20-year-old rapper friend Sean Kingston on board.

Beiber is also good friends with fellow R&B artist Usher, who bought him a Range Rover on his 16th birthday on March 1.

http://uk.cars.yahoo.com/22072010/36/diddy-gives-justin-bieber-200-000-lamborghini-0.html

smh@this agbaya leeching on the young teen star.

^^^

posting outside romance and celebrity section is not by force o

should you be punished for calling kaita a mallam?

lol they wan lynch am

I am surprised that the water in my well has turned to fuel. It is a wonder that I can’t explain but I swear to God I didn’t know how it happened,” Okonkwo said

count your blessings one by one 

god turned water into wine so why cant he turn water into oil.
you guys should stop with the tribalism. criminals can be found in all ethnic group. no group has a monopoly on kidnapping, poll rigging etc.

Nayah:
BAWOMOLO I totally disagree with you on that, there are very few bold beautiful women and Flaviana just rocks with that it means she'got a true beauty!!! she's one of the best African Miss ever, don't forget she's was rated on top 10 in 2008 World beauty pageant!

and alex wek is a super model.   that doesn't mean squat to me.
she isn't rocking that low cut look well IMO

I know you got some finer french speaking sisters to post 

the bald headed look isn't working for that tanzanian babe. we need to work on an afro asap.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=443065.msg6430704#msg6430704 date=1279798675]U saw the game?
I think the stars of the match were Cleverley, Obertan and Welbeck.
They were outstanding![/quote]i saw the game o, i try to support my MLS people . teams like tottenham and Man U coming to play here is good for the game in the US.

welbeck did well in the games against celtic and philadelphia. he knows how to get in the right position

who do not have better options than kaita and mikel.
definitely not ayila

^^

i see nothing

During our screening, we discovered that there was a scene that had to do with homosexuality and as such it was not okay for every member of the public to watch it

ummm duh. only folks who want to watch it would get the damn ticket to see it.

is not as if they are showing it for free in the market square.

pastor eat da poo poo is an internet legend

the exhibition game against the philadelphia soul was exciting.

that wellbeck (sp) guy can play.

[quote author=Aloy_Emeka link=topic=481794.msg6426500#msg6426500 date=1279735588]By their fruits we shall know them. Are you saying that Akingbola did not earn any honest penny in his career as a superb banker?. The honest ones he sent to God and it is not in your place to ask questions. The ways of God are different from the ways of man.[/quote]how do you separate money earned by honest or dishonest means? the redeem church would be wise to dissociate itself from 40-40 club fugitive pastor

right click and copy image location. that's the link

https://img10.hostingpics.net/pics/565178naoo.jpg

how good is the joseph akpala guy. I guess he made the team because of obasi's injury.

[quote author=Aloy_Emeka link=topic=481794.msg6426449#msg6426449 date=1279734950]Yes, spiritual transfer. It will confuse mortals like you and you may never understand it unless you are in the spirit.[/quote]sure Angel Gabriel must be running an intergalactic money laundering ring.

[quote author=jesus. link=topic=481794.msg6426372#msg6426372 date=1279734166]No. But the judgement of Afa is not in the hands of omo ile kewu[/quote]so if the alfa kills someone, no one can judge him except allah right?

[quote author=Aloy_Emeka link=topic=481794.msg6426409#msg6426409 date=1279734487]God is not obliged to anybody including you and He doesn't give receipts.[/quote]how did the money get to God.
earthly currency belongs to ceasar right or is God dealing in naira dollar and pounds now?

hobat4cash:
but judging a man of God is going too far. Judgement is d lord's. Which

does a man of God have immunity from earthly judgment? Who decides who is really a man of God?