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Romance › Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by bayocute(m): 8:48pm On Mar 30, 2024

Chenzee:
What do you still like about your ex?

Age differences ruin it. She's absolutely a sweet soul

Romance › Did She Truly Love Me? I Need Your Advice Guys by bayocute(op): 1:14am On Jun 24, 2023

My name is Bayonle David.

I have noticed any time I tell my gf to see me,l; her coming alone will cost me 16k cos she will say she can't come unkempt. I've severally inconvenient myself for her ontop my 50k salary. If unfortunately something else came up that will leave me with no change at hand to get stuffs when she comes around. She won't bother to show up again or communicate with me how we can manage the situation. She will rather not come again and yet insists I send her the money I already promised.
What do you think I should do guys cos I'm getting frustrated already like I'm being used.

These has happened numerous times and was able to convinced me that this isn't a mere an innocent act but a deliberate act from her end.

I need an advice on what to do abeg

TV/Movies › Re: Top Ten Nollywood Movies Of 2019 by bayocute(m): 3:30pm On Dec 31, 2019

Gold statue is da bomb mehn. The suspense is just too much.

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Romance › Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by bayocute(op): 6:32pm On Dec 29, 2019

Atlanticfire:
Did you just say that you can not cheat on your babe by dating the other babe that you are fucking?

Is fucking a babe under friends with benefit status not cheating on your babe?

I can not advice you since your reasoning has k- leg

Good evening, I never take the relationship serious since I knew we're just playing game and having fun. This is different from me lying and chopping another girl in disguise of a relationship. I hope you understand the "cheating" I meant from my own perspective.

Romance › We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by bayocute(op): 6:11pm On Dec 29, 2019

Good evening Nairalanders.
I actually met this babe around July this year. i initially asked her out but she turned down my proposal cos she is/was in a serious relationship. Then, we proceeded been a good friend and everything is cool. I stayed in Lagos while she school in Ibadan. We've never seen each other oo, we met on Facebook. We became so close that she literally tells me everything about her relationship etc. I traveled to Ibadan to do somethings and I called her. She requested for us to see. When I got there, we talked and we actually had sex. After the sex, I asked if we can start dating but she said NO, that she loves her bf. I stayed for 2 weeks at Ibadan and we had sex throughout my stay. She told me we should maintain it that way. She came to Lagos around Sept and she visited me, something happened, no strings attached as she said.
Now, I have a girl I am dating and I love her real hard. I can't joke with her, I met her around Sept also.
This my friend (the girl) now called me around DEC 9 around 6pm that she wanted to talk to me about something serious. I even thought it was money.. She told me she fell in love with me and she can't control it anymore. That she wanted a real relationship. That I'm a very gentleman,I'm very caring and always getting in touch with her. ( I do all this things to make the bound stronger so as not to lose the spot of the friends with benefits ish)
And me, I can't do that cos she's going to become a burden and I can't hurt my babe. I love her badly.
I don't know what to do as I have zero feelings for this girl. And again, I can't cheat on my babe by dating her too.
Pls, your advice is welcome. Thank you all!

Romance › Re: I'm Confused. I Need A Serious Advice In My Relationship by bayocute(op): 2:11pm On Oct 10, 2019

Eyeness:
keep your options open

I am doing that already. But I don't want to give the other girl hope cos I don't know if she would probably choose me over those guys later.

Romance › Re: I'm Confused. I Need A Serious Advice In My Relationship by bayocute(op): 2:07pm On Oct 10, 2019

Rosay15:
I can’t stop laughing
The girl don use all of unah head.

Nothing wey person no go see for Nairaland

I don't see it that way though. I thought she told me out of honesty and sincerity.

Romance › I'm Confused. I Need A Serious Advice In My Relationship by bayocute(op): 12:45pm On Oct 10, 2019*

I met this girl last month. We exchanged numbers and since then we became close. I started to have feelings for her. After couples of weeks to when we met, I profess my love to her. She told me she would get back to me. We became so close that we're already doing some nasty things even when she his yet to give her response. I got her several gifts, took her out and gave her money even when she never asked for it. The problem is she told me she's a Virgin (I got no problem with this). She told me her ex cheated on her with her friend which led to their breakup but the ex keeps coming back and she can't resist cos she loves him so much. She told me that she loves me too but she can't really say who she love most. So me and the ex should keep competing that she would choose whom to live her entire life with . She told me we're like 4 but she love me and her ex the most.
Please Nairalanders, Should I bank on this Relationship or I should just let go. I love the babe so much that I can even stand no sex before marriage. What am I supposed to do plssss?
Forgive my Blunders plss

Crime › Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by bayocute(op): 9:19am On Sep 24, 2017

There is this gal, we're a very close friends. She tells me almost everything that happens in her relationship. Last week thursday, she came to my house sobbing, she told me she caught her boyfriend with another woman. I felt for her and patted her on her back consolingly. It was late in the night and i told her to leave. She was like i will pass the night here. I wasn't comfortable with that but i let her stay.

I woke in the mid-night saw her crying, then i tried putting her back to sleep, but it happened so fast that we started kissing. I wanted to pull back but she draw me closer. Fast-forward, we had sex.

The next day, she accused me of raping her, telling me that i make used of that opportunity cos she confided in me. Since then, she won't pick my call if i call. I don't know how that resulted to rape seriously. What should i say to her pls nairalanders, cos i don't want to lose being friends with her. Thanks

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Romance › How Do You Want Your Guy To Propose To You by bayocute(op): 9:12am On Aug 16, 2017

Girls; How do you want your guy to propose to you? Guys; How are yhu gonna propose to her?
Lets have fun!!

Romance › Re: This Lady Dm'd A Man 7 Months Ago And He Became The Man Of Her Dreams! by bayocute(m): 11:51pm On Jul 17, 2017

Inanna:
Cute. I love interracial relationships. Might even get into one.

Could it be me? We surely gon' make a perfect couple dear!

Celebrities › Re: Davido Celebrating Cristiano Ronaldo's Gesture: A Big Achievement - Sammyramires by bayocute(m): 12:00pm On Jun 30, 2017

The tweets on twitter is fake jharey.. Wizkid didn't typed that..

Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Wins BET "Best African International Act" Award by bayocute(m): 11:04am On Jun 25, 2017

Wizbaba BABA NLA.. Too much sauce.. Juss love dis dude..

Celebrities › Re: Oge Okoye Celebrates One Million Instagram Followers With Hot Photos by bayocute(m): 4:27pm On Jun 20, 2017

ShawttySoFyne:
Where is the hot photo?

HBD Dear.. Wullnp

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Romance › Re: How My Brokeness Deprived Me Love In My Relationship. by bayocute(op): 3:43pm On Jun 07, 2017

CaraJewel:
?.no.just felt for the op..Datz you

oohkay, thanks jare dear

Romance › Re: How My Brokeness Deprived Me Love In My Relationship. by bayocute(op): 12:43pm On Jun 07, 2017

Raine80:
No my brother being broke did not do this. The person you were with did this. You were trapped by honey and once caught you fed the monster. This is big problem with most men here. If you do not have the money you don't if she wants to be with you regardless of your financial status she will.
That's the true test in a relationship. If you give , you create expections and when that happens you feel obligated. And now here you are. You can't use your break up as a reason to have a vendetta against all women. You learn from your mistakes and make better choices.

Erm... Thanks so much dear .. Sumtyms u bcum more stronger wen u learnt ur lesson in an hard way.. Ur comment jes eradicate sum preconceptions i have abt women.. Thanks so much 4 dis..

Romance › Re: How My Brokeness Deprived Me Love In My Relationship. by bayocute(op): 11:48am On Jun 07, 2017

Fkforyou:
I hope your CGPA is around the region of first class or Strong 2:1, if not I go slap your ears come out from your vice.

And don't come back home asking p-man for pocket money again till you collect that one you gave your girlfriend....

On the hand, Take heart bro. ..And be wiser next time.

I was blindfolded with love bro. I had to do everything 4 her so she will feel contented.. Falling in Love can be so foolish at times.. Thanks 4 d advise.. I'll try work more on myself..

Romance › Re: How My Brokeness Deprived Me Love In My Relationship. by bayocute(op): 11:40am On Jun 07, 2017

sekxy:
don't feel bad ..that's the phase of life...thank God u have learnt ur lessons...just try and invest on urself first before anyother thing...and make sure ur investment on ur next date is worth it...that's the advice I will still give my brothers

please don't retaliate the evil been done to u on another...

Thanks dear.. I reali do appreciate..

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Romance › Re: How My Brokeness Deprived Me Love In My Relationship. by bayocute(op): 11:45pm On Jun 06, 2017

[quote author=CaraJewel post=57266417][/quote]samething happen to you?

Romance › Re: How My Brokeness Deprived Me Love In My Relationship. by bayocute(op): 9:06pm On Jun 06, 2017

iamadonis2:
So many threads on NL on broke guys and relationships... Smh

OP, you're gonna feel the hurt alot because you invested way too much in this relationship. It appears you barely have enough to keep body and soul together. Now, I'm not saying go all tight-fisted on your girl. Nah.

Only give an amount that won't keep you awake all night worrying about the next day's meal. You've learnt a lesson. Dust your a$$ and move ahead. Don't forget in all your relationships going forward:

1. You don't own the girl nor her you
2. You don't owe the girl nor her you
3. Invest in your relationship but do so sparingly (where it's a relationship without prospects e.g marriage or deliberate baby-mama-ism

PS: No point "retaliating" when you hammer. You can be rich and still find love. Love and wealth are NOT mutually exclusive.

Thanks bro.. Ur advise x duly noted sir..

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Romance › Re: How My Brokeness Deprived Me Love In My Relationship. by bayocute(op): 8:35pm On Jun 06, 2017

Afonjashapmouth:
Bottom line wait till you are ready before investing in a lady, you are putting unnecessary things ahead of your career. mend up and be somebody, then many will flock after you.

I'd learn my lesson in an hard way bro.. Thanks so much 4 d piece of advise..

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Romance › Re: How My Brokeness Deprived Me Love In My Relationship. by bayocute(op): 8:34pm On Jun 06, 2017

Afonjashapmouth:
Bottom line wait till you are ready before investing in a lady, you are putting unnecessary things ahead of your career. mend up and be somebody, then many will flock after you.

[b]I'd learn my lesson in an hard way bro.. Thanks so much 4 d piece of advise..

Romance › How My Brokeness Deprived Me Love In My Relationship. by bayocute(op): 8:22pm On Jun 06, 2017

I and my ex gf jes cut ties yesterday evening. I caught her in a pre-intimacy act with anoda guy and i felt sad. I asked her what could have led to this and she gave me sum lame excuses. I satisfied my ex with everytin, bought her Tecno W4 with my handouts and foodstuffs money bcus she said she loves it and want it. Bought her so many tins so she won't luk outsyd. Of recent, she told me she needs to get sum books cost 7,000. I told er dat she knows abt my status. I'm not yet working, i'm still a student, she replied dat she undastand bt d book is more important. I had to borrow d money for her till now, i'm still paying debts. Now, if i'm rich and comfortable and i decided to retaliate, they wuld say men x cruel.. But i've decided to learn my lesson.. I've cried and cried. But d deeds as already bin done.. These is what brokeness have deprived me of.."Feelings, love, trust, respect nd affection". I wished i'd neva met her.. This is my own predicatement..

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Romance › Re: Immediately She Opened Her Legs For Me (photos) by bayocute(m): 1:46am On Jun 06, 2017

Lsofdk:
[color=teal]So much for asslicking… you think this is going to score you a pvssy.
If you wanna slide into her DM, do it like a man not a pvssy.[/color]

cc.. savage finder

Romance › Re: Drama Between Lalasticlala And His Mum.. Must Read!! by bayocute(op): 7:59pm On Jun 04, 2017

lalasticlala:
OP. U r funny. Lol

My mum no get wahala. Na my street people & neighbours de wonder like that. But I no send them.

I just dey wonder nih.. U are reali trying ooO.. I don tok am already sey u no go ban me.. Corn and coconut awaits u 2nyt..

Romance › Re: Drama Between Lalasticlala And His Mum.. Must Read!! by bayocute(op): 7:00pm On Jun 04, 2017

sinaj:
Op ban dey hungry u abi

lala nah mah paddy nah.. He cannot ban me

Romance › Drama Between Lalasticlala And His Mum.. Must Read!! by bayocute(op): 5:14pm On Jun 04, 2017*

Mama lala: My son, i saw segun going to work now putting on suit, but nah laptop u go siddon untop 4rm morning to nite.. Why??

Lala: Mum, i'm working as i sit down here and i'm getting paid..

Mama Lala: Mbanu, my pikin, hope u are not chache, hope u neva join dem yahoo yahoo boy?

Lala: Mama, I be d popular guy called Lalasticlala on NL.. I be supermod with dem fine gals crushing on me..

Mama lala: When u turn lalasticla abi weytin u kal am.. No be Chinedu we name u.. Mbanu, My pikin don join bad gang..

Lala: Mama biko, leave me, i don c CLEVEAGE and SNAKES to put for FB..Make i do my work..

Mama lala: MAKA WHY?? WHO DO DIS TO MY SON??..

Lala no ban me ooo, nah play i dey play oo.. Biko!

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Celebrities › Re: Girl Staring At Richard Mofe-Damijo At The Airport (Photos) by bayocute(m): 4:50pm On Jun 04, 2017

Oildichotomy:
To be honest the young lady is just star-strucked but the biting finger part feels like she is ready to grind the bones out of the oldie. www.nairaland.com/attachments/5437979_dbaq4koxkaavwdiedit_jpeg94ef97c9a46203dd8e2e74d6c3411fc7

Lol, the truth is she's trying to recollect where she has seen that face b4.. I think!

Romance › Re: Can You Marry Your EX??? by bayocute(op): 9:59pm On May 28, 2017

bencarson007:
. Bayo Bayo my gee, my exes fit form army o... Anyways I don change... I be good guy now no ni... Lolllll... I am not happy about it though

Lol.. E good sha.. and for me to get one nw after my ex don leave me they do me strong thing

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