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A mother's love looks beyond any impairment or imperfection in her child(ren)

My dear iceberylin, try and read thru.

iceberylin:
Summary plcc

You will be shocked if you hear the kinda malice some men keep.

lagmostkuit:
Never knew men do keep malice like dis oh!

Chai!

I stumbled on this online and decided to share it with my fellow nairalanders, dunno if there is a thread like this before anyway.

Yesterday, I went to interview a preacher. He came
three hours late to his church, venue of our meeting
and I was a bit angry. But when he explained what
kept him, not only did I forgave him quickly and
learned some lessons, but I decided to share this with
you so that some of us could learn.
Husbands and wives should learn how to settle their
quarrels without delay. I have seen situations where
couples allow simple disagreement to fester for days.
Husband is silently hurting, expecting the wife to
speak to him first. Same for the wife, hurting and
expecting the husband to play the man. The waiting
game leads from one thing to the other. If you are at
this level of matrimony, please read this. You might
have a reason to call your spouse and together take
an oath that “OUR QUARREL WOULD NOT LAST
BEYOND THAT MOMENT.”
The story as told by the reverend: Husband and his
wife (his church members) had a domestic
disagreement one morning. The man said he was was
so bitter about it, claiming his wife knew she was
wrong but refused to apologise. She felt it was a non
issue and the husband should overlook easily. To say
“I am sorry, darling”, to her husband was difficult for
her. So many people are like that. So many wives
take their husbands for granted tooooooooo much.
We are humans o. Blood flows in our veins. Make una
hear well well.
Three days on, malice reigned in the house. The
husband said he must get that “I am sorry.” Wife
cooked, husband refused to eat. Everyday he came
home with food from Tantalizer. He boycotted
matrimonial bed. Husband found new friends in the
children. Same with wife. By the way, the children
were too small to break the ice. I’ve been there
before. Thank God I am wiser now.
On Sunday, last Sunday, they went to church in their
different cars but sat side by side during service,
pretending to be jolly good husband and wife. Fraud
in the house of God! Jibiti ponbele! May God forgive
some husbands and wives. But after service, husband
went home with the children while she waited for
women’s meeting. That day, Satan decided to enter
the crevice they allowed in their home.
The husband was home already. When he
perfunctorily checked his phone, his wife had called
him thrice. He disregarded calling her back. Malice.
The wife drove in some forty minutes later. He saw
Usman opening the gate for her as his phone went on
ringing. He checked it. It was his wife. She was in her
car at the garage already. What is she calling me for?
Foolish and stubborn wife! He said and ignored her
calls. The call went on for a while. He ignored it as he
sat with the TV.
Thirty minutes later, she did not come in. Something
told him to go and check. Is she still in the car? Yes
she must be there. He called Usman, Is madam in the
car? Few minutes later, Usman rushed in. Madam dey
sleep inside the car o. That was when he woke up
and rushed downstairs. Asthma! Could she be having
her usual attack? Could she have forgotten her
inhaler?
He quickly took the inhaler and rushed downstairs.
When he got there, she was almost breathless.
Usman and husband quickly carried her to the back
seat and off, he sped like a bat out of hell, to the clinic
nearby. Madam was confirmed dead!
If he had picked her call early enough, probably she
could have been saved. When you leave domestic
disagreement to fester for too long, it leads to greater
evil. The preacher said husband is weeping mad,
blaming himself…i killed my wife! Only God knows
how many wives, husbands, children have died such
a needless death.
Couples must cultivate one another. No matter how
angry I am with my wife, I, in my office, she, in her
shop….I call her at least three times during the day. I
call even when I have no reason to call. All I could
say is “Where are you?” “Wetin dey?” “Anything for
your boyfriend?” I am not saying this to impress
anybody, but because it is the truth!


May God help us all oo. I'm so guilty of this in my relationships.

Headlamp1:
So are you also giving me an indirect invitation?

Abi? If pointing out a flaw is giving an invitation then you are presently giving me an invitation. Simple logic

Hmmm My answer to your invitation is YES. Lets roll

See ursef?... @ dis yunction I lest my case(in Calabar voice)

Tallesty1:
You think you have a problem?


Read mine.


I really need to see a doctor now to have my wedding ring cut off from my jonny after my mistress found the ring in my trouser pocket and got so mad at me and stuck it on me while I was asleep

I don’t know what’s worse:

1) Having my mistress find out I am married.

2) Explaining to my wife how my wedding ring got on my johnson

3) Or finding out my thing fits through a wedding ring.

this must be a joke man

Airforce1:
Jesus wept

He wept indeed

lmao

iphanyiuma:
Ahhhh they plenty ooo....she like to bleep like its food inface she has bleeped all my friends so what we have now is just FWB...she's smokes like fork!!! Especially when she inhales it and make that whistle sound like an agbero, her brand is star I Also tell her to go for feminine stuff like smirnoff, and when you see her you'll think she's an angel with her cute eyes and big tittiess...and lastly she doesn't moan during sex makes me feel like am bleeping a dude....

Yes nah, living large in a tub

He is already ashamed coz i just said d truth. Now tell me the truth, no1 is listening/reading. Weren't u giving her an invitation indirectly?

Headlamp1:
Hehehe Always say the truth and let the devil be ashamed

These are suppose to be respectable fathers at home

seankay:
These people are clowns...imagine someone's dad in this show of shame

Sai baba

Ur address first so i can rate the cooking. As for preparing it, let's wait for the chefs in the house

Thou shall not lie

tosyne2much:
This thread is not 4me

I have never seen a lady's unclothedness before

As funny as this is, i don't think it is right.

WTF

Lolz, u guys can actually be messing with just 1 babe here. just kidding. But i want to believe guys lie a lot more than babes sha, no intention of derailing oo

iyobs7:
Is she fr Edo state? Seems we are dating same person... Lies a lot and promises to change...

Guy, u get am 4 mind b4? Dear Ireneony don't mind @Headlamp1 he is just saying the opposite, just an indirect invitation. We know guys like him when they talk. Ur guy no go complain sef if he Headlamp1 dey complain

Headlamp1:
But you don't have a good shower body na? Too muscular up above and too thin below. Shower alone abeg!

Hmm...

ivyT:
When he puts a ring on d finger_I will


#TeamNoSexTillMarriage

I never answered it, honeymoon is for newly weds but i was referring to couples that have been married for some time. You now see how i reason?

ireneidiva:
You asked yourself the question and answered it again. You see how you reason?

I still keep asking people this particular question too. What is actually the point in wasting resources over honeymoon when there is nothing new to be practiced btw u guys again, well unless its a born again kinda relationship. Why waste the resources on honeymoon when you can always channel the money into something else to better the marriage? Anyways, it is important for couples to unwind once in a while.

born2fuck: so you bi woman wrapper, many abomination don full nairaland...smh

dat I used my babe name no make me a woman wrapper man...

born2fuck: since dem don born me, anybody wey dey bear BECKY na woman

dat nah my babe name nah

born2fuck: Don't worry, I figure you are back already, I would have help you out even if I will have to carry the Gotv on my head. when it comes to woman, I can do anything because I know benefit will await me someday in bedroom. Even if their customer care are professors, I will go with my dictionary. Just holla me by PM next time you are going. Remember say,I sabbi pidgin to package my grammer too....


Chei, all you tin don dey work? I meant is your channels all working now?

Nd who tell u say I be woman....?

k then

Anuoluwap: wow! Gr8 news. Ill go on wednesdy i'm nt dat close to any of their offices coz i bought it in lagos nd im in Ogun state.

ikechukz: After asking these questions,the only reply you will get is 'kk'

exactly[quote author=James-dman]Too longer and boring to read. most are inpractical in a typical African setting.
Just be urself and the questions we come flowing naturally.[/quote]

How far bruv? Av u being to their office? I just came back now and d decoder is working again now

Anuoluwap: thanx i already registrd my acct on their website d day i bought it. D prob nw is nt abt channel it abt d decoder nt workin at all. Evn remote cant work on it. It shows only blank. D reset button iz nt effective anymre. Wel, im on their fb nd twitter page they ar workin on it.

make we try no mind am, na gotv cause am

Anuoluwap: dat's rather blunt

bros eee, no b my fault nah.....na condition make crayfish bend. I wud like u to do me a favor. Can u go with me to their office? U go dey speak ingrish 4 me or interpret

born2fuck: take this thing to their office abi you dey afraid to speak oyinbo for their office, then speak broken. Shikenah

Yes, it isnt

Svelteb: It's not even showing at all

kayfuture: Hey Hommie,
I am sure †ђe problem has τ̅☺ do with your Adaptor.. Just get a new one which has †ђe same Volts has †ђe spoilt one!

The prob is not wt d adaptor, just tried anoda adaptor wt it nd d story stil remains...xo

Anuoluwap: don't rush in2 any decisions yet, first mak sure u go2 their office they'll put u 2ru or probably run a test on ur dcoder

@Anuoluwap, tnx dearie