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M servin in imo state n I hrd dat my clearance wud be on d 8th.....wud go bk b4 den.

@Lastpage good wrk 4 givin dat guy a piece of ur mind......sum pple can be so heartless n unsympathetic!

M jes shrt of wrds,I really dnt knw where Nigeria is heading 2......jes imagine sumbody's life wrk n struggle reduced 2 nottin. I jes pray D AlMighty see dem tru!

BTw na now police eye open say na their property abi?where were dey wen d people started buildin their houses?......There is really sumtin fishy abt dis demolition.

JayKayMaybachz: Advertisement Proper.....Oya Sharp Guys Should Do The Needful

M nt advertising joor....jes statin d fact,besides those pples pix can really mk one jealous....

Nw m beginin 2 wish I had a bf/hubby 2 tk a pix wit....

Btw y'all av got nyc pix....especially d married couples m lovin ur pix#thumbs up

9cee tips @ op.....btw sum guys wud nt kill sum1 wit laugh.....u guys knw dat a ladies var-je-je is oozin yet u dnt tell buh u continue sleeping with d person n even worse some of still eat it(tryin nt 2 throw up as I write dis),I tire 4 una oooo

Well let's hp as u av all read d op's post u wud change n hlp ur galfwends/female fwends get rid of those bad odour.....no matter hw much we dnt wanna hear it.

Cum 2 tink of it sum gals r nt concious of it

M jes speechless @ d childishness of sum pple....lyk sum1 said if we go by all wat u av listed dat meanz d world is possessed.

Wen jesus said we shud be like chidren,he did nt say 4 us 2 behave childishly buh be simple,pure @ hrt etc....As children wenever we tell our dad abt sum fear eida of sumone or sumtin their reply wud dnt worry if I catch dat tin or person I wud deal with it n we always believed cus we feel our dad is big, strong n unbeatable....dats one of d tinz jesus meant wen He made dat statement buh we humans like 2 complicate tinz so much 4 ourselves....Buh dis dayz our lives is ruled n filled with fear dat we automatically act according 2 it.

D fact dat u don't believe in oda peoples religion or way of service does not mk urz rite or shud I say d rite way.....I bliv der iz an element of truth in every religion jes dat we human r responsible 4 d distortions we find in it.....

All I av 2 say iz we shud let d love n light of God feel us n our lives....den everytin wud be taken care of.....!#And if u lyk disect n attack,dat one concern u I don write finish.

Cute pix....like fada like son

Lol @ fake boobs.....I still dnt knw wat 2 tink abt transgenders,m probably indifferent.

She luks cute as a boy doh....n yea she iz beautiful n one wud neve knw she was a male b4

Yea....really shocking,atleast it shows dey r human n nt d perfect dolls dey seem 2 portray.

Cool looks comfy..... Wud definately love a cinema lyk dat.

Ohraybs: Na so Imo state be oh,ur place even good,Where dey post me was Obodoukwu,one God forsaken village like dat,no banks or ATM in dat village,I had to take a bike to d neighbourin village to withdraw and at times am always seein Bleep ups....Buh all is well sha......Just be calm and be prayerful.....

So I hrd,dat sum villages do not have a bank...na wa o

Seriously,I dnt knw wat d guy iz doin sef 'all na wash'....na only round about him dey break n re-build leave beta tinz.

Coldfeet: Owerri people are very obnoxious and rude! That is them! If dem don tire you abeg kindly re deploy!

Wish I cud.....5 or 6 more months n m done wit imo state!can't wait.

Dis iz nt funny @ all,a friend of mine had 2 travel dwn 2 umuahia 2 withdraw 4 me n sum oda guyz n he was only allowed 2 mk only one withdrawl.....He had 2 withdraw everytin 4rm his account,wen I get home I wud pay him.

I don't stay in dis state n m suppose 2 travel out of dis state latest dis week....if nt 4 him,I wud b stranded wit no cash n no means of getting any..

My experience with dis state iz nuttin 2 write home abt most especially in owerri,it only here I see dat dey treat corpers like trash n wud even want 2 exploit dem jes bcus dey tink dey bin paid very well....yet their said governor does nt pay a dime,.

Nw dis!...#I tire 4 roachas n his pple

Dnt knw u buh wishin u a HML in advance....#Congrats

2s£xy:
Girl, just ride on with that mentality!

Tanx a bunch...wud sure do#Lord Help Me

temi4fash: You welcome..

is it compulsory for u get ti get attracted on d first day to your potential bf before u can date him

Not dat it is compulsory buh atleast there must be sumtin b4 I decide so I dnt end up dating sum1 I don't like....#dat wud b terrible

9cee one @ op....really enjoy ur post.

Btw can u pls write on d anini guy,I hrd abt him 4rm some1 buh it was nt detailed...Tanx

miss2895: especially wen he nt doin it for love jst for lust, its so annoyin...

Tru....I av bin in such situations b4 n I tell u it was nt funny @ all...ofcourse I ended d friendship cus if he truely saw me as a friend he wud nt even tink abt it,talkless of 2 mouth d words.

4rm wat d op has written,d only tin I tink he wants 4rm d gal iz jes sex n nottin more.....it wud best if u leave tinz as dey r n go luk 4 sum1 else 2 hlp satisfy ur cravings.

Cus if u push it,u might end up hurting sum1 or leavin dem angry wit u.

Most gals hate it wen guys dey see as friends stat tryin 2 cross d friend limit,especially wen dey don't see u in dat light....

@Op u wrote dat we cud use potatoe buh u did nt mention d type....is it d sweet or irish potatoe?

#Thankz

May ur soul rest in peace n I pray the Lord grants ur family the fortitude 2 bear d loss.....

temi4fash: madam beau..

I like d fact dat that u av already laid down sum principle for ur self before u get into the dating game.

But wat m surprised abt is not feeling any of ur toasters.. Whats d prob with dem?? Are dai less than wat u wish ur kinda of man shld b or cos dai not following ur friends b4 dating rule..

Again, u said sumtin abt been financially independent which is a very great thing.. But weda u are financially independent or not a guy who wants sex b4 marriage would ask for it weda u r or u not. It doesnt matter u ask him for stuffs or not.. D probabilty is only higher when u do. Dere are guys who are willing to wait although very small.

To friendship b4 dating a lot of guys have been dere b4. One is when u try to b friends with a gal and u dont make ur intentions knwn frm d start dere is a high prob dat u might get friendzoned for life. And no one wants dat.

Lastly, ma advise to is
-ur principle are very great ones but try and b flexible in d sense dat no one is perfect. We just trying to attain dat.

-if u believe in no sex before marriage stick with it.. Ur faoth will work for u but b ready to face lot of challenges cos u goin against d status quo.

- if a guy ask u out, d fact dat he does not av ur desirable qualities at first galance dos not make him not ur dream man, if u want friendship first do tell him if he is urs he will stick around. But dont go friendzoning him.

- believe God and b prayerful

NB: not al relationship are meant to lead to marriage some are just to make us a better person and not b keept, some are just for us to av experience in dealing with human beings cos we complicated..

Tanx 4 ur reply u made sum gud point....

Wat I meant abt nt feelin any of my toasters is dat d likeness n attraction is jes nt der n I dnt wanna force d feelings or date out of pressure...

I knw most guys wud ask 4 sex weda or nt he gives me money or gifts buh being financially independent wud giv me an hedge n I wud av a say unlike wen m overly dependent on him.

Me telling a guy let's b friend first b4 anytin else is lyk sayin'u don't knw me n I dnt knw u dat much,so let's take tinz slow n steady n if @ d long run we lyk wat we see den we can go ahead''...dis is after is has made his intensions of dating me known.

Thanks again 4 takin time 2 reply,u av really helped a lot...#cheers!

ubong560: This ur stinginess with ur pusssy might not land u well, if u like, mark my words. If u think ur pusssy is too precious that u cant giv it to guys to chop for whatsoever reasons left to u, then keep it to urself, better still, cut it, fry or cook it and chop am urself. I dont give a damn! If i may ask, are u a virgin? Even if u are, why 'no sex till marriage tins', after d marriage now, na u go still com back here com complain say ur man is not endowed down there, he cant perform well, he cant make u pregnant etc. Meanwhyl, this is when u would've exploited all the exploitables sexually and otherwise. Am off!

Wow.....did u jes read wat u wrote? N lemme ask u,those dat av 'freely' given u there pussy where r dey in ur life rite nw?Well if any of those issues arises,b sure dat we wud luk 4 solutions n nt mk it public so pple like u can gloat!

carmelion: Hi beau,
There is nothing wrong with you,don't get worked up.If you are not feeling them,there is nothing anyone can do about it.Feelings come from within,it is not forced.

All I can tell you is you should not write all of them off.In as much you are not promising them anything,give one or two of them a chance.By chance I mean,let them hang around.Sometimes when we get close to people,we discover who they really are.You might like them you know.


Except if your reasons are based on tribe,religion,class,educational background.e.t.c.

In this case,Only you can make that decision.Please keep on being good.There are still men who will date you without sex.Very few,but they still exist.

All the best and keep us posted

Tanx 4 d reply.....well I dnt really tink abt tribal,religion,class etc I jes want dat person dat wud really b der 4 me n me 4 him 2.....Dat wud mk everytime spent worth it n nt end up with a jerk who only tinks abt himself.

Hello everyone....well I dnt knw wat 2 call my situation buh lemme explain....

M in my early twenties n currently doin my youth service,aldoh m single nt dat I mind cus I enjoy being single buh the issue is lots of guyz(some gud n odas nt so gud) have cum 2 ask me out buh I always turn dem dwn nt becus I don't want 2 date buh becus m nt jes feeling dem(i.e I dnt see dem as pple I can date,nt in a bad way doh) n I dnt want 2 go in2 any relationship out of pity or becus m getting old or sumtin....m a believer of being friends b4 goin in2 a relationship buh most guys seems 2 tink odawise.

So also i bliv in d 'no sex b4 marriage tin' buh my fear is dat d guy may nt agree n dis is also anoda issue dat is stoppin me 4rm considering any relationship,which is y I av decide 2 b financially independent b4 going in2 any relationship wat so ever.

My question nw is m I deceivin myself or jes postponing d inevitable(i.e sex)cus almost everywhere u luk,u hardly see a relationship without sex even friends r nt helpin matterz n abt being friends first b4 becuming partners is it possible or I shud jes agree n start one immediately m asked?

#Wud really appreciate ur response....Thankz

An0nimus: Hello guys. What's your take on all these certifications during the service year? Have you done any? do you plan to soon? Is it really worth it?

The floor is open. Let's hear our opinions and or questions on the subject matter.

Welcome to December once again Senior Kopas

M currently doing a Networking course(CCNA)it was discounted 4 corpers in imo state....Aldoh it is nt inline with wat I studied in skuul buh its a breath of fresh air n m happy to be doing n by HIS grace next year I wud be tru.

Vry informative.....atleast I av learnt a tin or two abt graduates unemployability.

As 4 those criticising odas abt their english,pls cut them some slack....can u go an insult a chinese professor 4 nt being abt 2 speak english or a german professor 4 dat matter.We all seem 2 4get abt d major thing which is wat dey can offer or nt whether dey knw hw 2 speak english....I can bet my last kobo that most of us dat claim 2 speak impeccable english don't ave anytin upstairs.

Don't get me wrong I knw speaking is important but it shud nt be made d utmost priority....Atleast to me it beta 2 employ sum1 who has sumtin upstairs n can't speak gud english buh can learn as time goes on rather dan employing a nut head that speaks english.

Na wa o....

U pple jes fail to understand dat nt all gals want 'sex'!!!

I dnt knw where u guys get ur gals 4rm buh a gal who has self respect 4 herself would not be demanding money 4rm u everytime/most of prefer nt to ask sef....not all of us r money concious,we jes want a guy who goin 2 be there 4 us physically,emotionally n morally n if he has money den it is an added bonus.

Most of u dat r commenting,if dey check d reason behind y u r dating ur GFs it is as flimsy as a gals underpants.....If u knw wat ur gal means to u,even if she does nt want sex u wud nt mind cus d contentment u feel wen she is around is enof to mk u wait n nt force d issue.

After una go dey shout say no tru love....