Lol! But we also need to ask the ladies if their boyfriends are really theirs alone. Some answers here - http://thenakedconvos.com/dear-women-boyfriend/

At least, she's expressing herself (though going on Facebook is a bad idea). Many ladies will keep quiet and that's when guys should be scared. Like explained here - http://thenakedconvos.com/meme-women-nope-aint-mad/

segtak25:

source : http://streetgist.com/see-wedding-photos-of-a-bride-the-groom-in-a-portrait/

Mehn, similar story here o -http://thenakedconvos.com/arrangee-marriageoversea-husbands-malaysia-love/

Can't believe that this is real!

I served in Jigawa and I know how bad this governor was back then. Did next to nothing for them. Makes you wonder what Africans want to do with all the money in their family. Something related - http://thenakedconvos.com/wealth-leaving-legacies/

Lol! Serious issue o! Anyway, here's some entertainment gist on Rihanna - http://thenakedconvos.com/5-reasons-rihanna-bae/

Lol! As long as she isn't getting married to a picture like the girl in this story - http://thenakedconvos.com/arrangee-marriageoversea-husbands-malaysia-love/

Maybe you should show her this news of a couple who had a 75-year-old marriage and even died in each others arms. Perfect real life romance story here - http://thenakedconvos.com/rounds-week-27-negotiating-terrorists-caitlyn-jenneragain-miracle-sundayand/

That's a good one, with all the vibes we're getting about ethnicity recently. In other news, learn how to get over your ex here - http://thenakedconvos.com/meme-files-case/

Hopefully this is true. We are tired of waiting. Even the US have passed a difficult bill into law and some people are happy like this person here - http://thenakedconvos.com/love-win/. We wait to have the good news on the ministerial list.

I think truly that in this case an exception can be made. As per the gay marriage thing, I don’t know. Someone wrote this though -http://thenakedconvos.com/love-win/

Lol! When some people aren't even concerned whether their daughters get married or not, talk less of who they marry. Check out this guy here - http://thenakedconvos.com/daughters-dont-married/

Interesting that this was written by a female. I wonder what you make of the #BeingFemaleInNigeria cause going on on Twitter. It was actually analyzed here - http://thenakedconvos.com/conversations-female-nigeria/ but I'd want to know what the ladies think.

misssclassy:
There are a lot of single ladies out there who are supposed to have been married but still remain single. Most have had relationships and for some reasons such relationship failed, with them being the primary cause of such failures, while some haven't even had the any.
Most times this is as a result of certain reasons that these ladies may be ignorant of

So here are some of those probable reasons why a lot of ladies who seek to marry still end up remaining single.

*Displaying Bad Attitudes
Some ladies tend have very repulsive attitudes that most men can't tolerate. Such attitudes might include being rude, being arrogant, being too hotheaded, not being able to heed to advice and basically not to carrying theirselves in a fashion that is morally acceptable.
Some ladies display egocentric characteristics and believe that men should worship the floor they walk while they are free to act as they like and most men are repelled by such
And most of the time, when all this bad attitudes are pointed out to these ladies, they still don't take heed and still continue in them.

*Ignorantly Joining The Feminist Band Wagon
The cause of feminism is growing rapidly during this our time and a lot of ladies just ignorantly claim to be feminists without even having a complete understanding of what feminism really entails.
These ladies, due to the certain standards they set and their requirements of the opposite sex, they tend to repel men instead of attract them.
Because of their lack of understanding of the concept of feminism, some even begin to grow a gradual dislike for men which they display through certain characters which cause men to pull away from them.

*Placing Too Much Emphasis On looks
A lot of ladies see their looks as their ultimate charm for attracting men. They see it as the only thing men want, and become oblivious of the fact that physical appearance is just a part of the requirements of wife, and they pay less attention to other parts of themselves that might need development.
Instead of them to build on their other qualities, they put all the effort and place too much attention to their looks and ignore certain aspects of themselves that need improvement.

*Not Putting Themselves Out There
There are ladies who sit around whine day to day about being single, waiting for fate to step in or magic to happen.
These ladies forget that life doesn't owe them anything, and that they have to strive and take the bull by the horns if they want to get what they want.
Of course it might be difficult for a lot of ladies putting themselves out there, as there are a lot of hindrances such as the nature of job, certain personalities traits and all that,
but that doesn't mean they shouldn't try to bring themselves out of their comfort zone.

Also, a lot of ladies fear rejection because they might have tried some relationships in times past but failed, and they let this fear creep into them and they become hesitant in wanting to commit to any new relationship.
They fail to understand that they a husband isn't just going to appear at their doorsteps They have to go out, meet people and engage in certain activities aimed at broadening their social circle.

*Being Too Desperate
Due to the fact that most ladies are so eager to marry, most show so much desperation and they end up putting too much pressure on their partners.
Some become to pushy and they constantly pressurize their partners into marrying them quickly, and this can be too demanding.
Men see that overly persistent attitude as a red light and some might even start placing meaning to it and at the end loose interest in the relationship.

*Making Themselves A Burden To Men
A lot of ladies, especially during dating tend to be too financially dependent on their partners for everything and this results in them becoming a nothing but a burden to their partners
They fail to realize that most men want women that can support them financially, not women that would just stay lazy around and expect men to just throw everything on their tables.

*Having Overly High Expectations
A lot of ladies set unrealistic expectations of the kind of man they want. Most of these standards tend to be absurd and unreasonable and it ends up limiting their choices.
You see ladies wanting their "dream' men to have particular physical characteristics, have certain educational status, attain a certain financial height, belong to a particular social class, and more often than not, they don't find men who possess all this qualities in one and keep on searching and searching until it becomes too late.

*Being Too Critical About Everything
A lot of ladies are too critical and judgmental about issues and they tend to always look at things from a pessimistic point of view.
They always tend to see nothing good in anything and they always look for someone to blame their predicaments on. All this can be really frustrating for their partners
Some are not even appreciative of little and always expect more.
They even go all the way to blame their partners for their own wrongs and most men just can't live with them.

*Not Taking Good Care Of Themselves
Although ones physical appearance isn't the most important thing men seek, but definitely, it's the first thing they see.
A lot of ladies tend not to pay too much attention on how they look, or how they dress.
They don't take care of hairs, their shape, their weights and generally, the way they look, some even dress shabbily and tattered and at the end wonder why men don't approach them.
Men are generally attracted to ladies that are attractive and if a man doesn't see a lady as such, he doesn't pay attention to her.

Giving Up Too Easily
A lot of women who might not be having it good in a relationship just tend to throw their hands up in the air and say, “I give up, there’s no point continuing"
But they fail to realize that not every guy they meet is the perfect guy
They forget that each experience be a learning experience, and they get discouraged easily.
They fail to understand that there are always trying times in every relationship and patience and perseverance is needed for things to work things out.

Written By Misssclassy

What exactly is the importance of engagement rings? Someone makes a case against it here - http://thenakedconvos.com/engagement-ring-important-relationship-married/

kasual:
Jeez... Some guys have no tastes or standards when it comes to intimate adventures! I know of guys who are basically ashamed to be seen with the lady they are bleeping. As in the girls no try at all.

Lol! True. It's funny though. How does one even manage it?

Cutehector:
Nice survey

Thanks. You should see the full infographic too.

How well do you know the Nigerian youth when it comes to relationships? Do you know that 38% of them want payment of bride price reformed and regulated? Maybe that is why many of them do not marry early these days. Or could it be because 44% of them think the guy needs to earn between N100k and N300k before thinking of marriage? When you consider that only 8% of them would get married regardless of how much he earns, then you get a better picture of the financial expectations of the Nigerian youth.

In a recently released result of various surveys conducted by popular Nigerian youth online magazine, The Naked Convos, from its vast repository, one can clearly see how the Nigerian youths expect their relationships to work. From the information provided by these enlightening surveys, you will find out that 48% of young Nigerian males prefer sexually experienced ladies while 30% of the ladies still prefer to act inexperienced the first time they get together with a new partner.

Further details from the infographic released by the website shows that a whopping 46% of Nigerian youth are ashamed of at least one of their ex’s. When choosing partners for new relationships about 30% of them are bothered about the number of people their partner has been sexually active with. There is, however, a general consensus on first dates with most of them preferring the partner wears something casual while a pleasant, laid back location, such as the cinemas, is the destination of choice. No wonder the cinemas are often sold out!

Find the full infographic here - http://thenakedconvos.com/infographic-nigerian-youth-relationships/

Looking kinky. Meanwhile, if you want to learn how to break up with you partner without stress, learn here - http://thenakedconvos.com/break/

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Lol. She actually just be cheating on you. And she may have a pont, too, like here - http://thenakedconvos.com/a-case-for-affairs-with-married-women/

She's probably considering that he's not on her level, especially for marriage. If he reads this he can understand - http://thenakedconvos.com/women-men-successful/

When you think of how far these women have come, you will understand this - http://thenakedconvos.com/yanga-stoop-conquer/

Beautiful ladies. You have to wonder though, will ladies like this want to end up with guys who are less successful than them after all the fame and money comes? Answer here - hhttp://thenakedconvos.com/women-men-successful/

Good for you. Because women only want successful men, according to this - http://thenakedconvos.com/women-men-successful/

If she's looking to be a trophy wife, she won't be bothered about catching guys like this. This is a trophy wife here - http://thenakedconvos.com/woman-aspire-trophy-wife/

Lol! Mabe he's trying to set up some drama in the house. Like this - http://thenakedconvos.com/7-kardashians-taught/

Have you ever had memories you ever wished to wipe? Like sleeping with someone you totally regretted? Like this guy here - http://thenakedconvos.com/meme-files-fcked/

Yes ooo! Time to kill a giant. And since our boys have crashed themselves out of one World Cup, it's time to back our ladies in full. Let's go there! And if you support the women, time to get feminism right. Here's how - http://thenakedconvos.com/radical-feminists-causing-harm-good-society-review-concept-feminism/

Nice one! God bless the new born and the fam. If you haven't had enough of the Toke gist + #RachelDolezal issue, read more here - http://thenakedconvos.com/rounds-week-24-2015/

Omotola is always stunning. Her haters can like to learn new hating techniques here - http://thenakedconvos.com/haters-gon-hate-hater/

Lol! Iron to the head cos of fashion. In other news, some say they won't want their daughters to get married. See why here - http://thenakedconvos.com/daughters-dont-married/

Nigerian politics is getting interesting by the day. Things will keep changing from here on. Can I get an 'Amen'? Well, watch what you say amen to sha. Like this here - http://thenakedconvos.com/amen/

The VP is and will always be an RCCG pastor, so association with the man of God is expected. And btw, here's an inspirational piece for someone feeling down out - http://thenakedconvos.com/holding/