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ubunja:
your babydaddy sounds a lot like me lmfao!!!!

“After our wedding a sister started calling my husband.She will even pray for us on the phone and advise him like a good sister

Some weeks later my husband asked me to follow him to a friend’s office, that the friend wants to give us our wedding present because she missed our wedding.

I followed him to her office, we spent hours and she was just running Helter skelter, opening and closing her drawers till we finished the soft drinks she offered us and left without any wedding present as she promised.

One evening my husband asked me to follow him to some where, that a friend invited him over. So we drove to town.

To my greatest surprise.........



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Hello Ma,

Please I need your advise. I have a baby daddy. I got pregnant for him during a short fling. He never promised me marriage but I prayed and decided to keep my baby. That is one of the best decisions I ever made in my life. I have a 4 years old boy.

Ever since I met my baby daddy,he always messes up my chances of meeting a new guy. He would be so nice to me sometimes dream that things can work out between us. But then,he would say he has a girlfriend or fiancee ,etc.

I had to make up my mind and tell him to stop giving me mixed messages. But soon as a new guy shows up.......


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Oh yes, we all get Hot, with exception of none and No it’s not sinful, We are spirit beings living in a body with sexual needs.

To be on the same page, God gave us Sex as a physical expression of intimacy within the walls of marriage. But as an unmarried person, you will desire sexual intimacy (although the degree is dependent on the individual), if you are confused about taming your sexual desires as a single person Here are 7 out of the 13 tips Ifeoma Nkem-Gbemudu prescribed in Chapter 5 her book Can I Be Married Already, a chapter she titled ‘Holy and Hot’.

God gave us Sex as a physical expression of intimacy within the walls of marriage.

1. Admit the fact that you’re a creature of intimacy
You are not your body, You’re a spirit, with a soul, who is living in a body. Every part of you desires Intimacy and sex is only a small way of meeting your desires for physical intimacy.

Don’t be ashamed of your sexual desires although you shouldn’t dwell them incessantly or allow them to control you. God gives only good gifts and He gave you these desires for a purpose.

Don’t be ashamed of your sexual desires although you shouldn’t dwell them incessantly or allow them to control you.

2. Get an......


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kool

budaatum:
If "her way is right most times" what exactly is your complaint? Don't you like the fact that you have a smarter partner?

You are partners building a home together. Try discussing things intelligently with your smart partner for the benefit of your joint prosperous household.

Good evening Lively Stones,

I need your opinion on my marriage.I think my wife is trying to control my life and I do not know what to do about it. I got married four years ago. When I was dating my wife,she was calm but I notice she is a perfectionist. That is one of the reasons I even married her.

At first,I thought because she is a no sense person will help me be a better man so I ignored most of her behaviour when she seemed controlling. She would insist we do things her way most times. And because her way is right most times,I always agree. After all,its for our good right?

The major red flag came when we were planning our wedding. She ........



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Reader Question:Help! My Husband Wants Sex Everyday!

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Help! My Husband Wants S*x Everyday!

What do you do if your husband wants s*x everyday, but isn’t interested at all in how you feel about it or how you feel during it?

Here’s what she asked:


My husband wants it every day. Really. Like 350 days a year is what I can honestly say. I am just a vessel… like a cigarette butt container outside a door. I know he needs it. I know that he’s wired differently than I. I don’t say no unless I get a chance to fall asleep when I’m sick or something. I’m so tired. I want to feel loved, but I’m so busy making sure everyone else’s needs are met. I’m not even good at having sx any more. I just make sure there is lube when I’m ready for bed because that’s when I know he will want it. It isn’t fulfilling. I have been to counseling. I asked him to go to counseling with me, but he would not go back because he said the woman didn’t even know him and implied that he had a s*x.......



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I agree totally with you dear

chii8:
After 23years and a married couple is yet to find their bearing, then,there's a problem.

Hi,

Sorry if I’ve bothered you in any way. I saw your contact on a Nairaland Forum that you give counseling.

I’m in a very complicated situation and I don’t know what to do.I just rounded up my NYSC in June and I’ve not rented my apartment neither do I have a job.I’m living with my mom,my dad passed when I was 4 years old.

Last two weeks I went on an errand for my mom when I got a call from my mom’s pastors
He asked how I’m doing and after exchanging pleasantries, he told me that he’s seeing children surrounding me.Then he ask for my girlfriend which I had introduced her to him a day he came and held an all night prayers in my moms house.

I told him she was fine and he asked if she was pregnant and I told him no, he ask if I was sure I and I said yes.When I got home I called my girlfriend and ask her if everything was okay with her and she said yes.I told her to go for a pregnancy test, two day later she called me.......



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Good evening ma,

I am Evelyn by name (not real name) . I am a 32 years old living in Lagos with my girlfriend. We share a self contained apartment. I actually came to Lagos two years ago for a better life.I was in Ilorin before then doing marketing job that was not paying.

My friend helped me get a Teaching job here in in Lagos which I am using to manage myself. At my age,I get alot of pressure from friends and family on when I will get married,I always try to remain focused as no serious man has come for my hand in marriage.

I was in a few relationships before,it did not work out. I have been trusting God for my man,the one He prepared for me. A year ago,I was going out early in the morning to get to work before 7am. I was at the bustop when someone attacked me and snatched my bag. I started to raise an alarm and a few people came around to my aid.

Some area boys came too. One of them called Big Sam (not real name) came and asked me a few questions. I was shocked at how good is........



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Good evening ma,

I am Evelyn by name (not real name) . I am a 32 years old living in Lagos with my girlfriend. We share a self contained apartment. I actually came to Lagos two years ago for a better life.I was in Ilorin before then doing marketing job that was not paying.

My friend helped me get a Teaching job here in in Lagos which I am using to manage myself. At my age,I get alot of pressure from friends and family on when I will get married,I always try to remain focused as no serious man has come for my hand in marriage.

I was in a few relationships before,it did not work out. I have been trusting God for my man,the one He prepared for me. A year ago,I was going out early in the morning to get to work before 7am. I was at the bustop when someone attacked me and snatched my bag. I started to raise an alarm and a few people came around to my aid.

Some area boys came too. One of them called Big Sam (not real name) came and asked me a few questions. I was shocked at how good is........



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freethesheeple:
Soon to hear the rest from Prison...

Hmnnn

Good afternoon Admin,

Please I want to talk to you. Concerning my marriage of 23 year now.

I got married at age 17 when I was in the higher institution. The the problem was my Husband can never carry me along all this years. He always see me like small girl. His attitude towards me was unbearable. In fact we never speak to each other for months now.

He deliver message to me through my children. I find out that he is seeing a lot of ladies now.Am planning to leave the marriage......



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hmnnnnn, I think a kinda agree wit u on this

rosy1992:
Both husband and wife need medical check up

Good morning Lively Stones,

I need some advice. I am in a love fix. I have always been a hard guy,never ever thought any girl can make me feel this week in my knees and the biggest problem is that I cannot have this girl as the coast is not completely clear.

So,I moved into a new apartment about nine months ago. A nice and quiet environment with a BQ that housed a young woman and her 4 year old son. This woman is fine. As in,fine dieeee. I could not believe she already has a child. I thought she was married but I never saw any man around her.

Every morning,as I drive to work,I see her taking her child to school.A couple of times,I have given her a ride to the bustop. Her smile and gentleness around her is something else. She seemed shy too but friendly. One day,I asked her about the boy’s father and she said,they did not get married before he was posted.

Apparently,her boyfriend is a soldier on active duty......


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Hmnnn

Editor’s Note:

This story is the husband’s response to his wife’s admission of infidelity. If you missed the story please click here. We encourage everyone to be kind in their comments as this couple are in counseling and are going through a very tough time in their marriage. Please keep them in your prayers.

God bless


Jzhane

Good afternoon ma,

Thank you for helping me and my wife in this very trying times. Yesterday,my wife revealed her indiscretions which has resulted in a pregnancy with another man. To be honest,I knew she was seeing someone but I never knew she would ever get to this level.

My first reaction when she told me was shock and betrayal. I got up,told her our marriage is over,she can go meet her lover with her bastard child. I drove out of my house and kept driving ….that was when the tears began to flow. I parked in a quiet street and began to sob heavily.

I know this whole shit is my fault. Yes,I know. I admit it. I failed and betrayed my wife. I also cheated. I knew she suspected but she never confronted me. I got used.......



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Hmnnnn this is so dicey, conceive for another man as a married woman after being left alone in your marriage by your husband for 4years and with the problem of not been able to take in after your first child who is about 6years now.

I think the devil is truly on your matter!

Dear LS

I am sharing this because I feel guilty but helpless. Before I say anything,let me say that I am aware that alot of people will say bad things about me,its alright. I have asked God to forgive me. I pray God to also help me overcome this . Its not been easy for me.

Jide (not real name),my husband and I met 8 years ago. It was at my elder sister’s husband birthday party. Jide and my in-law are friend. Jide just relocated from south Africa to pick up an oil job in Nigeria. Jide was a hot bachelor,every lady would love to be with him. I too was not bad myself.

I was in a relationship,only about 3 months though then. At the birthday party,Jide couldn’t take his eyes off me. The toasting started right from the party. Long story short,I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend and falling for Jide who did everything to win me.

I tried to play hard to get but Jide was ......


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hello ma,

Please advice me.

This is a very difficult situation for me. So my friend Peter (not real name) has a girl that he has been in a relationship with for like 2 years. This girl is fine and very warm. Very good girl right…

The problem is that Peter is a jerk. He always treats her like a jerk, still messing with other girls. I know Peter,he has always been like that so I was shocked when this nice girl stuck with him for two years going own.

My issue now is that they have broken up one time cos of his jerkiness. That period,I thought I could shoot my shot. For three weeks,I was friendly with her. I like her and i think I am falling for her. But I couldn’t tell her.

She sees me as a very good friend but I .......


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