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Christianity EtcRe: Does Religion Matter When We Both Love Each Other? by Beke2020(op): 8:44am On Aug 10, 2019
Hmnnn, learnt so much from all your comments
RomanceRe: Does Religion Matter When We Both Love Each Other? by Beke2020(op): 8:43am On Aug 10, 2019
coolthumb up my dear bro/sis
SEEDORF441:
Did you choose the family you were born in?
You practice your religion purposely because your parent does.
Don't let religion draw you back
You can find love anywhere, marrying a Christian doesn't define a happy marriage likewise marrying a Muslim.

This life.. Just pray for the heart that will love you and forever.
RomanceRe: I Suspect Something Wrong With Me- Have I Missed My Marital Destiny? by Beke2020(op): 8:42am On Aug 10, 2019
huh
MrBrownJay1:
Op, wait for us on the other side of that link, we are coming....

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PoliticsRe: How We’ll Solve Apapa Gridlock, Other Issues Once And For All – Bello by Beke2020: 8:35am On Aug 10, 2019
Hmnnnnnnns
JosEast:
Alhaji Hassan Bello is the Executive Secretary of the Nigerian Shippers Council. He spoke to Daily Trust Saturday on a variety of issues, including freeflow of traffic at key points of shipping, ports infrastructure in relation to transportation, and more. Excerpts: Daily Trust: The Apapa gridlock is legendary. What are the palliative measures being taken on that?

Hassan Bello: Ninety per cent of cargo coming through the ports are all concentrated on the port of Apapa and Tin Can. Now, because of population growth and so many other things, the infrastructure was not adequate, because they were not expanded, neither were they increased to handle the traffic. But we have hope now that we have the task force chaired by the Vice President. It has really cleared Apapa, and there is free movement and free flow of traffic. This is due to the Nigerian Ports Authority, which has created a modern traffic system call-up system which is manual now, but we hope by August or September it will be electronic. However, along the Oshodi/Tin Can axis, the road is bad and the Federal Government has awarded the contract, but there are a lot of impediments, especially with the raining season. But that too is being controlled.

The Nigerian Ports Authority has also given the lily pond as a truck park. So, all the trucks will park there and they are called to the ports only when they are needed. NPA is on top of the situation and that is why we are having the ease of traffic. Now we have the short term, medium and long term. We are concentrating on the short term, but even this has to be complimented by the medium, otherwise we would go back to square one, but I don’t think that would happen. The cost of transportation has come down in Lagos now. It was previously inflated because of the chaos. So, these are the short-term things.

The NPA, the task force and the Lagos State government have done very well. They are the key players. Lagos State government has shown tremendous goodwill in solving the problem of Apapa, so also the NPA and task force. Now, this is the short term. In the long and medium term, what we are trying to do is to create trailer parks and have a modern traffic system. We found out that every day there are 7,000 trucks in Apapa.

As I have said many times, what is needed is about 2,000 trucks. You have to limit the access, and not have trucks wandering and creating traffic jam. There is also the private sector, Dangote Flour Mills. Again, NPA has contributed in doing the roads that gets traffic out of Apapa.

So, this is the corporate social responsibility that should be encouraged. We must thank Dangote Flour Mills, and again NPA. NPA has gone beyond their statutory duties to solve the Apapa traffic issue. In the medium term, we need to institute that traffic management. It is just modern, and not rocket science. What we are saying is, if you don’t have business in Apapa, then you will not have access to it. The traffic must be staged. Our trailer park, opposite Tin Can, is also working now.

This has relatively reduced traffic congestion. But we have to be really careful about Oshodi, Mile 2, Tin Can axis. It is really bad because one part of the road is a total failure. The contractor is trying, but because of the rain and other geographical and situational impediments, it’s bad. Medium term, we want to get the containers evacuated to dry port. We now have a train bringing containers to Kaduna dry port.

This is another way of decongesting so the Kaduna man doesn’t have to go to Lagos with his rickety trailer. I’m happy to note the Nigerian Railway Corporation has made about five trips in the last one month or two. Activities in Kaduna has picked up, not only on import but more particularly on export. This is also medium term. By the time we sign an agreement in August with the dry port in Ibadan, it will mean that more goods will be taken there without being examined at the port. This will reduce congestion.

The ports in Tin Can and Apapa are being linked with the rail. This is significant because rail takes most of the volume, instead of the trailer. It is faster and cheaper. This is also fundamental. We predominantly do that on road and we have a new system of evacuating cargo, so why won’t we have problems? Now we have the rail doing the inland transport using the waterways to take cargo.

So, the approach is not only road. If you have the rail, road, then you have the inland waterways and the pipeline so that wet cargo or petroleum cargo is pumped outside Apapa. So, this Apapa problem will disappear. Again, long term, a new port at Lekki. Nigerian Ports Authority, China Harbour, and Lagos State government are building the Lekki Port. This will also solve the problem because the Lekki Port is a natural harbour and a deep-water port capable of taking large ships. This would mean that the Apapa problem would naturally disappear.

Then planning is important. We should plan even with the new port. Our population grows at 2.5% every year, so we should know and anticipate what is going to happen. I think the traffic in Apapa will be a thing of the past. Daily Trust: Let’s look at the acceptance level of the freight rates approved by Shippers Council. How is it? Bello: It is okay, but one thing is, these freight rates are not fixed. They are what is called indicative rates. We have worked with the unions and transport owners to come up with the indicative rates. The reason being that investors overseas must have certainty and predictability about transport rates.

So, what we do is to develop caps. If you want to transport goods from Minna to Port Harcourt, this is the indicated rate so they would plan. Otherwise, we can’t leave things the way they are. Everybody has indicative rates. They are sometimes determined by demand and supply, economic laws. All the same, we need to have those rates that plans will be based on. It is nothing new, and I am happy that they are gaining general acceptability. Investors and transporters have agonised over the lack of such rates. That is what Shippers Council is doing, but we are not fixing the rates.

DT: Is the proposed truck transit park getting desired traction or interest? Bello: Yes, there is tremendous interest. As a matter of fact, two are going to be advertised in Enugu and Lokoja. There has been international interest in the transit parks and we hope for investments. That is another significant contribution to the efficiency of transport system. If we have a sluggish transport system, we would have a sluggish economy. But if it is modern and efficient, the economy will grow.

Right now, the cost of transportation hovers around 30% to 40% of the cost of production when it should be less. If we have higher transportation cost, it would also affect inflation. We want the transport cost to reduce so Nigeria can compete in the world economy, especially with the trade agreement that is going to be operating very soon. We need a modern and efficient transport system.

The truck transit park is modern and technology driven. It will solve the problem of environmental degradation. It means there will be fast delivery of cargo. We can’t have someone spending ten days to get to Kano. Shippers Council will track what is happening and we will know where every trailer is. I call on investors to invest in this noble and profitable project of the truck transit park.

Read more: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/how-well-solve-apapa-gridlock-other-issues-once-and-for-all-bello.html
RomanceI Suspect Something Wrong With Me- Have I Missed My Marital Destiny? by Beke2020(op): 10:23pm On Aug 07, 2019
Good evening ma

Please I am Kemi (not real name) by name. I need your help. I need you to counsel me

I was a dating a guy before the relationship is up to 4 years now but in this relationship there is nothing like communication, trust, sincere love, commitment.. The guy is too flirt so I decided to break up with him.

I said yes to him that time because I was told that he’s my future husband but .......


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RomanceDoes Religion Matter When We Both Love Each Other? by Beke2020(op): 2:23pm On Aug 05, 2019
Good day ma,

I’m in love with someone… We both are in love though but my only problem is the religion aspect….. He’s a Muslim and I’m a Christian.

Frankly speaking, he’s got all the qualities I need in a man…Though to him, he doesn’t see religion as a barrier… He is even willing to convert to be a Christian.

We are both in same level in the same university but different department though….
He’s 25 and I’m 20.His plan........


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Christianity EtcDoes Religion Matter When We Both Love Each Other? by Beke2020(op): 1:45pm On Aug 05, 2019
Good day ma,

I’m in love with someone… We both are in love though but my only problem is the religion aspect….. He’s a Muslim and I’m a Christian.

Frankly speaking, he’s got all the qualities I need in a man…Though to him, he doesn’t see religion as a barrier… He is even willing to convert to be a Christian.

We are both in same level in the same university but different department though….
He’s 25 and I’m 20.His plan........


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RomanceRe: My Husband Wants Me Back But There Is An Elephant In The Room by Beke2020(op): 2:25pm On Aug 03, 2019
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RomanceRe: My Fiancee Dropped A Bombshell: Now She Thinks I Am Wrong by Beke2020(op): 2:24pm On Aug 03, 2019
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We provide *support*, *counsel* and, *prayers* for marriages and relationships to strive especially in a dark world where marriages and relationships are failing. 

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RomanceRe: My Sister’s Goal Is To Be His 5th Baby Mama: Please Advise! by Beke2020(op): 2:10pm On Aug 03, 2019
Lively Stones is a support group. A no *judgment zone*.

We provide support, *counsel* and, *prayers* for marriages and relationships to strive especially in a dark world where marriages and relationships are failing. 

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FamilyRe: My Husband Wants Me Back But There Is An Elephant In The Room by Beke2020(op): 2:09pm On Aug 03, 2019
*Lively Stones* is a support group. A no *judgment zone*.

We provide *support*, *counsel* and, *prayers* for marriages and relationships to strive especially in a dark world where marriages and relationships are failing. 

Our goal is to be your listening ear when you need someone to talk to in confidence.....providing emotional support when you need it.

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Beke2020:
Dear Jzhane,

Sometime last year I called and disclosed about an issue I had in my marriage,it’s a long story but I told you I had a child, after which I got married,but things changed after a while, my husband changed entirely he got tired of the marriage,told me he was tired and wanted to leave even not that we had our trad,always withdrawn from me.

I was tormented emotionally,not until I found out that he was having an affair with a girl,that he confirmed was his EX,and I have been seeing her pix on his older phone unknowingly to me that she is having QN affair with him.

So last year he told his people that he doesn’t want the marriage again,long story short he turned his back on me,then during this fracas I took a walk,I parked my things and left,I left march this year,he sent series of text to me that I should never ......



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FamilyMy Husband Wants Me Back But There Is An Elephant In The Room by Beke2020(op): 10:05pm On Aug 01, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

Sometime last year I called and disclosed about an issue I had in my marriage,it’s a long story but I told you I had a child, after which I got married,but things changed after a while, my husband changed entirely he got tired of the marriage,told me he was tired and wanted to leave even not that we had our trad,always withdrawn from me.

I was tormented emotionally,not until I found out that he was having an affair with a girl,that he confirmed was his EX,and I have been seeing her pix on his older phone unknowingly to me that she is having QN affair with him.

So last year he told his people that he doesn’t want the marriage again,long story short he turned his back on me,then during this fracas I took a walk,I parked my things and left,I left march this year,he sent series of text to me that I should never ......



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-wants-me-back-but-there-is-an-elephant-in-the-room/
RomanceLove: How I Chose What Is Best For Everyone But Myself by Beke2020(op): 9:28pm On Aug 01, 2019
I was engaged to be married to someone from a very prominent home. His family did not like me because of my social status. My parents were Teachers and farmers….they were rich and into oil and gas business. But that did not stop us. We were in a relationship for almost 7 years.

It came to a point,we started planning to relocate to get married. I loved Marcel with all my heart. He was my first and I will never stop loving him. He and I used to dream of our lives together. Well,until someone set him up. I do not know if its his family or just mere coincidence but someone set him with drugs.

Marcel was caught at a foreign airport with drugs. It was a devastating year for me. I had no means to find out how to help him. His family did not tell me anything. I prayed and prayed for him,for God to deliver him. That was how years past. One time,I got rumors from his family that he.......



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RomanceRe: My Husband Wants Me Back But There Is An Elephant In The Room by Beke2020(op): 8:43pm On Aug 01, 2019
cool join our WhatsApp group to learn much on relationship issues
Chuks9000:
The story seems interesting. Pls try and provide the other part here on NL.
RomanceMy Sister’s Goal Is To Be His 5th Baby Mama: Please Advise! by Beke2020(op): 8:40pm On Aug 01, 2019
Good day ma,

My twin sister is involved with a man that I know is a Casanova and she does not care. This man is actually like my boss. We work in the same company but not the same unit. Everyone knows this guy as a man who likes ladies.

Yes,he has tried his way with me several times and failed. Its common knowledge how he sleeps with ladies. Even married ladies. He found out about my twin sister on my facebook page. He started talking to her behind my back and they started dating. I only found out two months after.

I tried to tell my sister how bad this guy is but she is not listening. This man has like 3 or 4 baby mamas o. He is fine,no doubt,has lots of money. And many ladies like my sister fall for his charms. I was really angry he was dating my sister but my sister asked me to mind my business,that she is a grown up lady.

My mom had to come in. She sided with me and forbade my sister from having anything to do with this man but Nma will not listen. Nma has always been the more stubborn of us twins. She always.....



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RomanceMy Fiancee Dropped A Bombshell: Now She Thinks I Am Wrong by Beke2020(op): 8:19pm On Aug 01, 2019
I met Adesuwa (not real name) last year. I knew her mind set before I met her. We were in a career chat group. Her level of intelligence and wittiness was what first attracted me to her. She kept her life private,never hung any dps…she was professional to the chore.

On her birthday,the group shared her photo. I was stunned at how beautiful she was. I private chatted with her. She did not like it. She is a very principled person. I did not give up. I pursued her rigorously for four months before she began to open up.

Our first date was phenomenal. I was the envy of every guy. I mean,come and see how guys were staring at her,like she was a mermaid. It was easy to fall in love with her. I knew she was the one I was waiting for. I had the happiest days of my life with her.

Adesuwa met my family,they instantly.......


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-fiancee-dropped-a-bombshell-now-she-thinks-i-am-wrong/
RomanceMy Husband Wants Me Back But There Is An Elephant In The Room by Beke2020(op): 8:51pm On Jul 27, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

Sometime last year I called and disclosed about an issue I had in my marriage,it’s a long story but I told you I had a child, after which I got married,but things changed after a while, my husband changed entirely he got tired of the marriage,told me he was tired and wanted to leave even not that we had our trad,always withdrawn from me.

I was tormented emotionally,not until I found out that he was having an affair with a girl,that he confirmed was his EX,and I have been seeing her pix on his older phone unknowingly to me that she is having QN affair with him.

So last year he told his people that he doesn’t want the marriage again,long story short he turned his back on me,then during this fracas I took a walk,I parked my things and left,I left march this year,he sent series of text to me that I should never ......



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-wants-me-back-but-there-is-an-elephant-in-the-room/

RomanceHe Broke My Heart & I Took Revenge-is This My Reward? by Beke2020(op): 9:13am On Jul 27, 2019
Dear admin,

My story is a long one but I will try my best to make it as short as possible.

When I started dating James, he introduced me to his boss,Aunty Lillian. He credited her for being the one who mentored him and showed him the business he was doing. James,at his age 28th is doing quite well for himself. A young man with great prospects. He seemed to put away every form of female distractions.

This made me quite comfortable with James. Everyone congratulated me on finding such a young man with integrity. With me,infidelity has never been an issue. I am well disciplined in that regard. We got married in 2014. Had my first child in 2015. Aunty Lillian plays the role of Aunty in our lives. Always there to advice and sometimes support even financially.

Since 2016,I noticed a change in James behaviour that made me......



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TravelRe: Lagos Gov.Complete Rehabilitation Work On Maryland Independence Tunnel (picture) by Beke2020: 9:11pm On Jul 21, 2019
cheesy kudos to his Excellency Babajide Sanwo Olu
I believe you will outperform. More strength sir.
silverbirdng:
Lagos gov. complete rehabilitation work on Maryland Independence Tunnel, part of Ikorodu Road



See more here https://thickmatch.com/lagos-state-gov-complete-rehabilitation-work-maryland-independence-tunnel/
RomanceMy Best Friend Accused Him Of Cheating:can I Still Marry Him? by Beke2020(op): 11:12am On Jul 16, 2019
Hello ma,

Please what do you think? Help me ask the house too. So,my fiance and I have been together for almost three years. He actually engaged me like three months ago. Everything is going fine. Our plan is to have the wedding by last quarter of the year.\

My fiance is very good to me. He is quite handsome too. I see how ladies stare at him when we are together. When we got engaged,we both agreed to open a joint account so we can save for our wedding and our marriage in future. Since we opened the account,he has put like N90k in the account while I have out like 430k.

Well,I actually earn higher than him and he has obligations in his family and aged parents. He sends money to them every month while I do not as my family is ok financially. A month ago,.....


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InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Beke2020: 10:14am On Jul 16, 2019
Good morning house,
Pls is it advisable to still buy stock now with the market situation or wait? I wanted to average on UBA

God bless you all
AutosRe: Sold &&&&&&&&. Sild &&&&&&&&& Sold. &&&&&&& by Beke2020: 10:41pm On Jul 15, 2019
??
Beke2020:
Pls can someone help with the prices of these:

2019 hilander

1. head light front
2. Fog light
3. Back light
4.Front bumper
5. Front Up grail

Thank you
AutosRe: Sold &&&&&&&&. Sild &&&&&&&&& Sold. &&&&&&& by Beke2020: 3:11pm On Jul 15, 2019
Pls can someone help with the prices of these:

2019 hilander

1. head light front
2. Fog light
3. Back light
4.Front bumper
5. Front Up grail

Thank you
RomanceRe: We Are Head Over Heels In Love But He Is Not Ready by Beke2020(op): 5:08pm On Jul 14, 2019
grin grin
Abfinest007:
half story so you will get half advise
RomanceWe Are Head Over Heels In Love But He Is Not Ready by Beke2020(op): 12:53pm On Jul 13, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

Keep this anonymous please. I was introduced to a young man by my mentor a few months ago. He was highly recommended. And truthfully,I found it easy to like this guy. He is smart and very intelligent, what I really like in a dream man.

We dated a while but he said he cannot be in a relationship as he was not financially ready. I told him I have my job and my own money. I didn’t need his own but he insisted that we just be friends.

Mind you,everyday this guy tells me he loves me,am the best thing to happen to him,he wish he can marry me. I also like him alot.

But the problem is that,he lives in an apartment with .......


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FamilyRe: My Husband And I Have Been Unfaithful To Each Other by Beke2020(op): 8:57pm On Jul 12, 2019
cool
godofuck231:
dm me and stop letting your biz all up the place, I'll pass a phone number to u , call her and explain ur heart ,she will help u
RomanceRe: My Husband And I Have Been Unfaithful To Each Other by Beke2020(op): 8:56pm On Jul 12, 2019
Hmnnn! Even if Jesus appear a second time some of you will still doubt.

SIR0:
A blogger has a hand in this story.
E get K-leg
RomanceRe: Is Love Enough-we Are Madly In Love But Yet So Different by Beke2020(op): 8:54pm On Jul 12, 2019
cool cool
Bruno3000:
You cannot as a Christ Embassy member get along with deeper life or mountain of fire girlfriend. Kole work out. Find ur type.
FamilyMy Husband And I Have Been Unfaithful To Each Other by Beke2020(op): 10:49pm On Jul 11, 2019
Keep me anonymous please.

Not everything you see is the way it is.Really,I was a good girl growing up. I was very committed in church and never promiscuous. I married as a virgin. But I did not have a child for five years after marriage. It was very hard. My husband started cheating with various women. I used to cry alot and fast and pray to God for a child.

There were my husband did not care about me for so long.I was neglected.I began to feel cheated and planned my way of getting back at my husband. I flirted with a couple of men but they all didn’t work out. I was desperate.

I did not find any man to sleep with so I pretended to be a prostitute. That is how I met the man that slept with me. I felt bad for cheating and promised myself never to do that again. Like a miracle,I got pregnant about four months later.Life changed for me. I was happy. I gave birth to my son and got pregnant again before he was 6 months .

I have two children now. But I have a problem. I was....



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RomanceMy Husband And I Have Been Unfaithful To Each Other by Beke2020(op): 8:36pm On Jul 11, 2019
Keep me anonymous please.

Not everything you see is the way it is.Really,I was a good girl growing up. I was very committed in church and never promiscuous. I married as a virgin. But I did not have a child for five years after marriage. It was very hard. My husband started cheating with various women. I used to cry alot and fast and pray to God for a child.

There were my husband did not care about me for so long.I was neglected.I began to feel cheated and planned my way of getting back at my husband. I flirted with a couple of men but they all didn’t work out. I was desperate.

I did not find any man to sleep with so I pretended to be a prostitute. That is how I met the man that slept with me. I felt bad for cheating and promised myself never to do that again. Like a miracle,I got pregnant about four months later.Life changed for me. I was happy. I gave birth to my son and got pregnant again before he was 6 months .

I have two children now. But I have a problem. I was....



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-and-i-have-been-unfaithful-to-each-other/

InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Beke2020: 11:45am On Jul 05, 2019
coolThanks so much.

Pls can someone help with their phone number?
onegentleguy:
Its AFRICAN PRUDENTIAL REGISTRARS.

Formerly UAC registrars, but now AFRICAN PRUDENTIAL REGISTRARS after the latter acquired the former sometime in 2013 via an SSPA.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Beke2020: 11:50pm On Jul 03, 2019
Good evening house, pls who is the registrars of UACN?

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