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RomanceRe: How Do I Move On From The Man I Call The Love Of My Life? by Beke2020(op): 10:43pm On Jun 03, 2019
grin
jbblues24:
Congrats on the new adventure!!
RomanceRe: Does Age Really Matter: I Am Madly In Love,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 10:42pm On Jun 03, 2019
coolNice one G
emmanok24:
My wife is 6 years older than me, we have 2 kids and we're best friends.

Let me tell you one truth, it's not going to be a stroll in the park and love isn't enough to keep such a relationship going.

Mutual respect and understanding will make all the difference.

All the best.
RomanceMarriage Turned To Polygamy & Hell Hole: Please Advice Me! By by Beke2020(op): 10:41pm On Jun 03, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

I need your help and prayers. I am a married woman with three children. I married my husband eight years ago. Initially,my family did not give their consent to the marriage. This is because my husband came from a different religious background than mine.

When we started dating,my husband told me it doesn’t matter what religion we practice. That he will even join me to be attending church. And during our dating,he used to come to church with me. Eventually we got married in church.

All has been well with us until last year. I noticed my husband’s strange behaviors. He started to come home late. And he would say he.......


https://livelystones.com.ng/marriage-turned-to-polygamy-hell-hole-please-advice-me/

RomanceDoes Age Really Matter: I Am Madly In Love,please Help! by Beke2020(op): 7:17am On Jun 01, 2019
Hello Lively Stones,

I’m a 26 years old lady. It took me seven years of writing jamb before I gained admission into university. During the years of waiting, I avoided relationships and close interaction with people. I had some few proposals for marriage but the thought of entering marriage without anything (no skill and certificate) made me reject all.

When I finally gained admission, I decided to wait till after year one before entering one. But as fate would have it, I met this young man whom I became friends with. Initially, I felt it was just a fling but as time went on, he proved me otherwise......


https://livelystones.com.ng/does-age-really-matter-i-am-madly-in-loveplease-help/

RomanceRe: I Am, Married But How Do I Overcome The Feeling That S*x Is Dirty? by Beke2020(op): 6:59am On Jun 01, 2019
cool
Beke2020:
Dear Jzhane,

I need your help. A few weeks ago,I stumbled on your platform and I must tell you that I have been really blessed by this platform. The articles and personal stories from the members of this platform has helped me a great deal. I feel like finally,I am where people can understand me and my feelings.

My name is Ann (Not real name). I am 29 years old. I got married last year. I was raised as a good Christian girl and to the glory of God,I kept myself until marriage. My husband is my first and so everything I learnt about s*x,I learnt from him. To be honest,I have never seen a male organ before my husband’s own.

My wedding night was a nightmare. I was so......


https://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-married-but-how-do-i-overcome-the-feeling-that-sx-is-dirty/
RomanceI Am, Married But How Do I Overcome The Feeling That S*x Is Dirty? by Beke2020(op): 6:55am On May 31, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

I need your help. A few weeks ago,I stumbled on your platform and I must tell you that I have been really blessed by this platform. The articles and personal stories from the members of this platform has helped me a great deal. I feel like finally,I am where people can understand me and my feelings.

My name is Ann (Not real name). I am 29 years old. I got married last year. I was raised as a good Christian girl and to the glory of God,I kept myself until marriage. My husband is my first and so everything I learnt about s*x,I learnt from him. To be honest,I have never seen a male organ before my husband’s own.

My wedding night was a nightmare. I was so......


https://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-married-but-how-do-i-overcome-the-feeling-that-sx-is-dirty/

RomanceRe: How Do I Move On From The Man I Call The Love Of My Life? by Beke2020(op): 3:50pm On May 26, 2019
shocked
lefulefu:
op all ur threads are about how u hate ur marriage or how ur husband left u for another woman.na wao.
RomanceRe: How Do I Move On From The Man I Call The Love Of My Life? by Beke2020(op): 11:40pm On May 25, 2019
cool I quite agree with you on this
dawnomike:
Please leave him... It is hard but you cannot heal if you remain attached to him.
RomanceHow Do I Move On From The Man I Call The Love Of My Life? by Beke2020(op): 9:28pm On May 25, 2019
I will be 37 years old by July. I am a single mother of 2 children. My baby father is married,we never got married,we dated many years ago and even though he promised to marry me,he ended up marrying someone who is richer than me. Then we only one our first son together.

I was devastated he married someone else and I decided to move on. But four months after his marriage,my baby daddy started coming back for me. I was resisting him initially but I am hopelessly in love with this man. I gave in and we were seeing each other until I got pregnant for my second son.

To be honest,I do not like that I am sleeping with my baby daddy but this man has got a serious hold on me that I seem not to be able to forget him. He is also good to my kids. He sends money regularly but his wife does not know about us. I made a new year resolution this year to leave him.

So I ........



https://livelystones.com.ng/how-do-i-move-on-from-the-man-i-call-the-love-of-my-life/

RomanceI Made A Mistake But Can Anyone Survive A Marriage Like This? by Beke2020(op): 7:52pm On May 04, 2019
Good day Lively Stones,

I have struggled with this for some time. I have struggled with the decision to speak to someone about what I am facing. I feel like I have given up on my marriage yet I do not want to give up. I feel like I have given up on counselling because I have been to counselling several times yet it feels like I am back to square one.

My close friends whom I have confided in have told me to........




https://livelystones.com.ng/i-made-a-mistake-but-can-anyone-survive-a-marriage-like-this/

InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Beke2020: 1:48pm On Apr 25, 2019
Good day house.
Please has FBNH been marked down for Dividend? If yes, will i partake of it if i sell today?

Thank you
RomanceMessed Up & Damaged:how Do I Stop Pushing Away Love In My Life? by Beke2020(op): 9:34am On Apr 20, 2019
Hello ma,

I need your counsel and prayer. As a 36 years old woman,I have come to realize that I need to get help on how to deal with my issue before its too late. I have been struggling in my relationships,I know what the problem is and I have tried to get into therapy but I don’t think the therapist did a good job.

The problem is,I keep messing up in my relationships with my anger and attitude. I know that I have anger management issues because of my dad. My dad and mom separated when Iwas 7 years old and ever since,I have been angry. before the separated,my father was always beating my mom and I was furious that I could do nothing about it.

My mother moved on to another man who was not only a..........



https://livelystones.com.ng/messed-up-damagedhow-do-i-stop-pushing-away-love-in-my-life/

FamilyMarriage Has Brought Me Nothing But Shame And Disgrace by Beke2020(op): 5:34pm On Apr 19, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

I just want to thank God for your life. I see the great work you do by advising couples here and I pray God to continue to give you the wisdom to do more. I am a married man. In my early 40s. I have been married for 5 years now. Things have not been easy with me and my wife.

I am a salary earner. I earn less than 60k every month. Well,its low because I started as a dispatch rider until I finished my ND program where I was promoted to supervisor position in my company. So far,I am still earning this little amount as my company,a printing press does not really pay well. And you know,there are really no jobs out there.

My wife: we got married because.......



https://livelystones.com.ng/marriage-has-brought-me-nothing-but-shame/

RomanceMarriage Has Brought Me Nothing But Shame And Disgrace by Beke2020(op): 5:22pm On Apr 19, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

I just want to thank God for your life. I see the great work you do by advising couples here and I pray God to continue to give you the wisdom to do more. I am a married man. In my early 40s. I have been married for 5 years now. Things have not been easy with me and my wife.

I am a salary earner. I earn less than 60k every month. Well,its low because I started as a dispatch rider until I finished my ND program where I was promoted to supervisor position in my company. So far,I am still earning this little amount as my company,a printing press does not really pay well. And you know,there are really no jobs out there.

My wife: we got married because......


https://livelystones.com.ng/marriage-has-brought-me-nothing-but-shame/

RomanceRe: My Husband’s S*xual Fantasies Are Very Disturbing To Me- Pt by Beke2020(op): 5:17pm On Apr 19, 2019
cool
Beke2020:
Are you facing any difficulty in your Relationship, Marriage or having Dating issues and you Would you like to talk to a seasoned relationship & marriage expert?

*You can Call or Chat Jzhane on: 08029870309 and you'll be counseled you for free*

You can also share with us your inspiring true life story
To: livelystonescares@gmail.com


Livelystones, changing the narratives!
RomanceRe: God Hates Divorce But This Marriage Is Covered In Lies & Cheating by Beke2020(op): 11:48pm On Apr 16, 2019
Are you facing any difficulty in your Relationship, Marriage or having Dating issues and you Would you like to talk to a seasoned relationship & marriage expert?

*You can Call or Chat Jzhane on: 08029870309 and you'll be counseled you for free*

You can also share with us your inspiring true life story
To: livelystonescares@gmail.com


Livelystones, changing the narratives!
RomanceRe: My Husband’s S*xual Fantasies Are Very Disturbing To Me- Pt by Beke2020(op): 11:47pm On Apr 16, 2019
Are you facing any difficulty in your Relationship, Marriage or having Dating issues and you Would you like to talk to a seasoned relationship & marriage expert?

*You can Call or Chat Jzhane on: 08029870309 and you'll be counseled you for free*

You can also share with us your inspiring true life story
To: livelystonescares@gmail.com


Livelystones, changing the narratives!
RomanceRe: Help: I Am Having Second Thoughts About Getting Married by Beke2020(op): 11:45pm On Apr 16, 2019
Are you facing any difficulty in your Relationship, Marriage or having Dating issues and you Would you like to talk to a seasoned relationship & marriage expert for FREE?

*You can Call or Chat Jzhane on: 08029870309 and you'll be counseled you for free*

You can also share with us your inspiring true life story
To: livelystonescares@gmail.com


Livelystones, changing the narratives!
RomanceHelp: I Am Having Second Thoughts About Getting Married by Beke2020(op): 11:13pm On Apr 16, 2019
Hello ma,

Please advice me. I have been engaged for almost two years and I am beginning to have cold feet. The truth is I love my fiance. He is cool and very good to me. I have dreamt of nothing but spending the rest of my life with him. However,I do not see that happening even though we have been engaged for almost two years.

The problem has to do with his family ma. He is the first born son of his family. His younger ones and his parents depend on him financially and he is yet to be financially stable. We met during our service year,dated for just a few months before we got engaged. He is 28,I am 29.

Ma,his parents are struggling. Their business which is a family restaurant is not doing as good as before. They also have four siblings who are in University and secondary school. So,the salary he makes is to just distribute to them every month. Because of this,he says he would prefer to ......



https://livelystones.com.ng/help-i-am-having-second-thoughts-about-getting-married/

RomanceRe: God Hates Divorce But This Marriage Is Covered In Lies & Cheating by Beke2020(op): 8:44pm On Apr 14, 2019
Lol! That's true. He or she must be sincere and dissist from such act
khiaa:
Not when the adulterer isn't sorry and continues his cheating ways.
RomanceMy Husband’s S*xual Fantasies Are Very Disturbing To Me- Pt by Beke2020(op): 10:15am On Apr 13, 2019
Hello ma,

Thank you for posting my story yesterday. (Click here if you missed her story). I guess I deserved the responses that I got. So many people believed that my husband was lusting after my best friend and truly wanted to sleep with her. That really got me messed up. I was very emotional.(I am an emotional person).

I could not hold back the emotions,I was crying and a huge mess. When my husband got back,I had to call him and tell him what I was feeling. At that point,I showed him the story and what people were saying.

My husband was very angry with me for not talking to him first before going to put our business in public. I am sorry,I am young in marriage,maybe I should not have gone out to post this. My husband and I took time to talk after this. He explained to me that he will never cheat on me.

He said,he only said he would.....


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husbands-sxual-fantasies-are-very-disturbing-to-me-pt-2/

RomanceRe: God Hates Divorce But This Marriage Is Covered In Lies & Cheating by Beke2020(op): 10:10am On Apr 13, 2019
cool but there is room for forgiveness
khiaa:
In the case of adultery, divorce is accepted.
RomanceGod Hates Divorce But This Marriage Is Covered In Lies & Cheating by Beke2020(op): 7:24pm On Apr 12, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

I have a question to ask you and the house please. I know that as a christian,God does not like divorce. I have read many times here when you counsel people that they should stay in their marriage and work things out with their spouses. I am a strong believer of the marriage institution. I believe God created marriage to be enjoyed and I know too that marriage is a good thing.

Recently, a very dear friend of mine,who is also a good christian got entangled in a scandal in church. Her husband got involved with a ........



https://livelystones.com.ng/god-hates-divorce-but-this-marriage-is-covered-in-lies-cheating/

RomanceRe: Did My Ancestors Destroy My Chances Of Finding Love? by Beke2020(op): 4:29pm On Apr 06, 2019
cool
RomanceRe: The Two Women In My Life Have Been Long Enemies by Beke2020(op): 4:28pm On Apr 06, 2019
cool
Beke2020:
Are you facing any difficulty in your Relationship, Marriage or having Dating issues and you Would you like to talk to a seasoned relationship & marriage expert for FREE?

You can Call or Chat Jzhane on: 08029870309 and you'll be counseled Professionally

You can also share with us your inspiring true life story
To: livelystonescares@gmail.com


Livelystones, changing the narratives!
RomanceMy Husband Wants Me To Have Another Son But Is This A Trap? by Beke2020(op): 4:26pm On Apr 06, 2019
Dear Ma,

I need your advice and that of the house. I have been married for over 13 years . Unfortunately,I have not enjoyed my marriage. I married someone who I thought would be able to take care of me and love me. But since we been married,its been one problem or the other.

I have tried all kinds of intervention,none worked.Our families have tried to intervene,our church sef. Now,every body have left us to our fate. I have forgotten about trying to make my marriage work. I will say I am just in a relationship,not marriage. Just answering wife but nothing is going on here.

The last time my husband made love to me was ......



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-wants-me-to-have-another-son-but-is-this-a-trap/

RomanceRe: I Put In 15 Years For This Marriage Yet Betrayal Was All I Got- Pt 2 by Beke2020(op): 11:39am On Apr 06, 2019
cool
RomanceDid My Ancestors Destroy My Chances Of Finding Love? by Beke2020(op): 11:38am On Apr 06, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

I am Miriam (not real name) from Edo state. I am 38 years old. I am in love with a man whom I met a year ago. He loves me too and he is already talking marriage. But I am scared of marrying him because there is an issue on ground which must be tackled first.

Let me give you a little background. My mother’s family was involved in idols worshiping which spanned over several generations. I was told that all the females in the family were dedicated to the goddess of the sea. So,all first females born into the family were automatically priestesses of the sea. They were called Ogbanje.

My mother and my father were Christians however. The practice of idolism actually ended with my great grand parents I think.So far,I cant remember anyone still practicing that in our family except some very extended family members in the village. So I was born into a christian home,raised as a christian.

But my love life has been bad. Any man who ......


https://livelystones.com.ng/did-my-ancestors-destroy-my-chances-of-finding-love/

RomanceI Put In 15 Years For This Marriage Yet Betrayal Was All I Got- Pt 2 by Beke2020(op): 9:47pm On Apr 02, 2019
Editor’s Note:

This is a follow up from a story we ran a few weeks ago. Click here if you missed that story. Kindly read and share your advice and thoughts. This dear lady will be reading your responses.

Jzhane.



Good evening

My husband is good and I have decided to deal with my situation joyfully so we are no longer having issues at all. I am trying my best to let go of all the hurt and anger and he is financially responsible recently.

But I still have some issues bothering me that I don’t know how to deal with them I don’t if wouldn’t mine if share them with you.

There two issues but let me start with my son.

I have made up my mind not to quarrel with my husband because few weeks back it’s like we quarrel per second billing because I was overclouded with anger. If I try to discuss something important it turns to quarrel and it was frustrating my life so I vowed I will never make trouble with him no matter how hurt I feel and I have actually maintained it almost a month now, in fact I hardly discuss anything or call him again.

All I say to him is that we need money and sends without hesitation. Even though it is not really easy for me but I am trying my best to keep to it.Now I need to discuss my son with him but I don’t if I should or I should just ignore him and keep doing it myself.

My son is a very good boy but......



https://livelystones.com.ng/i-put-in-15-years-for-this-marriage-yet-betrayal-was-all-i-got-pt-2/

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