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divorce? go ahead

Someone posted a story of a few days ago asking if there was hope for him and his already married lady. (Click here if you missed the story).This is my answer of hope and faith in true love to him. It is not fiction. THIS IS MY STORY. I will try and summarize it.

Benny (Not real name) was my first ever girl friend. I met her in her cousin’s birthday party when i was 17 and she was 21. Nobody gave us a chance as I had nothing and was just in my first year in the university while she was in her 3rd year, so everyone thought she was stupid for been with someone she was 4yrs older than.

My Mum, Dad, siblings and everyone around me loved her. We dated for 9 solid years with no cheating on each side and we were happy. She graduated before me and men started asking for her hand in marriage. Despite all, she said NO to them hoping and waiting on me. Benny believed so much in me that i was scared of......



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The other night I was home alone, bored, so I checked Netflix to see if there were any good movies.

Fifteen minutes later I turned it off.

Basically, Hugh Grant’s character was a pig. He used women, he was shallow and selfish, and he had no redeeming virtues. But you know the way the story was going: he’d meet Marisa Tomei, and she’d be so amazing and so what-he’s-always-needed-but-never-found and he would change.

Why is that the plot of most love stories?

Why are we so drawn to the idea that our love will be enough to make a bad boy good?

God’s love is enough to make a bad boy good, but a woman’s love isn’t. And too many of us get married thinking that we can “fix” our husbands. Christian romance novels are......



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Hello ma’am,

Please keep me anonymous. I am married,five years going to six years now. I have two children. And I have a serious problem with my husband and I am thinking of divorce. I married my husband as a virgin. He was very happy that he was my first so he taught me everything I know about s*x.

Now,during the first two two years of my marriage,I did not realize that I was not enjoying sx cos when we make love,I never knew what it was for a woman to reach orgasm. I thought it was ok that he as the man got his release. I was of the opinion that if he released,that meant that he would be satisfied and maybe never cheat on me. That as my only goal.I knew I was not satisfied. To me,s*x was....


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Hello ma’am,

Please keep me anonymous. I am married,five years going to six years now. I have two children. And I have a serious problem with my husband and I am thinking of divorce. I married my husband as a virgin. He was very happy that he was my first so he taught me everything I know about s*x.

Now,during the first two two years of my marriage,I did not realize that I was not enjoying sx cos when we make love,I never knew what it was for a woman to reach orgasm. I thought it was ok that he as the man got his release. I was of the opinion that if he released,that meant that he would be satisfied and maybe never cheat on me. That as my only goal.I knew I was not satisfied. To me,s*x was....


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-is-selfish-he-is-not-interested-in-my-happiness/

Dear Jzhane,

My name is Tobi (not real name). I am a single dad of 34 years old. I was in a relationship with my sweetheart for almost 10 years. Right from school. I loved Ama (not real name) so much. She is sweet and I always dreamed of a life with her. We were very close,our friends and family knew about us.

Ama got pregnant in her final year.It was such a huge blow. Her parents were so disappointed in us but it happened and there was no having an abortion. With the help pf our families,Ama gave birth to our son and he is the greatest gift anyone could ask for. We were went for our service year and that is where the problem started.

Things seemed to fall apart because.......


https://livelystones.com.ng/i-lost-the-love-of-my-life-i-am-unable-to-love-again/

Dear Jzhane,

Please keep my anonymous. I need your advice. Truth is,I am at the point where I feel so vulnerable and I might be making a decision that I might regret or not..I actually want to follow my heart but I need someone else to help me look at this matter as objectively as possible.

So I have been engaged for about a year now,I dated my boyfriend for a year before the engagement. My boyfriend is four years older than me. But this is not his first marriage. He got married at an early age but he divorced the lady after the lady was caught cheating like six months after their marriage.

His first marriage made him very reserved and unable to trust women for sometime. I like him a lot. He is cool,funny but I also feel he is too reserved to the point that he does not show affection the way I would have preferred. We have talked about this several times and he keeps saying he is guarding his heart,that he was too vulnerable in his first marriage and when it crashed he was beyond devastated.

He however said he is working on it and promised to keep changing.My problem now is that,there is someone else who has been coming for me. A church member,this guy is exactly what I want in a man. I do not want a man who will give me money. I have my own money. I just want a man who will spoil me with affection,someone romantic..and this guy is the exact description.

I have been putting off his advances because of course,I am engaged. But I feel like I am deceiving myself because the one I am engaged to does not really care as much I like him too. I mean this guy can gist and make me laugh. He sends me romantic texts which I love so much but I pretend not to like…he asks me about my day,my dreams,my passion. When he talks to me,he listens. I try not to spend time with him cos my heart skips a beat anytime he is around me. The way he looks at me,I actually feel like melting.

To the best of my ability,I have put off this guy fro almost nine months. Eventually,......



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coolestofall:
Is it d Ada I knw? Sounds like her. She is really a gem if we r talking abt d same gal. Go ahead n u will not regret.
Disclaimer: Pls propose inside ur house bikonu, to avoid another lame video going viral.

well said

Budex40:
Go and watch Acrimony. Its a 2018 movie

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Good morning everyone,

Please I need an advice for my friend. She is into a relationship for a year now that everyone knows will lead to marriage this year and her parent knows about it, surprisingly she started dreaming about her choir coordinator.

The first dream she had was that they were in a program sitting together and suddenly the guy started to think in his mind saying and I like this girl oooo,but I don’t know how to express my self,and as the thinking was going on, my friend said she was hearing those thoughts,as if he was saying it out.
My friend said she waved it away,she said not long again she......


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